TheSeeker:

Congrats! Next time, you don't go to a hotel, you take her to a nice restaurant or better still, a park. A hotel is a little bit . . . how do I put it now? C2, help me from your dictionary

Gentlelady:

Congratulations! I hope you have learnt your lesson.
I think the word should be 'tacky'

vizzy09:

@all thanks for all the replies to my post. It has not been easy but I think this is one of the best replies because they were all mature. I really appreciate the scolding and the advice like the saying goes, a father will beat the child with one hand and then draw the child closer with the other hand. You guyz were great you lambasted me for my jerk attitude and also advice on the way forward. Once again I say a big thank you to all most especially TheSeeker and Ladygaga you guyz are too much.


Thank God the problem is over. I had to close from work early today 2pm to see my gurl. I called her and told her I was coming so we could thrash out issues face to face instead on the phone. Though I did not go to her house this time around cos I wanted us to be alone. I called her to meet me up in a hotel. when she came I hugged her and tried kissing her as usual but she was turning her head so that i don’t kiss her. I apologised to her again and begged her to forgive me. She told me she has already forgiven me but we cannot continue again but we will still be very good friends. To cut the story short, after much talking and pleading, she was still standing her ground. [b]I told her its okay and that there is no problem and i have accepted it with good fate and that even though i love her, it is going to take some time for me to get her out of her mind. Though she did not bring the issue of me apologising to the mom through out our discussions even though i have already made up my mind within me that i was not going to do that.Then I told her we should be leaving that I want to get home. She then asked if i was not going back to work and i told her i have closed for the day. She asked me if she could come home with me and I told her no. She asked why and i told her there was no need since we are no longer together but she can visit aany other day. As I was about walking out of the room, she held my hand and pulled me back. The next thing that happend, she hugged me closely and started crying telling me that I should not go and i know she loves me and that there was no way she was going to breakup with me. After so much romantic talk, the next thing we found ourselves already, And i can’t remember the last time we had it like this.
The good thing is that we have settled our differences and she said she is coming to spend the weekend in ma place. [/b]

Thank God the problem is over. I had to close from work early today 2pm to see my gurl. I called her and told her I was coming so we could thrash out issues face to face instead on the phone. Though I did not go to her house this time around cos I wanted us to be alone. I called her to meet me up in a hotel. when she came I hugged her and tried kissing her as usual but she was turning her head so that i don’t kiss her. I apologised to her again and begged her to forgive me. She told me she has already forgiven me but we cannot continue again but we will still be very good friends. To cut the story short, after much talking and pleading, she was still standing her ground. I told her its okay and that there is no problem and i have accepted it with good fate and that even though i love her, it is going to take some time for me to get her out of her mind. Though she did not bring the issue of me apologising to the mom through out our discussions even though i have already made up my mind within me that i was not going to do that.Then I told her we should be leaving that I want to get home. She then asked if i was not going back to work and i told her i have closed for the day. She asked me if she could come home with me and I told her no. She asked why and i told her there was no need since we are no longer together but she can visit aany other day. [b]As I was about walking out of the room, she held my hand and pulled me back. The next thing that happend, she hugged me closely and started crying telling me that I should not go and i know she loves me and that there was no way she was going to breakup with me. [/b]After so much romantic talk, the next thing we found ourselves already, And i can’t remember the last time we had it like this.
The good thing is that we have settled our differences and she said she is coming to spend the weekend in ma place.

touchmeder:

All is well that ends well. i like the babe style. lol
Guy learn to trust, never beat a woman again, and solve your problems within yourself in the future.
nice story now back to my work

ladygaga:

, hmmn
vizzy,vizzy,vizzy, u r such a bad guy,
y did u decide a hotel, ashèwò like u, lmao