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[quote author=giselle237 post=135853792]Not needed!
No one will give her COS based on HCA course, not in this time when folks in the UK are looking wnd scrambling for COS. No one will employ her from Nigeria for Care work during this time. [/quote

Thanks for your response. Do you know if it can fly for canada PR?. I know this is not a canada group. I'm just seeking for information before i commit financially.

Thank you🙏🏾

Hello House.

Please i need help with information.

My sister is about to pay for healthcare assistant course but i don't know the prospect of getting caregiver job with it in UK.

I don't know if UK is still accepting caregiver job even. And I don't know jow to go about the process if UK is still accepting Care giver job.

Please guys guide me 🤲🏾..abeg

Starzo:
Why must I tolerate childish behavior from another adult just to prove I'm a man?

E be like say na children you dey deal with. Matured and sensible ladies who won't stress you senselessly are out there. Only thing is they're very few

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Marry your age or close to your age then.

You cant marry or date someone 10 years or more younger than you and expect maturity. She will definitely behave her age..

If you don't want stress, date someone close to your age.

Shalom!

dmgr:
A better advice would be for girls to close their legs, or better still insist the guy wears a condom or no sezx, or they can opt for other contraceptive methods.

This particular advice is even the most important one, girls should know the type of men they open their legs for. Most of this women complaining of their baby daddies not being responsible knew that this men weren't responsible in the first place, but they still chose to spread their legs wide open and got banged raw to the extent of getting pregnant.

These same set of women who made wrong choices will come out and say men are useless and inresponsible, where's they were the ones who dated and got impregnated by the so called inresponsible men.

You'll should understand that women are the gate keepers of sex and at the same bears the most of the burden associated with the consequences of unprotected sex.

Yea your advice is not out of place..
But to achievement that, society has a role to play in ways both genders are being brought up.
Boys are left to rummage from small and have learnt some street skills that they use to confuse these girls. Skills like love bombing and all.
To an inexperienced girl, he will misjudge that as caring guy where as the guy was only doing that for the end goal.

Some of these guys can go as far as meeting your folks, paying your bride price just to get you to open the legs and leaving you with the consequences as soon as that happens..

You see, these men have knowledge passed doen from generations before them on how to get pass women barrier no matter who..

Some will start forming nice guy and attending church and preaching the word of God in bus just to convince the girl that he is genuine... All na to bang her...

You see there really isn't an easy way to go about the female child not opening their legs. Cos i bet you, many girls in this situation consider whether the guy is a good guy before such happens.

To digress, i pointed out this solution to stop this baby mama menace because the thread was about when the lady is already pregnant.

So sorry it took a while to reply you. Nairaland is kinda toxic and i try to limit my daily doses of its toxicity.

Shalom

Goodlady:
The best solution is to not sleep with who you can't marry. You men don't know it is not good for children to have single parents. Why not withhold your sexual urges.

Is because those single mothers don't locate the sperm donors and drop the child for him to cater..

Immediately this practice is on the rise, this shame of single mother and talk of bad character when belle enter go stop

Men go dey learn to care for their reproductive health and not sleep around with person they are sure not to marry..

I repeat, Single Mothers after giving birth to that baby, Locate the child sperm donor, drop the baby with the sperm donor and change location..

When many starts doing this, this evil menace will reduce drastically.

delzbaba:
some men are brutal in there expression of love and anger, why would you batter someone you love like this? when you went for the introduction and traditional wedding, what were the warnings you were given? after marrying her now you have turned her into a punching bag

The girl in question no get brothers or family support?... You just hire boys for the husband, give am his own beating. Next time he can never try this in his lifetime

Sha, this can never happen to any of my siblings cos me alone go arrange niggaz that will comot that him teeth, give am wound he go take dey remember the beating...

Sha! It can never be me

saxwizard:
Congratulations
I am still at my own since April

I am fed up at this point

Thank you. Please dont relent. If possible asks them to know the problem and try to rectify from your end

saxwizard:
They said 31 days on their website.

Its worthy to share that they are done with the evaluation. They finished and send my unofficial copy on my page on 2nd October. They also shipped my own hard copy on that same day.

saxwizard:
They said 31 days on their website.

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Thanks for your comment. They have given me estimated date of 25th october.

Lets hope there won't be any hiccup on the road.
This means it takes WES around 2 months or more from the date you sent your transcript to your evaluation.

Is this the stage that it takes 7 days for the wes to complete evaluation?

saxwizard:
You are not alone. And I think WES is not saying the truth.

I think they a whole lot of documents to verify. There support portal is trash

Best place to reach them aside call is
twitter

Thank you for this advice. I escalated the problem using Twitter and emails. Status is now showing we are analyzing and evaluating your documents. Please you have an idea how long this stage should take so as to know when to escalate if it's taking longer than it should.

They didn't five me time line for this stage..o.
WES really tire me. I'm regretting using this service

saxwizard:
You are not alone. And I think WES is not saying the truth.

I think they a whole lot of documents to verify. There support portal is trash

Best place to reach them aside call is twitter

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Thank you for this advice. I escalated the problem using Twitter and emails. Status is now showing we are analyzing and evaluating your documents. Please you have an idea how long this stage should take so as to know when to escalate if it's taking longer than it should.

They didn't five me time line for this stage..o.
WES really tire me. I'm regretting using this service

Hello and good day guys.

I have a problem with my Wes and i don't know how to solve it.
I started wes since 31th of last month and I'm still at verification of documents almost a month later

My school, Uniport said they have verified the transcript wes sent to them and has sent them back to them. Wes is saying they are yet to receive my documents even after sending emails to Wes. Their reply is that my school is yet to send any documents.
I'm at cross road here and i Don't have much time. How do I solve this problem.

Also the soft copy of my degree cert, i scanned and sent to wes, its still showing awaiting verification.

deri4luv1:
Hey pharm, I’ve done the process, Currently on EOI stage , you can send me a message on here or on whatsapp, I can assist you. 080625817-59

Thanks alot. Ive chatted you up on. WhatsApp

Please i have B.Pharm degree with 3 years of work experience post NYSC

Please where can i begin?. The information is so overwhelming.i need someone that can point me to the right direction.thank you

How can you skip Red colour?🙄🙄

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

Not even upto a year of marriage, you don dey cheat😒😒.

This shows that you are among people that did all those mean babe and side babe plus extras by the side.. what do Nairaland call these people again?. Alpha pill abi red males.

Anyway, you have seen the reason for self control. You never learnt self control while you were single and in relationship now you are married, you don dey mess up.

Young men and Women please and please learn self control. Forget all these slogans of people from trouble home designed to scatter your life. If you want to go far in life, learn and practice self control in all sexual matters. Learn to respect yourself and all institute of relationship.

Oh! You seeked for an advice.
First advice is to go learn what you should have learnt before you say i do; Self Control.
Then you get your woman back. Plead...o, cry..o, mention devil name but gain her back.

But to win back your wife trust, your marriage to last and to avoid the mistake not to repeat again go learn and practice self control. Put up some boundaries.

My two cents✌🏾

29Ade07:
This is the link

https:///GgsS4VACurk9L3BjSLZzP8

It saying the site can not be reached, check if there is a typo in the link

29Ade07:
House, can you please check if you can updare your PTDF application? Someone reportedly lay claim to such in a whatsapp group.

Please can you add me to the WhatsApp group for ptdf?. Send me an email let me send my WhatsApp details.

Thank you

Goood for Mr Lecturer

taiwohassan738:
Please have you received interview invitation from ptdf?

I don't think they've started sending out their invitation but i may be wrong though

Drahl:
The advice you got pertaining the deposit required is valid. In addition, apply to multiple schools. It is imperative to send your official transcript( although some schools accept student copy) so you can get an unconditional offer.
My advice: start processing your transcript because you will always need it, if not for ptdf, but for other scholarship opportunities.

I have my student transcript but i dont know why they are requesting for transcript again, they didn't specify the one they want whether its official copy.

While applying, i uploaded my student cooy transcript. I think i have to email them to understand their view point.

But if peradventure they are requesting th official copy, what should i do since ptdf is yet to invite for interview?.

Thanks for backing up exportngr advice, it gave me confidence. I appreciate

ExpertNLer:
Don't pay the fees, tell the university that you are awaiting a decision on the scholarship as you cannot afford the fees

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Thank you for the fast response.

Im equally asked to send my transcript ( i guess its official transcript)..

When do you think i should start processing it aince I'm yet to know my fate?

Hello house.

Please any benefactor of Ptdf here or anybody that have operational knowledge of Ptdf scholarship?...

I applied to ptdf scholarship this year and i equally applied to th school i choose in my application.

The university has given me a conditional offer to pay 2000 pounds by the end of May and ptdf hasn't even shortlisted for interview yet.

Please how can i handle this scenerio?

If you ever encountered this problem before, please what did you do to resolve it?.

I plan to email the school tomorrow but i just want to have w contingency plan if the plead did work out.

Thank you for the anticipated response

Hello guys i need help and advice.

The University i chose for the ptef scholarship just offered me an admission but im required to pay 2000pounds by end of May and i dont know what to do.

I applied to Ptdf because i know i cannot afford the fees, now I'm told to pay 2000pounds to secure the admission. Please house what should i do?.

Im thinking of writing to the school but for now my mind isn't settled. I really hope they should consider

ChizzyBuna:
Love is truly BLIND

Cuz which kind weed was this young good looking, hard working man smoking when he married a retired Olosho with serious low self esteem and insecurities

Sometimes I look at the type of women guys are settlling with and it makes me understand that having money and having master degree does not mean that you have sense.

Because how can a well good looking man
marry a Retired Olosho General

Look at the foolish woman puting the man in spotlight like that...

I swear, some men are very stupid when it comes to marrying the right woman.

Says a man that just finish begging ashawo at ashawo joint to collect 500H from him hand, say na his last card😂😂.

Young men please don't listen to this handle, his ways are duplicitous and his opinions fallacy!. Dont follow his advice lest he leads you to problems and regrets in life.

Shalom

Nicenancy:
So this girl in my husband's workplace has nicknamed him 'Odogwu' for no reason

What does it mean
And what could she be implying

The nick name is an endearing one, so read meaning to it how you deem fit.

I once gave someone Odogwu lovins.

It may be something and it may be nothing but don't rule out investigation. You never can tell what you will find.

Before you go digging, be sure you can handle the truth whether good or bad. Happy and stable home i pray for thee.

Freshtruth:
Trailer death and fire death which one worst pass?

Fire. This is coming from someone that had close ones died of fire incident

Drahl:
July

Ok. Thank you

rrkk:
I choose schools that do not require English tests. I think you should apply now(That is what I am doing) since the school applications have deadlines. You might have to write the IELTS.

Hello i sent you an Email lets connect and team up. Are you on any WhatsApp group for the scholarship?.

Drahl:
There is no issue. The most important thing are the documents you present on the day of the interview. You get extra points for professional membership.

Please what's the timeline for shortlisting people for interview?..

When should we expect the interview now the application has come to a close

Hello house.

Please i have a question, when its the right time to apply to schools for admission?

Now? Or when you are invited for interview? Or after you've got the scholarship?

One of the schools i chose for the scholarship demands IELTS; University of Birmingham.

I don't have the IELTS and I only would write it when I'm sure i have the scholarship as such I'm at cross roads.

Please your help and advice is needed..

Thank you