₦airaland Forum

LegacyB:
Not sure you’re not Sir. The way you ran Nigeria while you were in power which set the tone for continued civilian corruption, cannot be done by a normal person given a second chance!
And way you forget your actions and inactions too cannot be done by a normal person.

obj is one of the best president in Nigeria, he's miles ahead of Tinubu and highly respected both home and abroad.

Krankhead:
You mean OBj that sleeps with his sons wife? What leaaaon did he have to teach the youth

same Tinubu used his late son for presidency sacrifice

Krankhead:
You mean OBj that sleeps with his sons wife? What leaaaon did he have to teach the youth

Tinubu is a drug baron, identity theft,forged certificate, no known primary and secondary school. Tinubu is also the worst president in Nigeria history. He broke Buhari record of failure

BoldBrainz:
Lol.

I won't be surprised if the proponents of this absurdity are single young men dunking people's daughters with empty promises.

I don't understand you. Do you mean marriage don't take place every Saturday or they're being married off freely?

luminouz:
So your cousin paid 1.5M for pussy I tore and damaged while paying nothing? You be fõôl oh.
Lol....I can see you are as fôolish as your cousin. Continue paying till y'all dié


Simps!!!

at least you're broke

GiZcorp:
The matter here is not the cheap wife... There's nothing like a cheap wife to begin with... Your Yoruba kins are so stupid that they don't know what it means to be married...

most Yoruba women are married cheaply. No bride price nor proper marriage rite. Yoruba men don't take care of women

NewDelhi:
The way you carry this matter for head so. Its like you have a sister who is 35 and unmarried.

my only sister is married long ago. Na you wey broke dey talk about women i pity

princeabdul:
use dollars to wipe your tears

go make money abi yahoo no pay you again

wirinet:
Abeg in which country are all 35 year old men billionaires in dollars? In fact how many billionaires in dollars are there in the entire globe? How many millionaires even?
What is the strength of the Nigerian economy thar will be producing billionaires and millionaires in dollars? What are we selling or producing - yahoo yahoo?

in which country 35 years old ladies should have grandchildren

Franzinni:
Men do want single mothers ... For fun.

Simps is what you are misconstruing for men ... There is a difference.

Men don't want damaged women only simps do.

only poor men talk about simp and all that. You're a dead broke yahoo man

BoldBrainz:
This right here is the mentality responsible for the societal drawbacks we have in this country today. Marriages have now become trade avenues for families of women to massively cash-in while sapping the life out of the long term union.

When men have to pay through their noses to marry women, give me one reason why those men won't dehumanize and treat the women like acquired properties in the matrimonial home!

Very unfortunate mindset!

no men pay out of their nose. Go for your size. My neighbour still pay 250k for bride price list. Shoe get size. Marriage still take place every Saturday.

FineUsername:
No use yourself as yardstick rate me.

A very big poor fo.ol (unfortunate son) don drop quote. Normally I for say make you sell your family property pay bride price but no be JAMB score figure we dey talk about.

Poor man be doing the worst to maintain a relationship.


I have always cum in peace. 

you're poor

lendahand:
not true

Make research online you'd know

Lonestar124:
Dey play..you need experiences man, stop living in sentiment and assumptions?!!

everybody don tell you. If you like learn.

luminouz:
Lol...nobody pays that much for a borehole. For a virgin? Yes...but I know your cousin didn't marry a virgin. Who knew if she was one of the girls I had fûcked mercilessly. Yet your cousin rewarded her with 1.5m as bridal list.

Simps everywhere.

at least you're poor while my cousin financially stable. Only dead broke men like you talk exactly like this

princeabdul:
Thirty five is the age a woman should be expecting her grand children

35 is the age a man should be at least a billionaire in $$$$

Saidfx:
If I marry woman and she get money nah for her pocket, because nah me suppose take care of am and give her unconditional love. All this rubbish about women considering thier financial status before marriage nah bull shiiiit. If woman wan marry make she just respect her husband and the people at large... Make she just see herself as woman and nah Nature[/color] set am like that...Men, pls women need you more than you need them. Just live according to your conscience and capacity. No forget the Equatorial Guinea[color=#990000] shit. E still dey for minds o...Men don take am as deep excuse to treaaaaat any potential woman as just lust mate. E deep well!

how many men has the capacity to take good care of their wives and kids in Nigeria today?

incogni2o:
Problem with you guys is that you lack good Home management skills.

It's normal for a Man to be frugal with spending money in the house cos that's one of the ways to achieve a sustainable spending at home.

Wjy not rather cultivate habits and skills that the Man would appreciate in you as a wife who can cope in any financial situation, You prefer to be an independent woman who isn't virtuous enough to take direction from the husband about money management

The fact is that waiting till 35 doesn't make you enjoy your home any better.

It might just increase your conceited attitude as a person.

The Man is the Head and should always be in the position to direct the home.

This applies to reasonable men that love and had the interest of their wives at heart. Not a man who feel he has the final say. He can decide anything (good or bad) that pleases him without the wife interest. In that situation, you're not the head. This is 2024 not 1957 that our mothers take every dick and Harry thrown at them

Jughead29:
What if at 35 all suitors are gone?

The problem we have this days is woman not even ready to assist thier man so both can be rich. All they want is a man who has everything which is nowhere until you enter and know the truth.

Now Men also are now looking for women who have everything 😂

Confused generation, we'll see how it will end

which men dey find woman wey get everything? You go wait tire. No go make money you hear. Society judge men by their financial status o

Starz825:
You and the 114 people that liked your comment are so foolish....

Jeez.... just take a look at your comments...

Nobody should listen to him oooo

If foolishness was a person....demmm....rotten knowledge...

The guy na confirm mumu and na one woman go marry that kind man. Chai

Miramonica:
I cannot even marry a 35 year old woman, either knowingly or unknowingly, consciously or unconsciously.

A woman nearing menopause.

When 18 to 25 litter everywhere like sand. Nawa oo, eh get some kind thing guy man like me no fit do

I shall want you to know that men plenty pass women in terms of population.

Franzinni:
men settle down with women to build a home and raise a family not sex .... I won't be surprised you are not yet married based off your comment.

Op is advising women but secretly she is consoling her old self . At 35 woman is useless to a man, she is definitely going to be a bag of red flags, with Daddy issues, mental problems and hyper masculinity. I mean why else would she not be able to attract a husband when she was useful to humanity ...? At 35 she is a man already.

my cousin sister got married at 37 to her guy who's 41. Only on social media men don't want single mothers, 35+ women, divorcee etc not in real life

DAramis:
Sure bro. There is an advice which have gotten repeatedly said but which most people never applied. It is Make sure the woman you are seeing loves you more than you do.



Anyway, I also prays it works out better for you.

unfortunately this your mentality is wrong and dead on arrival. Women are not meant to love but respect and be submissive. Men are meant to love unconditionally which supercedes respect.

Offpoint1:
There's time for everything, don't start giving birth at the age you're supposed to be resting from birth... Or taking care of kids at the age you're supposed to rest, either as a man or a woman.

this is what birth POVERTY. You can have children full house but poor while your friend has 1 or 2 small kids and very conformable. That your friend is better than you

naijapikin2:
The cycle doesn't suit women.

Omoh... The number of girls I dated that are still unmarried gives me the heeby geebies. Many of them are around that age range.

Chai



Korraf mercy.. (in calabar tongue)

but you're also single

Okortor:
Too late cos all ur boobs must have gotten flat alongside ur pussy...so venture into single mother hood and let a man marry fresh virgin with standing boobs nipple. Enough of serving men with evening newspaper........

nothing worse pass poverty.

happney65:
Who will marry a 35year old pussy?

Maybe Simps sha

first go make money first. 35 years old women are still getting married. It's a choice

Factcheck0001:
i get your point quite alright

But it's better a lady gets married early these days cos many now experience early menopause

Their menopause starts in their 30's

which menopause start for 30s? You be comedian

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

see as you calm down dey write rubbish. If you write this for exam your failure go loud. Women still give birth in their 40s.

Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely

my cousin sister got married at 37 to a 40 years old man doing fine for himself. Only on social media men don't want single mothers, 35+ single girls, divorced women, widow etc. It is a different thing in real life

Mcslize:
Faculty of Engineering be doing wonders from time immemorial. They always take the best graduating student spot.

Don't joke with Uniben Engineering students. There are so many gurus from that faculty. 2020/2021 session, it was also an Engineering student that took the best graduating student spot.

Engineering will cook you until you get done. You can't pass through Uniben Engineering and still be a lazy osuegbe mummy's boy who can't withstand the struggle of the Nigeria factor out there.

If you want your son or daughter to be toughen and be able to withstand life challenges and stay malleable without being broken and crying like a baby, send them to Uniben faculty of engineering. No one that comes out from that faculty can't face life circumstances and the dare devíl head-on. If you are not strong mentally, you might end up dropping out.

make we hear word. They are tough yet they produce best graduating student almost every year. A very rough and tough department don't exhibit that. A very tough department will struggle to to produce one first class,not a department producing first class every year.

Go to Geology department in OAU then you'd know wotsup

Cleanmouth:
If FG create a program for them as you suggested, it will be hijacked by quota system people.
I am sure you know what I mean.

PTDF is a clear example

That PTDF own shock me. PTDF scholarship is now based on connection, man know man, who you know. Omo the thing shock me i swear