ladygaga:

, hmmn
vizzy,vizzy,vizzy, u r such a bad guy,
y did u decide a hotel, ashèwò like u, lmao

,amebo no1:

sure why not, when next the guy tells her shut up, she will run to her mum, and then demand for an apology from him abi?

Let me tell you one thingy you don't know, when a girl is inlove, she hides from her mum every bad thingies the guy does, but wastes no time in telling the mum all the good things the guy has done

In this case she'd rather tell the bad than the good, my mother has her life, i have mine, shes a good mother, but that does not mean she has the right to know what happens around my life all the time. If the girl can't keep and fight a difficult situation now that they are courting, is it when he marries her into the house she will learn?

posakosa:

You ego is getting the best of you. Not all advice is good. When she leaves and moves on with her life, make certain to come back and date a NLder, pseeew!

ezinne1212:

@Poster, you mentioned it was the mum that settled ur last misunderstanding, did u ever consider she might have considered that a mistake after your present stunt. Your gf telling the mum what you did might have made her feel foolish for sending her daughter back to you. Personally, i don't even understand why an adult would listen to her mum tell her to go back to someone who beat her, but since thats the case, you can be very sure that if you don't apologize, then it's the end of the relationship for you two.

009kk:

@Naturez
i don't think you have a problem with that. the solution is in your hands. confront her about the issue and ask her to delete the number. if she refuse to do it, my guy pick up that phone and delete. if she nags about your action, then know there is something fishing.

Note: before you do that write down the number somewhere because it is posible she might have cram the number in her mind and then save with with another name later. cheers!

Druss:

The sad thing is that women will read this and attack the guy not knowing it is their own behaviour that contributes to this. Guys tend to be naive until a woman deals with them and abuses the trust he had in her. In this case dude, I have read your story - Let her go. If she could do those things before NYSC forget her and move on. She will def do more.

I just had a real painful breakup with my ex - Discovered through another person that she was engaged - not even seeing - engaged to another guy. I also know at least three girls who are cheating on their current boyfriend. I know one who just did her traditional wedding and the day after is doing the dirty with one of my colleagues. Dont let me mention the so called female pillars in the churches that I know of. I have now joined the school of thought of guys who think women all have something wrong with them mentally. There was a dude on NL that I used to shake my heat at because of the way he cusses them out. I can understand him now.

They all have their prices - all of them. Women dont seem to understand the notion of loyalty. I have tried to persuade my female friends that cheat on their guys - that look you wanna taste - let your guy go and go adventure but this same notion of backup. It is even worse when one notes that this has been their behaviour since time. There are some good ones out there but they are increasingly rare.

Harsh but the sooner you realise this as a guy , the better. I knew it before but thot treating women like proper beings was good. Unfortunately it seems playing with their minds is the better option. My advice let her go and find another one.

Nautillus:

Dude . . .Your fear is rather hilarious . . . . .but i'm afraid that i'd have to scare you more

. . .you see , there's is this air that ALWAYS hovers around the orientation camps . . .i remember mine with so much nostalgia. . .Three 3 weeks was magical . .i served in Ogun state many years ago. The thing is, i met the great chic and we fell for each other, Massive attraction Massive lust . .we just couldn't help it. . ._{we were both in different relationships at that time . . .}If my galfriend hadn't paid a chance visit to the camp on its second weekend . . .Things would have gotten out of hand . . _{we were on our way to Lagos for the weekend when we ran into her at the gate}

Buttom line is. . .bruv, pray hard oh . . camp is not a NICE place oh . . .anything can happen . . .never say never