Toks2008: Do you know that your birth period can actually be a pointer to your career in life?
A lion was born to rule the animals while the whale was created to be the sea giant...in like manner,everyone has a place in the kaleidoscope of life.
So tell me your month and day of birth(not year) and I will tell you the career that suits you the most...the career that will possibly give you great success in life.
Toks2008: Do you know that your birth period can actually be a pointer to your career in life?
A lion was born to rule the animals while the whale was created to be the sea giant...in like manner,everyone has a place in the kaleidoscope of life.
So tell me your month and day of birth(not year) and I will tell you the career that suits you the most...the career that will possibly give you great success in life.
Toks2008: You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..
Shall we call that being faithful or being naive? Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage
Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.
Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.
Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years. The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband
Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.
You are either single or married
Don't know if this makes sense.
So tell me how a serious man will want to go ahead to marry a woman whom he is aware makes herself available to any man that comes her way.Most ladies remain engaged and not married because of this reason. They keep blaming the guy.Believe me no alpha male will take such ladies serious.Personally the moment I see evidence that she is still interested in other men that's the moment I'd start a backup plan.We all need wisdom to deal with these issues.
UltraLeslie1: There's a difference between inferior and backward! Africans have all the potentials to be economic, technological, political, and social developmental leader in the committee of nations but they are ranked bottom last in the global index.
Marriage meanwhile is important and serve as a bedrock for societal development but it has its place and we, especially Nigerians prioritise marriage above other aspects of life to a sickening degree.
Most youth are so pressured by the societal demand for marriage they waste their reproductive energy and resources rushing into marriage just to assuage their peerage and have society say well-done.
Phoney pastors and prophets trick young girls into false suitors and marriages fleecing of thier cash and humanity.
I agree with you but the issue of pressure to marry is part of our lives.Trust me if nobody puts pressure on you to marry, at a certain age you'll be the one putting pressure on yourself.
UltraLeslie1: Africans prioritise religion, marriage and traditions above personal development, science and technology, education and entrepreneurship that's why we're at the back of the queue globally.
Being single or married is just a small dot in the ocean of life.
Not true bro.Life has three important events 1- Birth 2- Marriage and 3- Death. It's the undeniable truth.When no.2 hits you you'll understand better. Though not done no.2 yet but it's very necessary. About being backwards globally I don't agree with you too.We have all it takes to be better than anyone else globally but... our over sabi too much.Africans are not inferior we're unique people.
Heart of men desperately evil. Imagine the girl sef her Olympus yaf fallen sef(Does she even have Olympus?)Flat something.This country sef no better news.Smh.
acenazt: Lmao I Wonder How E Go Be. Guys Go Begin Buy ALWAYS CONDOMS. imagine me telling my gf ah i'm in my period oh. or a young pubiscent boy telling his dad that he is bleeding.
irynterri: go to the FCC head office at abuja,be bold and request to see the acting secretary,chairman or any director,you can start by making enquiries from the friendly secretaries that who is the nicest,people take their destinies in their own hands and do these things and it works for them best of luck
That was how I got my first job.Walked in there like I had an appointment with the HRM.The secretary said he wasn't in the office I told her "Are you sure?". The lady got mad o.I now told her to drop the brown envelope containing my CV for him.She said they're not recruiting. Me too got mad o I told her if you don't drop this parcel for your oga it might get you sacked.She immediately took it.I walked out like a boss.Few weeks later I got a call from them for a test.I finally landed the job but not what I applied for they gave me.I come dey form boss for the secretary. She respected me till I left them for another job.It works if you carry yourself well.
3 months after NYSC.God has been faithful.God loves everyone of us its not about how long one stayed before getting a job its about God's plan for us.To many folks out there without no job yet trust me when the job comes you'll realise there's a reason behind the long wait and lessons to learn from it.Don't be discouraged.
alexialin: My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!! I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable. I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala. It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history. Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.
It's well
alexialin: My dear, it is very long. There was nothing I could do about it. And I didn't want to settle for less and at the end start crying like my friends who are married with kids.. Especially two of them.. Mehn those ladies can curse their husbands from now till tmrw. He's a mad man .. He's so stupid and useless if I had known.. Lol. What kind of human being is this! Oh Lord!! I don't want my story to be like that .. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol One of my male friend complained my bf is not an Alpha male.. That he's too soft and amiable. I said hian? Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala. It's better it takes long and one eventually get it right.. Than to be in a hurry and end up so unhappy with counts of divorce cases in ones history. Sometimes the delay and breakups is beyond ones power.
alexialin: It's true that's how mine started.. Op lower your guard a bit. Take a chance with a single lady out there.. Who knows she might be the one.
It took me 15years with series of heart breaks to finally end up with the one few months ago till date.. We started playfully, now we cant even sleep wihout saying goodnight. So give a new lady a shot. Life itself is full. Of risks. Cmon? Try with nma27 or any other chick out there.
It's allowed
Hmmmm 15 years is quite a long time.Glad you're happy in your new relationship.Thanks for your advice I'm working on it.
bitchcrafts: We need tha companion but being with the wrong kinda folk's worse than being all by yourself and minding yo shit. BTW, don't you have male friend(s) off the rail to kill time with?... Keeping it active with tha brothers can be mind blowing . All in all, I feel yo hygge moments must not be marred just cos you haven't the crowd to go, have you heard about that term "hygge".? If you haven't, perhaps you just a google search away from knowing how to go about giving yourself the kinky kinda treat you've always envisioned.
I do have few friends.You know the more friends you roll with the more bullshit you deal with, there are times for hanging out with the brothers and its always a good time.Hygge moment( hearing it for the first time) is good too but then God Himself created Eve for Adam He knew there was a need for a woman for every man if not He would have created another brother for Adam.But just like you said being with the wrong folk is worse than being all by yourself and minding yo shit.
babyfaceafrica: No let any situation force you to marry o,just cool down .the problem I have with some people is that they will rather be in a bad relationship than be alone..that is crap!!!..if you are fekkibg bored,look for your friends(guys) and go out with them ,must not be with gal alone..even gals do ladies night..be searching discreetly and smartly.. You will find...quality over quantity..meanwhile continue to make your money,don't let any lady to come and say na she make you rich,that she met you when you are poor .....you know that ladues like all these kain clapbacks....be wise..wish you well
obadizena: U know as a fact that most guys would consider a lady as cheap or desperate if she does not do "shakara" or "play hard to get". Generally, naija ladies have uncanny ability to adapt in response to a guy's attitude towards them. Therefore now that she has an idea of ur nature, I believe she would not play that game with u.
However, u have to remember that she's just recovering from emotional wound which was inflicted on her by another guy. As such, u wouldn't expect her to open up too much in the beginning. Trust has to be established first & this needs time to develop. Hope u understand. Best of luck!
obadizena: People learn from their mistakes! Try Nma27 bro, who knows? Wishing u all the best,
OK bro I actually thought about that but now that Nma27 is aware that I'm gonna try she's gonna double all her shakara and every of her defensive strategy in preparation for the toasting. Please Nma27 shield your sword I repeat shield your sword over and out.
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.. I don't have strength for wahala some people witness in. Marriage.. That's why it took me this long. I can't shout.. Lol. And moreover I have bp issues.. I cant come and die because I need a companion.. Lol 
Too soft ke?. Abeg oo.. I don't need a dictator, drama king or agbero at home.. My strength no carry such. After a while he simply noticed that my guy is just a gentleman who. Doesn't like issues too and does not have strength for woman wahala. 
