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I never expected her not to have been on a relationship before meeting her. I was pained not really for me because I've got nothing to loose so far if I let her go. I was just feeling for the other guy who would think he has a good girl somewhere he intends to marry soon not knowing the girl is not worth the time and resources he has expended on her till date.
I just hate when people are not being sincere. It's a big turn off for me.

ebonflex:
How do these guys see a girl for the first time and think that NO OTHER GUY saw her before you if she is fine.
Are you the only one with eyes?

If that is the kind of situation you want, then go find an ugly girl. P1mp her up, take her fat azz to the gym, apply plastic surgery if neccessary, etc. That is only when you will then have a fine girl NO ONE ELSE has seen before you. If you feel all that is too much work, then fine, but just know that every fine girl has someone disturbing her.

That's why you have to focus on ATTRACTING women, not CHASING them like every other basic guy instantly starts doing.
How you do this is a combination of interest, disinterest (very important, yanga works for guys too), and you having your shiit together.
And unless she knows you from Adam already & has been tripping OR you have certain overwhelmingly irresistible attributes (i.e. You are the 1% ) , you can't really achieve this in 2 weeks (Yanga requires time).

Unfortunately the typical nigerian male lets go of his dignity too easily when he sees a girl he fancies. He starts chasing, disturbing, stalking etc.
Sorry but that relationship was only in your head bro.

400billionman:
Was she born to wait for you ?

You are already the game loser. I can stop any girl from marrying her fiancee if i want her for myself.

Go ahead and tell her what you want unless you arent ready.

OK thanks.

All I ask for is an advice and not all these gals flooding the tread reminding me she is not my boo.

I have not even confronted the girl in person to clarify and to know her stance.

Please I need advice from mature folks abeg.

PunkyVeer:
What the heck are you talking about in your
2nd question? So you knew she had a boo by your own admission, so what are you whining about? I didn't say she had a right but it's only been two weeks, build a bridge & get over it. I doubt you even know her mobile number by head & yet you're here acting all woe is me over a fortnight passing fling. Seriously? Ermergherd!

It was never a fling to me if that's the way you see it. I don't roll with any girl I see except she is worth my time. Thanks anyway.

Kk thanks. But how could a girl I got into my room more than 4 times in two weeks be using me? What gave you the impression that the gal had not dumped the other guy for me?

Michellla:
tsk.are guys still this gullible?
she's obviously using you with all the benefits that comes with it.
its 2015 bruh.wise up.

So d gal deserves to treat me like that because the relationship is two week old?
What gave you the impression that the gal does not have another real boo aside the one my uncle wife knew?

PunkyVeer:
And you're here lamenting over a two-week-old "relationship" Are you for real? I don't have rotten tomatoes to throw at you as I'm booing you, so BOOOOO!!!!!

[quote author=quiinnBee
post=39056487]you met someone two weeks ago and fell flat already?
thought guys are wiser now

PS:remove that 'boo' up there'that chick aint yours[/quote]Pls spare me that correction cos I know better. I never fell flat for her. I was just disappointed cos I saw her as a decent girl and never expected such from her.

quiinnBee:
you met someone two weeks ago and fell flat already?
thought guys are wiser now


PS:remove that 'boo' up there'that chick aint yours

Pls spare me that correction cos I know better. I never fell flat for her. I was just disappointed cos I saw her as a decent girl and never expected such from her.

KlaireKlement:
Seems incomplete cos i can't relate what I'm seeing to the topic yet...

The post has been updated.

mistersle3m:
Looolz u chop abi u no chop? If u chop it's your victory

Seriously I never chop anything.

Homguy:
just two weeks and you are planning to wed her, and even calling her boo. Bro, sorry I have to jerk you back to reality, but you have no case here. You are at best just trolling. But if this is true by any shot,then you've got a lot of maturity to do.

I never said I had plans to marry her. She is just the type I felt I could settle down with even I wish to make that choice.

It never occurred to me that the line from that Harrysong hit song "even your boo get boo" would ever be applied to me.

It happened that I met this pretty girl at an Uncle wedding last two weeks. She look so beautiful, calm,gentle and collected. She was one of the bride Aso ebi girls while I was one of the men in suits.

My eyes were all over her throughout the occasion and I had the opportunity to hold her hands and dance with her which I really relished.

I got her number and we got talking. I invited her over to my house after two days we met, asked her out and she accepted my proposal after some shakara.

I started developing strong feelings for this girl as we got along. I treated her well and showered her with my love in the way I could. As a result of my feelings for her, I started looking forward to a lasting relationship with her.

This made me wanna know her more and it prompted me to ask for information about her from my Uncle. Unfortunately for me, my Uncle knew not much about her which prompted me to ask his wife which happens to be her neighbor.

I got the shock of my life when the wife told me the girl had been in a serious relationship for long and that she might likely do her wedding before the year ends.

I was seriously devastated when I heard it and felt cheated. I have not asked the girl about it.

I want Nairalanders to please advise me on what to do about this girl. I really love her.

Na Bashira for Oke Ado in Ibadan be this Jo.

I concur. I was heavier at birth and while growing but taller and thin at adulthood.

I go still fat sha ...

efilefun:
Almost forgot GEJ is a Zoologist, Can you kindly upload a photo of you and your family in the zoo.

I expected Only humans to understand me and not some kind of Baboons like you.

GEJ my hero!
The Saviour of Baboons in the Zoo Republic.
God bless you.

Waoh!
What a Stew + Okro Pid President we have.
Now I know y he is called Baba Go Slow.

Those are the Change Agents that Buhari is banking on to perform his miracle in Nigeria.

I will allow Oshiomole to help me deal with you with his Trademark Slogan...

"Go and die"

Mutuwa:
it could be that the purpose of your life is only to serve as a warning to others
You are literally too stupiddd to insult!
you are one of those cases of loveless lads here on NL who have no bearing and purpose.

If brains are considered money, you would be a charity case.

He is obviously loved by all of them. He is indeed a bridge builder that can hold his ground where ever he finds himself.

The Senators where even carried away by almost clapping for him if not for Saraki that reminded them that it's not done in the Red Chambers.

Mutuwa:
Are you an ediott or a love child.do u really comprehend?
Who is saying anything about the error being embrassing or not? Donkey. .who what is the essence if it comes from thw office of the president? mumu..he is as falliable as u.
Only difference is..he is ahead of u forever.

Why would the error be embarrassing to you when your brain had been formated with fake Change.
You can no longer think straight mumu.

My friend keep quite. why don't you just call a spade what it is? It is embarrassing for such an error to come from the office of the President in this age.

Sycophancy has beclouded some people sense of reasoning.

Mutuwa:
Guy..humans are generally falliable.
You are irremarkable for wisdom.English is neither urs nor mine.
These are traits akin to pupils and secondary school folks.
The erratum errata doesn't in anyway negate this ministers from moving forward as well as the president.
With traits like this absurdly displaced, u will always be backwards.

Even the folks you fall inferior before,make mistakes.

My friend keep quite. why don't you just call a spade what it is? It is embarrassing for such error to come from the office of the President in this age.

Sycophancy has beclouded some people sense of reasoning.

Mutuwa:
Guy..humans are generally falliable.
You are irremarkable for wisdom.English is neither urs nor mine.
These are traits akin to pupils and secondary school folks.
The erratum errata doesn't in anyway negate this ministers from moving forward as well as the president.
With traits like this absurdly displaced, u will always be backwards.

Even the folks you fall inferior before,make mistakes.

If it take over four months for the Daura Dollar.d to gather these people, then it will take third term to bring about the Change he promised the gullible ones that voted and rigged him into power.

5starmilitant:
The fact that he addressed God Almighty as god shows he has no regard for Him.

If anything can be god as you said, what about the 24 elders of Heaven he mentioned? Or has he also modified it?

He should learn to think properly before commenting abeg.

As for the 24 elders of Heaven, I dunno anything about that one.
My point is that our Almighty God is capable of defending himself.

Why do u have to cry more than the bereaved?

Your ranting is uncalled for. Besides, the guy said 'god' and not 'God' you wrote there. Anything can be his god.

You need not insult him and bother yourself about that.

5starmilitant:
You must be very stupid to ask such a question about God. It shows you are brainless and useless.
How and why would you ever think of questioning God?
Or do you see Him(God) as buhari?
Or you don't even know your achievements in life so far is the handiwork of someone(God)?
Why are you still breathing, are you an elder?

You better go on your kneels now and tell Him you're sorry.

Oju Ole re, Oleeeeeee!!!

princemillla:
Even if the man is not, the fact that this is coming from no1 most corrupt man, would make me doubt if he is actually not corrupt.

Shut up! Obasanjo is the most corrupt politician in Nigeria today. He made the likes of Dangote,Adenuga,Jimoh Ibrahim and co Super rich with government funds laundered through their companies and he also ensured he made policies that favoured their companies to thrive.

Quote me anywhere.

Where is the Multinational Joint Task Force Baba was traveling up as and down for?

Yeye Change! I thought Maistatine rebels were terrorists as Bokoharam?

RIP to him. I won't be surprised to see the high and the mighty in Nigeria at his burial cos they are all one. Most especially politicians .

I smell lies.

The "pressing up" general and Baba Go Slow should continue deceiving Nigerians...

We are counting days for you. December is just around the corner. Lie Mohammed will have his hands full by the time he becomes the information minister.

I don't see how this amount to WW3. Please stop misleading people by blowing what is normal out of proportion.
.I think every right thinking man/woman should join hands in condemning the Evil ISIS. It's we put a stop to their madness.