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Romance / Re: What Makes An Opposite Sex Attractive To You by WafiJoe(m): 11:17pm On Jul 15, 2014
Cecediva: Wetin i wan talk sef!

Anyway he must be a born again christian
story
Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 1:44pm On Jul 10, 2014
bukatyne:

Definition of respect

/rɪˈspɛkt/

noun

1. Noun: respect; plural noun: respects
a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

2. Verb
admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements

Should deep admiration be felt for my hubby only because he earns more than me?

Nowhere did the Bible (I assume you are a Christian) say a man is the head because he earns more than the wife or because he is the breadwinner. The only scripture that ties 'men' to breadwinning is
1 Tim 5:8 King James Bible
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

Then again, remember II Cor 5:17 King James Bible
Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

Is the man in II Cor 5:17 here referring to only 'men'? Afterall, we do not have sisters in KJV etc.

Look at the qualities of the Virtuous woman (emphasis on the bolded)

Proverbs 31:10-31King James Version (KJV)

10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.


P.S.: And why will a husband respect his wife (Let us assume she is an housewife and have no income)

Sorry for the long post
.You're? a blessed woman

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Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 1:38pm On Jul 10, 2014
delishpot:

To p.enis. That is what our men feel that makes then above women. They have penis and they dont have to aern respect based on anything else.
What do I call you?
Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 1:33pm On Jul 10, 2014
delishpot:

If you dont see the link between my reply and your quote then sorry. Try puting your quote and my reply side by side and read so you can see the link between my reply and your own comment. Its good you decide to move on. Me sef don tire for this topic.
No continue to type
Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 1:31pm On Jul 10, 2014
ihedinobi2:
For the sake of productive conversarion, do tell, to what should respect be tied?
Character

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Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 12:58pm On Jul 10, 2014
godunia: OP,u observed correctly n of course u got response from end time men.well,real men are still working hard n are aware of their God given responsibility to provide for women.inshort a man who does not is worse than an infidel says d bible.women shine your eyes,it can't always be about love or time is running out,eventually nature will have it's way,u will desire a real man.
This is why there's the word "fool" is in the dictionary
Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 12:49pm On Jul 10, 2014
johnstar: U r lucky I'm fasting wit our muslim brodas, if nt ehn.... In my home town (delta) if any woman dey qstn man lyk dis, dm 4 don cane her criusly undecided
You are not from Delta
Family / Re: What's Happening To Our Men? by WafiJoe(m): 12:41pm On Jul 10, 2014
BananaBender:
.....So if a man isn't the breadwinner of his family, he doesn't deserve respect?? You mean as a little girl you were taught to link respect with money?? The more money a man has, the more respect he deserves and vice versa. *sad*
What exactly is wrong with a woman being the breadwinner?? I just need to understand your logic.


It seems money is your problem because you are more focused on finances.

I am not even mad that you would say something as ridiculous as ".......every woman love to depend on his man even if she have the whole money in the world...".

I just wonder the sort of environment you grew up in. There should be active organizations catering to women like you that suffer from mental slavery.



Again money! Money. Money. Money!

Does money mean love where you come from??
twenty rounds of applause and a thousand likes for you. You can tell she's a broke girl, dating a broke guy

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Jokes Etc / Re: 9ja Dey Vex Ohhhh by WafiJoe(m): 9:09am On Jul 01, 2014
This is the "driest" joke I've ever read angry
Celebrities / Re: 13-year-old Boy Discovers Bomb Near Kano Mosque (Picture) by WafiJoe(m): 12:33am On Jun 29, 2014
Yomieluv: seems we are thinking alike,I refuse to believe the shitty story...a poor attempt to divert attention...
A very poor attempt indeed
Sports / Re: So, Why Didn't Enyeama Dive For That Messi's Freekick? by WafiJoe(m): 5:59pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mr Mac-10:
MESSI IS A GOD. THAT'S why
Then serve him
Politics / A Nigerian's Facebook Comment In Response To Obj's Letter To GEJ by WafiJoe(m): 11:14am On Dec 18, 2013
I so agree with a lot of things he said

" Critically looking at the message, the messenger,
the medium and the motive. Presidential aids
for some days now tried to explain away OBJ’s
letter to their boss but I want to make this
assertion; OBJ’s letter may be “most reckless and
indecorous charges, highly unbecoming,
mischievous and provocative” but some issues in
that letter are not “baseless and unjustifiable”.
GEJ’s kitchen cabinet take note! I don’t like
seeing pot calling kettle black, I think OBJ’s
letter was borne out of a strained relationship
with GEJ, resulted to his resignation from PDP
BOT chair. GEJ’s picking of same OBJ’s defeated
Aneni didn’t go down well with BABA, GEJ’s
independent minded posture/total detachment
from his benevolent god-father didn’t go down
well with OBJ, unconsulting attitude of GEJ to
OBJ lately was seen as rude posture by god-
father. Whenever u say no to OBJ’s ideas,
advanced god-fatherism you are in for a serious
trouble coated in a salvaging missionary design
to deceive the simple minded. Atiku is a rogue
to him. Tinubu is an animal. Audu Ogbe is a
bush man. His own son GBENGA is an idiot/a
prodigal son. Jonathan is incompetent and
docile. GEJ’s aids are sycophants. It is only OBJ
that is wiser than all put together. Those of us
who still remembered what it used to be before
GEJ knows that president Jonathan is the best we
have seen since 1999. And no past president or
head of state did achieve all he has done in just
three years in infrastructural development etc.
let’s be honest for once! Obj did a million times
all the allegations he leveled against Jonathan in
that letter, which some are lies, OBJ talked of
corruption, OBJ spent close to sixteen billion
dollars on NEPA/PHCN alone, OBJ as a sitting
president did coarse governors, government
contractors, ministers and business moguls to
raise a whopping seven billion naira in two
hours for a private library project, Today larger
part of that money was converted to building of
five star hotels in Otta, can Obama try that in
America even closer south Africa and Ghana? Let
obj call for lunching now and see if he can raise
even twenty million naira ,he took undue
advantage of his position. Cartons of naira were
displayed as bribe money at the chambers of the
national assembly to support third term agenda,
OBJ talking of witch hunting , chased Orji Kalu’s
Slok airline to Gambia simply because he
challenged Aneni on the monies, three billion
naira expended on Lagos/Ibadan and Lagos/
Benin road without anything to show for it,
Savanna bank was closed because of Jim
nwobodo’s interest to presidential contest, OBJ
chased Globacom to Ghana because of his
vested interest in South African MTN. OBJ used
to change national assembly officers at will,
same for PDP chairmen just to soothe his whims
and caprices. Brutal force at Odi, Zakibiam on
defenseless civilians, OBJ used five legislatures
to impeach a sitting governor Alamesiegha in
Bayelsa state, He virtually supervised the
kidnapping of Ngige, another sitting governor in
Anambra and that was the beginning of the
monster “KIDNAPPING BUSINESS” was born,
even Rotimi Amechi received a little dose of
OBJ’s Venom though later saved by the court,
Morris Iwu of INEC used to right election results
in Aso-Villa for OBJ. I think we Nigerians are
people of short memory or we have refused to
be open to facts. Dr Bola Ige was killed, Dikibo
was murdered and so many politically motivated
assassinations during OBJ’s regime, the killers
are yet to be found. In all sectors Jonathan
despite deliberate insecurity problems has
outperformed his predecessors, in
infrastructure, agriculture, aviation and
unbundling of phcn. Nigerians please do not
bother about OBJ’s letter to President Jonathan.
He still practice the pull him down mindset. GEJ
has excelled where OBJ failed and we may not
have gotten to Eldorado but the road map is
clearer now and Nigerians are now hopeful
because of Jonathan’s performance. If really OBJ
means well, why did he make a private letter
public? Could he have allowed this type of letter
delivered to the public during his tenure? OBJ’s
intention is to appease some section of the
country and incite the people against GEJ. I
suspect this whole game is pointing to 2015
revenge of a god-father to an estranged god-son,
choosing a northern stooge to spite GEJ and well
meaning Nigerians, just because it can never be
done through the ballot box. BABA does not
want GEJ to contest so who does OBJ want to be
the President? These groups buying this deceit
by supporting OBJ’s letter are doing so because
they have no stake in GEJ’s government. There
are very few honest persons in Nigeria. They
support when they are a part of the looting, and
against when they are not part of the process.
They are nothing but slimy leeches. If GEJ goes
hard on them, they will call it a political witch
hunt, if he plays gentle they will say he is
docile. Is it because he is from the minority?
Therefore you can never please Nigerians. This
letter is definitely not about corruption because
corruption was worse under OBJ. It is about
2015 as OBJ with his hubris wants to continue to
be the King maker. If GEJ surrenders to OBJ
today the game and OBJ’s language changes over
night. But GEJ should be ready to go into exile
because good number of Nigerians that know
what the fight is all about (2015 relevance) will
be highly disappointed in him. Nigeria belongs to
all of us and if OBJ thinks that the South/South
and the South East that lay the golden eggs don’t
deserve a stake in the Nigerian project, I say
bring it on. If he is calling for the destruction of
Nigeria so be it and that will benefit the South/
South and South East better. OBJ is offended
because he thought he was foisting a push over
that he can remove at any time and replace with
another. If OBJ has fangs, why didn’t he use it
when Abacha almost killed him in jail? Stay
strong GEJ because all well-meaning Nigerians
are solidly behind you, we know what the
hypocritical-sugar-coated fight is all about and
there is nothing OBJ or anyone can do about it.
Let every one test his or her popularity at the
polls, be it primary or general elections PERIOD!
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Jokes Etc / Re: A Thread For Yoruba Actors/actress & Musicians 'i Wonder Why' A Must Read. by WafiJoe(m): 9:56pm On Nov 21, 2013
You well so?
Jokes Etc / Re: Very Funny Joke, If You Don't Laugh Then..... by WafiJoe(m): 8:16pm On Nov 21, 2013
3 letter word in caps: D R Y
Jokes Etc / Re: BIN FM 46.8FM...CATCH All Latest News Here!!! by WafiJoe(m): 12:12am On Nov 16, 2013
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Properties / Re: Quality Tiles Work For Your Building by WafiJoe(m): 12:44am On Sep 15, 2013
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Politics / Re: Two Pastors, 28 Others Nabbed Over Pipeline Vandalism by WafiJoe(m): 9:38am On Sep 03, 2013
For all those saying that the people arrested are criminals, it shows that you do not understand what you read. The post said they jumped into the river and they escaped. That alone should make you understand that the real persons involved escaped. Those that are been arrested are innocent residents. I live in Tarkwa Bay, and I can tell you that it is risky, because any official can come one day to arrest you, and your case won't be different from any of these people. If not for the fact that Nigerians celebrate rubbish, when have 12yrs olds become teens?
Politics / Re: Lets Voice Out Our Complains Here As Nigeria Youth The Government Is On Nairalan by WafiJoe(m): 12:06pm On Jul 12, 2013
Click on the link, like our page, let our voice be heard.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Voice-of-the-Nigerian-Youth/100647863371192
Science/Technology / Re: Impala Dives Into Tourist's Car While Running From Cheetah by WafiJoe(m): 8:28am On Jul 12, 2013
modextus: oboyyyy! grin grin na so your bible tell уσυ?
No mind am. How you wan take know people when get small brain, everything now end time. Na all this kyn people when dey mention end time reach 10 times in a day for almost every situation na im noh dey bother to find solution for any problem because to them na end time problem, and e dey unsolvable. angry angry
Properties / Re: One Room Apartment Along Yaba Axis For Rent by WafiJoe(m): 8:09am On Jul 12, 2013
^^ I don't understand your comment.
Properties / Re: One Room Apartment Along Yaba Axis For Rent by WafiJoe(m): 11:39pm On Jul 11, 2013
Bro, I think that is very discouraging. You are trying to tell me that everyone in Yaba must have at least 204,000 naira? I doubt. I have been talking to some agent, and some have promised to let an apartment for me if I can pay 120k but bro I don't know if they are scam.
Properties / One Room Apartment Along Yaba Axis For Rent by WafiJoe(m): 11:17am On Jul 10, 2013
Please I am looking for a clean one room apartment along Yaba axis. I need an area where water doesn't fill the road during the raining season. Anyone with useful information please reply back. Your information will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Ushers Needed For Events This December by WafiJoe(m): 8:44am On Dec 02, 2012
That's your headace man. Jobless folks like go around forums day and night posting random stuff in an attempt to get attention. Go create jobs instead of waiting for government to feed you
Jobs/Vacancies / Ushers Needed For Events This December by WafiJoe(m): 1:17am On Dec 02, 2012
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Politics / Re: Lets Voice Out Our Complains Here As Nigeria Youth The Government Is On Nairalan by WafiJoe(m): 4:54pm On Sep 30, 2012
Its not surprising to see such few replies here. There can hardly be any decent revolution or change in this country because a lot is wrong with the mindset of our people. If this topic was named "100 people died of plane crash in Lagos", or "May God come down to save Nigeria", or "Man Utd declare best club of the year", there would have been loads of replies, and it would have made the front page but when it concerns the future of our nation, and how to act reasonably, you see people not commenting because they don't care about he future of the country or their children.
Politics / Re: Lets Voice Out Our Complains Here As Nigeria Youth The Government Is On Nairalan by WafiJoe(m): 11:28pm On Sep 29, 2012
Thank you caseless, its good to know that there are still youths out there who know the way forward in this country. Yes inactions is one of the major problems we are facing in Nigeria, everybody believes that nothing work in our system. Nobody have any faith in our legal system. So lawyers in the house this is your chance to educate Nigerians.
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Politics / Lets Voice Out Our Complains Here As Nigeria Youth The Government Is On Nairalan by WafiJoe(m): 10:23pm On Sep 29, 2012
I believe that when a people is powerless, they can be strong if they join forces together. For example, if there is a monster that weighs 10,000kg, and there are minors that weighs 50kg each, though one of them can hardly defeat the monster yet, if 1000 of them rise up and say enough is enough, then they will be able to defeat that dreaded monster. So as Nigerian youths, lets drop our complains here, the government and the world is reading it.

Complain #1
As staff of a company owned by a single man, I have discovered a lot of molestation from the boss (Director), workers are being sacked for no decent reason, worst of all, they are being relieved of their jobs without compensation, those that are still employed are being treated as slaves because they dread losing their jobs. I can't wait for the day that legal actions will be taken against those oppressors.



Other comments, suggestions. Let's have a voice.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If You Ever Lived In 1004 Estate, Vi. Sign In Here by WafiJoe(m): 9:44pm On Sep 29, 2012
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Jokes Etc / Re: Yes Or No Reloaded! by WafiJoe(m): 10:45am On Sep 29, 2012
No. Do you exercise often?
Jokes Etc / Re: Yes Or No Reloaded! by WafiJoe(m): 1:19am On Sep 25, 2012
No. Do you think I sleep early like you?

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