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LedRock:
You sound like an agbero.

I think like an agbero to deal with agberos like you.

No agbero deserves a good lady.

Settle for ratchets.

It is better to be married to a rich old man than to be a baby mama to a worthless broke negroe that cannot tell his left from his right.

Regina, safe delivery to you in obodo oyibo.

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

[s]We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.[/s]

First, negroes convinced you African women to have sex with them before they wife you. Now negroes just want you to birth for them. Meanwhile, one kobo, your waste of space boyfriend has not given you to show he can be a responsible father.

When will you realise that the enemy you have been sleeping with is there to ruin your life?He has no home training and good values- nothing! I am sure he is one 35 year old agbero looking creature who is about to become a fool at 40.

Let me tell you something about this your blind bat boyfriend. By the time he is in his 50's and suffering from erectile dysfunction, nobody will tell him to go and get married. He will go and get one girl like Regina Daniels to wife. All his money, he will spend on her whether she is faithful to him or not. While you will be there struggling to pay your last child's school fees. You better don't fall into that trap!

Ignore all the miscreants with no future here telling you to listen to that fool you call your useless boyfriend.

Dump him fast and move on with your life. Let him go and meet all those ratchet broke jezebels that will deal with him mercilessly.

You have been warned!

Ah ah! Just two years??

No no no...

They must must appeal the case again.

Leave people and their stone age mentality. It's them that birth the criminals you see on the streets.

At 18, your mates abroad are living alone and inventing stuff. Do you think they are at the level they are in because they listened to folks with backward mentality?

The only thing I will advice you to do is stay away from agbero negroes. Make friends with decent people...male and female.

The day women come together, stop seeing themselves as weaklings and dishing out what they get back to back, that is when all these rubbish will end.

The problem of women is the same as the problem of black people. They both have wired their brains upside down with hate and inferiority complex.

Until they rewire it, woe betide them.

Death to all rapists!!!

Akpan01:
This Rape case is always in favour of the Feminine gender.
Most times, we don't hear their names mentioned and the names of the Guys involved ends up being mentioned and assassinated.

The Truth is; No decently dressed and behaved Lady or Girl gets raped.

Pls., Our Government, the way out is to address the Root cause(indecent dressing), as well as indecent outtings. Not the remote cause( One person is minor, the other is matured) nor the immediate cause(Rapings.)

Naturally, Our Ladies are unregistered harlots mostly dressed in Skirts, bum-shorts( some na bomb) and some sexually revealing trousers.

Come to think of it; How many rape case have we recorded in the Northern part of this Country?

If not, the scripture of Isaiah 4:1 is getting to be fulfilled soonest than any other time. Mark my words.

So what is the cause of males getting raped? Indecent dressing?
Toddlers nko? Indecent dressing?

Did you really sit down and think hard and deep before typing this rubbish?

You and this creature below have something in common.

Demented rapist. Let's catch you first.

Black man, it this the only barbaric invention your brains can cook up? Rape?

Your women are becoming really tired of you people.

Nigsrdumb:
We are on the same team. Don't even know why you're arguing with me


I agree!!


And yes bleaching is part of the problem.

No need to reply. Adiós

Call a spade, a spade.

Bleaching is not the cause of these killings. Not even close. Neither is stopping it an automatic solution.
What I have discovered with black people is that they love misplaced priorities because it is easier for them to crack their brains over than the real solution itself.
India is another country that promotes skin bleaching far worse than Africa. Yet, blacks are still the ones bearing the brunt. What does that tell you?

justli:
You can print those images, hang them in your living room and bury yourself in hate, or you can move on and put slavery behind you. The world has moved on.

Even Jews they were gased in their millions have moved on. They don't look at Germans today and see Hitler.

They need to move on for a better tomorrow.

Perhaps we need to concentrate on helping the blacks find morals and substance again.

By teaching their children to stay out of thuggery,
By forcing the kids to finish high school and by extension, college

By refraining from aborting the future generations in the name of my body my choice,

By understanding that the black child needs a father figure in his life to guide his character development.

These are the real issues plaguing the black communities and when they fix this, their lives will begin to mattet

The question is whether or not bleaching is the cause of all these killings and you are here talking about hanging pictures on the wall.
Did you read to understand the reason of the arguement before deciding to spew your epistle?

Fraud matter aside, when you are in obodo oyibo, lock up and make friends with white people there.

Stop contacting folks down here and asking what's up cause they will definitely ask you for something....and the next thing you will do is nag about how they always want something from you. Don't friends help each other out?

Every negroe's dream girl.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

It shouldn't have resorted to a quarrel. It just shows how shallow the foundation of their relationship is like many other sham situationships.

Every relationship is different.

Nigsrdumb:
So they should bleach. What has bleaching got to do with killing a black skinned negro?

I agree with you, but everything is connected.

The bleaching is part of d problem. We don't like ourselves.

We hate who we are . period

We are talking about black lives matter because a white man killed a negroe aren't we?

But have you realised that the treatment blacks get is similar to the treatment given by fellow blacks.

Now, tell me how bleaching caused any of these and how it solves anything.

I can bet that your ex is one agbero like that.
Next time, don't just follow any negroe just because he wears trouser. Some are just animals in human form.

Nigsrdumb:
No , but bleaching reflects self hatred. Who are you trying to look like?

I won't even touchy the health risks and how ugly bleached blacks look.�

Misplaced priorities.
A dark skinned negroe was killed like a chicken. You are here talking about bleaching.
Use your brain this time.

Tell me, did bleaching cause unfortunate killings like these that has lingered for decades?

Use your brain this time.

Nigsrdumb:
They're also self hating chinkos.

They copy oyinbos and aspire to be like them

Only difference is they also copy the technology, in our case all we copy is rubbish.

Na.. u think again

Answer the question ..do you see anyone pinning them to the ground?

What has black lives matter got to do with bleaching?

Is George Floyd 6 feet under because of bleaching?

Use your head this time

Nigsrdumb:
Your argument about blacks oppressing bkacks. Check


Your counter argument about bleaching.

Irrelevant.


We need a self aware population who are proud to be black.

Bleaching reflects deep self hatred.

What about some parts of Asia like china and North Korea who have resorted to plastic surgery to alter their looks, do they do it out of self hate?

Has anyone pinned any of them to the ground to death?

If you like, rub vaseline under the sun so your black skin reflects everywhere, it still would not stop anyone from pinning you to the ground if they want to. And when I say anyone, I mean both whites and your fellow black males.

Use your head, bleaching is not the reason George Floyd was killed.

Try again.

Congrats.

Nigsrdumb:
Which bleaching cream do u use.
E pain am.

Use your head and think deep. If you are waiting for the white man to value you simply because you have and maintain your black skin, then you need to be recolonised once more.

Mumu talk.

Look inwards and see if your fellow black man values human life.

You are here talking about bleaching creams. Are skin bleachers viewed as whites in obodo oyibo? Or can't you see that mixed breeds are also seen as blacks over there?

You need to bleach your brain to think clearly.

Any thing you know that will kill a rapist, please tie it around your waist.

Any time a woman wants to come and change things in this sh1t hole, they will not last long. Only madam kudirat and dora of nafdac did well for their country but the two are six feet under.

No sincere female wants to come forward. Only jezebels are in power now and that's how negroes like them.

Tueh!!!

" Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments".

One thing I deduced from this your write up is that you are both Muslims and have been fornicating like other people you criticise.

Good thing you pointed that out.

You say you are no longer inlove with her as before because she got desperate and bla bla bla. You should have just put your foot down and moved on.

This marriage won't be the same again. No such thing as unconditional love...I keep telling people this.

Death to all yahoo ritualists!!!!!

greggng:
How much is full eye exam and were can you recommend for me ....I see things far away than things that are closer....sometimes my eye go red like person Wey the smoke weed

You are long sighted. Go and get your eyes examined to get the right glasses.

grossintel:
You're short sighted but looks like you have Glaucoma too. I have the same problem but it's nothing not something to worry about.

He doesn't have glaucoma. He sees things that are close clearly. He is just nearsighted.

Tintedladybeer:
Good evening house,

Nairaland has helped lots of people find solution to their problem, I hope I'm as lucky as others.

Over the last couple of years I noticed my vision declining everyday.
I think I started taking notice of it more when I was In 100l, if I don't sit right in front of the class, I don't see whatever is written on the board.

I have gone to the hospital where they were just interested in selling recommended glass which I have used up till now that I have graduated but no visible improvement.

It is so bad that I don't see subtitles when watching movies on TV.

Many times, people pass and wave at me from afar and I will see the person waving but the face will be blurry.

But when reading, I don't use glasses because I can see very well no matter how Tiny the writing may be.

You are near sighted. Go to the eye clinic and get your glasses. Why are you afraid of them?

Good bye, handsome legend.

Oyibo people are coming for you. And you better accept their proposal because nizoorian leaders have no plan for you.

Na wa o. Which kind boyfriend be that one?

Dull thing. Manage him till you find someone better. Sorry o.

On second thought, I hope you are not sleeping with him? Some negroes are in fake relationships just for that. They are not interested in deep conversations with you....just sex.

Be careful.