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Lowoa:
We are in the same shoe. Used 4PX Express shipping. No phone, no refund. August 22, 2020

Finally, it seems August orders get plenty problems....

My too was August order( phone) but was later refunded....

Though still waiting for the phone.
I promised the seller, I will refund the money if phone arrives....

He even said, I should refund 80% of the phone money

Kingjay007:
Easy.. Quora, WhatsApp and Chrome.

Showoff...
Who tell you say the question dey difficult?

Uniquekriss:
Something to worry about. With time her respect for you as her husband will fade considering many factors other than her seniority, she's independent too. Bros u no go get say, u also may at some point lose courage to confront certain issues around her.

African men and their scare of independent ladies. Low self esteem always written all over them.

OP choose, who do you prefer, independent lady or dependent lady that can't even think for her self?

As for her age, I don't see a problem there. You guys are practically age mates and I can't see anybody including your family faulting that...

Kosoco:
They are getting ripe.... Pls allow Poor man Son Marry them where Dey are grown so that the whole thing will go round it must not be Indimi’s Dangote’s Otedola’s Give hope to young poor boys

No go hustle..
Dey look for rich man pikin wet you go marry to make am for life.

baralatie:
you said likely but the way the op described it has nothing to do with depression.
she is not even 40 to 50 years where this condition are apparent in women.
she is 28 years old.
this is a classic learned behaviour not a medical one

I said POST PARTUM depression.

How old is your son?

Anyway start by eliminating any medical reason that could cause this problem like post- partum depression. Its really common than we Africans want to admit. It can make someone loath her loved ones.

Since its her first pregnancy, its most likely she is going through post- partum depression.

Try and make her communicate how she feels after the delivery of your son. Then help her work through it.
She may not even know she is suffering from it and all the may know is that there are a lot of emotions going through her mind that make her act out and maybe reflect it in object she may thought is the cause.

Meanwhile, as this problem is being tackled, if you are out of shape lately, its time to hit that gym.

All the best in your marriage.
Shalom!

peterincredible:
Yea got a message from post office to come pickup my kz zsn pro earphone am so happy

Wow so 2 of your august items have arrived?.
What about the phone?.

Anyway the phone seller kept to his word and applied for refund for me so the refund is processing.

Meanwhile I received a call from my post office that the phone pouch has arrived...

Hoping the phone will arrive soon soon enough so that I will refund both the phone case and the phone their money

peterincredible:
haventh uu opened dispute

I have..o
Hopefully I will be refunded..

Maybe buy new phone or wait for the phone to arrive. I've decided to wait till the end of November, if the phone doesn't arrive I will buy new phone

Meister:
It's been more than 3 months, have you opened dispute ?

Yes I have, the dispute for the phone was rejected while the case was refunded.
The seller of the phone want to request dispute on my behalf,na until I see money.. Though s/he is saying that I will pay back 80% of the money if I later receive the phone of which I accept, but the problem is when will the phone come.

The phone I'm using is now getting worse and I need a phone replacement ASAP. What if I buy phone and the phone arrives, what if I didn't by February the phone never arrive.....

That's the dilemma I'm facing..

Androlee:
I'm old Ali shopper and I will glad to be of help here, I've been following this thread for couple of weeks now and I just want to be part of it.

To avoid unnecessary delay on your parcel, always use Ali standard shipping, most of my items do arrives to Nigeria in 12 days after dispatched to oversea , sometimes 15 days and I do receive them in my local po in 3-5 days after,
I will share some screenshots of my recent items which I have successfully received but it may not indicate on the tracking status that your items parcel has been delivered, but who cares since you've gotten your parcel, some do delay longer than expected though, but the chance is slim compare to others, unless if you want to spend a lot on DHL or UPS

PEACE✌️

Mine still Aug 11. Despatched to overseas NG.
Most site cant track it again.

ceaser:
Now go thru this conversation I finalized with this useless seller just yesterday - the case I talked about couple of posts back. I hope it will be legible enough.

When I threatened to open dispute because the tracking number seems not to "exist" according to tracking, he did not argue with me at all. In fact, he agreed that I open the dispute while I now place a new order and this time they send it thru Singapore post.

What the nonsense guy thinks I do not know is that he has increased the item price to 20k up from the 14k I purchased it two weeks ago in preparation for his 11/11 fake "price crash".

Meanwhile, I used out of the precious 100 USD monthly limit of my card to buy this and now it is wasted and simply returning the money will not buy me back that monthly opportunity lost. I would have better spent it on a more serious seller.

Some sellers can be dubious but I don't think that was my case.
I mean, it didn't take long for my seller to ship my product and the info was correct when tracked up until recently when that "caveat"was added to my tracking info.

AdexAyanfe:
shipping ain't as usual as before . I do receive my orders in ilorin within 20-25 days after I placed an order, but now 83 days, I placed this order on August 4 and till now, I never see my order. The seller added extra 40days protection period so that I won't be able to access "open dispute"... everything ain't encouraging presently shebi yours is just 30days..lol check mine

The feeling is mutual bro.
Aug 3rd here. Luckily my BP isn't extended.

ceaser:
That your seller did not ship your item in the first instance. That's what I am led to believe. They do it a lot and it is only in cases of regular shipping that genuinely shipped items get lost in transit. Big time logistics do not usually lose items like that.

There is this one that marked my item as shipped since 12 days ago using DHL. Up till now, tracking using the number he provided is only showing "this number is not on the system".

I knew from day one his hesistation to ship the item that I paid for when he began to tell me that I may have to pay more before he ships it to which I snapped back at him not to tell me that nonsense. I wanted to at once close/cancel the order citing reasons for doing so as "seller increased the price of item", but before I could do that 12 hrs later, I noticed that the item was "shipped". I have sensed foul play ever since then. I wanna wait for 14 days post-shipping before filing for trade dispute.

At this point, I want my money. I'm tired, how I wish they pay customers for wasted time, I would've slammed the seller 3 months of time wastage.

Anyway, on the bright side, there is hope of getting my cash back while I still follow up the phone matter because the seller really no waste time ship am and it was tracked till it reached depatched to overseas NG, before the tracking started getting funny.

peterincredible:
even if the seller didnt extend it i will tell the seller to extend it i was just suprise he did it with telling me first.
And as for the parcel being stolen i dont think so because i just saw another moniker here who bought redmi 8a from the same seller "hong kong goldway" during august and she also hasnt recieved her goods

Ok

peterincredible:
Just imagine the order i made 4th of august remaining 10 days for bp to expire then the seller added 1 more month to it without my knowledge just imagine

Sorry..o
What would you do about it?.
Any way, I chatted up my seller concerning that tracking info I got from universal parcel, he agreed to refund while blaming it on that my parcel may have been lost.
S/he said I should open dispute and click on lack of tracking info after 10 days.

We shall overcome this.

peterincredible:
babe take your mind off it and wait because i believe the waiting has been multiplied by 3 bcause of the youth and end sarz protest so for your own sanity sake when the bp expires open a dispute to get a refund and then when the phone eventally gets to you then you pay the seller back

OK.

Meister:
What's track 24 showing ?

Despatched to overseas (NG) since 11th of Aug 2020

When I track my phone these past few days using universal parcel tracking, it keeps showing; this is the final status,the carrier doesn't provide further tracking update.

I shipped the phone through AESS on 3Aug. Please what does that tracking info means and how do I go about it?

peterincredible:
Went to the post office for my parcel i was expecting my phone but instead for the phone to arrive it was the phone screen protector that arrive and i bought the phone a month before i bought the screen i was just angry and the most annoying thing is that the screen is already broken when i open it i just went to work this morning with anger

Sorry

peterincredible:
am not sure if it is the phone that arrived or the phone screen guard ooo i am just confuse and hoping it is the phone that arrived anyway tomorrow i will know when i get their

Was there any change in the tracking information when you tracked it, for the products you ordered and were asked to collect?

peterincredible:
am not sure if it is the phone that arrived or the phone screen guard ooo i am just confuse and hoping it is the phone that arrived anyway tomorrow i will know when i get their

Believe its phone.

peterincredible:
Got a text to come for my parcel by monday i will be going to po but i hope it is not the phone case they called me for i just pray and hope it is for the phone itself i cant wait for monday to reach sharperly sharperly

Lucky you!.

I'm still waiting. Since August 3rd

peterincredible:
mine i have forgotting about it i just took my mind off it and focus on work i know and am very sure it will get to me
And for the nipost email, go to their official website u will see their email their then u can send a mail to them but am very sure Mr Prince Adekunle or what ever his name is will give u just the reply u see when u track ure parcel on those tracking website and am very sure his reply will be "your parcel is still in transit to nigeria" but he might prove otherwise with u so u can give it a try.
By the way which phone you order for bcause as for me i ordered the xiaomi redmi 9

RN8

peterincredible:
baba i no trust u oo

As in eeh...

Please what about your parcel, are you still waiting on the lord like me?.

I saw the Nipost e-mail, if I decided to e-mail them, how do I begin?, will I be genuinely replied to?.

The count down continues, 23 days left to BP expiration.

Meister:
Do you track it through track24 ?

.

Yea and it still showed the same information.

My two packages I ordered since 3rd August and shipped on 6th August have been on transit since God knows when.

Any hope for me?.
people that ordered sept are collecting their parcel and mine is still showing package in transit, despatched to overseas postal admin(NG).
My BP has 24 days to expire.

peterincredible:
just wait for the 90days to complete then u can open dispute if u want.
i noticed most of the people here who ordered for phone during the covid 19 era end up recieving their parcel after when they have even collected back their money so i will advice to extend bp when it gets to the 90 days as for me that is what i will do bcause i noticed the fault is from nipost

OK. Thank you for your reply.
Let me continue to wait for day 90

Meister:
Your order is in Nigeria, since you used an untrackable shipping method that's where the tracking will end. Just be patient, it'll still get to you

One of the order is registered while the other isnt

Vickygirk:
I have similar issue with yours except that my order was on Aug 3.
Nipost people are saying the order is not in Nigeria.

But it has been despatched to NG postal admin since 11th of AUGUst.
I'm really frustrated.

Please Nairalanders, is it possible that your parcel can be in Nigeria but still shows in transit( despatched to postal adminNG) even when tracked by post office or my parcel hasn't arrived?...

I'm really really tired.

These my orders are now showing order completed on my tracking in aliexpress and still en-route according to post office.

Please nairalanders how do I go about it?.

Sad!

shadeshadow:
Yesterday I collected the phone screen I ordered. I made the order on 19th August, despatched to overseas on 26th. The date written on it with pen is 11th September.
I was emailing those fools and they were saying my order was not in the country. My brother went there and they were asking him to "track it", "have they called him?" "did he receive message?" and all kinds of useless stuff. He just told them that he received message, when they asked for proof, he said the number was lost. They eventually looked for it and found it.
Once your order is despatched to overseas, it's usually in the country within a week. Just give them 3-4 weeks and go to your local P.O. Play every game necessary but make sure they look for it instead of checking in their system
The P.O is GRA Port Harcourt.

Wow!.
Was your order showing in transit together with despatched to overseas when you collected it?...

Uchepele:
but dey picked my call yesterday though
and dey answered me very well self

Yea true.

He picks call at least he picked mine when I called!

Uchepele:
dey just try their luck by going to d post office,most times some are lucky to b called like that even if tracking is showing despatch to oversee.ur order is August so chill small.

Next tomorrow na October...o
I bought on 3rd day of august no be middle or ending august