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i can see from the comments that some guys dont even know why the question is very, very important. This is a question that point to certain fact in her. if her answer was that she was raped, belief me she wont be that loyal in the relationship.. 2. she is expose to certain tricks ladies use to get money from guys. etc sha.

I ike this

what a pity ?

Emmysteve:
Guy find another bitvh if you can. And make sure you don't date only one.

As if u know one of my new year resolution.

HopeAtHand:
Is the lady u posting about the one on ur profile?

That is my younger sister and the only in d family.

A nice write up there. am thrill.

EstarKeys:
she jex wan tak away d pain...she loves u mur dan u do

I also see it this way too but majority has convinced me to move on. Happy New Year anyway.

arsetalks:
Do you love yourself? If you do, move on. It is one thing for someone to cheat and be sorry, but in this case, she is enjoying it. So much she wants to dump you ( probably for the guy she cheated on you with). She should be working hard to make amends and not looking for a break up.

Exactly my point for watching her ( which she interpreted not loving her as before) she actually thought am with someone else though.

I have been praying that any thing that won't make me acheive my aims in 2015 should go with 2014.

So am happy she quit it herself.

guilty conscience sha. smh.

arsetalks:
Did you cheat on her? Or did she cheat on you? She said you gave her many chances and she wants to dump you?

Maybe she is feeling guilty for something she did wrong or she is with someone else.

If I were you and I am sure I want her and she wants me, I will use the false scarcity method.

Cease contact with her for a while. Let's see if she misses you. If she does, you can get her back if not, forget it.

Thanks for your contribution.
Am sure she is actually feeling guilty because she cheated but psychologically i got to know and logically i confront her but all she has to do is seek for forgiveness which i actually granted. ever since then,things are not as the same as before. The false scarcity method i actually use is that I deleted my whatapp account, so that one way or the other we won't be communicating.
Other social app like facebook, twitter and even 2go....... i had stoped using those ever b4 now so stylishly we communicate through whatapp. i think deleting the whatapp makes her wear the mask of deception and taking the bold step.
thanks once again and other that has contributed.
It is now conspicous that she want me no more.
Am just listening to no more u by Akon.

For some months now the relationship has been so bored to the two of us.
I tried my best to make things back to normal but what can I do when my good seems not to be good enough ?

The story is complicated, If not, I would have love to share it here.
But last night she send this text msg. so i want to know what she is really saying because i don't think I understand as she is not that straight forward in the decision she made.

This is the text: i write u dis txt wit g.rief in my heart...afta all dis y...our love shld ave waited a little much longa bt i dnt tink it has cum to stay...i am realky sori ...if i dcd to kip u...i will kip hurting u ...n i dnt want it...u gave it so many chances...n its obvious dat u dnt love me as u use to so its of no use...since we cant regain bak our love...so i dnt want u to boda abt me...pls move on...n forgive me if i ave don anytin to wrng u..i want to clear all dis bfr a new yr.so u can frgive me...dnt boda calling cause i cant talk to u nw...until i get ova it

so my question is that what exactly should i do ?
Did she mean it is over really ?
or she just want to take the pain just to see me happy since she failed in bringing/giving the happiness ?

Ti onirese ba ni owun ko fin igba mo, nje eyi ti oti fin sile ha le parun bi ?

Lemme just booked space because this is as good as crap.

Last food in 2013 was garri

The first thing that went to my stomach wasn't food actually, it was drink. And the drink is Elliot.

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]I know exactly what you mean.

You feel like you understand the forces. You feel you control them, but the truth is that you just understand it better.

You are lucky to pass through that phase. Im on that phase too.[/quote]It's being wonderful understanding it bro.......
At first am a type that followed the crowd but ever since I have been following what my mind said. I don't regret it at all.

akereconfi: cleaning my ear with cotton bud with one eye closed and mouth partially opened

Reading every comment in front page topic on nairaland.

FOLYKAZE: There is no denial in the existences of Gods. The Gods are natural energies/forces likewise we and everything in the universe are gods.

We are all connected by energy. Sango the electrical energy liveth forever.....nobody created it and nor can destroy it. It is present in our body system even when we are not aware.....the Gods dont beg us for worship.....faith.....belief. Knowledge and understand is what we need through realisation and enlightenment.

I believe this because their is something in me which always tell me the step I want to take will succeed or it will not.

It start when I was very small but I don't pay attention to it till early last year. So since last year I will knew where I was heading to since when I start my assignment. Be it relationship, competition, business, or examination.

Let me take this as an example:- when I was small, says 9-14 my dad used to forbade me to go out due to the life style of people in our environment then, but I don't like being alone so I would went out. I got caught many times wish usually come with a gift of merciless flogging.

All of a sudden my mind will tell me the time I will play and safe and time when I will be caught. If I try to be adamant to the sign that said my dad is on his way, definitely I will be caught and be flogged but if I respond to it, it at times a narrow escape.

since then I started following it up..... it has now advance to the extent that my friend sick my opinion before doing something, some people now respect me because of what I do, at times some don't want to argue about what I said anymore. My girlfriend has never cheat and succeed.

If I continue this way and more devoted, by my age of fifty, I will become someone people see as a special god in that field but if I dream about future I won't remember till it come to pass. So I still need to be more devoted to over come that too. That is why I said I support and belief u.

So blackberry is know more an important phone ?

God why is it that it's when things is no more in used is when I will have money to get it ?

Baba pls upgrade me in 2014 and forever.

OWO NLA WOLE................ AMEN.

I use yahoo to test. Especially messenger on PC

No I don't experience it. More so which state is that ?

On seeing the topic I was like

That's just like committing suicide.

I guess that's what the want

The task is too easy for the prof.

But let's respect the first lady nau, at least destiny has already force her on us.

Angelo and Beverly really sex in that position I mean the female on top style.
After the guy don cum toward end of the show u will notice Beverly adjusting her pant. Does that mean those don't deserve eviction ? The F**K Brother even twist the story as the guy finger and kiss the girl. I thought they say picture don't lie ? Or am I the only one who notice the movement of that lady under that blanket ? Just re watch the video or check online for it. I can now see it's not BIG BROTHER. It is BIG PORNER.
But don't watch that video in early hour of the day º°˚ if u don't want money to skip u.
=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

SMH! What people won't say or do just to be famous perhaps to generate traffic to their church in a blogger language.

Good, the man look smart differ from what his name denoted. The most interesting thing is that the Op proof that he is smarter upstairs too.

When I read news like this I feel like Oh! I will be like this one day but my gene won't allow.
God I want to be call genius too. But if the genius spirit won't make me rich please don't grant it.

Good to hear that.

Yes of course. Even without steering

Mummy & Daddy is my best play.

What a story, the headline compels me to read it.