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Politics / Re: “He’s Not My Son” – Tinubu Reacts To Osinbajo’s 2023 Declaration by VivJohn: 3:24pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
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Family / Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by VivJohn: 7:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
mastermaestro: I'm sure you aren't married, and judging by your nairaland gender symbol, you are most likely male. Trust me, someday and in some foreseeable future, you'd find out that being married isn't the ideal fantasyland you dreamt it would be. Both husband and wife go through phases where a little distraction helps deal with domestic stress and trials. These convenient distractions are not meant to destroy or weaken the fabrics of your marriage, but rather spicen and ensure the spark remains lit. Men by their very nature are more disposed to episodes of such distractions. It's basically a coping mechanism. Married men keeping and actively communicating with single ladies isn't necessarily for sexual benefits. Rather, as men grow older and rack up more years in matrimony, there's rekindled desire to revive youthful zest and its indulgences. It is a perfectly normal reflex which most men will experience at some point in their lives. You inclusive. I understand the context of this story slightly differs from my opinion piece. But all the same, I believe there's a lot to learn about marriage and external relationships. |
Politics / Re: Life No Balance: Reno Omokri & Mr Gidi Song On Southern Kaduna Killings by VivJohn: 4:37pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
This song has a melancholic feel.. quite touching... Musicians must arise and use their talents for tackling societal rot just the way it used to be in the 80s and 90s. |
Music/Radio / Re: Top Five Nigerian Songs that Revolutionised Song Covers In Nigeria - Iamsynord by VivJohn: 5:37am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Synord: Indomie generation OP with his indomie recommendations/list. I pray that you would someday have the opportunity to listen to quality music from the past. Beats were pure and lyrics soul uplifting. |
Romance / Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by VivJohn: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
As immoral as it is to sleep with a married man or even woman.. I'd bet you 9 out of 10 times that the OP who appears to be a man would most likely have a girlfriend aka sidechic when he gets married. You never truly know a man's capabilities until he's endowed with all the good things of life such as wealth, material acquisitions, a vibrant family and other bells and whistles that go with the terrain. 'Boys' generally act self-righteous while still coming up in life.. absence of cash keeps them devoted to a single lady but that doesn't mean they do not crave sexual relationships with other ladies - just that they are incapacitated financially to pursue multiple affairs. However, there a few young men who are true monogamists and generally remain faithful to their partners, but trust me, its a very tiny percentage of men. Very very small population! And on the flipside, whats the assurance of marrying a faithful and devout husband even if a lady does not indulge in bed-hopping with married men? Its as random as the outcome from a Russian Roulette. 5 Likes |
Crime / Re: Lockdown: Angry Residents Beat Delta State Taskforce Officials, Today by VivJohn: 5:37pm On Apr 01, 2020 |
Shit is getting real 3 Likes |
Family / Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by VivJohn: 3:49am On Oct 01, 2019 |
As long as this remains the focal point of most relationships.. then such situations as narrated by the original poster may persist.
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Romance / Re: Lady Accuses Girl Of Dating Her Father In Benin. Confronts Her With Her Friends by VivJohn: 8:29pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
Preshy561: You sound bitter. Hope a slay queen didn't snatch your dad from your mum? Or did your boy friend end up with a sugar mummy? Damn!! Your post was bile loaded. |
Events / Re: Ejiroghene Porch Armygirl Twerking To Celebrate Her Birthday (Photos, Video) by VivJohn: 2:16pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Buratai Dinner! 1 Like |
Pets / Re: The Saint Benard's Family by VivJohn: 8:12pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
tobolos: Hmmm.. Crossing two breeds (A & B respectively) who are the principal contributors to another breed (C) does not automatically create a puppy conformant to breed C's technical specifications. This was a topic of much heated debate in a Caucasian whatsapp group I belong to. I think the science of breed creation goes beyond just mating separate breeds in the hopes of creating a new one. There are DNA profiling, genotypic and phenotypic considerations etc. What gender are your saints? I just groomed my Caucasian shepherds this weekend, 3 dogs @ a combined price of 9k (3k per dog). But the groomer does an excellent job though. 3 Likes |
Pets / Re: The Saint Benard's Family by VivJohn: 1:16pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
tobolos: Oh! I see.. Thanks for the info. You know what they say "experience is the best teacher". I'm aware of two breeders in Jos who do St. Bs namely Bsquarekennels and PSK too. To be candid, I've perpetually held myself back from acquiring this awesome breed owing to my greatest concern i.e. avoiding undesirable crossbreeding between my pack of Caucasian shepherds and the St. B. Heat periods can be quite tricky and if u aren't on top of your game such "disasters" may occur. How have u been able to address this phenomenon? |
Pets / Re: The Saint Benard's Family by VivJohn: 9:14am On Jul 09, 2017 |
So beautiful.. The first pic is infinitely adorable. I love St. Bs. But from ur experience, do they make reliable guard dogs when compared to gsds, rotts, Boerboels and Caucasian ovtcharka? |
Pets / Re: Truly Special Owners Required For Two Special Pedigree Black Boerboel Pups.... by VivJohn: 8:17pm On Jul 05, 2017 |
Yeah! I did read the entire write-up and it was masterfully crafted in easy to understand vocabulary. OP writes quite well. However on second thought, brevity would probably suffice for advert purposes in the future. Readers prefer more graphics and less talk (if u catch my drift). @OP, what about the parents' pix? Lavendra: |
Pets / Re: Truly Special Owners Required For Two Special Pedigree Black Boerboel Pups.... by VivJohn: 8:29am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Bros or Babe (which ever you are)... I just want to say.. YOU ARE TOO MUCH!!!. You've taken pet advertisement/marketing to a whole new realm. As a matter of policy, i only keep Caucasian Shepherds.. but these Boerboels look so premium that i'm strongly inclined to reconsider my CO only policy. But do you have equally pedigree black females? One more thing, Are you a backyard breeder (no pun intended) or do you own and operate a full-fledged dog farm/kennel? Cause i feel most people do dog breeding as a secondary source of income and probably have other vocations they are into. 1 Like |
Pets / Caucasian-gsd Mix Adult Female For Giveaway (ABJ Only) by VivJohn: 5:41am On Jun 10, 2017 |
I've got this nice Caucasian-gsd adult female that I would love to giveaway to an aspiring dog enthusiast. She's being a loyal servant during her time with me. And she's an excellent security dog too. So feel free to drop ur number and I would contact u asap for further discussions. This offer's only for Abuja residents. Thanks. |
Pets / Re: Advise For Someone Who Wish To Go Into Dog Breeding Business. by VivJohn: 6:21am On Jun 07, 2017 |
Yes @princetobi kindly shed more light on the nonprofitability bit. I honestly feel the economy has forced pet enthusiasts to repriotize wants and needs. There's a high supply of pups/dogs and the pricing is just not as attractive as it once was. Only established breeders e.g Tox kennel jos still manage to sell at very decent prices and this is purely due to their vast network of clients. My top 4 ingredients for success: 1. Passion and love 2. Quality Breeding stock and the right ethics too 3. Get yourself into the right Whatsapp dog breeders groups (trust me.. U really need this for networking and education) 4. Doggedness and a never-give-up spirit. Sales & marketing isn't as easy as u think. |
Pets / Re: How To Differentiate Between A Breeder And Marketer by VivJohn: 3:35am On Jun 03, 2017 |
In the context of this discussion one notable He has succeeded in putting up a resounding deceit campaign over the years posing as a breeder of a broad spectrum of dog breeds. Churning out puppy/dog adverts with frenzied momentum and always ascribing them to his kennel making me wonder how a solitary kennel can be that productive. For a regrettable moment, even I fell victim to this individual's antics and true to the OP's assertions a day came when I sought the truth of my puppy's parentage but all I got was a barrage of false information which spurred me to conduct personal investigation until I unveiled the actual truth. Trust me.. The truth was distasteful to say the least. However the deal had been sealed already so yours faithfully is now being compelled to make the best of the situation after doling out a substantial amount for a pedigree pup. But as the saying goes no need crying over spilt milk... just have to man up and move on. 1 Like |
Pets / Re: Big boned and extra large head Female cauc pup for sale by VivJohn: 7:27pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Puppy's age pls? |
Autos / Re: ###########cleanest 2008 Toyota Camry, Buy And Drive..price 2.480m by VivJohn: 12:49pm On Apr 19, 2017 |
can 1.5m move it? cash down!! |
Autos / Re: 2009 Corolla - 2.950m Sold Sold Sold!!! by VivJohn: 3:36pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
3.3m?? U get mind oo!! |
Autos / Re: 2012 sold sold sold soldSix Months Used Corolla In Ibadan @2.6. .63km mileage by VivJohn: 7:47pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Nice car... But u can do better with ur picture quality. I can't make a healthy assessment from the blurry pictures u uploaded. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:15am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Dione007:Hahaha Tell them.. Especially them boys. |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:14am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Taiwo20:Kai! What a response. I like the honesty of it. Too much religion and self righteousness screwing up the world nowadays. Truth is we don't really know how 2moro will be.. We can only hope alot of us men don't end up eating our words. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:11am On Mar 10, 2017 |
rinzylee: Young man.. It's a long journey ahead. Godspeed go with u. I wish u all the best. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 6:10am On Mar 10, 2017 |
emusbyz: You must be a good boy. Thumbs up bro! But are u married? Just asking. |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:48am On Mar 10, 2017 |
femi4:So the obvious question that begs.. Would a lady prefer being with a faithfully "boring" social misfit or be with a socially balanced guy regardless of whether he would cheat on her or not? Go figure. I won't answer on behalf of the ladies. But I guess u do get the general consensus on this one. |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:43am On Mar 10, 2017 |
missyelegant:From ur moniker it shows ur still single (miss) Life is funny. I believe I'm older and more experienced. Have seen some pretty bizarre things in my time. Ur right. It's quite lethal for a lady to enter marriage with the mindset that her spouse would cheat on her somewhere down the line. I think u should desist from reading such posts and articles cause u may develop a very sour taste for matrimony going at ur pace. I have had all sort of women confide in me on what they are passing thru in marriage. When I mean all sort I mean all sort. |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:37am On Mar 10, 2017 |
JuneOctober: Make e no taya u my fine sister. Like I said earlier.. We didn't invent cheating we all came and met it. The polygamous instinct resides in all of us (both male and female alike). Societal taboos suppress the ladies from freely indulging however the male folks are in a way permitted. But read my earlier submission to get more insight before u begin dey fire me. |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:33am On Mar 10, 2017 |
femi4: Guy!! Most "nonflambouyant" men are that way mostly due to their average financial status. Make man make better money come get small power join am.. Then u go know what's up. Trust me on this one Bro.. I have witnessed alot of transformations in my time. And I no be small boy ooo. Sure a few good men still stand but unfortunately I can't vouch for anyone. Sorry! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:25am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Ol' boy!!! This post is full of hypocrites and self righteous people (especially those males running there mouths that they would/cannot cheat on their present or future spouses). Most don't even have experience concerning regular boyfriend-girlfriend relationship not to talk of marriage. Boys and girls.. Hear this and listen with rapt attention. Marriage isn't all about the lovey-dovey butterfly-in-your-stomach type feeling u get when u think ur in love. It's a practical school with no real tangible graduation date. OP knows what she's talking about.. And it shouldn't be misconstrued as a sign of weakness or stupidity. It's just plain fact. Men do a bunch of stuff and get away with it.. Women try same things and get a battering from society. We didn't make things this way, we all just met it and have to deal with. For those women (girls) who can't deal with a cheating man.. 2 possible way out. 1st, cheat back but make sure to do it codedly cause if caught u know what's up. 2ndly, just take a walk if u can't deal with it. Don't mind these men (or boys) running their mouth that they can't or won't cheat on their present or future spouses. All na lie. No mind them jare. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by VivJohn: 5:19am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Ol' boy!!! This post is full of hypocrites and self righteous people (especially those males running there mouths that they would/cannot cheat on their present or future spouses). Most don't even have experience concerning regular boyfriend-girlfriend relationship not to talk of marriage. Boys and girls.. Hear this and listen with rapt attention. Marriage isn't all about the lovey-dovey butterfly-in-your-stomach type feeling u get when u think ur in love. It's a practical school with no real tangible graduation date. OP knows what she's talking about.. And it shouldn't be misconstrued as a sign of weakness or stupidity. It's just plain fact. Men do a bunch of stuff and get away with it.. Women try same things and get a battering from society. We didn't make things this way, we all just met it and have to deal with. For those women (girls) who can't deal with a cheating man.. 2 possible way out. 1st, cheat back but make sure to do it codedly cause if caught u know what's up. 2ndly, just take a walk if u can't deal with it. Don't mind these men (or boys) running their mouth that they can't or won't cheat on their present or future spouses. All na lie. No mind them jare. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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