₦airaland Forum

immortalcrown:
Discipline him but don't disconnect him from your family.

We have disciplined him right from childhood. Punishment, flogging, counsel just name it. What you discipline him for today, he'd do worse the following week. We stopped disciplining him the moment he clocked 18 because we assume he has chosen the path he wants to live. He isn't the only one raised by my parents but he's completely different. The other two orphan children are young girls. They can't live together under the same roof with that boy. All his friends are school dropout and yahoo boys. We just need to take decision on what he did and the options for now according to my dad is to lock him up before sending him away while my mum suggested we send him away without locking him up.

Interesting time ahead

immortalcrown:
The most important or sensitive part of the story is hidden from us. Why did his mother disown him from birth and what happened to his father?

Tell us the full story so that we can trace the root cause and address the issue properly. Whoever doesn't know the boy's full history can hardly come up with the best idea on how to handle the boy.

the father is late when he was 3 years old. The father is a married man but impregnated the mother. She didn't marry him and moved on with her life.

Tinubu you're a failure. Nobody like failure. You brought hardships to Nigerians.

My father has 4 biological children and 3 adopted ones totaling seven. Two of the 3 other children are orphan from my father's family while the third one is from my mother side. He's fatherless but has a mother. His mother rejected him right from birth and he's 20 years old now. I am the 4th child among the 4 children. The first is late, second is married a female, i have an elder brother while I'm the last born.. My father is still struggling in his 60s.

One of my mum sister came visiting and told this 20 years old boy his life history. This boy automatically harbour hatred towards his biological mother that rejected and abandoned him from birth. This my mum sister and the boy mother live in the same area. Coincidentally my mum sister met this boy mother on the road and told her how his son is now grown she was really concerned and begged her to give her his phone number which she did. She started calling the boy with the intention to beg him money. At first this boy stopped picking her call and told my mother. My mum advised him to forgive his mother. This woman started begging his son money. The boy told her he doesn't have money. He just finished his secondary school education and he's learning work. The woman shouted at him asking him why is he not doing Yahoo? She claimed he's not doing Yahoo and he's from a poor home in Nigeria, then how does he intend to make it? The boy tried to hide it away from us but my mum overheard his conversation and threatened to report to my dad before he confessed what his mother told him.

My mum asked him if any of her children is doing Yahoo? He said no. She told him the implications and reasons not to listen to his mother. My father had #65,000 in his account. This is all he has which he's managing. This boy collide with his Yahoo friend outside to withdraw #50,000 from my dad's account through his ATM card as my dad do send him to withdraw from POS with his ATM card. This is a boy no one knows he isn't our biological brother. My dad was crying when he got the alert asking who could have done this to him. He has budgeted #15,000 to buy materials for them to sew for the season and get food items before the incident. I called the bank contact center and they made it known to us that the ATM card numbers and his withdrawal pin number was linked online and used to withdraw the money. We know this is an inside work as a total stranger doesn't have access to all these details. We all know this 20 years old boy was behind it. I invited my brother and we both talked to him. He insisted that he knows nothing about it. We threatened to use the police and he began to confessed. He said he needed money desperately to buy shoe and clothes, and he observed my dad has over #60,000 in his account, then he told one of his Yahoo friend and he requested for his card details which he gave him then he withdrew the money. They have spent #39,000 from the money while his Yahoo friend has ran away having heard that the boy has confessed. He also confessed he has done it for two different people without being caught. The Yahoo friend rented a room apartment and his properties is still inside. My dad wants to arrest this 20 years old boy but he's considering the money he'd spent which he doesn't have. My mum was begging him not to arrest him but to send him away to live with his mother. The same mother that doesn't want to see him but want his money.

Although, this boy has been stealing right from childhood. He stole different neighbours money including ours. When caught my dad will beat him and talk to him. My brother has been adamant right from then sending this boy back to his mother but my father insisted saying the mother has rejected him and nobody knows tomorrow. My dad would say what if this boy was his son, would he rejected him or send him away. This boy went to spend holiday with his mother when he was 12 and the mother denied him in presence of everyone that he's one of her husband family members. She sent him away from her house barely 3 days he arrived and my mother sister brought him back.

This boy has emptied my father's account leaving him with almost nothing. My father wish to arrest him and lock him up but this cannot be done without money. My mum suggested we send him away to his mother.

Please what do you suggest!

If I can get hold of 20k, I will buy rice and egg and use the remaining money to make stew. I don do Christmas be that

NoIgboSoundTueh:
😂
You said more than that during Buhari Administration

Tinubu administration is learning where Buhari administration is.

Callosobruchus:
This one no concern me again.I get enough rice from my harvest wey go take me like 2 years to finish am after I don dash family and friends. I no go still sidown de look de land like mumu for 2025;I go farm another one again. I no buy maize and garri again;I get am yakpa!Wise up people, go and farm.
This message is directed especially to people who have access to land but are still "lazying" themselves up. I hope I've inspired someone today.

I have 2 plots of land but i don't have money to farm on it. It's a family land

Tflex01:
Incoherent as always. 😆

I know you cry everyday for coming from the generation of losers and you earnestly wish to be part of Yoruba race.

I be yoruba. We're all facing the hardships in the country. Are you buying cheaper goods in the market than other tribes?

idealogical:
Sand dey shift under your feet, but you are crying over irrelevant rubbish.

Why is APC still winning elections and or even why oppositions are trooping to join APC.

The fact that we are facing challenges doesn't mean Nigerians are not hopeful or that they believe in the government and the polices they put in place.

Politics is not always about emotions and sentiments.

I know you be elite so you are only after elections. You careless about the wellbeing of the masses. Keep it up

idealogical:
This is why you lose elections, you focus on the wrong things.

The policies that you don't like are the policies that other people like and believe are necessary to rescue Nigeria.

One man's food is another man's poison and if you think Tinubu won't win again in 2027 because of the economy, you are sadly mistaken.

APC is still winning elections massively all over the country regardless of the economy simply people believe in the president's policies and they believe in Nigeria.

Other people as we speak are strategizing and getting ready to win the next election, but you are crying over irrelevant issues.

You people are hard learners..

No sir. He didn't lose. His father is not on the ballot. It was the masses that lose. I don't know if you're among the masses though or an elite.

7upnigeria:
Support your own, forget manners here. Our enemies are ALWAYS UNITED to use our weakness to divide us. Always support your own because youre only safe with your own. Dont join ibos to bring down your brother, my 2 cents.

my brother is the cause of the hardship we're seeing in Nigeria today. Humility come first before tribe, religion, culture etc

Fearurcreeator:
Oloriburuku niyin se ...

your generation will die miserable. Omo irankiran

Fearurcreeator:
What are they teaching sef

school dropout don drop quote

Fearurcreeator:
People wey mumu , people representing them at the center not pushing for this which shows they dont really want biafra

useless old cargo. Igbo na your problem. Why you no go your village go live there? Abi na your village you dey stay?

Donaldoni:
Od*!!!
Just say you are the hungry one.
Everyone around me including me is thriving to the glory of God.

oponu

Fearurcreeator:
All your family members are idiots

you don fix your failed marriage Mr Ronu?

Fearurcreeator:
Davido no really smart like that na

he will buy your entire generation, use them as rag

Alliswell248:
Yes....he singled out Otti and hobi....and even groundnut, the content creator

eranko

Fearurcreeator:
His uncle na right leader?

old man did he exempt his uncle? Abi English too hard for you?

Christistruth00:
At least Davido admitted his uncle is not the right Governor for Osun


He is very correct

thank God you know Tinubu is a failure

2mch:
Osun State must look like heaven right now. This guy is a fool. America that he claims, he no fit blow for there. Nigeria is so bad according to you! Try America

truth is bitter. Tinubu has destroyed Nigeria

Stevenbright:
Yes of course! Among the wrong leaders we have got are two of his uncles one being a former governor and another being a serving governor.

Hypocrisy is not good. I would appreciate this from someone else who is not a patronage of the system (he campaigns heavily for political parties) and also a direct beneficiary of the system through his family.

did he exempt his uncle from the writeup?

press9jatv:
This one don fail woefully in Osun State . Na peoples money he Dey chop left and right

okay Tinubu don pass in the whole naija abi? Tinubu dey dash people him own money left and right he no chop people money?

jimmyolasun:
Would you rather have a close family who is a yahoo boy or a girl that hoes around for money.. ??

a girl that hoes around. At least she's not stealing from someone to enrich herself. Curse will not be on her and she will not end up in prison. Go to prison across the federation, 98% of the inmates are men.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


Thank god for people like me that is already married to a wonderful woman, she is my queen, my world and my everything.
She gave me everything including two cute, beautiful Stars and Angels worth more than gold, diamond, platinum put together.


I am so much privilege to F*ck all this generation girls, ladies, women and B!tches dastardly and bastardly (Married and Unmarried).

As I have been doing, I will keep on twisting, stretching and expanding their over used kpekus for their future yahoo and SIMP husbands.
I will keep cumming in their mouth, on their face, I will not stop to ravage their A*sses & P*ssies, I will keep on pressing and sucking out everything left in their bathroom slippers breast and render it milk-less for their unborn children. I will cum raw into their p*ssy get them pregnant and pay quack doctors to destroy their womb for their useless SIMP yahoo-yahoo husbands.

I will invite my friends, staffs and neighbors to ride a train on them (With their consent) After paying them very well!!
I will make sure their Kpekus become so wide like the Brazil Maracana Stadium

As this generation want to be useless. People like me will keep on making it happen

only poor men talk like this. Prove me wrong that you're not a poor man.

jimmyolasun:
As in the rate this girls sells body these days.. and it's all because of technology.. an average girl is into selling her body.. just hop on any of these bigo live and buzz... Majority of them students and idle girls in their parents house.. me I shaa dey use Dem flex Vaseline

na boys own worse pass. Yahoo boys everywhere. My neighbour even scam him papa yesterday. 19 years old Yahoo boy.

RealityKings1:
That's super rare

nothing is rare. There are lots of girls that won't blink an eyes once they know you're a yahoo boy

simpleseyi:
Cry well well, cry yourself to sleep and wake up in tears

omo irankiran.

004gist:
That's why I said if u have money in Nigeria... U will access the best unless it's medical condition that is beyond the level of experience of doctors thar requires more higher advanced procedure.

The person complaining here has the money... From the USA

does that mean the masses don't have life or don't deserve healthcare? We don't have any benefit as a citizen of a Nigeria.

Giftimoni:
Exactly. They Governorapproved 85k minimum

how much is Lagos state government paying now for level 8?

004gist:
If u have money u wont feel it


I mean private hospitals... Specialist private hospitals around other states

why most a citizen of a country have money before they can have access to healthcare please? A country with more than 80% of her citizen are below poverty