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StillDtruth:
This is Off Point, besides,
Did I say Catholic church told people to worship images? (Of which they even did as seen during your stations of the cross). But as I said this is not the issue.

I just wonder how you people do not Fear God! But anyway, your choice

Seriously!

In flagrant disobedience of the commandment to not make images of anything whether in the heavens ooo (this one catch their Mary wey dem go tell you say em dey heaven) or earth ooo or even water ooo.

Yet they do it rebelliously without fear ah.

Na God save me from that paganic and idolatry church.

jiggyman:
What does bible say about david who took someone's wife?
What does bible say about Jacob who tricked his brother?

David's own son slept with his wives!

And for Jacob he was tricked by Laban also!

So you see, wife for wife and trick for trick.

GeeksArc:
Hi Nairalander,

I need your advice. Apologies for the typos in advance. Every names mentioned here are also fictional.

So there is this Lady, Tayo that I was a good friend with, she's cool, attends the same church with me and I wanted us to date and possibly get married. I push for her to date me for 2 years but she didn't agree. It wasn't long before a childhood friend of mine introduced another Lady to me by the name Tolu. Tolu is very well brought up, and a good speaker and I thought other things will fall in place.

Tolu and I dated for a few months and then got married 6 months after. I know I made 2 mistakes, first, I married in haste (but can we really say 6 months is 'haste'), and secondly, I then took her to the church I was attending with my supposedly Cruch, I told Tolu about Tayo before she sees her in church.

The problem is that my wife and I always fight a lot, especially in relation to the Tayo girl. To the extent, Tayo and I don't even talk again, blocked Tayo on every channels and with time, forgot I once had feelings for her.
God bless us with a Baby boy and I recently got my wife a car to support her hustle and to help with her transport, especially with the Baby. I put her through driving school and got her a driver's license and then she started driving.

Sometimes last week, My wife had an accident with the car, the baby and the mother are safe, we just needed to fix one or two things on the car, less than a week after that, hot water poured on the baby boy while she was prepping the Boy food at the kitchen. By the way, the Baby is already 9 months old and you know, a baby boy, if not properly watched, will injure himself with anything they found their hands on. This is the case with our Baby, while my wife was prepping his food, he picked up the flask with hot water and it poured on himself. Thank God, it wasn't much and the Baby is recovering very fast.
A few days after the hot water incident, my wife was coming back from the Hospital where she want to do checkUp on the Baby, she later called me that the break of the car failed and that she managed to get home with the car. I called the Mechanic and he gave a testament to it that the car should not be taken out after he looked into it until we change whatever is damaged in it. We fix it and then he said it's okay to move with the car now.

Why am I bringing this story to this place...My wife and I had an argument yesterday, which was a Sunday, she claimed that Tayo is the one that is trying to kill her and the Baby. She was introduced to a Pastor that testify to the fact that somebody in our church is the one that is trying to do her harm. I do not take it easy with her and below are our chats on the subject.
Please guyz, note that I love my wife so much and I've moved past my past, but my wife will keep talking about sh*ts that are not real, and it's really hurting our family.
Please advise me based on the chats below, am I too harsh on her? should I leave the church because of her, where I have built good relationships and God is blessing me? or how can we just move forward without the past hunting us down again?

Matured minds suggestion alone.

I pity you ooooo.

You do not realize how deeeeeeeeep the heart of a woman is and now especially one that knows she is not your choice and that another woman beat her.

Now to make it worse, you even took her to the place of her loss which is to the woman to be seeing her in the name of your church.

Hmmmph, man you are playing with 💣.

As it is your baby boy is in danger and.......

Modified

It's even a 2022 post.

Diamond098454:
always easy to blame women for every thing

Because women truly are the starters and finishers of men.

And FYI I am a woman so stop the fake pity and tears that gullible men fall for.

You are deceeeivers and liars like your father!

jmoore:
Who dash monkey banana?

Nairaland no go kee person!


I was just about saying a true virgin no go come Nairaland dey announce am.

She obviously dey find market for awon marry virgin people. And as one of them you don sharperly come blow her market scatter all the kpangolo for inside.

Diamond098454:
I don't blame her it's not easy to resist pressure from this men, married men are too desperate and very stubborn they don't give up easily. If they want you hmmmm they will come for you with everything they have

She would have been more careful

You just dey yarn rob-bish!

Is she the 1st woman to be chased by stubborn married man?

Lies upon lies.

Women are the custodians of the V-kingdom.

No matter how stubborn any man is, it's a woman who ultimately decides who gets in or not.

eazzzy1:
Technically she didn’t date a married man. She married one. Being a side chick to a married man is different from a married man seeing a woman and telling her straight up - I want you to be my third wife.

Also, people grow up. Our perception of reality changes as we grow and we have to adapt to survive. It would be nice If everyone’s childhood dreams came true, but we do not live in an ideal world.

You are just doing what we call the mischief rule in Law!

We all got what she meant when she said she can never ever date a married man.

Meaning she would never ever be sleeping with any married man not to talk of marrying him.

Now that same person went ahead to marry a married man. Abegi, you no get anything wey you wan talk!

Dtruthspeaker:
Vdestro, you dey see confession?

To me, some sins cannot be forgiven whether the person confesses or not.

And the Truth is we all know this.

And that is why we see some people fast and pray and go to church throughout their whole lives, yet when it's time to die, they would be crying and begging people to pray for them

I 👀 am ooo!

But of course.

Case in point is my mother who has prayed till her knees got black but even she knows it's a nullity.

She even fears sleeping for fear she dies in her sleep. Infact she no longer goes out of her house make something no happen to am for outside.

Real life Final Destination taking place with her!

Dtruthspeaker:
Thinking about it, the word "cheating" does not adequately capture the gravity and weight of that offence and sin.

Looking at it, there isn't anyone who has been... (wetin I go call am now?), let me say defrauded (dis one is even heavier but I don't think it is there yet) deceived, (ehhn, can it be better?) ehen, betrayed!!!

Looking at it there isn't anyone who has been betrayed by their partner, who did not feel that, that act was very very heavy to be captured by the ordinary and simple word called "cheating".

Cheating is for smaller things like "I gave you my biscuit but now you din give me your own now that it is your turn". That is cheating.

I gave you #10k, 7k, 4k but just for you to give me 2k, out of the 50k you just go bgab from someone's hand, you are saying No! That is cheating.

But when your partner goes kissing another person, that is not cheating; it is Betrayal.

When your partner leaves your car to enter a friend's nicer car, that is not cheating; it is Betrayal.

When your partner leaves you at home or in the office to go to the club, that is not cheating; it is Betrayal.

When your partner let's another person touch, press, schmooze and grind their body, that is not cheating; it is Betrayal.

But when your partner goes sexually riding and mining another guy or sexually digging and mining another woman, that is not cheating; it is not even Betrayal.

It is something else.

... I don't know the word but it feels more like murder.

Processing, processing processing....

Final decision, it is Murder! The person who did this thing has just murdered someone.

Ah! You are very right. I have been thinking about it too. This just captures exactly how it feels

Primers:
When I was single, I bought a piece of land and gave my mother, the documents to keep for me. I later built a house on that land. After I got married, I asked her to return the documents, but she told me the property now belongs to her simply because I am married. In other words, she said that everything I owned before marriage no longer belongs to me but to her. My siblings also support her decision.

The most senior member of our family has called them several times, instructing them to return my documents and property, but they have refused to listen. I am confused and don’t know what to do. How can I reclaim my property?

This one you are sounding weak to go jack mama to give you your documents osiso, hmmm mama obviously has detty detty on you and can get you sacked from your husband's house!

Kpele for who im mama get all in secret for 🫴

DiarisGodoo:
YESSS!!!
A child can be born gay!
A child can be born whereby the predorminant hormones do NOT correspond to the sex organ!
If you're born with a vagina but full of testosterone you are practically a man that lacks a pennis!

Repeating yourself is not a counter .

It is proof you have lost. Shikena!

DiarisGodoo:
OKaay, I thought they were both Max.
The issue is WHETHER SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS A CHOICE!!!
Can you decide to be sexually attracted to big muscular men as most girls are?

Wrong!

The issue is whether a person is born gay which you are not able to counter

So your attempt to shift post is proof you can not counter. Shikena!

DiarisGodoo:
AI simply quoted the Bible. See it again below.
Forget about me, forget about AI. You were asked to READ John and Revelation (or Revelations as you'd say😅) YOURSELF and come to YOUR OWN honest conclusion privately in your own heart without having it be an argument with anybody.

Now your brain don confuse me and max come join dem together

DiarisGodoo:
As for gays, can you please tell us at what point you DECIDED to be sexually attracted to women instead of men?

Change of Post!

The issue is not about me deciding to be attracted but about being born gay but as you cannot counter that fact, you have moved to me and my decision which is not in issue!

DiarisGodoo:
Read the below carefully

So because AI said it, so therefore it is true!

O maase ooo!

As I said swallowing everything you hear without thought!

Thank God I was born way before Google became a thing here, because guys are very gullible.

Truth is as seen even in nature and does not depend on AI or any so called scientific research as even this can be tweaked to support a lie.

And the truth is as seen even in babies, that no one is born gay. It is a sexual choice or orientation as they tend to call it and even the word orientation tells you.

For orientation is the the act of positioning oneself or something in relation to a specific direction. Therefore sexual orientation is act of positioning yourself in relation to a specific sexual direction.

And of course it is not babies who can do this sexual orientation. It takes thought and decision (Choice).

And as you confessed to someone here, a young child does not have sexual orientation, how then can a baby have ehn?

DiarisGodoo:
So how do you account for people born gay?

So they were born with a stamp bearing "gay" on them, abi?

Some of you hear rubbish and just swallow it waaa, you don't even bother to think on it.

This is even beside the fact that gender which is male and female is what every one is born with naturally.

No one is born gay as gay has got nothing to do with being born but rather, a person's sexual choice!

blacksam01:
Just for the advancement of science...

Can you volunteer your dead body through your will to a medical research institute for medical research..?

No!

Delegatus non potest delegare. Consequently I can not give that which is not mine!

Na wa

fyneboi79:
Is it then easy to understand a woman? NO!!

No one said it is but it's good you have seen some of the things I said. So I am just trying to shed more light on it.

Dtruthspeaker:
Ha, he should be upset oo. Maybe it would make him more alert and sensitive.

You are right.

I just do not want him running into straight out bias rather than studying and seeing things for himself.

fyneboi79:
Na you sabi....

This is not socially decorous. Ah Ah!

fyneboi79:
This is scary and deep because I have noticed this cold hearted behaviour with women even in close family settings. Honestly speaking I can't genuinely love a woman anymore, I'm just trying to remain biologically balanced by nature.

Oh oo, I know all men have noticed this.

No woman should upset your balance.

The point is to understand them so you know who you are dealing with and how best to guide yourself with them

fyneboi79:
Fair enough, but you should activate the "f" symbol. Seun put it there for a very good reason of social decorum observation.

That's not the issue here but that you asked why I, a female was here and I have answered you.

ststyreal:
never heard about any woman created first except Eve, which God himself made from Adams ribs, though, I stand to be corrected with proves from the Bible....

See he gave no proof from the Bible as you asked. Just repeating the rubbish.

Pascopele:
Only a fool becomes a second wife. Your destiny is too important to be number 2. Stop marrying another woman's husband!

She's is not only a fool but a failure! She has failed as a woman.

For it is proof that she is not good to be wifed and does not qualify to be married. So she goes about announcing her failure in saying she is a second wife.

She is nothing but an afterthought! What a failure!

HenryWilliams:
Ogbeni..
Get educated.
Adam had a first wife called Lilith made of earth.. She left Adam and God made Eve from Adam's rib..

No be only Lilith na Lilian. The way you people swallow anything sold to you eh!

And she even asked for proof from the Bible yet you dey spin rubbish without the proof asked for.

fyneboi79:

So what are you doing here?

Answering your questions!

fyneboi79:
Bros rest na..I don't understand your point.

Lol! I am female

fyneboi79:
Hmm...words of wisdom.

What a pity!

SpencerForbes:
You’re trying hard to change my way of thinking to make ladies sound mysterious but I only treat them as adult babie😂

Punish who needs to be punished and reward who needs to be rewarded🍹
🚶‍♂️

Lol! As I said before, I understand.

SpencerForbes:
I like the fact you’re trying to make a lady sound scary and mysterious but I’m very sure they aren’t. All they need is a little twitch and you’ve gotten them. If she’s emotionally connected to you, even if you aren’t her bf, you have a high chance of you can play your game well.

That’s where the term “you used me” is from. Just play your cards well and you’ll be above their game. Yes women are very manipulative but they always bend their rules for men they love. If she loves you, she’ll want intimacy but if she doesn’t, your touch irritates her🍹
🚶‍♂️

I laugh once again but I understand it's too much and hard to swallow so I understand you can't take it.