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Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 5:46pm On Feb 11
livenija:
trash

Thank u bro
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 5:45pm On Feb 11
henrimoto:
How many children do you have with your wife ?

Pls, which part of Nigeria is your wife from ?

Pls, I need answers to the above questions.. I have something to tell you.
u can chat me privately..
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 5:29pm On Feb 11
Sir I don't know how u will feel if I ask u to chat me in privet .. some people may feel bad if I began to call the name of the state and village.. evidence of every thing I say here I have it.. with me
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 5:21pm On Feb 11
Some may look at this as a story.. but if there's a way to upload the marriage list here.. the evidence of bans of marriage.. the injuries sustained from the fight between the brother... And all the voice recorder from the brother. Father in-law the priest and my father and my uncle.. I will do that..

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Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 4:45pm On Feb 11
Please 🙏... Sorry for my English... This take me long to type..

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Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 4:40pm On Feb 11
The priest and church members told me that this matter is almost 13: years.. that I do separate or divorce and move on with my life...

The priest told me never to go back to her village since they have fight me. That the can do anything to harm me.. some one say I never mentioned that my wife is bad..

Yes I can't say she is bad
but she is a woman that can never take advice from her husband.. or obey her husband.. she take decision by her self.. she is have come to my place of work to insult me because I didn't send her money I suppose to send.. she comes to my office and I received shame of my life...

As am talking u now she goes out on Mondays come back on Friday leaving the kids for me... . She never care for what they eat.. she has push me divorce... Her but

Am so much afraid of doing this as of today none of the in-laws no my house over 13 years of marriage..
Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 4:24pm On Feb 11
The priest ask the father in-law to give us all the support we needed...

I was given bans of marriage to send to my village and to my wife village.. I sent my to my village.
They start calling and is going to last for 3weeks.. and I sent to my wife village...

After a week trouble brake up . The father in-law said he no longer accept again.. that I have not done anything traditional I should come and do traditional marriage before wedding...
Before this the bans have been taken to the parish they called 1st and second week form my wife side...so the father in-law went to the church and stopped the bans and ask them to cancel everything..

So the news get to me.. I called the father in-law to found out why the man started insulting me... That I should send her daughter and my children to him or the will take me to there shrine..

the priest called me on phone to come to the church.. I went to the church.. the priest said some one come as my wife senior brother and told the priest not to wedd us. That I have not settle them.. .

The priest told the man that he has called the father in-law before issuing us bans of marriage and Ur father said I have paid so what else..
So the priest ask th man to go and come back so that all of us will sit and talk about this matter..

He gives us date.. so when there after everything the brother said.. so the priest have had my .... So the priest said he want to see my father and an elder from my village and also the wife father and with an elder from the her village. To come to Lagos... This is around August 2023

The brother refused to accept the transportation of there father and elder from there village.. say I will be the one to pay for 4 of them.. and that was the time transportation fees is in higher side..

So the priest give us date when everyone will come.. as we're going out from the church the brother began to fight me in the church..

And he bite me as I saw blood on my face I got angry and look for bottle and break his head..
This get the priest angry and call the security in the church to beat up the man...
The priest now open up and told the man that he has seen the truth about this matter..

but he want to see the father...
After everything I was rushed to the hospital cus of the wound..

After 2 days the priest called me to come in the church... I told me that any how I can to transport my father and my wife father and elder to come to Lagos... .

I asked him y he said he want me to repeat the dowry payment again if the refused is going to tell me what to do...

This time am tired.... I began to think how to get money to send to them for their coming.. then 4 of them will cus me nothing else than 260k ..

I gather money I sent to my father.. about to send to my father in-law.. the father in-law said he is not coming.. that if there's anything to talk about or do I should come to there village...

I went to the priest.. and told him what the father in-law said.. the priest now told me to send the girl home to go and settled with their family.. and the wedding is cancel

I told my wife to go and see their family cus am tired.. she refused to go.... Reason is she knows that if she goes back to their family that I am not coming back to her again... She refused to go...

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Family / Re: Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 3:49pm On Feb 11
livenija:
Trash story, my brain dey pain me from all d English n fakeness
bro please I opened this page.. not because of u... But if u have nothing to say please stay away... I know that some will say somethings to hurt me.. some will also give advice.. please don't come and add to my pain's... About the English... Was English my language?.. if u can understand my English stay away from my post...

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Family / Thinking Of Separation From My Wife by vinexe: 3:28pm On Feb 11
Good afternoon everyone... Please I need a mature peoples to please advise me on what to do and the lawyer's in the house. should please advise me...
I meet this lady in 2010.. we agreed of marriage. So I went to see her brother living in the state here..
For introduction.. but for my greatest supprise the brother was living at down stairs.. he went up stairs to see if.. I carried private jet come. But I didn't come with any..
So after the introduction the brother refused to take the drinks we brought to him..
And he direct us to go and meet her parents in the village...

So I prepared to travel to her village.. before then I told her parents that I will like to pay dowry and do some things on the list.. we agreed and I was told the price for Dowry...
We travel to my village getting to my village my father can't go with us due to health challenge .

So we travel to her village.. with my mother and one of my uncle...
So getting there we bought some times. According to what the parents ask me to bring.. when is time to pay dowry.. I can't found my uncle I don't know how my uncle went back home with out my notice.. cus he said he want to go And ease him self...
We waited for him. He is know way to be found.. so we go ahead to pay the dowry.. with my mother..

With this am not happy about this.. we travel back to state.. by then we start going for marriage cus for wedding.. I told her to Go back to her brother house after wedding that is when we can live together..

After some days she runs back and told me his brother said since I have paid some thing for her head.. that there is no need of her staying with her she should go back to my house.. but because of the wedding stuff and for me to do church wedding we're not supposed to stay together before wedding.. and am holding a top position in the church then...

So I have to call the attention of one of my brother in Christ.. I let him know what is happening so he agreed for her to come and stay with them.. after wedding.. so she went to stay with him.. after some days she runs back to me. She started complaining that she can not continue to stay there.. that is how she pack and start living with me... Before u know u.. I lost my position in the church.. and the church remove hands for the wedding and she take in ..

After giving birth.. I call her family to inform them .. tell her mother to come. But her mother refused to come.. since I married none of her family members call her or know my house.. the marriage is only me and her...

Her mother refused to come... And latter she take in for my second child.. and call her parents again and tell her mother to come... The mother told me that am not there in-law that they are planning to come and carry they daughter from me...
I was like God what have I brought to my self.. I married her when I was 24 years.. I am only son.

I need family to call my second family.. some one to take as my mother sister and wife... I cry.
From there I began to see problem in the marriage.. the family have dined me that I have not done anything traditional.. I am not wedded... In the church..

And the marriage have started given me issues.. I started seeing trouble from the wife family side...
In 2018 the mother died.. I was told so I start preparing for the burial before then I send them 30k to support for them for the burial..

So before the burial I went to her village and stay 3 days.. I decided to no the family I come into.. that is we're I found out that the family are more than 20 peoples..

So the family started making arrangements to fight my family if the come for the burial...
I noticed what is going on.. but I keep quiet.. so when my family come and it is time for in-laws to start coming out..
As we're coming out the family stop us
And began to ask who are we.. they don't know us...
Because of this my village People get angry with me and began to say what kind of insults is this.. they went inside the canopy back.. so I was left alone I began to shout what kind of disgrace is this..
I told them this thing u people are doing.. is not right in front of everyone in the village..

So they began to ask me who I be

If I pay dowry for her head.. I say yes I paid they said ok... So after the burial we're about going to my village them asked me to wait behind...
So I told my village People to go... So the wife family summoned me meeting that night... So they asked me to tell them what and what I do..

I told them every thing.. so they called the father in-law and ask him the father in-law dined that I did not pay anything to him...

So when I hear this I was mad.. cus traditional dowry they don't dined it.. take of father in-law to dined it..

So on the ground there there second son began to shout.. I most talk I go talk.. papa u collected the money for the dowry.. if I didn't talk the Gods of our lands go killed me..

This is how about 2 -3 person from the family testified about me paying for the dowry.. and do somethings...
But I have been crushed in my heart witnessing the disgrace and insult I gave my self and my village People...

I was still in the meeting they called me from village that my village People have fine me 35k for the insults and disgrace I brought to them and vow never to follow me to my wife village again

I told them ok if I comes back I will see them...
So In there meeting the family of my wife told me that any thing that I have done before.. for the family of my wife.. is invalid and counsel that I should come back and start afresh and do everything again...

I say ok..

So I get to my village and told them everything they said they can never followed me to that village again.. because of the insults and disgrace they received from them...

I was left with heart broken 💔...
I cried I was regretting y I got married.. the marriage is killing me.. no church wedding no traditional marriage...

So I travel back to Lagos... And went to my church to explain everything
That happened so they advice me to gather money to go for another traditional marriage and pay for another dowry again...
So I gather money and pleaded with my family and village.. so we travel to her village.. for another traditional marriage.. getting there.

The family didn't inform the village that were coming.. but my father main reason is to see that we pay for the dowry again..
But the family refused us to paid for dowry.. my father told them that the place we come from is far..
At the end.. we could not


As we come back to my village my father told me to quit the marriage..
That he even advice me to marry from my State...
But for me am afraid to divorce.. cus I don't like it.. and in the case of my father
He has issued with my mother.. and my mother go . So for my case if I allowed this to happen.. peoples we see it as family case.. I was thinking so may things..am afraid.... And besides am a Christian..
I have been crying inside me.. and the marriage started given me sleepiness night.. every day qurreel .. disagreement..

But am afraid to take a decision.. to separate or divorce... I have traveled to her family for this traditional marriage 3 times and each traveling to her village cost me 300k I have done this 3 times but everything did not work out...

Now my church get consent about my condition.. cus the things I suppose participating in the church I can't due to am not wedded... So they told me to prepare again and travel for the 4 times.. I have know money with me.. so I have to borrow money from we're I work to travel.. we travel May 2023..

So we travel for the traditional marriage.. a day before the day the father in-law call me to come and see him.. I told him that how do u want me to come today and go home and come tomorrow with my family?
He insisted I must come and for me to go there will cost me about 27k so I have to go...
When I get there the father in-law asked me what and what I will do I told him is my father will decide what were going to do.. he said ok
That is all I say this thing is something we can discuss on phone
So I managed to travel back.. I got home around 12 am ...
So we went the second day..
As we get to my wife village.. we're supprise the father in-law did not inform any one again that were coming..
He did not even keep kola for us..
So getting there my father request for kola..
They did not keep anything... I was the one that bring out money to buy kola...

The family refused to collect dowry.. the give me list of 2.5m. Said that I must finish everything in the list before the will allow me to pay for dowry...

My father pleaded with them the refused all the money I borrow was wasted cus we can't achieve anything again my father was very angry and vow never to go to her village again..
This is how we come back with out achieving anything...

So the church took the matter to the priest incharge.. after I explained to the priest.. the priest told me that there is no need of me going to pay for dowry again since I have paid before that the dowry standards... I say I even tried to pay it again to be at peace..

The priest ask me if I want to do wedding I said yes he asked me how many years I have been unto this matter I told him Since 2011.. 13 years...
He said he want to call the wife father . to ask him if I have paid Dowry.. so he call him he asked the father in-law if I have paid for dowry the first time.. he said yes.. the priest ask me to record the call.. I have the record with me...
He told him that he want us to do wedding the father in-law said ok that he


Please I will continue.. the story is too long

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Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 4:03pm On Jan 09
Pls is passports carry the year of expiring cus i can't found the year of the expiring am confuse here
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 6:03pm On Jan 08
THANK MY MAN SHOULD I DOIT THROUGH DIY . AND MUCH IT BE IN ABUJA
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 5:48pm On Jan 08
Levels1:



LoLs

Don't waste your money as you can only renew your passport with your former names as such you will have to change the name on your nin back to the name on your passport before you can get captured.

But if you intend changing your name to the one on your nin, then you have to go to Abuja with all relevant documents to perfect The change and be ready to pay as much as.....
THANK FOR UR RESPOND BUT MY NIN WAS NOT LINK TO MY OLD PASSPORT.. IS IT ONLY IN ABUJA I CAN GET IT DONE AND LIKE HOW MUCH DO U THINK I WILL SPEND TO GET IT DONE

Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 5:13pm On Jan 08
GOOD EVEN EVERY ONE PLS SOME ONE SHOULD HELP ME BEFORE I MAKE A MISSTAKE I GOT MY PASSPORT IN 2015 WITHOUT NiN
AND THE PASSPORT EXPIRED IN 2021.... NOW MY ISSUES IS THIS THE NAMES IN MY PASSPORT I DONT WANT TO USE THEM CUS OF FAMILLY ISSUES.. BUT THE NAMES IN MY NIN IS CORRECT AND ALL MY DOCUMENTS BEAR THE NAME ON MY NIN.. ONLY MY PASSPORT HAS THE OLD FAMILY SURENAME .. SHOULDI JUST GO ANDGET ANOTHER PASSPORT WITH THE NIN SINCE I DID NOT USED NIN IN THE TIME I GOT MY OLD PASSPORT PLS HELP ME... SOME ONE SHOULD RESPOND TO ME SHOULD I JUST GO AND APPLY FOR ANOTHER PASSPOST WITH MY NIN SINCE I HAVE NOT USED THE PASSPORT
Politics / Re: Immigration Unveils Online Passport Application Portal Today by vinexe: 5:09pm On Jan 08
GOOD EVEN EVERY ONE PLS SOME ONE SHOULD HELP ME BEFORE I MAKE A MISSTAKE I GOT MY PASSPORT IN 2015 WITHOUT NiN
AND THE PASSPORT EXPIRED IN 2021.... NOW MY ISSUES IS THIS THE NAMES IN MY PASSPORT I DONT WANT TO USE THEM CUS OF FAMILLY ISSUES.. BUT THE NAMES IN MY NIN IS CORRECT AND ALL MY DOCUMENTS BEAR THE NAME ON MY NIN.. ONLY MY PASSPORT HAS THE OLD FAMILY SURENAME .. SHOULDI JUST GO ANDGET ANOTHER PASSPORT WITH THE NIN SINCE I DID NOT USED NIN IN THE TIME I GOT MY OLD PASSPORT PLS HELP ME.............................. SOME ONE SHOULD HELP ME
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 5:07pm On Jan 08
GOOD EVEN EVERY ONE PLS SOME ONE SHOULD HELP ME BEFORE I MAKE A MISSTAKE I GOT MY PASSPORT IN 2015 WITHOUT NiN
AND THE PASSPORT EXPIRED IN 2021.... NOW MY ISSUES IS THIS THE NAMES IN MY PASSPORT I DONT WANT TO USE THEM CUS OF FAMILLY ISSUES.. BUT THE NAMES IN MY NIN IS CORRECT AND ALL MY DOCUMENTS BEAR THE NAME ON MY NIN.. ONLY MY PASSPORT HAS THE OLD FAMILY SURENAME .. SHOULDI JUST GO ANDGET ANOTHER PASSPORT WITH THE NIN SINCE I DID NOT USED NIN IN THE TIME I GOT MY OLD PASSPORT PLS HELP ME
Politics / Re: Immigration Unveils Online Passport Application Portal Today by vinexe: 4:57pm On Jan 08
GOOD EVEN EVERY ONE PLS SOME ONE SHOULD HELP ME BEFORE I MAKE A MISSTAKE I GOT MY PASSPORT IN 2015 WITHOUT NiN
AND THE PASSPORT EXPIRED IN 2021.... NOW MY ISSUES IS THIS THE NAMES IN MY PASSPORT I DONT WANT TO USE THEM CUS OF FAMILLY ISSUES.. BUT THE NAMES IN MY NIN IS CORRECT AND ALL MY DOCUMENTS BEAR THE NAME ON MY NIN.. ONLY MY PASSPORT HAS THE OLD FAMILY SURENAME .. SHOULDI JUST GO ANDGET ANOTHER PASSPORT WITH THE NIN SINCE I DID NOT USED NIN IN THE TIME I GOT MY OLD PASSPORT PLS HELP ME
Career / Re: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by vinexe: 8:18am On Oct 12, 2023
terrezo2002:

Relax. The devil loves it when you are depressed after losing bets. Depression is dangerous to your whole being.
What you should do.
1. Forget your loses and move on.
2. Resist the urge to play bets again or chase your loses. You will recover your loses with time.
3. Focus on positive things to do to earn income.
4. Most importantly, serve God Almighty with your life.
thanks u man..
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by vinexe: 10:47pm On Oct 11, 2023
mcwally:
Skill visa
And standard application
please can someone guide me on this skil Visa standard application..
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2023
ibawon:

I spent 240k minus other things. Check for my number on my ads to reach out
how do u go about Urs
Career / Re: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by vinexe: 7:12pm On Oct 11, 2023
lusid:
idiot
why?
Career / Re: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by vinexe: 6:45pm On Oct 11, 2023
I nearly fainted today... I lost above 90k today
For betting
Career / Re: Please Avoid This Thing If You Want To Succeed In Life by vinexe: 6:43pm On Oct 11, 2023
I just stumble on this topic.. please my people how can someone be free from this betting.. I am regretting y I go outside today... I can't explain 😭😭😭.. what really happened to me today...
I didn't know what to do please some one to help.... please no insult.. I wouldn't don't want some one to added to my injury... and really in heart broken now
Travel / Re: General-german-student-visa-enquiries Part 8 by vinexe: 7:36pm On Oct 08, 2023
Good evening everyone and happy Sunday.... please help me on this some one want to send me invitation letter for business inquirement.. I work in a company with salary of 166k please good people of narialand please how should I go about this...
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 8:08pm On Oct 02, 2023
Please when u change ur passport is everything in the passport change such as ur passport photograph ur number... please I want some one to enlight me... [color=#000099][/color]
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 8:04pm On Oct 02, 2023
Please when u change ur passport is everything in the passport change such as ur passport photograph ur number... please I want some one to enlight me...
Travel / Re: How To Get Your International Passport In 5 Steps by vinexe: 9:06am On Oct 01, 2023
My passport was done in 2012 before NIN was introduced (in 2015). The date of birth was wrong and I had four names on the passport. The passport expired in 2017.
Now my NIN, Driver's license and all other documents have the correct names and date of birth. I reached out to certain NIS officer and he said it will cost me 350k to do the correction because (1) the passport has stayed too long. I should have done the correction a long time ago. (2) one name will be deleted. (3) the age difference for the dob is about 10 years.
My question is, should I go for a new passport since NIN is now being used?
Will the old info not pop up during biometric capture?
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 9:21pm On Sep 29, 2023
Good evening everyone can my passport picture been changed when renewing?
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by vinexe: 3:36pm On Sep 29, 2023
Please my people can u please confirm this massage and for me I don't want to fail into the hands of this scarmers...


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Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by vinexe: 1:47pm On Sep 29, 2023
Please some one should respond to me how much is to renewel or re-issues

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