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papi22: no.. Big question!!!! O fe ya foto oosha

Is it that their picture will not appear or it has to be done in black and white?

I came across this topic on and besides,this question has been lingering in my mind for sometime now,I have never seen the obituary poster of an Albino before,have you ever?And pls to any albino reading this,no offense.

money-hungry :
i like him very much too... he loots with honour and respect.

What a soft-hard expression you wrote......hmmm!

geeez: Couldn't it have been jocular? I was once at a presentation where Aliko was referring to Harry Akande and he said 'Harry may not be tall but when he stands on his money, he's 10ft tall'. And how does BRF that has been in several pictures with Aliko be begging to appear in a picture with him? Some people no dey reason sha.


@OP, you take style dense.

@Geeez,may God bless you.@op,I smh4u.

mercylicious: We eat together and dt is d only way to force him to eat. He can work from morning till night witout remembering food. I want him to add weight, bt each time we eat, he will remain food for me. So I use spoon to partition d food and tell him to choose. I tactfully force him to finish d food.

Wow!

Goldieluks: Frigging tonto decay and iyanga's boring and endless topics. *spits*

Those are frequent too.......

Uchenna42: Davido slapped again!!!

lol............

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]Undisputed Champion, Tonto Dike [/color]

Hmmm...e.g picture of Tonto Dike at age 10,picture of her with mum...etc

Akshow: Haba! I Dont need soothsayer to know the ans to this kweshion na totn di.cke

Especially,when her pictures are posted........ ?

I was just reading up a topic under the "celebrities" section this morning when something struck my mind to hear the views of other members of this sites.In my free time all I do is log on to nairaland.com because I don't ever get bored especially when reading through all topics posted under Celebrities or Entertainment. For as much as I enjoy myself while there,I easily get **pissed** of when a topic has to do with D'banj and Don Jazzy.I ask myself;wont people like to talk about other celebrities?These guys even get more popular day-by-day.You may not believe it but it is true.For the fun of it,what topic under this section has ever aggravated your anger by its frequent occurrence?

chacha3: Sure tin we eat togeda,except he is nt arnd it feels gud eatin togeda nd gisting. Though he comes home late at times n if am so hungry I eat my share.its always gud to eat wit ur spouse,we drink even garri togeda frm d same cup nd one spoon*lafs*

You mean you drink garri from the same cup?....dont want to agree with the same spoon thing.

igbeke: i've bn eating with my wife consistently for 4yrs now (since we got married). except wen 1 of us is out of town and won't be coming dat day. infact we eat on same plate. there hasn't bn any problem wit dat cos we both love it.

Wow,that s nice....I only tried it for abt 2months after marriage.14yrs on the run now....hmmm

KBARBIE: Im soooo used to eating wit my fiance dat even at eatery we eat on same plate and order for more if nid b .

I can imagine that....lol!

ifihearam: Well to me its not really bad to wait or eat with your spouse from same plate or whatever but I am not just too comfortable eating with someone else or crowd perhaps is the way I was brought up every one to his meal and plate. But when I get to that bridge I hope she understands sha because na small tins like that dey cause kasala ooo

Truly,upbringing contributes to it.

omiobo: I always try but my belle dey alway fail me. No be my fault,na nature. I like food pass toto

You don't mean it.......

D-Explorer:
There's a bond that comes with it.

Bond?You are perhaps right.

ceewai lebi: I-always-eat-with-my-husband,coz-4-me-eating-alone-means-am-juz-gonna-eat-very-little.i.e-i-eat-more-when-we-are-2geda.D-only-disadvantage-is-dat-he-comes-home-late-weekdays-so-i-ve-2-eat-late-nytes *and-i-heard-eating-late-@-nyte-causes-one-2-develop-big-tummy*

You have spoken well my sister...

greatgod2012: I wait, but d day im so hungry and i cant wait, i will call and inform him that i want to eat my food o, and when he comes, i sit with him when eating, gisting till he finish eating.

And what if his line does nt go through?....smiles!

mashnino: Lmao......

I wuld wait for her....

Bt d fud must b much sha.. Cos it myt b to her own detriment....

Ah ah...she will make enough na!

p.wiz:
Family section

...not almost true.

ogugua88: Lol. Regardless of who it is, if I'm eating with others, I wait until everyone who's eating has food.

That's nice of you!

Indeed,it is common amongst new couples to eat together.It's usually two times daily I.e morning and night.In the afternoon,everyone is busy at work.Then I wonder if they sustain this habit for a long time.I remember when I accused a friend for not always eating with his wife and guess his response?He said his wife is too fast when eating and for swallow foods,her wraps are heavier than his.I said to myself;is my friend refering to his wife as a glutton? ....
Now,as a married person what's your take on this.And as a single will you wait or not?
Thank you!

At age 10 or 11 I could remember one day when I was talking while having my bath and my dad's friend threatened to beat me if I ever repeat that again.I sticked to it until I became 22(home boiz days) when I would go into the bathroom with ipod and even miming songs.But today,it struck my mind again as I felt something about it.As a NLander,with the believe that we have intelligent people here on NL,I wish to throw this to the floor and share your views on this.I am a muslim but I don't want to post this on "Islam section" because I don't only what to see it from Islamic view.Below are some stuffs I got on the internet :
Men? – No
Women? – Whatever

For men, talking in the bathroom is strictly forbidden. As a general rule you may acknowledge the presence of others by slight nods of the head or monosyllabic grunts, if you feel ignoring them completely would be overly insulting. Otherwise you are to keep your mouth shut, do your business, and exit in an orderly fashion.

Now women on the other hand, you can probably ignore all that. You are taking so long in there we know you can’t possibly *just* be going to the bathroom, so you must be talking with the other 7 girls that went in there with you. Frankly us men haven’t got a clue what happens in those women’s bathrooms.

A Few Exceptions:

Small Children: If you are taking a small child to use a public bathroom, obviously you are going to need to talk to them. However, it is your duty to encourage them not to talk to anybody else while they are in there, to make sure they wash their hands, and to promote proper bathroom etiquette.
Really Old People: Bathroom etiquette is a dynamic and constantly changing field, and it’s possible that some elderly individuals have somewhat different ideas about proper etiquette than we generally agree with here at the ICBE. So if a kindly gentleman says hello to you at the sinks, feel free to say hello back. That’s okay. But if he pulls that crap at a urinal, forget about it.

ogugua88: *sigh*

Yeah...you just showed it

dmcdad: Nice one man... It's all about perception and maturity.

Yes,very true!

Tobbylobar: 1st of us introduction...... 1st of us introduction......

Lol....

This is my presentation about girls and women,just sharing with you though.In any case,I stand to be corrected.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ‘show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and sigh.

Marriages are of different kinds.Some are nt working,some are working,some will work,and some may still work.The way issues are handled in any of those kinds varies.When issues arise between husband and wife,it is expected,if truly there is love,that they settle it as fast as possible.It should not go to the extent of abandoning food or not.Anytime I have issue with my wife,I make sure we don't wake up with it.So I can't abandon my food.For a marriage that will not work,the husband may be so afraid of the wife poisoning him.These are things that happen around us.All in all,for the single ladies always say a prayer that God should give you a HUSBAND not a man;and to the single guys the prayer should be a WIFE and not a woman.I can go on and on.

kaorama: Everything Nigerian youths of today do boils down to ethnicity, even our comments here in nairaland; and that' why I pray our future will not be darker.

I agree with you,tribalism!

k2039: Congratulations, initially I thought it was a young marriage(probably some few months old).

I beleieve marriages like that exist just that it's rare.

Thanks so much.To be very honest,good marriages are very rare.May God help us all.

Mynd_44: I like the attributes the OP listed out but I will rather have a lady with them as a close friend than a girlfriend cos lovers break-up but friends are permanent

Hmmm...somehow you are right!

k2039: how old is your marriage?

For 14yrs and will you believe that?........such a sweet story to tell though.