₦airaland Forum

SweetCunt97:
My guy men carry their families, they pay bills, pay school fees. I don't know what u dragging as if yiur father didn't do all these things. If he didn't and allow your mom to be the head and provider, Toh thats ur reality. So don't gimme d sarcasm OK, I don't need it.

SweetCunt97:
Sitting pretty and accumulating until things get real and it's needed for support. If I chop mine anyhow and shii get real, where will d support come from? Smart Women save for rainy days.

CanadaOrBust:
(The guy above me don kolo o)

OP, I agree with you, BUT
1) How do u know her future? (Girls usually marry young)
2) R u sure u want extra money and financially independent wife more than a wife who’d fully take care of the kids and home and be totally financially dependent on u?

SweetCunt97:
Women for your own sanity and comfort, have a source of income. It's soo cool when he says no to a need of yours and you can simply whip out your atm and go Gerrit.

victorian:
My theme : Is to make myself happy.

I won't allow any man finish me before my time, in the deceit of I love u or I want to marry u.

That era is gone.

Shey they want to behave senseless. No problem. I ready full ground.

All we have now is Vultures, no more men again. God forbid!

Make them come chop. Because they give me money keep! Which I didn't remember to hand over.

Lemme not get angry today abeg. I don't need any man to spoil my mood for today. I've had enough abeg. They should go and look for other rich female magas in Nigeria to deceive.

Anyways have a great day.

victorian:
My theme : Is to make myself happy.

I won't allow any man finish me before my time, in the deceit of I love u or I want to marry u.

That era is gone.

Shey they want to behave senseless. No problem. I ready full ground.

All we have now is Vultures, no more men again. God forbid!

Make them come chop. Because they give me money keep! Which I didn't remember to hand over.

Lemme not get angry today abeg. I don't need any man to spoil my mood for today. I've had enough abeg. They should go and look for other rich female magas in Nigeria to deceive.

Anyways have a great day.

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

lewis512:
where is your location ? You can find any close to you

pajosh:
I have a tutorial I recommend ... But it is in JavaScript and a Udemy course ... Do you mind

The tutorial finished all you need to know about data structures and algorithms ....

Shaped my life

FarahAideed:
Nigerians love living in Denial and that's where their problem starts from !!!! Just imagine even in that horrid condition one of the student has a fake off-white belt to use to decieve small girls

Happiestman1:
So every guy who makes millions at young age is a yahoo boy ?.. I make 15 million in 2019 alone from Youtube. Right from the comfort of my house.

IamD18:
Look at the content of a white woman's purse.

Very reasonable and interesting contents.

Try open a Nigerian woman's purse. You'll keep seeing things like...

Tissue, pad, spare pant, female condom, makeup kits, Paracetamol, 5inches nail, agbalumo seed, vitamin C, cucumber, spoon, candle, condemned charger, baba blue sweet, Old 20Naira note,postinor13,crayfish, rusted ear rings and all sorts of rubbish.

Some dey even carry shaving bic dey waka around incase they see opportunity to fvck for money, dem go enter bathroom go shave come out dey shine teeth like goat wey dem cut em head.

Tufiakwa!!!

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We are here for you

segebase:
for this Buhari time you come steal person client na fight to the finish