Oh no! what a waste of advise! this thread was 11 months old. I beg poster tell us what eventually happened because i know she is no longer with your friend by now with such asewo behaviour abi you don do?

She is not good enough for your friend either, so if she is beautiful and your eye enter her shop your own but use condom and record the conversation so when your friend knows you'll have a proof and you both can laugh it over and drop her asewo!. If you dont want to do as well record her conversation because if you dont she will soon set you up because she'll fear you can tell your friend.

Pls now somebody tell me where i can get OFADA RICE PLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have a very close friend who does not believe any good thing can come out of Nigeria, he will say 'na by force by force i go travel out' and if you ask him where he wants to go he would simply say abroad. This is a guy who is so brilliant and has a first class from Uni but he refused to see any chance of making it in Nigeria.

He eventually did and now he wants to come back home after an interview over the phone with one of the big banks. I was wondering why he would come back home because this is somebody who never wished to stay in Nigeria. Now, do you guys think travelling abroad must be a must and if you have a very good job in Nigeria will you accept to travel out to live the rest of your life? If yes why, if no why?

''Date the two of them.It's not uncommon, ask Unilag babes and they will tell you.Afteral, you didn't meet the two of them at same time, same day and same place.You obviously had one before the other, it would have been good for you to tell the second u had a guy, since you didn't then tag along, anything that comes along with it, you bear it.Good luck in deceiving ma bros.''

Dat's the word!

He doesnt love you no one in love will give it up just because of that silly excuse. U better keep your job and forget about him, but make sure your next guy will make him green with envy, if possible pray that the manager or MD or the CEO go for you!!!!!!!!!!just kidding, 4get about him he is not worth it.

''Girl's Are Funny. when a girl tell's you to take bath with her what does she want cause we don't talk suddenly she came to me and begged me to take bath with her. what do i do''

Y not ask her what she wants instead of asking us? What u should do? take bath with her shikena!

Work on your mind like someone said be sure you dont have issues with her and that you dont think of her so much for whatever reason, if your mind is clear then pray about it. When your mind is on something you dream about them like i have been dreaming about 9ja for sometime now and that was after i bought my ticket and started thinking of so many things about home sweet home. Good luck

''it shouldn't be all about the money, especially if this is your first job, if i were you, i will consider the growth prospects of each of the jobs. i will also consider which of the 2 jobs looks better on my resume 5 years from now, based on my career field. only time i believe money should be a factor in this kind of situation is if either of the jobs cannot take care of my daily expenses, then money can be the clear decisive factor. anyways, good luck , congrats''

THAT'S THE WORD!

Oruka ti fee dowo na make una hold ya ololufe and commot your eyes from all 'traffic light greetings' o. Congrats man, have been in it for about 8 years and it could be so yummy if you want it to be. Happy to be married life.

If at this stage you are sure of marrying her and you both have comfortable jobs why not go ahead in good time? I dont think marriage stops investment plans if your fiancee has same mind but make sure you are well prepared emotionally and physically, then go ahead but not because of the presure let her talk to her parents and they will understand, the problem with our mothers is even if they have 10000 grandschildren they want more. Be sure you are ready to start making kids before you marry otherwise another pressure is awaiting you.

Your friend has no reason to tell his mum and i dont even see the neccesity to talk to the father. My uncle is just like your friend's father and the much i know of him nothing but may be age will put an end to it, I being close to him have spoken to him but nothing has changed, they should just leave him and show him love and respect and make him see you them through their education so that if he eventually die of it they can take care of the mum. My uncle's wife is aware but she is happy that the man so love and respect him and he is paying so so much pounds, euros and dollars to educate her kids as the 3 of them are abroad US, UK,IRL except for the little last kid.

This is why women should not depend on their husbands, if that happens to me i will either stop having sex with him or leave the house to avoid dying of aids or std.

Any idea where i can get the best of ofada rice with the ata dindin, i sure will be tempted to head there from the airport when i land in a week time.

at 181.00 to just €1 i dont think so.

@ pappilo

you made me laugh out load my colleaques thought something was wrong. Funny indeed! lol

Its romantic!

kconfused dont be confused if you dont have any sexual feeling for any man dont marry him he will soon irritate you and you will be denying him sex and there starts problems, if you have no strong feeling for him look elsewhere.

I have a friend who tried to find solace in a male friend, she was sharing her problem all her husband did for her and he was consoling her and while consolation lasts they were in each other's arm and behold just once and he impregnated her. She actually went to Nigeria to while away time when she met this her old male friend and now she is divorced unfurtuately the male friend is married too he can not marry her.

Think well before you will find solace in a male friend o.