₦airaland Forum

Your hesitation is quite normal.

But whether you will go through with it? That's another matter...

ayomidegambari: Am really confused, actually my dad was a very fun man, like going on tour and left the family to suffer, my mum used everything in her reach to send me to school, now I am a banker, but mum never want me to look my dad side even for once, she said she will dislike me if I give my dad a penny. Am really confused..what do I do?

A tricky situation, indeed.

One's got to feel for your mum, and all she's gone through to care for you.

But SHE NEEDS TO FORGIVE HIM! Then, and only then, can she be free...

That being said, whatever issues your parents have is theirs and theirs alone.

They can't make you suffer for their past mistakes.

It may sound unkind, but YOU NEED TO LIVE YOUR LIFE.

And if BONDING with your dad will make you happy, then by all means GO FOR IT.

Use your discretion.

Gflat: What about the part of her being "possessive".

The extent her idiosyncrasies would inconvenience you, is also a measure of your maturity in dealing with matters of the opposite sex.

Deal with it.

rainmaker12: .

Where's the question?

You got yourself a "High Maintenance" girl.

Learn her different moods, and find the appropriate responses that she would appreciate.

She's new to the game, but could also be a valuable learning experience for you.

Enjoy.

where's Dangote?

This looks like another hopeless online wild goose chase...

Not writing you off YET, cuz i'm registering as I speak.

Be rest assured, I will be back to shout 'SCAM!!!' as soon as i smell foulplay.

NB: work on that your homepage, its too bulky.

Explain further...

We are watching...

crusader01: Is vaccine for treatment or prevention? Oga park well joor if u no get answer to my question.

I no get answer.

#where's my driver?#

So na only you get all these wey you list?

On your own...

Amadaz: well... I'm sorry for that. On your question, i'm not married.

When you are in it, you will know...

Amadaz: the common sense you claim to have is absent in you entirely. The husbands mum is the first to come. Oluku

why the insult sir?

Are you married?

Heycube: President post!!!...hmmm wen we stil hav ppl dt are born to destroy and embezzle @ d top! Dis generation must be out of d race I tink.

The revolution must start from somewhere.

Who will bell the cat?

Try UNION ONLINE.

Pleasant surprise...

korel9: So also is the eagerness to carry one's FIRST grandchild sir

Well, this is what must happen...

While one granny stays, the other must be contented with regular visits until, by arrangement, roles are reversed.

Play the HOME POLITICS well, in the interest of peace.

SHALOM

korel9: So you think the typical Nigerian mother will take it in good faith when she's told she has to wait for at least three weeks before seeing her FIRST grandchild that she's waited for for years knowing fully well that her inlaw is there with the child?

I don't think so

Sir, seeing the child and staying to care for the new born ARE TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS.

You DEVIATE...

korel9: Guy study the scenario well using African/Nigerian mentality before jumping into conclusions

That "scenario" is the mountain you are making out of a mole hill.

I expect both parents to be reasonable people.

So no issue here sir

Cuz parents are now too old and weak to wield that world famous KOBOKO...

Heycube: I believe 99.9% of Nairalanders were born into this *UP NEPA* of a thing. My friend said: Up NEPA wil come to an end if all the *old red/brown roofing sheet* in Ibadan change to the modern roofing sheet. Hmmm....even a day old child knws wat Up NEPA means. Guys....wat is d way forward? Mass media or wat?

Contest for the presidency...

You never know......

"Speech is silven, BUT SILENCE IS GOLD"

The above helped my rebellious battle against my dad.

Teenage years, ha!

#nostalgia#

You want to make a mountain out of a mole hill, abi?

Common sense requires that the woman's mother show up immediately to take charge.

In the event that she is unable to, for whatever reason, then the baton naturally falls to the man's mum.

It's not a competition...

Wishful thinking.

It is afterall Nigeria.

Anything can happen.....

Ok Sir

Hmmmm...

Anything goes.

Panic button...

Rapmoney: By focusing 100 percent on nyash, breas.ts, sex and the likes?

Yup.

Because Sex sells!

Too bad...

SUG finance ?

Bedrock of corruption !!!