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peedeeasobie:
Someone that just graduated and you people are putting him under this kind of pressure?

If it is your brother, would allow him to be pressured like this?

This guy just graduated for christ sake.

What on earth is wrong with you people?

Everybody will find their level soon.

You or your friend I'd asking this because another guy is already whispering into your ears.

Leave, if you want to leave but don't pressure him.

Your friend, why is she not hustling? Is she crippled? Why is she waiting for a man to hustle for her?

peedeeasobie:
Someone that just graduated and you people are putting him under this kind of pressure?

If it is your brother, would allow him to be pressured like this?

This guy just graduated for christ sake.

What on earth is wrong with you people?

Everybody will find their level soon.

You or your friend I'd asking this because another guy is already whispering into your ears.

Leave, if you want to leave but don't pressure him.

Your friend, why is she not hustling? Is she crippled? Why is she waiting for a man to hustle for her?

Starz825:
People want you to make it in life by all means....infact your gf don't give a fuckkk about how you doit...just have it...and give her money...

The world is a crazy place ....

pansophist:
By ''everything she wants in a man''? do you mind explaining that phrase? and how old is he? then I can diagnose the situation at hand properly.

But hear this, you can know a man's destination/future by examining his past and present prospect. Has he ever worked a paid job before? Does he have any skills or handwork that he freelanced with?

Apart from his university education, what other ways does he makes money? If his parent cannot / will not subsist him, is he capable to fend for himself? How's his academic performance?

Hear this. His declaration that he will be employed after graduating is like a Christian declaring that he will enter heaven afterlife. Do you expect him to tell you that he may be lazy and docile? of course not. This is where facts play before love. Marriage is not fiction, it's real work.

The rent has to be paid, food will be eaten and kids must go to school. She will be pregnant one day and he will be the sole source of sustenance. The kids will need a father to look up to, and she will need a competent man by her side.

You can NOT bank on his declaration of assured employment after school. This is Nigeria. Also, it will be hell for her if he is less ambitious than her. Also, male insecurities may come into play.

Lots of women find it hard to respect a man they outearned, making it difficult for her to respect him, and also, making him insecure and lash out at any small provocation.

She should talk to her parents or anyone she respected that have a successful marriage, for guidance. When women are in love, they tend to make emotional decisions instead of logical ones, and this is where neutral counseling comes into play.

MisterKennedy:
Hi upset... I'm very impressed at your level of boldness and honesty.

Happy new week to you dear

Oluwasheyijossy:
I asked these questions because you weren't like this while you were with your then AS boyfriend who had to suddenly end the relationship after impregnating another lady and even having an introduction with her behind your back while still dating you, remember you even aborted twice for him and you didn't want to let him go, so how come you suddenly developed this new attitude of sleeping with a supposed lover and immediately breaking up with him? I feel you're still pained from that previous encounter and the reason why you're living this way. My dear friend forget the past, just relax and open up to love again, but be seriously vigilant with the genotype before that serious commitment. All the best ma'am

Oluwasheyijossy:
So i guess you developed this attitude immediately your long time ex broke up with you in 2021 due to your AS genotype? Right now you don't feel any man is good for you because of that encounter of two years ago, rather you just want to pay them (men) back in the same coin right?

shantti:
Without being sentimental, yes
A loose man can easily get married
A girl who is known to be loose will find it difficult to get married.
Stop projecting female sexual consequences unto men, such don't exist for our gender

Babara1994:
. you're contradicting yourself.

mechanics:
The best is to abstain from sex.

shantti:
Is this a joke?
Are u wishing for the female gender the sexual freedom that men enjoy without being judged

JJuanMiguel:
What about the one you dated for 6 years and did abortion twice during the period?

Ishilove:
I bet he las lost count of his. Look at his username sef and you will see that the only thing he has to offer is his overused, limp preek

Tenrack:
This OP sef. You have been meeting uninteresting guys I believe.

Rayban25:
Go and help her now...if she really needed help you think she will be shifting blame instead of taking accountability for her actions? Dont be too quick to feel pity for some people.

jaxxy:
At the end of the day the guy is a master key while u are door lock any key can open.

Do u understand the disadvantage of ur actions now??

Now going through ur other topic I feel some sympathy for u and I think that other relationship might be affecting all others ure having.
Thanks 👍

U need to take time off relationships especially sexual one to heal and be urself again. Right now u are still reacting and fighting with issues from ur last major relationship.

When u heal u will be able to understand urself and find what ure looking for in a partner beyond sex.

G00DHardDick:
Hardest to bed and yet complaining of losing interest after guys have fvcked you with numerous body counts? We don't understand this mystery. Mind explaining it to us?

Olosho without shame. You keep disgracing and embarrassing yourself online. No shame at all. Men don banged you tire you come here dey claim "hardest to bed''., Don't you have sense?

G00DHardDick:
I feel your pains.

What does a Nigerian girl have to offer other than sex?

What exactly can you offer a man apart from your over used pussy?

At the bolded, a man can only reserved himself if the girl is still a virgin and a virtuous woman, and probably has alot to offer him, of course that"s exactly when he can allow himself to be chased by women (virgins and virtuous woman) not an olosho and runz girl who fvcks random guys in her area just like you.

However, tell us what you have to offer a man apart from your over used pussy?

Afrobasic:
It's really funny how women think.

Person wey multiple guymen don bed for free dey claim "hardest-to-bed" 🤣🤣🤣

Sonnobax15:

Thank God say I value my body well well,as in I don't just pull of my boxers to lash anything that's wearing a skirt.........

Well,op,I used to know a girl like you back then in my hostel in poly...Very lose and was so easy to bed.......... Almost all the guys in the hostel slept with her, especially the calm-headed guys.... Countless times she would want me to bed her but I kept insisting and running from her, because my mind was telling me she was distributing free wifi of demons to guys

Op,e be like say you fall for that kind category.......And you can't blame guys for being too cheap, because not every guy will say no to a free kpekus

Autobot05:
No 1: You're equivalent to a prostitute

2 : It's more like he has sold his value to me
The bolded is the reverse case .. you have sold your value to the guys you slept with , now he's going to use you and count scores of vilrs he has laid and prolly tell his friends. He'll even show them whenever you pass by ..

Stop fornication