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mimibright:
My name is Fred, friends call me CJ, lol. I am 25 yrs old. Okay I graduated from the uni some years back and followed my passion of becoming a business man In the oil and gas sector. Yea dreams come true and I own two companies presently and God is really blessing me. It happened that before the wealth I have been in series of relationships that ended up with hearth cause the girls always cheated and I always catch them. 5 different girls I really loved, the last girl I dated VIVIAN was the love of my life and I planned to marry her, introduced her to my mom and they loved her. Yea I was a hustler then, she bleeped this guy who told her he is an oil worker and washed her brain till she slept with him in less than a week she met him. Yea I found out cause I hacked her Whatsapp account (am an IT guru, pls don't ask me to teach you how to do it). For like 3 months I felt seriously ill cause of her. I later made a vow to face the money mehn and leave them girls. 3 years later I made it. Now I have a serious problem, all these girls look fake to me. I can't even date any, I don't know how to love anymore. If I want to have sex I ask my friends and even offer to pay them. I don't know what's wrong with me, no matter how hard I try to love someone I just can't When they say I love you am like yea me too as if I know what that means. My mom even offered to find a girl I can marry cause even her noticed I have this problem. I really need help forgetting what these ladies did to me but I don't know how to go about it. I don't want to punish my wife for the sins these usless girls committed.

Bambless1:
saver ways? Please can u tell me, because my sister want to do D & C for a pregnant of 6 weeks.

Touches:
I was told D $ C was the safest.. and the doctor that dd mine is quite experienced. That I know for sure.. im sooo scared. I don't know if its going to tamper wt my fertility. I'm filled wt so much regrets now

Touches:
Thanks sooo much. I'll def go for an ultrasound by monday.. can't even sleep.
I still ovulate and cycle is within range l. its just the number of daysthe period flow

hmmm, that doctor lied. well depending on how many months the foetus is... I know @ 2months it can still be flushed properly... D&C is quite risky and deadly. Usually causes scarring and womb damage.. infact D&C should be the last form of abortion alternative for anyone..

My dear just go for a scan first to make sure you reproductive organ is okay.. It can be scary @ first esp as you are unsure what to expect but I would advise you calm down and do it... we telling you answers you might want to hear to make you feel better wont solve it... You can also ve an HSG too so as to be sure your oviducts are open and functioning properly ie if you are upto it. You can ask a trusted friend to escort you too..

Touches:
Thank you soo much. I appreciate. .

Its well and you welcome.. I pray you are okay o. Amen

Touches:
I know.. just before I see my doctor. I made a mistake of not going back to the doctor on time. Now i'll be getting married soon and really scared

Cutehector:
Vampireem, i think dependable means "financially" to this girl in the story....

haha, you are right. Gals are not smiling my dear.. infact this is one of the major reasons why most girls ve multiple boyfriends...

Am wondering what advise she wants when she knows within herself that she will start sleeping with the rich dude and be getting financial assistance.. its quite easy, she can keep the both of them as boyfriends and try as much as possible not to be caught

Owing to the news of hire and fire in the banking industry,

DONSMITH123:
That GEJ part thou...well, that's one thing with our politicians. They'll only take the poor serious each time they need their votes and support. Now the questions remain, with the recent up-turn of elections in Rivers state. Both Senate, Reps and Gov election, is there anything like election in Rivers State?

Wike should think twice and keep his cash for a re-run.

You are right.. he should better buy the conscience of his people with his good works than money.. Cause if depends solely on cash by the time Amaechi unleashes another war chest wahala go dey oo

OnankpaBa:
i just dey greet o

OnankpaBa:
catch ya

OnankpaBa:
you nailed it for the very first time my love.

Merry xmas and happy new year in advance. Despite that you refused to wish me. God dey sha.

Sweethrt, Happy new year in advance.. dont mind me jare.. hope you enjoyed your holidays? How did you know am the one sef? I know who must ve told you.. hmmm, Donsmith123

clevvermind:
you will be shocked. it is so big.

Shocked? You mean Big like Anaconda??

Pictures please.

clevvermind:
just say it.

Show me yours first, it might give me an inspiration on what to do in such situation