Be honest&upfront,tell him ur fears&howmuch u would to visit him@home or better still say u would love to meet his roomie.if he's on the defensive or gets angry,then u're on ur own.

Natashi, dis guy go soon fashi u, it doesnt add up.well off guy+he's single&30 sumtin+he has aroom mate+can afford luxury hotels=word problem?

as much as i love to disagree with most of the posts,they re right.i've lost a lot ofrespect for her, nnow that she's even the spokes person for pdp.the press continually feast on her,especially on her daughters getting married to foreigners.

as much as i want the naira to appreciate against the dollar, its like ly to be short lived cos we dont produce just as most of the posters have said.
lets wait and see.

i just saw it "don't believe all that stufff you read on the internet, otherwise there would be a nigerian millonaire by now"
well, am slightly offended but unfortunately its true.have you being to alaba? almost everything there is pirated.

pienaar

A Premiership footballer is being sued for £850,000 by his former girlfriend and mother of his child - for failing to marry her.
Everton star Steven Pienaar, who was served the summons at the end of a match, is accused of breaking a promise to wed Danielle Steeneveld after they met two years ago.
She said the 27-year-old winger had ‘fallen madly in love her’ and that she gave up living in their native South Africa to live with him while he played in Britain.
But – despite claims of a marriage proposal and their 14-month-old daughter Skyla sharing his surname – Pienaar and Miss Steeneveld’s relationship was recently ended, court papers say.
So, after returning to South Africa, Miss Steenveld, 22, decided to sue.
She is claiming 500,000 rand (£40,000) for patrimonial loss; 3.8million rand (£302,000) for injury to her name, self esteem and reputation after giving birth out of wedlock and 6.5million rand (£516,000) compensation for prospective loss.
Pienaar, a South African international, was handed the summons by her lawyers just minutes after his side were beaten 3-1 at home by Serbia in a friendly in Pretoria, two week ago.
The footballer’s lawyers failed to comment but have indicated they will fight the claims.
Pienaar, playing for Everton last week, was handed a summons after a match
Miss Steenveld’s lawyers also declined to comment.
The Johannesburg-based Sunday Times newspaper said court papers claimed Pienaar had given her a ring and matching pendant as ‘symbols of love and commitment’ on her 21st birthday in October 2007 - four months after they met.
However after claims he had been unfaithful, Piennar allegedly convinced her that the future was with him and that he ‘wanted a South African wife and the mother of his children to be South African, as his roots and commitment to his country are very strong’, said the newspaper.
In November 2007 when she returned to South Africa and met his mother, Miss Steeneveld was pregnant.
She gave birth to daughter Skyla in June 2008 where Pienaar was present.
He insisted on his surname being registered ahead of his intention to marry.
Last October she travelled to the UK where Everton provided the appropriate paperwork allowing her to stay.
She claims Pienaar travelled to South Africa in February this year where he formally proposed to her but a month later he ‘terminated the relationship without explanation or just cause’.
The Sunday Times said the court papers lodged in the High Court in Johannesburg earlier this month, claimed she ‘suffered emotional trauma that will continue in the future’ and ‘patrimonial loss in that she terminated her employment based on promises’ by him.
Midfielder Pienaar, a devout Christian, has won 43 caps for the South African national side, which is nicknamed Bafana Bafana, and is recognised as one of the team’s few top-class players.
He grew up in Westbury, a township on the outskirts of Johannesburg, and has played for Ajax Cape Town, Ajax in Amsterdam, Borussia Dortmund, and Everton since 2007.
Today he is due to be in the team that plays against Wigan at home.

Am talking to peoples born on the 5th alone.

i've read all the posts.if you marry for love wot happens when u supposedly fall out of love-believe me it happens to all marriages, there would be a time when you wouldn't just feel your spouse.
i think i would love to get married to someone thats keys into my destiny, someone who would stand by me no matter my shortcomings or failures who would know when i say A the next is B.someone who see my potential, and would help bring out the best in me.
that is not to say love is not important, but understanding, communication should rank ahead of love. there are so many failed marriages because people get married at the slightest feel of love and divorce at the slightest of trials/turbulence.
my father is a muslim and my mum a christian, so i know the success ofa marriage isnt love or religion.it simply understanding. when u understand someone it would be easier for u to love them.

am addcited to arsenal, i tried dumping them last 2 seasons; didnt work.
lets hope this coming season would be better
we're going no where!

women break hearts too, abi?
you break up for 2 reasons
1.if its not working.
2.you met someone else.
women would never be equal to men because they always always blame men for their problems.(they love playing victim)
you hear things like "he used me" ,"he got me pregnant" etc. statement like this tend to say men are smarter than women.
the poster should get a grip!

tonia2000:

Good for him

its like you suffered the same fate, with all this hate i can imagine how u guys loved ur b.friends
its a pity people always end up with people that treat the bad.

why are you stalking the guy, let it go!, besides what did this guy really do that is keeping you up at night?

omo! that would be great. ike uche plays the arsenal way, i hope wenger makes a real attempt this time around.

pls. whats the latest exchange rate of the naira to rand?

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Rough people
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thats an understatement, i think they're horrible people

@poster, you're one of the few resonable people on NL.
see replies, wot a shame

i can't really recall, but i remember a little history.the benin and yoruba people share the same oduduwa ancestral origin, we were told one of oduduwa's son migrated to benin, and thats why there's an oba in benin, the also story is still under contention.

so good they named him twice,
he should have appeared 2wice on that list

sure, you can but its important you get the support of your husband