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Spagi:
Yeah true talk but how many people can buy the DNA test kit. no THANKS

that's why I said the government should try to reduce the price of DNA

my humble advice to men, women and government.
men:please when your wife deliver a baby please do DNA test asap to save urself from heart break later.
women :please if u know u can't Bleep and stay with one dick please don't enter marriage cus I don't want to hear he starve me that why I cheated on him nonsense.
government:please try to reduce the price of DNA so that the poor can assess it to save them from sponsoring another man's child and later have heart break

FalseProphet1:
Noted!

Anyways Tobechi was the talkative. Chinedu's roommate, I stayed with them when I went for my post utme. And stayed briefly in their place before getting my own place.

Ask....

Am still waiting for the next update about the diary pls keep me updated.

FalseProphet1:
When I was an upcoming prophet, I used to be like him. Today, I see my visions directly from the force. And I am far better. My congregation has tripled.

This I have seen.

CAN U TELL ME WHAT U SEE ABOUT ME.

FRANCISTOWN:
Women don't understand one simple thing about men. When a woman gives her husband 100% respect, submission and care. The man turns to her baby and will unconsciously be the one to submit himself to the wife.

exactly i totally agree with you but this women will not understand it ooooo rather they will come out and start making noise on social media so that people can pity them.
Well am a woman and i know what is right to do.

FRANCISTOWN:
I totally agree with your immeasurable depth of wisdom. Cultures that worked in the past may not work now. Therefore, things that worked in the past may not work now.

A'ight so,
•Men should start carrying pregnancies.
•Women should start training their future husbands thru schools.
•Women should also bring fruits, food stuffs, money and pay groom price. As I'm paying your family, you are paying my family too. No cheating
•Women should fix their husbands' car tyres.
•Should a snake find it's way into the house, the husband and the kids should hide . The woman should kill it.
•Once the woman loses her ability to contribute her quota. She should be seen as irresponsible and worse than an infidel.
•Women should also do the heavy liftings around the house.
•Are we goin on vacation? The husband should hold the kids hands. Women should drag the luggage and throw them in the car's trunk.
•Women should also make their will and make their husbands beneficiaries too. Anybody can die first.
•On the wedding day. It shouldn't be the bride's day. It should be the couple's day.
A woman should put on nice blazers. There are nice suits for women too .
•A woman should grow beards too, so the kids can know there are two men in the house.
•In case there is an arson or inferno, any fire outbreak in short . The woman should firstly rescue her husband and her kids to safety even if it's at the detriment of her life. After all, a real man sacrifices his life for his family.
•The wife should defend the family in the case of uninvited visitors about the house in the middle of the night. The husband and the kids should hide in the basement.

Abeg if una remember anything, help me add.

At least, I'm paying a bride price for a reason

exactly i agree with you, social media have spoil a lot of things in marriage base on so called feminist

where is it written in the Bible that a should not submit. it is stated clear that " men love ur wife and women submit to ur husband" no matter what the man is the head and the woman is below him, u can't compromise the Bible. A woman was created to serve, submit, respect and honor her husband not the other way round. "so called feminist"

i pray that those girls should not date their husband and marry their boyfriend,it will be more painful and full of regret at last.

my dear, is normal but make sure she is very wet before penetration but if she cant bear it let her get (dripping pills)

fyzaila:
Stop fornication, abstain till marriage.

that is y some women and man are suffering and regreting in marriage today.

SporaD8:
Viki, I don't want you to take my "Silly" remark personal.
Besides, your cool-headed response is worth commending!
Now back to the topic, I can't seem to understand why a Wife will deprive the man who paid her price just because of the flimsy excuse of going to church!
When the pastor stand in front of the whole Congregation and said, "You may now kiss your Wife!" and they did kiss unashamedly; why should it now be an issue when they are alone in the other room?!

Well as for me i will just cancel the church and attend to him cus he paid for it

OKOATA:
Lol. This your laps fresh o.

Thanks

Enny2013:
U should know better,sis. After all, we all did marriage counseling before wedding.

yea, i just saw the thread so i decided to bring it up here for open discussion.

OKOATA:
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church. Read your Bible madam..

i know u don't need to tell me about it, i only brought it up here for open discussion.

SporaD8:
Is this even suppose to be a Debate for vikinatty sake?!!
Perhaps you mean to say boyfriend, because that's the only time I can entertain such silly question!

really i ask my fellow women questions to hear from them.
perhaps am married and this is not a boyfriend and girlfriend matters.
i saw the thread so i decided to bring it here for discussion not for insult my dear.

MrCork:
Sweerry we dint ask u for graaama...we dint ask u for story..we ask if ur lightskin. are u lightskin??(no oofencse)

hmmm

MrCork:
are u lightskin?

Y asking

[quote author=ikeno post=127904858]You offer him a fast quicky sexx sharply 3-5mins you're done. [/quot

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FuckingMachine:
Proceed to church and give it to your Pastor.

Meaning, at least say something useful my dear

Congratulations

LikeAking:
Be serious!

How will I be serious

For instance you are preparing to go to church and your husband stop u demanding for sex, what will you do?

kevwemike:
u wen dey village for Oyo u dey claim say u dey U.S.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Happy birthday dear
Just pray to God and ask him for direction.

Well first of all reduce how to talk, fear and trying to impress others

Well I think no emotional feelings anymore oooo 😔😔😔😔

shagasha:
Instead of you to be sharing what keeps marriage you are here sharing what kills marriage. That's a negative mindset

Like seriously, dont u kw that before u have a successful marriage u need to kw what kills marriage before what keeps marriage

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

· Laziness kills marriage

· Suspicion kills marriage

· Lack of trust kills marriage

· Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

· Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

· Arguments kills marriage

· Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage

· Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

· Poor communication kills marriage

. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

· Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage

· Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage.

· Nagging kills marriage

· Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

· Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage

· Being too independent minded kills marriage

· Love for party, money and spending/partying kills marriage

· Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage

· Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life

· Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

· Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.

· FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

· Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage.

· Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

· Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

· When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

· Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.

.Please, save a marriage today by sharing this.

May God bring healing to every troubled home and family. Ameen.

aswear, children can really act silly at times 😂😂😂😂😂

gohf:
Sex is physical it just has other implications, spiritually, emotionally and even socially. But I do not agree that,
"when a man have sexual intercourse with a woman, that woman automatically becomes his wife."

Marriage is about vows, promises and commitment. It's a partnership that goes beyond sex if not Adam and Eve wouldn't be considered married in the garden.

I do agree with some parts of your post, "Procreation is the major purpose for sex, although many have sex for fun, to ease their soul and satisfy their body."

True there is a saying that if the man and woman who have done the wedding ceremony having had sex they haven't consummated their union. But it doesn't translate to that a man sleeps with a woman means he is married to her, was Abraham married to Hagar?

You have a right to your opinion but you are arguing with the scriptures. How will you explain exodus 22:16. Try to avoid sentiments.

The mystery of "Sex". (PART 1)
Please read, ignorance is not an excuse.
Ezekiel 18:20 The one who sins is the one who dies.
Sex is an action that leads to procreation.
Procreation is the major purpose for sex, although many have sex for fun, to ease their soul and satisfy their body.
Like we know, when the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable. I will be exposing some mysterious knowledge about sex.

Firstly, sex is not meant for children but adults, it is not meant for same gender but opposite gender (male and female), it is only meant for animals (humans) of the same kingdom and the same specie.
Anything outside that is anti natural and remains a taboo(forbidden) to God and a godly culture.

When a man have sexual intercourse with a woman, that woman automatically becomes his wife. (Exodus 22:16); Which implies that, if that same man have sex with more women, his wives increases.
In other words, if a man marries a woman and didn't have sex with her, that man still remains single until he has done the needful.
In the spirit realm, the day a man have sex is the day he finds his partner then it is now left for the bride price to be paid. This explains that sex is a spiritual thing.
God is a spirit (John 4:24), God does not interfere with the physical things that don't have spiritual impact.
God made the laws (commandments) to prevent man from altering a heavenly order that might lead to sin.
Sleeping with many guys makes you have many husband and qualifies you as a fornicator.
For the unmarried that went viral with their private parts, a ransom is paid to separate that woman from her illegal husbands. And that ransom is the bride price. The bride price is a spiritual token used to appease the family of the woman and the other husbands if any.
So, it is the man who has paid bride price that has the asset (woman).
Advice: Make your private part private. That is why it is called private part.
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