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MissOpe:
Anything you say , you're correct my lady ....Anofia

Anofia is your true description na for that is who you are true true

Rage bait bridal list. Person just sit down begin type wetin go make us all vex, abeg.

MissOpe:
You're very very super correct my lord..
I 100% and wholeheartedly agree with you...
I repent of my sins and come to the Lord and saviour Jesus today...


*CRYING AND ROLLING ON THE FLOOR😭😭😭😭😭😭*

my lady would be appropriate.

And of course your change of topic to "repentance" in a bid to shift focus from you and your failed defence of onlyfans is duly noted

MissOpe:
Sin js a human construct...

Evil is what's bad....

See am, woman don quick quick come defend their sins aka money for hand back for ground say na human construct. abi e for be alien construct?

Words are meant to convey a meaning and so everyone knows sin is usually an offence or doing something immorally wrong or bad.

So has only fans led people to commit sin? Yes. So he is right and your futile attempt to shift bad to mean evil, o girl, e no work.

RichBoy247:
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A married man can have another wife and many more wives just as our forefathers Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Job, Solomon who are indisputable men of God, but a married man should not be sleeping with other men’s wives like King David and other men’s wives too should not be sleeping around like the adulterous woman that Jesus rescued

See yourself? How can you put Isaac and then Job who God called perfect in that group eh?

Then for Abraham did you not see he sent the women away? Then Jacob's own was due to the trickery of Laban and not intentional at the beginning? For Moses, his wife had left him so his is a remarriage. Solomon of course fell out of God's favour and was rejected by God.

Dpsychologist:
“What goes around comes around.”

It sounds poetic. Balanced. Fair.

It tells us that life keeps score. That goodness is rewarded and wickedness punished. That the universe is quietly running a moral accounting system in the background.

But step outside motivational quotes and look at the real world. The idea collapses quickly.

Good people get blindsided by illness. Honest workers lose jobs. Loyal partners get cheated on. Corrupt politicians grow richer. Fraudsters build empires. Abusive men and women sometimes live long, comfortable lives.

If karma were automatic and mechanical, the world would look very different.

Let us separate emotion from logic.

The concept of karma comes from ancient Indian philosophy tied to reincarnation. In that system, consequences may unfold across lifetimes. Most people quoting “what goes around comes around” are not even referring to that framework. They mean something simpler. Be good and good things will happen to you soon. Be bad and punishment will follow quickly.

There is no evidence that life operates like that.

Now, here is where many people get confused.

There are consequences in life. But consequences are not cosmic revenge. They are patterns of cause and effect.

If you drink and drive repeatedly, your odds of crashing or being arrested increase.
If you train daily, your skill improves.
If you insult your boss, you risk being fired.

Those are probabilities tied to behavior.

That is not karma. That is cause and effect.

Karma suggests moral balance. Cause and effect describes risk, timing, and human systems.

The two are not the same.

Let us talk about relationships, since that is where this belief is heavily used.

We are told that if you treat someone well, they will treat you well in return. That loyalty guarantees loyalty. That kindness secures affection.

Anyone who has lived long enough knows this is not guaranteed.

People cheat on kind partners. People disrespect generous lovers. People leave stable relationships for chaos. On the flip side, some toxic individuals attract attention and admiration for years.

This does not mean being cruel is a winning strategy. It means human attraction is complex. It involves psychology, insecurity, confidence, timing, scarcity, social proof, emotional volatility. It is not a moral scoreboard.

Some individuals respond strongly to dominance. Others respond to warmth. Others respond to mystery. Reducing all of that to “good treatment equals good outcome” is childish thinking.

Another reason people cling to karma is emotional survival.

If someone betrays you, it hurts deeply. Saying “what goes around comes around” gives you relief. It restores a sense of justice. It helps you sleep.

But psychological comfort does not equal objective truth.

History proves this again and again.

Some criminals escape justice. Some innocent people are imprisoned. Some dictators die peacefully in luxury. Some hardworking people die unknown and broke.

Randomness exists. Timing exists. Luck exists. Power structures exist.

Pretending otherwise keeps you naive.

Now, let me be clear.

Rejecting karma does not mean embracing immorality.

It means understanding that the universe does not automatically reward you for being decent. Being ethical is a choice rooted in your values, reputation, long term strategy, and self respect. Not because the sky will strike your enemies for you.

If you live recklessly, patterns will catch up with you through probability and human systems. If you live wisely, your odds improve. But there are no guarantees.

Life is not a vending machine. Insert goodness. Receive blessing.

It is a chaotic mix of decisions, incentives, power, biology, economics, and chance.

The real danger of believing in automatic karma is passivity.

You may tolerate disrespect thinking the universe will fix it.
You may avoid strategic thinking because you believe justice is automatic.
You may refuse to protect yourself because you assume moral balance is inevitable.

It is not.

Justice requires systems. Reputation requires strategy. Success requires competence. Protection requires awareness.

Shit happens. That is not pessimism. It is realism.

The mature mindset is this:

1. Do good because it aligns with who you are and increases your long term odds.
2. Avoid harm because consequences are probabilistic, not magical.
3. Protect yourself because fairness is not guaranteed.
4. Stop waiting for cosmic revenge to fix your problems.

“What goes around comes around” is a beautiful sentence. I call it The Karma Comfort Blanket. It is just not a reliable operating system for real life.

I was expecting this piece from you.

Now as Ecclessiates says "because sentence for an eve ill work is not speedily executed,..." so now you have come to say what goes around comes around does not work

Because Justice takes its time does not mean it has been denied hence the law principle "Justice delayed is not Justice denied".

I have been long in this world to see that Justice comes for all no matter how long it takes and whatever form it chooses to present itself but surely it comes.

I just heard of the brutal unaliving of a friend's uncle who repeatedly reaped (shooked) her when she was little, living with him. How was he unalived? He was shooked repeatedly with an object while walking on the streets.

And immediately I heard it both of us looked at each other for we knew Justice had come for him even if it took 40 or so long years.

I can't even begin to go into my own personal experiences but you are not the first nor shall you be the last to wish Justice away however Justice comes for all, no matter how long it takes its time strolling down to you.

Rutherinspace:
This is a very faulty reasoning but I'm not surprised because it's regurgitated in different forms.

The claim that all men are “created” to cheat is not biology — it’s justification.

Yes, men can feel attraction to multiple women.
But attraction is not the same as action.

Human beings are not animals ruled by impulse. We have: Self-control, moral reasoning, and Empathy. The ability to choose long-term stability over short-term pleasure

If “natural desire” excused behavior, then anger would justify violence, and greed would justify theft. Society exists because adults control impulses.

Plenty of men feel attraction and still choose loyalty. That proves it is a decision, not a biological destiny.

The claim that faithful men are either extremely religious, or too poor/unattractive to cheat is insulting to men and tells a lot about your personality.

Many financially successful, attractive, socially powerful men remain faithful. Not because they lack options — but because they value integrity and emotional peace

I always say it loudly. The family defines society - if a man cannot keep to a simple commitment to a woman, how can the same man fulfill political promises to society?

In environments where men are praised for cheating, more will cheat.
In environments where integrity is respected, more men remain faithful.

This shows its cultural conditioning — not biological inevitability.

Behavior is shaped by upbringing, peer influence, and cultural norms. I have many male friends who are financially successful and stick with their wives. I tell everyone extra marital affairs is expensive and not worth it.

Please, let's reject such lazy, backward thinking in favor of accountability and open communication.

A good read: Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men

Wisdom has spoken through you.

franchasofficia:
If you are a man, I doubt you are financially buoyant and successful, until you attain that height, let's leave the discussion till then, have a great day and thanks for your attention to this matter

See, you have no reasonable counter to what he said for all that he has said is True.

Dtruthspeaker:
The guy na still wash God just help am there but hin don already go.

I know but I no dey like see bad thing dey happen and no come spoil the bad thing.

Dtruthspeaker:
Many things were truly wrong with her but because she had now grown to accept the the mons in her, she now knew that she must not connect with the guy as things will get very very bad for both of them. So, she has to run

Yeah I saw that but rather than concentrate on her issues, I addressed his, so he can have his peace back which she has taken away.

Saleslourd:
your story hits close man but here’s the thing – I wasn’t waiting because I didn’t see her, I just valued her more than rushing anything.

Or maybe If to say I chop inside matter for balance

You did nothing wrong.

You connected to her on a soul/deep level but not sexually. She saw it as something was wrong with her and locked up. Not your fault.

Now meeting you years later, she saw an opportunity to feel better about herself now that in her mind you now think her good enough to date.

It's nothing to beat yourself over, just understand and move on.

Before nko, what shall an oloshuure say na? Abegi, unto the next news.

APOSTLECHUMA:
BIBLE POINT, THERE IS NO BIBLE VERSE THAT SUPPORTS DIVORCE BASED ON ADULTERY AND MANY DONT KNOW THIS, [b]DIVORCE WAS ONLY APPROVED FOR THE CAUSE OF FORMICATION [/b]AND MANY DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. JESUS PREACHED FORGIVENESS IN MATTHEW 18 BEFORE MATTHEW 19 WHERE HE PREACHED ON MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE. WHAT THE PHARISEES HEARD FROM.HIM MADE THEM TO CONCLUDE THAT MARRIAGE WAS NOT WORTH ENTERING INTO BECAUSE JESUS DIDNT APPROVE DIVORCE THERE BASED ON ADULTERY BUT FOR FORNICATION AND A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN DONT COMMIT FORNICATION.

Awon fake apostles don drop quote.

As if you don't know that Jesus was referring to sexual immorality whether called Fornication in kjv or sexual immorality in esv and some other bibles.

Apostle wunnd you dia.

See them, awon native side òcùkòò don come thread. 2nd or 15th wife una no go see, na so so use and dump in dorty dump.

Diamond098454:
You are harsh on me
Why?

It's your conscience speaking to you for I have not said anything harsh.

Dtruthspeaker:
Now, my eyes move to Don Moen and my Hillsong people, Rueben Morgan, Darlene Zsech, Brooke Ligertwood, Joel Houston Nathaniel Bassey etc May they and we all who love God truly enter into the sweet rest of God as our brothers, Abraham, Isaac, Isreal, Moses, and now our dearly beloved brother, Ron has done, in Jesus Name

Amen!

Diamond098454:
Really? That's if I'm dating a married man abi?

You know already.

Diamond098454:
I'm not a sidechick

Your words even here stand against you, so surely the aforementioned shall surely befall you.

Diamond098454:
She shouldn't dare......

I see this happening to you

https://www.nairaland.com/8599351/wife-reportedly-kills-husband-girlfriend#138138455

Dtruthspeaker:
Your evil spirit that moves you to anti Christism has started moving you again. (Abeg, send message make the beast and the false prophet show make this world for end sharp sharp)

Only a Muslim cannot see the difference between "meet me" and "wait for The Holy Spirit".

This will make the forum more interesting for everyone

Dtruthspeaker:
Did I not say that you are the
human who believed in the diagram, and has argued on it and I answered back and in the end you could not counter?

it's over. You cannot reargument and relitigate a case you lost. So cry, cry.

I wonder what's up with these crying souls ooo. The other one was off pointer now this one wey be dettol abi na savlon sef thinks repeating a lost argument na way to go.

What a loser.

Dtruthspeaker:
Off Point.
Plus, you no get right to say I dey off point when e dey clear say you talk off point. And you still dey talk off point dey go ooo.


All these just means that this thread is rubbish as you have nothing valid or reasonable to say.

It's funny ooo. Off pointer dey complain of off point. I no fit laugh abeg.

Dtruthspeaker:
See F00olaring, expecting that when God becomes your enemy, good things would still happen to you.

No F00ole, it is destruction upon destruction upon destruction as long as forever can give that will be unto you, for that is the food and salary and Justice that we all demand and give to our enemies.

So, God is over over good, because He gives us, justice in destroying perpetually and continuously all our enemies as yew are, as when army taminete bandits and kidnappers

Amen and amen

tanigororo:
What you are referring to was the Jewish Law, except you are a Jew. Jesus happens to be a Jew not a Christian, Jesus never marry and never encourage marriage why marry when your founder didn't marry or establish marriage?

Did Jesus not say He did not come to destroy the Law? So the Law still stands.

And since the Law stands there is nothing more to be said or done. So Jesus does not need to say or do anything more for the Law which He expressly said He did not come to destroy has spoken already which is marriage is permitted.

And then to further seal it, did Jesus not repronounce the Law on marriage when asked by the Pharisees about Divorce?

Did He not say "He made them male and female and for this cause man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall be one flesh?"

See that even the Pharisees them knew marriage was allowed so they did not ask him if marriage is permitted but about if Divorce which takes place after marriage, is allowed. Thus effectively providing an opportunity for Jesus to restate the Law on marriages.

So all you have said is thrashed!

Then on Jesus marrying, this is the most stupendous thing I have heard.

Is He man? Is it not man that was made male and female? Is it not man that marriage was instituted for? Is it not for man that it was said a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall be one flesh?

So because Jesus came down from His place in heaven to become man for man's sake so therefore He should forget that even though he has taken up the clothing ( body) of man, he is still the Son of God sent from heaven and not man who He came to save?

He should go about marrying and forgetting Himself and His place like the sons of God who saw women and went in onto them right?

Wow what a mind. Like I said you people must be eating something that drains any iota of sense ha!

Bakrabas:
Are you saying that you know bible more than the pastors that married more than one wives Prophet Joseph Apata openly practice it as well as Joseph Smith (the founder of Latter-day Saints Movement)

So because they call themselves pastors they have more sense than you who even can read for himself and see that they are obviously the same people who Jesus had told us would come, false prophets/pastors.

This is stupendous!

tanigororo:
Where in your Bible does Jesus permit you to marry

Has God not already instituted marriage? So does Jesus need to permit was has already been permitted by God His Father?

What is going on today? The kind of things I am seeing in Nairaland these days makes me wonder if there is a special kind of feed people are feeding on that is removing sense from them ooo, ha!

Obakoolex:
Emancipate yourself from mental slavery.

If by your logic @ the bolded, the same thing applies to marrying the first time, does it mean you committed adultery before marrying

See big fall

We all know lust before marriage is fornication guy not adultery

Adultery comes in only after marriage.

michlins:
talking nonsense with pride. Has Christianity stopped anyone from marrying more than one wife and having side chicks?

No be something your pastors are practicing steadily and getting standing ovation from followers

See person talk!

When did Christianity allow one wife and side chicks eh?

And now because those people who call themselves pastors who of course we had already been warned that they shall be false prophets/pastors who shall come to lead people astray are doing it so there it is Christianity that has allowed it eh?

Some people need serious koboko to put some sense into them ooo

Diamond098454:
Congrats to him

Yes ooo. Let all the weeds uproot themselves by themselves o jare.