Op beta take time ooo, those in security uniform ain't police dey are just man o war personnel.

Endtime pastor

Emir8:
I fought my stepmother with all my strength physically and spiritually. I gave her names - MTN everywhere you go and OSRC_Ondo State Radio Corporation.

She and her children are afraid of me now. She don do charm tire, nothing happens to me because God dey.

You be strong man guy... I wish I could emulate you.

fyzaila:
Get your self together and be a man of the house please. All this pity or blame party you're playing or portraying won't do you any good.

Find a way of getting money from your dad, get a laptop and learn a skills. Alot of tech skills are money generating nowadays.

Well said! That's what I have to do.

talented321:
I have decided to marry my second woman that give me a girl child, because out 100 step moms 90 are evil toward their step daughter/son. Men pls take extra care of your children from another woman they may not complain to u but deep down they are fighting depression. From experience

Well said, men needs to look out for a women with a good heart before taking Dem in as a second wife cuz some women are just full of evil..... Could u imagine at dis my age when I try to correct her on some certain things. She would get angry and won't cook for that day just to punish me.... Sometimes I laugh at her ignorance cuz it's something I'm already use to.

Foodqueen:
And u say she is uneducated

Hope she isn't poisoning your gradually.

Pls take charge of your house.

I thought as much..... Well! that's what I have to do otherwise dis woman go see me finish.

Exmilitant:
You were a simp from birth!!
Second wife use you clean ground.
Third wife dey siddon for your head.
Na him be say the wife you go marry go put you for bottle.

All those ugly situations no dey meet ogoloba children.

My wife to be can't even try dat,You won't understand d situation am into however I blame my father for putting us into dis messed.

ChybuzzDD:


You're a university graduate and should behave as such.

An uneducated, middle-aged 3rd wife shouldn't be seen oppressing you.

Normally, she should be feeling uncomfortable and frequently threatening to leave.

It's a shame that the reverse is the case here.

I gat ur point, sir... I blame myself for stooping so low to let her take full control of the house..

Please bare with my typo errors and long script.
My challenges so far in life.
Life has been so tough while growing up without my biological mother... my mum passed away when i was barely six month old after I was given birth.. my grandma(blessed memory) looks after me, later Dad got married and I was moved back to d city to stay under the care of my step Mon.... Life was so bittered I was subjected to all kinds of maltreatment... At times I was meant to sleep out on d corridor even in an uncompleted building for days before she will finally grant me permission to sleep inside, even I had to fed on leaves at times to keep my life going.... My Dad was a busy man due to the nature of his job... He was never around, so whenever he comes back from work, my step mum will make sure i look presentable in d eyes of my Dad so he won't think I'm been maltreated. She took away my joyhood as a child and I missed my fatherly love and care.... I just couldn't sit and share my problems with my Dad.... Even I was been label as a witch which my Step mum collide with a false prophet to deceive my Dad cuz of dis my Dad begin to hate me for no reason..
So after some years later we were involved in a fatal accident while going 4 an occasion in d villa and my step mum passed away on d process. She passed away without leaving her account details with my Dad, she hid everything from my Dad and all the money she falsely collected from my Dad was gone.
Fast-forward! after she passed away my life begins to take a U-turn and I was able to make it to the university despite the delays...

So during my final yr in school Dad called and told me that he has got himself another wife without even seeking my consent to know the kind of woman she getting married to... I felt bitter about it cuz of so many reasons attached to it.....
Immediately I rounded up my studies I came back home pending till when my result will be ready. though! I undergo through PT program and I was told it will take a year or rather a year plus to be released. And right now, I'm stuck and stranded cuz the environment isn't friendly for someone to get himself a decent job with an Olevel result since my certificate isn't ready. so I sit all day at home without doing anything and I feel really bittered and depressed. Cuz of that, my current step mum which I'm trying as much as possible to avoid is now looking down on me.... She talked and gossip about me behind my back to my younger ones.... My late step mum gave birth to 2 children and I love and accept Dem as my blood from same mother despite been maltreated by their mum.
My current step mum happens to be an elderly and uneducated woman. she doesn't know how to manage and plan for the family... But I'm kind of having negative thought about her cuz she's here for the money.... She talks and gossip about my Dad behind his back saying he should be ashame of himself for not building a house while in active service. She even threaten my Younger ones that dey don't have any legal right to their father's properties indirectly she is letting me know my place. even goes to the extend of telling Dem that dey should pray that nothing happens to him otherwise she would neglect dem and go back to her late husband's house which her son is now managing.
Right now she's looking for a way to conceive
and bear a child for my Dad at her mid 40 almost getting to 50yrs in other to claim entitlement.... I don't know who gave her such advise.
She's barely upto a year plus in our house and now she's displaying all dis attitude and trying to gain everything under her control.
She started all dis drama after going through my father's documents and discover that my younger brother was made the next of king and ever since then she has been disturbing my dad to remove his name and put hers...
In a couple of months Dad would be retiring from service and he would be paid his pension. Sometimes I listen to her conversation when she's making calls telling her family's the amount of money that will be paid into my father's account for his retirement even my father is not even aware of it but this woman as already figured it out. And right now my instincts tells me that she's up to something. She has done a lot of dirty things behind my father's back and I try to cover it up without telling my Dad cuz I don't want her see me as an obstacle to her marriage but despite hiding her bad side she has decided to go against me by reporting me to my Dad when I kind of have small misunderstanding with her.... For instance refusing to worship in dsame church with her.

I'm not even concerned or bothered about my father's properties or money cuz my Dad has done enough by sending me to school but dis woman is seeing me as threat to the house and My measure concern now is my younger ones.... If life is to take another dimension I know were I can start from but how about my younger ones.... The burden will be much more for me to shoulder..... Right now Daddy doesn't share his thought and information with us the children rather discussing it with our step mum... Which is giving us concern.
My biggest fear of recent... Dad has been terribly sick ever since he got married to dis strange woman and he's not getting better.... Recently the Doctor ask us to pray endlessly for him cuz the sickness has eaten him up.

My step mum as been acting strangely of recent and I am kind of suspecting that she's up to something which bothers me a lot..

Right now I feel hopeless and depressed cuz I feel empty not knowing what to do.....

Advice needed cuz I don't want take any action that will cuz my down fall in life { I'm in my mid 20 now}

Should I be silent and lve my step mum to have everything her way?

God na when my turn go reach sef?.... I think life is unfair to some us that ain't lucky moreover At 27yrs I still don't have anything to show off...abi shey na my time never reach ni... even my younger ones no even get respect for me again.

kwaso2:
I think:
1). If you do nothing, it's a matter of time, u will watch all the soothsayer said happen.

2). I think you should intentionally give ur life to Jesus Christ, sincerely cry to him for Mercy.

3). I think you should seek for restitution to the girl u had hurt, someone or some people (mother and aborted child) may be crying against u in the spirit. Don't let youthfulness deceive u. Sometimes, if someone, esp a woman feels hurt, justly, against you, and she cry out to God(or nature), not to even talk about mentioning ur name to a deity. It usually doesn't go well with the man.

4). On the strength of the effects of mid night prayers, with your mouth, cancel anything that doesn't match with Gods word over ur life, speak what u want to see or happen. Yes, you are also a prophet, according to the bible. Prophesize into ur life/future.

Best

Thanks for your wonderful advise, sir. I think
It's time for me to move closer to God.

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Nigeria we 2 like copy copy. Why can't she find something else to do Instead of imitating someone else achievement.

Karlifate:

1:
The soothsayer doesn't have a final say over your life. The soothsayer is subject to the spirit inside of him, and the spirit inside of him is subject to the Supreme Being.

Why can't you go directly to the Supreme Being, who is your Creator and lay bare your heart desires before him



2:
As much as it's good to associate with people & have a "friend" or "friends". Be wary of "friends" that knows spiritualist here & there.

When those people have substantial information about your life, they can easily connive with their spiritualist(s) to manipulate, and destroy your life.



Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Thanks for your advise, sir.

Padipadi:

There are some idióts here. Ignore him as one of them. They v no good idea and they sound woke.

To your problems or should I say issue or topic dear UYEMDO35, spirituality is real.
But you can remould your destiny like Jacob in the bible.
Imagine the Baba telling you that you c a destiny to fulfill with a slut that ll bear your bastards in future.
Abi the gods dey ment ni?
You said you v aborted the pregnancy, right?
Endure it's indeed aborted and cut off ties with that girl.
Date again and make sure you marry a decent lady. You can tell a lady is decent and not pretending if you take your time to study her.
Have your legitimate kids a d nice on with your life.
It's so easy to predict bad things than good things. That's what soothsayers do.
Also, never rule out foul play. Maybe your friend leaked your info ahead to the baba.
We are in end time.

Thanks for dis wonderful advise of yours... I will always have dis in mind

faceLAGOS:
Soothsayers messed my mom & sisters.

From cele prophet to Alfa & baba alawos to oni ifas.

These people planted seed of discord amongst the five sisters & their mother (my grandma).

My mom believes these “people” so much that it has strained the relationship between us, since I won’t subscribe to their shenanigans.

One was able to hoodwink my brother, whom my mom introduced to him, to buy a 10 plots of land in a very remote village.

Bro! I'm scared cuz baba words may likely come to pass.

GraceAndPeace:
Soothsayers operate through the familiar spirits that are upon their victims, that's how they get insider information about you.

They operate like a synergy

The familiar spirit tormenting you shares vital information about you with these Soothsayers upon request. So when a soothsayer is carrying out his incantation he is consulting with that familiar spirit.

That's why you are shocked when they tell you things that you think only you should know about.

Familiar spirits are generational spirits that run through family blood lines. They are so knowledgeable about your in and out cos they've been operating for years in same pattern.

However they can't tell your future but they can take advantage of your stupidity and try to manipulate it through "prophesy". They moment you seek their service you have given them the opportunity to distort your future. And they would gladly.

Whatever they say concerning you from the moment of your interaction with them, would happen. Its not prediction or foreseeing the future, it's distorting it with their mouth.

So apart from living a mess, you will have a messier future ahead and part with some of your money if not all eventually as consultation fee(this is another way of enriching their human agents)

Only Jesus is the way out of their web.

So what's the solution?

Persephone1:
Hmmmmm Pastor to be. From fornicating, to impregnating, to aborting to consulting soothsayer.

Wahala for all upcoming "My Pastor says"

for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

Berrityga:
Lazy people, dwell on ignorance. If your smart you will seek further knowledge especially how to overcome. Your destiny can never be you fathering bastard kids. Godforbid.

You're right.... I've been seeking for solution.

Sonnobax15:

Haven't had an encounter with one,but the truth is that I try my best possible to always refrain from any form of prophecy... Because I've seen alot of homes that were ruined because of it..

Noted sir

Adsexpert:


most of these herbalist and cele prophets and penticostal are all liers.. and often times the spirit working with them are to deceive you into future mistakes , and to enforce a will upon you.. avoid hearing prophecies , future prediction or any other thing to do with checking stars.. they will deceive you.. use your intuition anc common sense .. if you feel something is not right.. just go for a test or do dna..

Thank you sir

yrhuhfy113:


Never joke with those who are mediums for the spirit world, whether as prophets or soothsayers, IT CAN HAVE DIRE CONSEQUENCES.

So here is what I did, whenever I get a seemingly unfavorable prophecy, I go into fasting and prayer to CANCEL IT.


SEE, nothing is fixed, nothing is set in stone TILL WE AGREE TO IT BY OUR LAZINESS or IGNORANCE.


I will simply advice you to CANCEL his words and predictions over your life if you do not LIKE THEM.... EVEN GOD GAVE US A CHOICE OF DEATH AND LIFE IN OUR TONGUES.


It is a TASK YOU MUST DO IF YOU WANT TO ENJOY LIFE.....

Some are so powerful that if they don't like your aura or your face, they can CANCEL YOUR DESTINY WITH THIER WORDS, and anything they say is what happens.... NOTHING BECAUSE IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN BUT BECAUSE SPIRITS HAVE GIVEN THEM DP-AS-I-SAY POWERS.


God made you the PROPHET of your life, you can change God's will, you can REWRITE your stars.... IF YOU HAD CONTACTED ME PRIVATELY I WOULD HAVE SHARED WITH YOU STEPS ON HOW TO DO IT.....

But for now, USE PSALM 126, 115, AND 51 to engage the MERCY OF GOD and cancel every omen on your life due to the grave sin of ABORTION.... then use it daily for your future and YOU WILL SEE HOW SWEET YOUR LIFE WILL BE.


GOD BLESS

God bless you, sir.
At least my mind is at ease now

Wodu89:
There's a lot of.immaturity here. And ignorance

I.dont have the.time sadly to elucidate

What a pity. When one doesn't know left from right

Wisdom is profitable that's why I have brought my problem here to seek for advice and wisdom.... Not everyone are born with wisdom.

Few years back I and my 2 other friends visited a soothsayer. Though! My friends lured me to go with Dem cuz I don't believe in such bullshit prediction. So on getting there baba started saying all kind of things that were not pleasant to my hearing.
After foreseeing my friends past and present and what's to take place in nearest future, Dey confirmed baba words to be true and I became so eager and ask baba to look into my future....
I was kind of surprised when baba told me things about my family and what I need to know and some of his words were true.
I just couldn't know how baba find out that I had something to do with a girl who claims to be pregnant and pointed fingers at me, But I was 100% sure that I was never responsible... The girl in picture was having multiple sex with different guys... So when she discover that she was pregnant she decided to enforce it on me since am the coolest and simplest of all the guys she has been laying with. My niggars told me to ignored and lve her to her fate... But I just couldn't. I secretly visited and talk things with her and called a friend of mine who his a doctor to carryout abortion on her.... I had reasons for doing that despite be warned... I had a reputation to protect. As a pastor to be.
Back to Baba.
Baba asked me whether I have slept with any girl who claims to be pregnant for me.... I said 'No'... He said if I've done so.... I should take full responsibility otherwise I would face d consequences...... I looked at baba furiously and asked him what he meant... He said I'm destiny to share my future partner with other men in nearest future and my daughter's may not even be my real children... I was like daughters why not sons.. my friends started teasing and laughing at me .... I was so furious and I left there without listening to that trash baba was spilling.

So ever since den, I didn't even think of going into any relationship cuz of what baba words.


But come to think of it.... Some of baba words were true and I don't know whether anyone here has ever stumble to a soothsayer before and did you ever take their words serious.

Advice needed to overcome dis mood.

After seeing dis immorality behavior been display by dis married women.
I have resigned to faith my dear after seeing so many ladies I do not bother if my wife bleep outside but she must do it coded.
As a man if u Bleep outside ur marriage den u have no justification to condom married ladies doing same

..........

Oga mi! If truly u want to spend the rest of your life with that girl try and find out where she got the the money from. 97k nobi small money.... She wouldn't have save that huge amount of money when she has a lot of things to takecare of.
Could you imagine, it was because of common phone my girlfriend broke up with me and I already have it in mind to buy her a phone but she couldn't exercise patience.... And after a week later I saw her with a phone and when I confronted her she told me it was a friend that bought it for her..... A week's later she finally broke up with me, just becuz I didn't get her a phone but after some months later she finally got pregnant for that same guy who got her a phone

Nothing yet, still hoping for God to provide me with a job

My dear, before you start ranting here how Faithful were you to your bf? where you submissive to him? did you do everything to please him? Did you ever discuss about were the relationship is leading to?if so, It's only a non sensible guy that will behave irrational when he sees a girl with a good heart.
There's is dis word that said, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.... So pick-up the little pieces of your heart and move on with life.... it's never the end of d world for you.

Jennyclay:
Nobody wants to settle for less my dear.

She did the right thing, she don’t want you to put her in abject poverty!!

How much is ordinary data that you can’t help someone with . Shame on you!! Shame!!

Chai! See Dem.. na their group be dis. ... That's why my father always draw my ear and say son do not repeat the mistake that I made. You no dey ever get useful advice for mouth.

1Sharon:
As a child stay out of your parents relationship

Your dad may be poisoning your mind against your mum.

What did your father do? Something must have brought it on.

See them, dey must surely back-up their female gender and that's why I have decided to remain single. I can't let any woman to takeaway my joy and happiness all in d name of marriage.

Paramount01:



My brother! Just find something to do
I am just 31 and i can tell you despite not having a tangible job i can boast of manchine ,car,building my house,have piece of land,got married

I started by just finiding somthinh to do.but now i thank God

Wow! A big win 4 you..... Thanks for dis.