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Equado:
if it were 2 be a more serious relationship...I would have suggested phone tapping!!!

So serious cos I love her so much..pls tell me more about the phone tapping.

Equado:
Bros,you're insecure and the only way to cure you of this disease is for you to do a little investigation.... Be sceptical 2 everything she tells you, girls are Deceptive creatures!!!

Tnx my man..I've gone through all her chats ranging from whatsapp,facebook,text messages,there's no clue or evidence connecting her of been a cheat..the said man is not even on her friends list on social network and its kinda difficult to track down any suspicious chats linking her to the man.so pls if there's any other alternatives to track this down I will be glad.

KrazyBone:
[color=#150000]Goat.

You are senseless and the little you have, you are giving out? You're a fool!

A girl is being serially fvcked by someone else under your dumb nose and you are believing he's a priest. But you deem it worthy to wish sense on someone who pointed that out?

Your brain shoulde pulled out of your head, and flogged. [/color]

Lolx..I don hear.

KrazyBone:
[color=#150000]She's not cheating on you. She's only fvcking someone else. She gives him the punna every time he demands it as a way of indemnification for all the goodies he has bestowed upon her.

You are a fool to her and would continue to be one. She probably receives your calls while he's fvcking her from behind, aka, doggienificating her. . . Yeah of course he's a priest. He makes her get closer to God my making her scream "oh my God" "oh my God" "yes God" "yes God". . .

So my man, when a girl is cheating on you, it's always written on her face. . . Stop being such a pathetic mugu. [/color]

U know u can laid down your points without been sarcastic..oya receive easter sense.

TR0UBLeMaKeR:
You don't trust her?
Do you guys engage in intimacy?

I do trust her but this issue has given me a lot of concern based on the way she acts,am not a cheat and I can't tolerate one.
About the intimacy part,baby am aint no saint in that aspect,we do engage in sex in the mood if the need arises.

[quote author=TR0UBLeMaKeR post=32381203]You don't trust her?
Do you guys engage in intimacy?[/quote

I really need advice on how to tackle this issue concerning my girlfriend whom I love so much,it goes like this..

I love my lovely girlfriend so much and we have been dating for like a year,we are also in d same institution,do have plan for our future but recently I started having some foul feeling about the man she always called HER UNCLE.
Not her immediate uncle but a friend of her uncle who is a priest.The said uncle is like a God sent into her life(her words though)he took care of her financial problems ranging from paying her school fees,taking her out for shopping,sending money to her on daily basis and taking care of her miscellaneous budgets.

Sometimes during weekends or so she do visit the man(uncle who is a priest)and spend sometimes with him under the pretense of no string attached.

So recently I started prying into the matter to know exactly who the man is to her because am kinda fed up with the kinda attention she's giving the man,I've try asking her if she's having an affair with the man she said no that she can't stoop so low to involve herself in a romantic relationship with a priest,but am not totally convinced with her sentiments.

I so much love her so much and the thought of d priest digging my girl has really burn into my psyches and has been kinda tormenting me emotionally.

So pls my fellow nairalanders i really need advice on how to tackle this matter smoothly..tnx

Monicasque:
I wud feel hurt and betrayed. Wud ignore the invitation. Delete his number and distroy everything dat reminds me of him. Den cry until my heart is healed.even if it means crying for weeks it dnt matter. As long as i wil b healing, and wud propably never speak to him ever again in my life. Even a simple hello i wud never do. Y reward him with humanity for hurting me

I love your sincerity,as for me attending the wedding will be catastrophic becos I might end us ruining the event

ronald4lif:
I will ensure I use the wedding IV to wipe my nostrils in her present, but if she sends it via courier to my address I will write back to sender in caps lock and return it to her address. She dey craze ni

Guy u harsh

Just be sincere,what if your current boy/girl friend whom u love,cherish and adore so much and also planning a future together suddenly inform u that he/she will be getting married to another fellow, to the extend of inviting you as an honoured guest.

Is it wise to attent or not?

They all are having the illusion that they will live young forever forgetting that they will one day have grey hairs.

Boko Haram freed two dozen hostages after a mass abduction by its militants in Cameroon, as Chad prepared Monday to engage in the international battle against the extremist group.

Twenty-four of the 80 people taken hostage by Boko Haram in the north of Cameroon Sunday were released as Cameroonian armed forces pursued the Islamist extremists, according to a government source.

The Boko Haram fighters then fled back into Nigeria, with the fate of the rest of the hostages taken in the raid, the worst of its kind to date, still unknown.

An army officer based in Cameroon’s far north said Boko Haram had attacked two villages and kidnapped what Cameroonian state media said were 80 hostages.

Three people also died in the assault.

As the militants retreated, the Chadian army said it was putting 400 military vehicles, attack helicopters, and still unspecified number of soldiers amassed in northern Cameroon into action against Boko Haram, as part of what has become a regional effort to defeat the notoriously violent group.

We are going to advance (Monday) towards the enemy,” Chadian army colonel Djerou Ibrahim, who is leading the offensive against Boko Haram, told AFP from the strategic crossroads town of Maltam in northern Cameroon.

Our mission is to hunt down Boko Haram, and we have all the means to do that.
But Cameroonian Communications Minister Issa Tchiroma Bakary warned the armies of the two nations still had considerable planning to complete before being able to launch offensives against Boko Haram.

Military planners must evaluate the forces being coordinated and coalesced,” he said. “That takes time. Don’t expect to start seeing the results of that tomorrow.

Source http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/01/boko-haram-cameroon-army-frees-24-hostages/

coogar:
you were the love-child of acute stüpidity & generational idïocy. the fact that you don't get charged to put up retärded topics like yours doesn't mean you should abuse the privilege.

your gender says you are male but you have shown nothing but the swag of a menstruating female. something happened at your workplace and the first action that came to your head was to come & discuss it on NL?

how old are you?
were the necessary pills taken while you were in the womb? dang it, if my son displays this kinda amebo attitude, i would willingly offer him to okija priests. you are a disgrace to manhood!

fück outta here before i pee on your eyelids....

anuofia!

*Lolx
u are an asshole

Like I said earlier on, go and learn some manners of aproach.

coogar:
you are a fool!
without a doubt, the biggest fool this forum has ever produced. what's our business with what happened in your illegal workplace?

amebo!

Well I can see that u are a frustrated Hegoat,nairaland is a forum where anybody can share topics about his daily activities,things that happened on a daily basis,so pls dear find someone else to label ur frustration to..I don't blame u but your parents that refuse to teach u about manners.

coogar:
i think you are confused about the submission theory.

women - submit to your husbands
men - love your wives.

if a man loves his wife wholeheartedly, how would maltreatment creep into the equation? i must assumeg you are high on shekpe or you have never read the bible since you learnt to read & write.

Pls brother in my post i do used SOME men.
Am not talking about all male species,that word some which I used differentiate the good and the bad folks.
I just posted this topic because of what happened at my working place today,so pls try and make use of your brain next time before u comment..

In todays world men has the ideology that is termed MEN'S WORLD(true) which have burn into the psyches of the female species,men on the other hand have utilized the opportunity of them been called the bread winner of the family to humiliate the female folks(wife)
Why am i saying this u may ask?

Women are fragile and that has made some men to take advantage of there vulnerability.
Some women don't have a say in there husbands house,the man maltreats them as if they are just a rotten commodities that needs to be disposed off which is unethical.
No woman should sacrifice her rights in order to please her man such gesture can lead to maltreating,abuse and bad use of words.
Some men can go to an extent to beat or use some abusive words on their wife,maybe in a gathering of friends or in a market place,the woman all in the name of been submissive will remain adamant.

Am not encouraging a nagging wife or women talking back to there man but everything has limit and everybody should know his or her boundries when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex

Men should respect there wife's personality even if she's not upto your expectation thats the reason why i encourage courtship before marriage.

Six packs doesn't rule anymore..pocket pack does..
But Op yours no follow at all,try and hit the gym..


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prettyjo:
Most guys don't even know their left from right.Besides ,why do you still communicate with her when you already know what she wants.can't you bar her from calling you?

The thing is I lost her number the time she got married and I thought she did the same but the reverse is the case,going on the visit will cause more harm than good so I think in my best interest is not to honor the visit to avoid blame and repercusion and that will make her understand that am not into her anymore..

mesoade:
he didn't force her,she asked for it . . Mr. Karma will understand

Lol.

Abbey2sam:
go with a friend of yours......that's if you don't have any other plan other than to keep company

No plans guy,like I said earlier no strings attached..

Galads:
God pays evil one way or the other. MiGht not be his wife but I so know karma. You Go throuGh some difficult times without knowing why

Yeah,I believe that,make I lockup because I don't want any he goat laying a hand on my future wife(still searching though)..

Galads:
God pays evil one way or the other. MiGht not be his wife but I so know karma. You Go throuGh some difficult times without knowing why

Yeah,I believe dat,make I lock-up

ULSHERLAN:
do you know the meaning of what you wrote or you just wanna quote me

Go to bed dude,mama's calling..

zoeee:
do u really need an advice from nairalanders

Yeah swit because I've consulted some of my friends and they gave me different way to approach the situation,but am not too contented with there ideas thats the reason why I need nairaland inputs..

[quote author=ULSHERLAN post=28347608]this got me laughing. This poster na yaba left patient[/quote


Guy u harsh ooo,easy abeg,am not the cause of your misfortune today nah.Haba.

Ploy:
Go there with your trusted friend or latest girl friend. There is nothing difficult in it, a married course mate tried that with in the past. But she stopped that nonsense when I started going there with my ototo poyoyo. She will be embarrassed if she is lying.

Tnx guy,love ur idea.