₦airaland Forum

KingMEXX:
What are you saying? Both Benin and Niger were closed

Don't mind him he doesn't know what he's saying , his hatred for Buhari is blinding his sense of reasoning

J111333:
Not a big deal and of course the child is well strapped, the dad only held her tight for extra cushion and to alleviate her fears.
Folks are crying for a child that was enjoying herself.

Never will I go bungee jumping or allow anyone I know do it

sunnywhyt007:
You have a Dstv or Gotv decorder at all?

I have both , is that a prerequisite to knowing who Seyi is

What stations do you watch sef ?

sunnywhyt007:
E no easy make pesin b Instagram beggar with over 500k followers u no know say pride go kill her ni? Since d day she talk say she get achievements pass SEYI na since den I knw say dis instabeggar get pride no b small...

Who is Seyi ?

olabrinks:
Mothers love can never compete with a dad. Mothers will always be number one in a child’s life.

Not necessarily , I love both equally and I also hate them both equally

slimanyd:
Ur parents knows best.

But assuming u told ur parents that the guy is the son of a senator from mbaise now, Am sure they will change topic straight up

Most times parents don't always know the best in situations like this

ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

Are you implying that giving money willingly is a true sign of love

sexiestharam:
Almost every advice I have seen on this thread makes me puke. She is 19 and was a virgin before coming to your house. Isn't it obvious your husband seduced or raped that girl? He was also the one that volunteered to take her to the hospital. Doesn't it mean he knew what he did? Op said her husband is a respectable man. I laugh. What's respectable about a man who sleeps or rapes his wife's niece? Your husband is a goat. Ewure. If you still want to stay with a goat, that's your business. To all those advising her to have the niece commit an abortion, what if that's not what the niece wants? It is her body, it is her child she would kill and her life is at stake here. What about the. memories that would always be there. Aunty Op, do whatever you want. We all know in the end only you would advise yourself.

She may not have been a virgin , that is what the mother believes. Whether you believe her or not the proper way is to get a confirmation and not to just judge because she has fingered him. It's either they get a DNA test done or use a lie detector. If you have ever been falsely accused you'll know it's not an easy thing , I'm not saying she's falsely accusing him but the man can't be judged just because she said it's him and a proper confirmation must be carried out to know the truth

deltateam:
To do DNA test, her husband has to agree because they will need to collect somethings from him.

If he refuses then surely he is culpable

loveymom:
The fact your husband is denying it is nauseating

Please call a family meeting and invite both your niece and her family, your family and your husband's family. So that the both parties will face themselves and you will find out the truth.

Without the truth you won't be able to know how to handle this matter.

Let her get the proof he did it first before you get nauseated , even if it feels very likely that he truly did it.

Someone has said you should find the doctor/hospital she was taken to and get confirmation that he did it.

donbachi:
after all I don see video of aboki wey use juju dey lay blocks.

That video was played backwards , don't tell me you believed it

Davash222:
Women don collect all our clothing styles finish. They now wear our prestigious Ishi Agu and Agbada. Men, una dey de look them

Why you dey complain , make una wear our skirt or wear iro and buba too

mysticgal:
Sister I was trolling, I get what the man is saying

Oh ok

mysticgal:
You people love ladies who are “WELL” dressed.
“Ah baby your skirt should come up small na, you are not an old woman OR baby, wear bumshorts, I like it”

Please bro, manage her...God shall give you the grace

Being a lady doesn't mean I'll not say the truth , there's a line between class and crass. It's not difficult seeing this line , saying a lady should dress classy doesn't involve dressing like a hoe. And for a married lady and mother to always have the urge to go clubbing is wrong in all aspects

LilMissFavvy:
Most women would be happy to marry the man they once had a child for, so if she is doing otherwise, it means you have been a bad partner. You mentioned that she brought up your past deeds. You cannot control her like a robot, accept her dressing, or let her be.If you wish to keep her, then change your character for the best.

This is a bad advice coming from a lady

Joshmodest:
Verily Verily , I know one day an armed robber or a IndecentStar would come and give Thanksgiving in the church over a successful operation , and the church would shout praise the Lord !

They already do that

Keshi666:
I wonder why people won't mind their business,even if he sleeps with his daughter it shouldn't be a big deal if its consensual.

Incest is a crime in Nigeria

Jochabed:
Exactly, if he raped her and he is denying it, the truth will prevail. But if she framed him up, God will vindicate him.

Na now you just dey talk with sense

surgical:
was she 19 or 17
The only reason it would have come close to rape is the age 17 making it statutory rape,even if it was consensual

Statutory rape is a law in the U.S and not Nigeria , if it is a law in Nigeria all your northern governors and big men would all be in prison now

Jochabed:
No need for that, cause I got plenty of it.

It's very obvious you have none

Jochabed:
Lol.. I guess your a member, so it's expected.

Just shut your trap there , you think that's how judgement is done , I hope no one makes false accusations at you then you'll know it's not a laughing matter

Jochabed:
If you raped her, why not just confess. Cause even those close to you confirmed it, so please let it end.

And you believe she was raped

StrikeBack:


Football should be very lucrative in Nigeria considering the population we have. Something is Really wrong with Nigeria.Goodnews by the way

Make Enyimba and Ifeanyi Ubah FC come play match for Stadio Olympico Rome make dem see wetdem dey miss

It's not about population otherwise India and China for dey lucrative pass every other country

Preciousgirl:
I particularly like guys with a black upper lip and red lower lip


What's yours

Only the D*** gets me creaming

cooooooks:
He's being too much of a stickler and too controlling. What does he mean by instructions?? Is he her principal?? E should go and sit down jare.

She had every right to tell him to Bleep off. And bet me, HE will go back to beg.

What are you on about He can give instructions on how his things are to be used , so if I borrow your phone you do not have the right to tell me "do not download with my phone"

MASTERCHIEF0847:
So what is the fuss about? The 6 year gap? He's an idiot and your comparison with the panties is as dumb as they come.

The analogy is on point , her analogy even makes more sense than yours

XhosaNostra:
A freak of nature you are then

6' 1" isn't freakish , it's sassy. Well what do you know when you're just 3 feet tall

genq:
Fair doesn't always mean beautiful

She isn't actually beautiful if you look well , she's only fair

XhosaNostra:
You need a much higher platform to stand on then, you pygmy!

You are so hilarious , I'm 6' 1" , taller than your short ass , taller than all the females in your fvcking generation and beyond.

XhosaNostra:
Then perhaps you stood up too fast. A case of vertigo. Take a seat.

I have always been standing biitch and I'll remain standing tall , you on the other hand are just a sorry case

XhosaNostra:
Is romance a Nigerian thing? I'm mainly on this section of the forum because really, I don't care about "Naija affairs" or I'd be in another section where such discussions are held.

Romance isn't a Nigerian thing but Nairaland is so why are you on Nairaland when you do not like Nigerians ? ( I believe that was what he asking )

XhosaNostra:
Look, I don't care about your sissy fit & weak personal jabs. So I should say something is the case when it isn't? Kiss my @ss! I'm not going to sugarcoat the truth to appease you.

From where I stand you sound more pained than trying to say the truth