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TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick:
AmuDimpka:
accounting standards are never the same all over the world
If I may ask, what’s you accounting qualification or experience?
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 9:06pm On Apr 03, 2024
AmuDimpka:
accounting standards are never the same all over the world
Stop confusing yourself. Accounting standards is different from accounting principles. Accounting standards differ, while accounting principles are the same. The original comment I replied to said accounting principles are different. I corrected him by stating that they are the same. You were the first person to mention accounting standards on this thread.
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 3:00pm On Apr 03, 2024
AmuDimpka:
they are not

Some use IFRS ... international Financial Reporting Standards. Like European countries while others don't

Please make we talk wetin we know

There are different accounting standards that apply to institutions within the U.S. and internationally, including:
GAAP.
IFRS.
FASB.
IFRS Foundation. ...
IASB.
SEC.
AICPA.
GASB.

Some of us ain't stupid you know...that dude is telling lies . It will take him years to adapt to Australian financial standards he must past exams ...we use IFRS 9 here in Nigeria
The post I responded to said accounting principles are different. I only used GAAP as an example there. Now you're talking of accounting standards. Accounting principles and standards are not the same. Accounting principles are same everywhere in the world. You can verify that. I studied accounting for my first degree, so I am not responding with information gotten from the internet. An accountant in Nigeria will have no problem adapting in Australia, he'll only need to understand how the taxes work.
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 9:36pm On Apr 02, 2024
AjalaDtraveller:
Your stories don't add up. Inconsistencies here and there. You initially said in your first 2 months you were rejected for accounting jobs now you say you are the one rejecting it. Without knowing the accounting principles of a particular country you know you can't jump into any role as an accountant. Plus you claimed to live in Australia for just 3 months during which 2 months was unsuccessful job search, another 2 weeks of forklift certification. So which means you haven't even got any paycheck yet. How can you compare life as an accountant in Nigeria to someone working shifts carrying and picking cartons in a warehouse, with the associated body pain that comes with such low skilled low paying jobs. Some of us here have lived in the western world and we know exactly how things work, you can only f*ool those who haven't left Nigeria or you are not being truthful about earning a million naira per month.
Accounting principles are the same everywhere in the world. Have you heard of GAAP?
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 11:26pm On Apr 01, 2024
lacasera14:
In your wildest imagination, you think the vice president can be kidnapped in Nigeria? Is that how bad the insecurity is? Or is it the same Nigeria we both in. Don't draw such unserious analogy next time again.
That means you don’t know how bad the security situation is. Still remember Badeh? The former CDS? Till date we don’t know who his killers are. Even the president himself can be kidnapped, let alone the VP.
FamilyRe: How My First Marriage Crashed After Several Abuse- Pastor Emmanuel Olumide (vid) by VAPatrick: 8:19pm On Mar 31, 2024
immortalcrown:
Only incest is biblically acceptable for a divorce. But many people claim that the Bible permits divorce if adultery happens. Some people claim that the Bible supports divorce if any form of unfaithfulness occurs in the marriage.

If incest is not the biblical ground for a divorce, why did the disciples of Jesus Christ say what they said in Mathew 19:10? Read the chapter and pay attention to the verse 10. Then, tell me why the disciples made the statement.

The problem here is hypocrisy. People want to be here and there. People want to eat their cake and have it.

If you want to divorce your spouse when he or she offends you, avoid church wedding. Do your traditional marriage or any other form of marriage. The issue is that people want church wedding but don't want the cross that comes with church wedding. Church wedding vow says, "... until death do us part".

Choose a tradition you can maintain. Don't deceive yourself with church wedding when you are not willing to abide by its principles.

Because of many quotes, read 👇🏽

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/YsuRQDEXyRcf4Xv9/?mibextid=oFDknk

Is Divorce a Sin?

I think the right question should be, did Jesus Permit divorce? Did God permit divorce? In other words, are you even allowed to divorce before you start talking about whether it is a sin or not?

The straight answer is that Jesus never permitted divorce. Once marriage is validly contracted, even adultery as some of you wrongly allege is not a ground for divorce.

I know this whole misunderstanding is coming from Jesus' statement in Matthew 19:9. I will clarify it. But before then, I am not writing this to give people a license to cheat on their spouses. As a matter of fact, you owe your spouse fidelity and faithfulness. It is their right. You are not doing them a favor by being faithful.

Back to Matthew 19:9 where it seemed Jesus gave an exception for divorce:

"Whoever divorces his wife except for unchastity and marries another commits adultery."

The exceptive clause, "EXCEPT FOR UNCHASTITY" is the major issue here. Simply put, unchastity is a good reason to divorce one's spouse.

You may want to ask, what constitutes 'unchastity?' We shall get to know soon.

We all remember that the New Testament was originally written in Greek bah?

The Greek word for unchastity is "PORNEIA." The Protestants argue that this Greek word "porneia" means adultery. This is why if you read the Protestant New International Version of the Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:

"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery."

For most Protestants, though marriage is meant to last a lifetime, but adultery justifies divorce and remarriage. This is because they interpreted the Greek word "porneia" or "unchastity" as adultery.

This is not true. And this is not Catholic teaching.

Catholic biblical scholars believe that it is wrong to translate the Greek word "porneia" as adultery. In the Catholic New American Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:

"I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery."

Here, the exceptive clause is: "UNLAWFUL MARRIAGE."

If you read the King James Version of the Bible, the translation for PORNEIA is even more interesting. It translates Matthew 19:9 thus:

"And I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another committeth adultery."

Here, the exceptive clause is Fornication. And fornication is the sin of two unmarried people having sexual intercourse. If either person is married or both are married to other people, the sin is called adultery. Following this translation, the only way that a couple could commit fornication is if they were never really in a Christian marriage to begin with.

Many recent translations of porneia in Matt 19:9 used "sexual immoralities." That still begs the question of what sexual immoralities could mean.

In all these, what really is the correct translation for the word PORNEIA? Is it the Protestants' "adultery", the King James' "fornication", or the Catholics' "Unlawful marriage"? Even if porneia is to be seen as unchastity or sexual immoralities, what constitutes unchastity?

The answer to the above questions can be better clarified using the bible. I will give you two examples: Matthew 15:19 and Mark 7:21-22.

Matthew 15:19 "For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, ADULTERY, UNCHASTITY, theft, false witness, blasphemy."

Mark 7:21-22, "From within people, from their hearts, come evil thoughts, UNCHASTITY, theft, murder, ADULTERY, greed, malice, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, folly."

Pay attention to this: Adultery and unchastity are both prohibited in the texts above. If you read the Greek text, it is "porneia" that is translated as unchastity, in some bible it is translated as sexual immorality. While the Greek word "moicheia" is translated as adultery. Therefore, from these passages, we can see that porneia does not mean adultery as that would be an unnecessary repetition.

The word for adultery in Greek is 'moicheia.' If the author of Matthew 19:9 felt that Christ was talking about adultery, he wouldn't have used 'porneia' which means unchastity.

This is Matthew 19:9 in its original Greek

λέγω δὲ ὑμῖν ὅτι ὃς ἂν ἀπολύσῃ τὴν γυναῖκα αὐτοῦ μὴ ἐπὶ ΠΟΡΝΕΊΑΙ καὶ γαμήσῃ ἄλλην, ΜΟΙΧΑ͂ΤΑΙ.

I have put into capital letters two words:
πορνείᾳ (porneia) and μοιχᾶται (moichatai — verb form)

If the Bible intended that adultery is a ground for divorce, the two words would have been moicheia. And it will read thus: "I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for ADULTERY, and marries another woman commits ADULTERY."

But fortunately or unfortunately, that is not how it was written in the Bible.

If you read Act 15:28-29, the Apostles addressed the Gentiles prohibiting four things:

"For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things: that you abstain (1) from what has been sacrificed to idols, and (2) from blood and (3) from what is strangled and (4) from unchastity. If you keep yourselves from these, you will do well. Farewell." RSV (inserted numbers, mine)

Take note of the number (4), still talking about Porneia or Unchastity. These four prohibitions above came from a deep-rooted Jewish tradition found in Leviticus 17 and 18.

If you read Leviticus through, you will discover that in chapter 18, what the Jews mean by unchastity or Porneia was explicitly explained. It was simply an incestuous marriage. Having sexual intercourse with a close relative was greatly forbidden, not to talk of marriage. For the Jews, marriage of this nature is unlawful. This was what Christ was referring to in Matthew 19:9. It is a reference to an unlawful and thus invalid marriage. It is not a reference, as Protestants view it, to a specific act committed during a legitimate "life-long marriage.

Jesus' teaching on divorce was revolutionary. Remember that it was to answer the Jews who thought that one could divorce his wife for some reasons that made Jesus to give the answer he gave. If Jesus permitted divorce, what then makes his teaching different from the one Moses taught the Jews in the OT?

If Christ's teaching on divorce was that simple, how can one explain the surprise that surrounded the disciples when they responded in the next verse?

Matthew 19: 10, "(His) disciples said to him, 'If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.'"

©Fr Kelvin Ugwu
Get enlightened. Church wedding or white wedding is the white man’s traditional wedding; it is not biblical.
WebmastersRe: Are There Any Webmasters Who Make Sites For Small Businesses? by VAPatrick:
Devaro:
I completely agree, and I'm glad you brought up the crucial issue.

It's a frustrating scenario for everyone involved.

When clients have a complex project with a budget that drastically undercuts the market value, it's a recipe for DISASTER.

Here's the thing: quality web development, especially anything involving advanced features like escrow wallets, demands significant time, skill, and resources.

Attempting to squeeze that into a tiny budget simply doesn't work.

Desperate developers might try to take on such projects, but the results almost inevitably include what you described: missed deadlines, poor work, and a frustrated client.

If a client doesn't want to invest ADEQUATELY in their online presence, they're far more likely to encounter either unqualified developers or worse, outright scams.

Professionals in any field deserve fair COMPENSATION. It ensures we can dedicate the necessary time and attention to produce the best possible results.

Honestly, turning down underfunded projects is a sign of professionalism, not a bad attitude.

I always encourage clients to understand that high-quality websites are an investment in their business.

When they see web development as a PARTNERSHIP, rather than a bargain-bin service, everyone benefits.

I don use too much grammar but the truth be say your likes should do better because we don chat about projects in the past but your investment can't work for me and you never had the balls to say straight away that your budget is tight or low, it is always "ok" and you go mute until the messages are cleared.

Do better.
I like how you quickly turned my comment around in defense of your professional colleagues. You would have made a good lawyer, you know?

Far from it, my comment has nothing to do with budget. Even if it were, it's not an excuse to deliver low-quality project. As a web developer, if you accept to deliver a project like Facebook or Whatsapp for N100K, it is your duty to deliver. The client should not be blamed for that. An agreement is an agreement.

Secondly, before now I never knew turning down a project can be considered bad attitude. I am a service provider myself, and I turn down projects on a daily basis. I'll give an example of what I consider bad attitude in respect of web design. I recently hired a web designer from here (I hope he sees this). He completed the first task and got paid for it. I assigned another task to him. This time I made the mistake of paying him 100% of the agreed fee up front, thinking that will motivate him to deliver on time. This project was only supposed to take a few hours, but days later, this guy was still giving me excuses. I checked the file on cpanel and noticed it's not been updated for 5 days, meaning he's not working on it, so I changed the login details and blocked him.

Responding to your last paragraph. I am an IT person too, so for every task I assign, I have at least a fair idea of what it entails. When a dev quotes an unrealistic fee, I simply respond with "okay", and move on to the next person. That's because I don't have the time for negotiation. This has nothing to do with me not having the balls, like you said. By virtue of my military background, I have the balls to do whatever even physically, let alone when I'm behind a keyboard. It's not also a tight budget thing, cos by the grace of God, money is the least of my problems.

Edited:

Over the last 17 years, I have hired more than 50 web developers from this platform, for various tasks. Hence, my comment that web devs here are difficult to work with is not made up, but based on my personal experience vis-à-vis my experience with devs on other platforms like Fiverr. That's not to say there are no good ones. I have met amazing web developers here whose web design/development skills and attitudes are top notch.
WebmastersRe: Are There Any Webmasters Who Make Sites For Small Businesses? by VAPatrick: 1:41am On Mar 31, 2024
Devaro:
Nigeria clients are so difficult to work with
It goes both ways. Nigerian service providers (e.g Web Designers) are the most difficult to work with. Poor quality work, missed deadlines, bad attitude, the list is endless.
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick:
Someone who hasn't travelled outside Nigeria will never understand. There is no basis for comparison between Nigeria and a developed country. In terms of everything, I mean everything, countries like Australia, UK and Canada are way ahead of Nigeria. Having said that, the decision to relinquish one's job as a manager in Nigeria for a low level job (e.g. forklift operator) in Australia is personal, which we should all respect. Besides, no one migrates with the primary objective of taking up a cleaning or fork lift operator job. For most people already at the middle or top level of their careers, they take up these jobs to survive, pending when they land their ideal jobs.

For me, if I am to choose between being a bank manager in Nigeria and forklift operator in Australia, I'll go with the latter. As a forklift operator in Australia, I will live a good life and provide a better future for my children. Even if I decide to return to Nigeria after 25 to 30 years, I'll live very comfortably, far better than I would have, had I been a bank manager.

To reiterate, no basis for comparison, and respect people's decisions. Shalom!
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 5:34pm On Mar 29, 2024
AmuDimpka:
after all these...I still have someone that is in Australia for over 10 yrs ...the person seff is finding it hard to secure air ticket to come home with his family


How una dey take look some of us ...una think say we are daft ?
Please don't be offended that I'm quoting you. I'm just curious. In Australia, a person above 21 earning minimum wage has a take home of approximately $3K per month (I mean net pay). Let's assume that this your person earns $3K and his wife also earns $3K, that's a total of $6K for the family. How much is flight ticket to Nigeria that they cannot afford? Or are they both jobless?
TravelRe: Finally Migrated To Australia At Age 48. This Is My Story So Far by VAPatrick: 7:45am On Mar 29, 2024
Originalsly:
Migrating and making it depend more on the above than luck. Then how willing we are to adapt? How many of us can shove aside our pride?... as in to move from a manager to a warehouse worker? Most of us would prefer to wait jobless rather than take a job beneath our certification. We see this with graduates ... yearsss waiting for a job that fit their certification.
My question to OP ... how is the social life so far?
Just a quick clarification. There are no menial jobs in developed countries. Every job you do is valued and oyibo will never look down on you based on the job you do. For this reason, a manager in Naija will not have any problem taking up a cleaner job. Besides, there is no huge disparity in pay like we have in Nigeria. Unlike Naija companies where managers earn hundreds of thousands and cleaners 15K, here if I work as a cleaner and earn $2k monthly, a manager in my company can’t earn more than 4K. He will pay more tax than me and will not enjoy some benefits I get as a low income earner. If you’ve been to a developed country then you’ll understand how shitty Nigeria is.
CrimeRe: 22 Soldiers Killed In Ambush In Delta State Community Graphics Warning. by VAPatrick: 8:23pm On Mar 16, 2024
sdavirus:
Keep quiet there. No one can fight the govt. Is Odi a village in Kano state?

You think say devil get favourites? There is no monopoly to jazz. I've seen these egbesu boys falling to the bullets of a kogi officer.

Don't think there's a monopoly to these things. E dey fail.

Seems you are too young. Just keep quiet. For your info, I'm 100 percent south south. I know how it went for some militants. Spent 7 years in Bayelsa
Don't mind that kid. He knows nothing. After God, na government. The military work with orders. If the C-in-C gives an order to the Nigerian military, there's no jazz that can stop them. Like you, I am also from the south-south, and served as a soldier in the creeks during the militancy days.
Web MarketUrgent! I Need An Experienced Full Stack Developer For A Quick Task by VAPatrick(op): 4:34pm On Mar 15, 2024
It's a small task that shouldn't take more than a few minutes if you've got the skills and experience, and the pay is good, depending on how much we both agree.

Message me on Whatsapp (07030949450) with your Nairaland username and samples of your work.

NOTE: Please don't contact me if you're a learner, as the task is a bit tricky.
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 4:00pm On Mar 15, 2024
This is still open.
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 3:15am On Mar 07, 2024
Closing soon.
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 10:42pm On Mar 06, 2024
Message me on WhatsApp, if it's something you can do.
Jobs/VacanciesUrgent: I Need An Academic Writer With Good Background In Economics by VAPatrick(op): 12:44am On Mar 02, 2024
If you're interested, send a sample of your article (APA style) to me on Whatsapp: 07030949450

Article topic must be related to Economics.
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 12:13am On Mar 02, 2024
Still open.
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 7:30pm On Mar 01, 2024
Open
Web MarketRe: Urgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 5:37pm On Mar 01, 2024
RealLordZeus:
Framework??
It's a PHP site, but there's some CSS and HTML as well.
Web MarketUrgent: I Need A Web Designer/developer For This Task by VAPatrick(op): 5:25pm On Mar 01, 2024
This is a view of the same page from different devices. As you can see on the screenshot, the search bar is not in line with the table below. I want it aligned on all devices, irrespective of screen size or browser.

If you can fix this, message me on Whatsapp (07030949450).

This problem is only on the mobile, so you're not to touch the desktop view.

WebmastersRe: Closed by VAPatrick(op): 4:15pm On Feb 21, 2024
Open.
WebmastersRe: Closed by VAPatrick(op): 4:08pm On Feb 21, 2024
Ongoing.
WebmastersClosed by VAPatrick(op):
.
WebmastersI need an experienced web designer/ developer by VAPatrick(op):
No longer required.
PoliticsRe: Indians Drives Nigerians Out Of African Food Stuff Business In Canada: Video by VAPatrick: 8:59pm On Jan 19, 2024
delpee:
Hmmm! Probably due to their operational costs. Importing from Nigeria for instance can be very expensive.

I think they need better funding which is what Asians are able to do for themselves.
It's nothing but greed. If you talk of operating costs, they do not have higher operating costs than the likes of Sobeys, Walmart and Costco. If it's import cost, most of the food we eat in Canada is imported, and the cheapest thing you can buy here is food (African food excluded). So, we don't mind Chinese or Indians opening African stores. If they can sell cheaper, we'll patronize them.
PoliticsRe: Indians Drives Nigerians Out Of African Food Stuff Business In Canada: Video by VAPatrick: 6:57pm On Jan 19, 2024
inoki247:
How will Nigeria even compete with them du u know aw much it Cost to export from Nigeria alone and how long it takes to get to the final destination...


I'm sure if you go to that India store you will get things more cheaper than patronizing a Nigeria Store....
That's a fact. African stores owned by Nigerians in Canada are rip-offs. They sell things at more than 10 times the original price. For instance, one small tuber of yam is sold for about CAD15, that's like N15,000 at today's exchange rate. Is that not ridiculous?
PoliticsRe: Ruth Ogunleye: Army To Investigate Alleged Maltreatment Of Female Soldier by VAPatrick:
fkj950ax:
Waste of my time. You don’t need anyone to show you anything.
Keep misleading people online. Sad thing is when they suffer the consequences offline, you won’t be there to help them suffer.
So you just have to conjure a lie and attribute it to me? Nice one!

Another lie of yours is that I am misleading people. FYI, every Nigerian solider has access to the Armed Forces Act Cap A20 LFN 2004 as amended, and other regulations, so they know the consequences of their actions. Ruth's can be likened to the saying "I speak-out, I die, I don't speak-out, I still die. Let me just speak-out and die." The worst punishment she'll get for coming online is not up to what she suffers presently.

In saner climes, nobody will be dwelling on her speaking out on social media, as focus will be on investigating the veracity of her claims, but this is Nigeria where anything goes.
PoliticsRe: Ruth Ogunleye: Army To Investigate Alleged Maltreatment Of Female Soldier by VAPatrick: 5:56am On Jan 13, 2024
fkj950ax:
You know my type
You know all the avenues she explored
You know there is no recourse process in NArmy

You know truth
You know lie

You have become holy spirit.
@the bold: Can you show me where I said that? I said, only through the chain of command can one lay a complaint in the Nigerian military. In her case, the officers in the chain of command are her oppressors, so the DPR's statement that she hasn't followed the laid down rules is absurd. Is this too complex for you to comprehend?

I was only trying to educate you on how things work. Instead of you to do your findings you're here attacking me. You made reference to the DPR's statement. As if you're not in Nigeria. If she reports directly to the AHQ office in charge of such cases, they'll ask her to follow the chain of command (i.e. Go and apply through her CO). Who is her CO? The same officer she's complaining against.
PoliticsRe: Ruth Ogunleye: Army To Investigate Alleged Maltreatment Of Female Soldier by VAPatrick: 5:21am On Jan 13, 2024
fkj950ax:
Pitiful. I have been bantering with someone who doesn't read or can't read well enough and fully understand.
Please go back to page 1 and red the first post. You'd see that's where I got that from. The press statement by NArmy. But hey, English can be difficult for people.
I know your type. Keep savoring that blissful ignorance.
PoliticsRe: Ruth Ogunleye: Army To Investigate Alleged Maltreatment Of Female Soldier by VAPatrick: 4:45am On Jan 13, 2024
fkj950ax:
No it is not a crime to say the truth now, neither has it been okay - now or before - to make unfounded statements too.
Your first comment on this thread is the only unfounded one, that it was unprofessional for her not to have followed the laid down procedures. That statement can only come from a position of ignorance. I thought I should correct that. My bad, I shouldn't have.
PoliticsRe: Ruth Ogunleye: Army To Investigate Alleged Maltreatment Of Female Soldier by VAPatrick: 4:29am On Jan 13, 2024
fkj950ax:
Anybody can be anything on NL. I am the current COAS and I was the former CDS
If you are not a fake retired military person, you wouldn't have typed "As of today, there's no other avenue for addressing issues like this in the Nigerian military."
This is a treasonous statement to be made by a non, former or current military person
There's nothing like treachery here, what I wrote is a fact, and every solider, retired or serving, knows this. Or is it now a crime to say the truth?

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