Sixfeetbelle:


No, don't say that. It doesn't serve him right just because he sent the money to a lady and not a guy. It's his money and he can do what he wants with it. Even if this money was for hookup, he paid his dues and the lady shouldn't have duped him. Also, who's to say a fellow guy wouldn't dupe him as well?

Noted..... I got ur point.

I know your type, Na God Catch you! If it was your fellow niggar that asked you for money, you won't dare give him... But if is the opposite gender u can sacrifice all what you have for Dem, just because of what you will get from Dem in returns. I think that serve u right.
Next time invest more on your niggars instead of those side chicks.

wethebest:
Just learn good I.T skill and be grading urself. In fact be rejecting some job offers 😋😋

Pls enlightened me more about dis I.T of a thing.... Am really interested.

advanceDNA:


One of them spotted...whats paining you in what i said....

.them go soon catch u with ur vaseline for work....if u like dont control ur porn and wanking addictions

LoL! Funny you.

Las las dis nagga mata don cast. For dis hard Economy he get time dey masturbate for work. hmmm! Am even surprised how he go take break d news at home for e people.

Stargangz:
For dat 4th pic as she spread her legs, e be like say make I just insert my gbola from front by hanging that legs around my arms, ouch! e go sweet die, e go just dey enta selense.

May God help your soul.

Las las na everybody go eat Breakfast.... When Riverranch do me strong thing, I cried in silent
and nobody hear ham.My advice for your Cousin is that. He should tell d girl to post it.. nothing go do your Cousin... If d video go viral na great prestige for your cousin.... Something wey people dey find who go help Dem post their own.

Psoul:


Help you so that you can finally become the boss when the person that helped you be under you and be taking orders from you... abi?

Funny u. ����

I have decided to accept the new changes in my place of work. But with terms and conditions.


That's not really the case here. I have worked for years and didn't get promoted, but then i thought of helping my friend, and my friend ended up achieving what i couldn't achieve while having the same qualifications and even been paid x2 of what am earning. though! I have no bad intentions towards my friend but I think he made a wrong move by making some changes that’s unfavorable to me and others.

Of course I have reasons to feel been treated
unfairly. Am also human too.
some said I was jealous of my friend been made the assistant Boss, but to be candid, I never did... I just didn't like the way he was acting so professional as if we that have been working there for long are unprofessional.

after much thought, I decided to summon courage to tender my letter of upliftment for the Increasement of my salary today, and for God so good... my letter was approved and my money has been increase to what my friend is earning.... so the only difference now is that, he's my superior and I will have to be taking orders from him in which I have started to adapt to it.

To be candid, my friend possesses all the quality that it takes to be the assistant Boss because he's bold and fearless.... not like me that's very quiet.

(A BIG WIN FOR ME)

i will like to use dis medium to thank those that motivated me to go fight for my right.

((Previous thread ----- https://www.nairaland.com/7341973/how-feel-when-friend-becomes ))

blaquebelle:


Why are you planning to give him a tough time. Why not cooperate with him and try to cajole him instead. You could be in reverse positions tomorrow, so don't spoil your friendship over this. If he had gotten such a good position in another company, won't you be happy for him. Please try to purge out these negative feelings you have. As God used you to bless someone, don't make it harder for the person so that God will also use someone else to bless you. You get?

Noted

SpaceAngel:
In whatever you do, please don't put rat poison in your friends food or kill him as you seem to be filled with dangerous levels of envy .

The person that interview him saw some qualities you don't have and that's why they made him boss over you that has been there for a long time.

You don't expect him to do things the way it was before as he may be restructuring the system for productivity.

An office is a professional environment and not for friendship. If he's your good friend, you'll still be friends outside the office environment.

If I were to be your boss , knowing your friend was employed and you now come to renew your contract based on things you listed here, I'll sack you without thinking twice. You could be a dangerous employee, that'll mess up business based on frivolous excuses.

A word is enough for the wise.

Smiles! You just hit the nail... And u also made a point in ur statement....but to me, I don't buy ur advise. Put yourself in my shoes if u were the one will u accept that. Trying to act professional just to win our boss heart.... Making us look as if we are less unprofessional.

okpas01:
Lol
He came for interview today, got the job today and started introducing policies today. When u want to make a fictious writeup, extra care is needed.

Bro! I know u won't believe but it really occurred.

Peskid147:
That is how I invited my female friend to a job interview, I was invited to the job interview and this my female friend is job hunting so I told her about it, then we went together, at Ikeja local airport. We were 70 people that attended the interview so after the screening the airline company(arik) picked only 5 people. Both me and my female friend was part of the selected candidate then when I got home, I was sent a message that arik airline will get back to me but my female friend did not recive such message. So she started working with them while I am still waiting for confirmation to start work.after 2 weeks my female friend started giving me attitude before you know it she stop receiving and calling me naso she ghost me o. Well it was a painful experience but I learnt my lesson and move on with my life.....

Just imagine I confronted my nigga today and I told him that I don't like the statement that e made while addressing us.... At least he would have consulted us first before saying it openly Infront of our boss and all could say was that if am not please with his rules that I should quit my job. though! He was saying it jokily but I know he really want me to quit becuz he knows am going to give him tough Time.

Peskid147:
That is how I invited my female friend to a job interview, I was invited to the job interview and this my female friend is job hunting so I told her about it, then we went together, at Ikeja local airport. We were 70 people that attended the interview so after the screening the airline company(arik) picked only 5 people. Both me and my female friend was part of the selected candidate then when I got home, I was sent a message that arik airline will get back to me but my female friend did not recive such message. So she started working with them while I am still waiting for confirmation to start work.after 2 weeks my female friend started giving me attitude before you know it she stop receiving and calling me naso she ghost me o. Well it was a painful experience but I learnt my lesson and move on with my life.....

That's why it's very difficult to help someone dis days, just imagine what she did to you.

GamalNasser:
Maybe when you know the difference between" lunch " & " launch" Dem go promote U

Accepted! I know ur type. I Just decided to abbreviate it dat way, So no need to make fun out of it.

doneback04:
Calm down first, don't go now because it friend just got the job, it will sound like it because they employ someone new that why u are coming, wait a while before the year runs out you can now make a move

Noted!Sir. I really appreciate ur advise.

frog12:
what is this policy? is it meant to push you out of the company?
i know someone that was pushed out by another friend that became his boss because he was irresponsible!

Bro! The thing is kind of complicated... We do make fun of ourselves that if any of us become a boss of any firm d other will be treated unfairly. And from what am seeing it seems he's trying to belittle me.

Am kicking against the policy because it will affect me somehow. he talked about time factor, dressing code and alot which am not please with.

Microwhy:

Congratulate him and joke with the rear opportunity he had. Ask jokingly about which soap he used and stuffs, also tell him that 5% of his salary must surely land in your account. Let both of you have a good laugh.
What you've done are;
-You showed how happy and proud you're for bringing someone close to you and having a extremely positive result.
-As for the salary, you agree with him that he's taking far more and you're super cool with it.
-After a little while, confide in him that you need to speak to the management about your pay, hear what he's going to say as a good friend.
NB: please take some time before asking for a raise.
For sure, go demand a raise.

Thanks for your understanding sir, I really appreciate your advise.

ibinaboonline:
Don't mind those condemning you for the way you feel. You're human and your feelings are valid. It's natural and doesn't make you evil. However, also consider that your friend didn't plan from the onset to put you in this situation. So, try to handle it with maturity and wisdom. Don't complain to your boss. It's not a very wise move at the moment because it'd be apparent. Things like this usually have a way of resolving themselves.

Thanks for understanding sir, and dis is what am even expecting to hear right now.

lomprico:


Go and meet your boss like you said and stop being jealous of your friend.

Am not jealous, am not satisfied with the policy e came up with and I know he purposely announced it generally because of me. At least he would have informed me before making it openly.

cybriz82:



Go drink hypo to flush out d blood of jealousy in u....no b better person u be ..u shud be happy for ur frnd n stop d beefing..na God dey lift man up no b by power...if u continue hating on him like this I swear u will go no where in life ..

Noted! It seems u already know what is in my mind. Though! I no jealous ham, but the policy wey e come up with is not fair. I know he intentionally come up with that becuz of me. At least he would have discuss it with me before announcing it generally.

Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He passed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Have been hearing a lot about dis school.... It's a school that's main for d rich.

My biggest regret so far in life is seeing myself as a failure. Though! I think I am a failure. All I ever wanted in life was to go to one of the best school in Nigeria and compete with my fellow colleagues "Uni" to be precise. It's just so unfortunate that I fell into the wrong school. I wrote jamb and post utme as at 2017 but I couldn't secure admission, I was so frustrated and due to that, my father link me up to one school like that, which happen to be a sandwich degree programme and I was clueless about sandwich program as at den.... Right now, am getting closer to my final year and I have nothing to write about myself, I see myself as an halfbake graduate to be... I once have the zeal to study and be one of the brightest student but my dreams of being a successful student was killed as soon as I got into that school. I feel as if i have disappointed my Dad.

Slynation:
Oga keep kwayet, nothing like love portion, you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

I even found this laughable that you are even thinking of breaking up in a relationship you have been dating yourself for long now, you are just that simp helping out financially...

If they no value you, atleast value yourself...!!

you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

U see am talk well, I just wanna feel belong DAT is why am still with her.

nuggarito:
I think from all the bullcrap I've read about guys becoming simp this is the biggest simp I have ever seen, biggest mumu.
You give girl money to remove pikin wey your friend put inside and the girl still dey straff your friend. Na goat born you abi na human being?

Bro! Why d insult? If u don't have any useful advise why not bounce out.

Marvellsmart:
You are not a weakling you are an Ultrafoolish SIMP! ...can you just imagine?! You know what? Go ahead and marry her since your destiny and future is tied to her... Stop simping and become a real man una dey de claim rubbish... Now see as the girl dey use ur head for u.

True talk bro... She is using my head indeed.

iLoveYouToo:



Your self esteem is in tatters bro, for now please change your name to SIMPSON, then we can help you. WTF! Are you crippled, ugly, or retardèd that you can’t let her go? Man! You’ll definitely find another girl, be a HUMAN being and use your brain. Stop being a joke. Damn!

Bro! Am not ugly neither cripple. U should understand were am coming from. I really don't have time for girls....she just happen to win my heart.

Palema007:
Wow!!!

Please Op cut off all contact with the lady. Honestly you deserve better! Control your mind to see her as someone dangerous to you ( which she really is anyways) and flee from her.

You have paid too much for a feeling not worth it. Overcome your obsession with her, put yourself first and stay away from anything that has to do with her.

Thanks for understanding my feelings, I think dis is the right time to cut off my tide with her.

infogenius:


That is exactly what u are. A weakling and since u know u are a weakling, u have got to brace up.

Just tell her u don’t deserve her kind of person and u are no longer interested in the relationship so that she can focus on her numerous boyfriends. It’s that easy.

How I wish many of u can love God with half the affections u show these sluts u call girlfriends.

Thanks to u bro..
I think I will heed to your advise.

It seems she using love portion on me, I just couldn't breakup with her.... She was here at my place and I couldn't say what is bothering me.

Am in love with the wrong girl and can't help myself out.
My Story goes like dis, I love dis girl so much and can't really do without her, well before I met her I never believed in true love but it hurt me so much to be suffering all in d name of love.
First, I dated her all because of my emotional trauma, I love her so much I can't denied d fact, I did a lot of crazy thing just to prove how much I love her....... Though! I am in my mid-20. And I know what I want in life.
She has done more harm than good in which I have tolerated enough. I think it's time to kiss her good bye.
Like i said before she did a lot of crazy things to me which is unforgivable, but still yet. I can't breakup with her.
She took in and lied to me dat am responsible for it and I was very sure that am not responsible for it, I carried out a research and later discover dat it was a friend of mine who helped me in wooing her dat got her pregnant, I even went to d extent of confronting my friend which he admitted to be true and pleaded that I should forgive him, which I did.. Funniest part, I gave her money to get rid of it becuz my friend couldn't afford it. I also confronted her about the pregnancy of a thing, she never admitted d truth.
I let everything died down and never bothered asking her again.
Thought! She played fast one on me, I still continued loving her..... What trigger me most recently....I saw her with a ring, I was shocked.
I asked her about it and she told me that it's just a promised a ring, dat it was her boyfriend who gave her and not that she love him, he force it on her. (Yes) am aware of the guy. But d girl parent do not approve of their relationship but dey are still in touch.

She promise to stick by me that I should give her sometimes to get rid of d guy first, dat d guy happened to be her first love and is going to take time to get rid of him completely.

I kept moot about it.......

From a close friend of mine, I heard she's still in touch with dat friend of mine who got her pregnant.... Dey are secretly dating.

I have spent a token on her but I regretted ever dating her.


Am thinking of breaking up with her today.{ that's if I had courage to do so}

Guys! How do I go about it? I see myself as a weakling