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I'm not surprised at all.

porshnuel:
I was born into an average family of 3 ....two female nd me and I am 23...i will go straight to the point .my sister bride price was paid in cash (300k)recently...and my mother said my share in the money as the only son is 20k out of 300k...I became angry and refused to collect ...the only excuse she gave was that her pastor said that the money is not was waste...that giving me more than that is a waste...and she is aware of my plan of renting a new apartment January....

I just want to know if that amount is fair for the first and only son ..am not been entitled ...but put yourself in my shoes

Note:my father says he doesn't want anything from the money...that he is not selling his daughter he only wants her happiness.

Note: I stay in abuja but my mom stays in the village

Fixed 300k? Is your sister a commodity? Is your mother and other greedy members of your family selling her? Better don't partake in the sharing. If the husband later discovers she's a bad product and return her and request for a refund of his money, hope you'll be able to cough out the portion you consumed?

Is it not just to end the marriage if it's life threatening?

helinues:
Let the politicians family be riding it then

How much is a bus from Lagos to Ibadan?

Do this people even think at all?

I'm surprised this is coming from you.

This man should go and rest. Even his children are ashamed of him.

They should join Buhari in Aso Rock then.

Wow. Nice

Too bad.
RIP.

Wow. Laudable

It's the product of them all.

Na wa o. Even inside money, infidelity still thrives. God help us.

Nice

Scary. Look at how the ribs are peeled open. Sad. RIP.

spiceadole:
Una never tire for this format?

Please don't be insensitive to the plight of the people. Things are really very rough with some people.

Red cap chief

Nice

This one tough.

Ok

TheCalculator:
I don't know how to begin this, but will be brief...
I began selling my stuffs on nairaland last year, at first nothing was coming forth, then gradually few nairalanders trusted me without having met me or seen a picture of me; these kind hearted Nairalanders went a step further, sacrificed their anonymity on a faceless forum as this and gave reviews

A number of past stuffs resulted in every of my present decision but some other persons chose to judge things from their perspective alone and for reasons best known to them, decided to tarnish the little reputation I struggled to build (which is thanks to the good and encouraging reviews from Nairalanders here: https://www.nairaland.com/5376666/french-designer-oil-perfume/11 )

And ever since these persons started posting negative stuffs about me even without chatting with me or even transacting with me, the little sales I managed to get dropped drastically, almost to a halt; I got deeply depressed for days, I cried within me and sobbed outwardly but God rescued me.

Although, I am still not getting those little patronage I used to, I am glad I overcame my battle with depression and it didn't linger for so long. I am looking to explore other channels now so as to meet up with my bank obligations

I am writing this not to engage anyone in an argument or to justify anything but to encourage someone out there not to be overwhelmed by negative things few persons say about you; always focus on the positives because there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

Depression is never the answer, its a silent killer, I was there and now out, hopeful and optimistic of better days ahead. Pls always talk to someone about your emotional worries and get help from psychologists and counselors to avoid suicidal thoughts

Here is the thread to confirm these: https://www.nairaland.com/5376666/french-designer-oil-perfume/11
Thank you

Why are you opening the same thread with same topic and contents on all the sections? What do you intend to achieve?

Lol

Hmmmmm