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SoftP:
I’m so short of words’

see what you did there

I started well, then lost total concentration middle of the post

EllaBella115:
Truthfully...
Cheating is now the second name of most Nigerian men be it married or single.
I would advice that u start worrying less for your sake and that of your unborn child rather invest more on making new friends and chatting with them as he does

you look like someone I see a lot, do you school at UNIZIK?

Hi can we chat here's my number 09037472316 I am a patient too

Bro pls text this number 0 9 037472316 or gimme yours pls we are the only ones that can understand each other I want us to talk

WINNERMENTALITY:
Am still in school studying Business Admin but as it stands I have more feel for technical equipment .. So that's why I might dump my career course and move into computer science or anything technical related.

bro I know this is probably late and I hope you didn't do it, but computer science is not for people like us, reply my pm pls I want us to talk

BrownCarton:
Hi Guys,

I may not be as coherent as you will want, but I will try my best to narrate all that I can.

I just hit my mid 20's and although I have always suspected, I now acknowledge that I have been a victim of ADHD.

For those of you who don't know what ADHD is- Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder. It is a mental block that is accompannied with anxiety, low attention span, brain "slowing down" Inability to focus on any given task or excessive impuslse on a given task, disorgarnization, inability to plan for the future... etc. It affected me so much, growing up, I would have classified myself as dumb, except that I was quite good in maths, which many seemed to be bad at, so " I should't be the dumbest afterall"


However, people bullied me, whenever I get into conversations, I was always slow to process whatever someone said that I was often tagged slow, but not completely slow as I was usually in a "higher position" in class than whoever was calling me such name. Now, growing up where I have to be more responsible for myself and other things in my environment, I find this being a daily pain. Examples of this is and not limited to:


1. Not knowing where I keep things I was literarilly holding a second ago, feeling very frustrated about it, trying to prove to myself that I am not that slow, then forgetting the next thing I was holding in the process of looking for it, or completely forgetting why I needed it in the first place.

2. Being slow to process whatever someone is telling me, cos it seems my brain takes too slow to just understand, so basically, whenever someone tells me something, I reask or repharase to actually completely understand the message being passed.Making me appear dumb at times. This happens more when people use more pronouns in conversations as I just completely lose the plot of whatever is being said.

3. I can't understand things without visualizing them and I am always baffled whenever I see people easily grasp a concept so fast, espescially in the industry where I work where a lot of things are so abstract, I totally get lost most times.

This has led my dad tofeeling frustrated and insulting me growing up, as I always draw him back, or I am usually slow to just understand whatever he is explaining.

I basically learn best whenever there is a visual representaton of the subject matter.

I basically wonder how people learn and accept new concepts, while I struggle to understand how they do

I ll post more as I remember

I've adhd too and I'm in my early 20s

Akinsoladwayne:
This is actually funny

I do not believe this story

illicit:
This is very selfish.

exactly

kponkedenge:
I've only had one weird friendship (cos I won't really call it a relationship), the matter too long abeg, I don't have the time to start typing everything. The 'weird' stuff was just an obsession she had with me, it turned quite dangerous at some point.... Thank God I managed to escape it.

bro tell us na mention when you're done

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nurey:
We all die someday and some how, if you look death in the eye, then a shinigami will never take your soul from your body.

I only need the bike for a rough terrain. With bike it takes about 30minute journey, with car it's around 1hr to 1hr 20mins journey de pending on season.

My sienna and aunts navigator are beginning to complain of the bad road

then get a dirt bike bro a second hand one should be cheap..... Also nice death note reference

EDIT: Oh it's an old thread sorry, for matter on ground just find one football field and ride round it till you start getting used to it you'll be surprised at the amount of progress u can make in a day

chatinent:
So the White still have some iota of foolery? At least, this required common sense to know the dead are conscious of nothing.

what're you talking about

nurey:
That's a receipt for disaster, why would you wanna raise the suspension of a vehicle that is already tall?

the car looks beastly already I know but I need it taller for better offroading and etc

Originalsly:
Think Aba.

Exactly bro... for better offroading

Greetings nairalanders..... Pls what's this price of raising the suspension of a 2005 Cardillac Escalade?

[quote author= post=50235585]Olivia Montage Hotel Awka[/quote]no vex for bumping old threadu know how much per night for this hotel

JeffreyJames:
I wonder who came up with the idea that being married means "settling down" . What an irony lol


OP when condition don dey enter to getting married, e get as e be o. Is the guy marrying her for the sole purpose of bearing children or he is marrying her because he loves her?

As for me that "take in" before getting married is HorseSh*t. I believe the guy knows how desperate your sister is to "settle down" so he is taking advantage. She should not give in. Make small respect still remain.

even without looking at the name you'll know it's emperor

learner007:
FeLIX. Where is my prize?

I didn't see your comment and I wrote what u wrote word for word.... Lol

ybalogs:
If my Mother is a Chemist, and my Father is a Mathematician. And they gave a Code to my name "Iron59"!.

*Question: What is my Real Name?*

FeLIX wheres my prize

Temidayo9:
Have you seen 10 years graduate with no Job? Then you are joking for saying no admission and depression is taking over.

leave am.....

Some people that had admission that same year ask them..... how far

One week salary for them

trutht828:
It is not machinery; it is Mercenary

I told this to a course mate once and he explained to me that its "MACHINERY" because they're intelligent and do your bidding like machines lol....... mercenary means fighter for hire or worker so I thought it'll apply to hire candidates.... anyways don't argue with Nigerians and their English lol

Vivikema:
2014,I had 99 in biology in jamb....the thing surprise me sef

that's nice... during my time I got 98 in bio too I was kinda surprised.... though bio was essentially all I was reading preparing for the exam..... cos I'm not really good at calculation courses..... so it was a case of working on my strength...... that bio singlehandedly gave me admission

Bro your hair make sense.... Post Christmas hair na

LOL