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You said it all geewean. Most women fantasizes too far. They dream an unending dream too much, many desires to reap where they didn't sow, many love flashy things. I like your examples of a girl her guy bought a car for but would follow the mechanic that repairs the car for a night stand. Lol.....some girls love dirty things, they love escapades, risky amorous sheet rumble, some don't have class at all no matter their status in the society. Some ladies can't withstand seeing the shape of a dick, either from a naked mad man, a cripple or any other indescribable being. They would want to touch it and taste it and put it inside. God help you when you have a good and dedicated woman.

geewean:
Frankly speaking, MANY women are very very funny.What makes them funny is the instability of their emotions.Have you come across the saying that a "a woman can abandon a man who bought a car for her and follow a man that the repairs the car for her"?


That points to how unstable their emotions are.It oscillates per time.They want safety and security and MORE.Thats why a girl can date Davido and can in her mind desire a one night stand with Burna boy because he has won Granny's award.🤣🤣🤣🤣


That's why as a man your safe net is to actively set up your masculinity.Sincerely be unscarred of losing them no matter how beautiful it how sweet the pucci might be.Let a woman love you more than you love her.Let her chase you more than you do and always remind her through your I don't care attitude that her replacement plenty very well.If you do anything short of this ehnnnnnn Baba them go use your eye see pepper.


Women aren't attracted too good guys by nature because of their desire of adventure,spice and variety.


As a man ensure you control your mind to love your ambitions more and never halt your purpose because you just meet a woman.Never be too accessible to her at all.


There are still good women in town just pray that God directs your path to the one that understands you very well.

You guys failed to understand what is happening here. It's very right that DNA was done and turned he's not the biological father of the children. That's ain't a problem, but the basic truth. Now, the most important thing is what direction should Lanre go henceforth to be able to resolve these issues without forfeiting the children that he has been been responsible for since the time they were born and also emotionally attached to them.

This is where the smartness of his Lawyers comes in. The lawyer asked him what he wants and how truthful the DNA test results is. Yes, DNA results is positive and secondly, Lanre answered that he doesn't want the woman again but wouldn't discard the children either.He told the lawyer that he's already emotionally attached to them, they are his live infact as he told the lawyer.

As a good lawyer that knows his onions, the lawyer advised that they would seek total custody of the children despite the DNA test issue, they would also hold the dissolution of the marriage base on infidelity and immoral acts and good for him he has so many solid evidence of the woman's unfaithful activities.

If you look at this very well, he has a good stand with a judge to dissolve the marriage and also give him the custody of the children and also if you go traditionally, in Ibo land, your husband is the owner of your children born inside or outside marriage for another man. No bastard in Ibo land as long as you are married. Every bastard you call it is brought home to the husband and he takes the bastard as his own. So nothing ventured, nothing gained....

femi4:
Don't mind the confuse guy

He needs medical attention

I guess he eventually listened to me. I advised him to take the children as his own despite the fact that DNA prove otherwise. The children have been emotionally attached to you like you also. So it's better to seek for the full custody since it's even not right in Ibos culture to take children from a legally done marriage and hand them to just boyfriend. That's why it's often said in Ibo land, no child is a bastard. So naturally, He owns the children and I think he has the capacity and the emotion to keep them well.

AuntyJolade:
He is no longer denying the children.

What! And just for 9 Months. This country is a gunner, Otilor......how can you billed people indiscriminately to such a level of money. Omg! This country is crazy cos people wouldn't talk, they tolerate nonsense too much. Nigerian takes shits from their leaders without fighting back but will come on social media and be talking nonsense, fight themselves over tribal differences....who is stupid sef? Nigerians or the government.....

Tinubu has finally done it. Jonathan gave Nigerians an upper cut leading to Knockout to the canvas, Buhari jumped in and took the baton from Jonathan with the assurance of Hope to the dying Nigerian, nope, he jumped on the dying Nigerian and squeezed their neck for 8 Years then TINUBU flew in like a BAT in the night through the back door and shouted at Buhari, let's me give them Renew hope and yes Buhari handed the baton to Tinubu for renew hope but instead of renew hope, it's renew SHEGE, renew Hunger, renew Hopelessness, renew failures.....Tinubu is already cutting the flesh of the already dying Nigerian to give to his family to eat as alacarte. After all, he said during the campaign time that Democracy is not served as Alcarte but you need to grab it, hold it and run away with it. Tinubu is running away with Nigerian future and hope at last....

All kidnappers and Armed robbers and also friends, family of kidnappers and Armed robbers on Nairaland platform. Read and pass this information to them.

Take note. Your end is very close. You shall die a useless and shameful death like dogs on the street. Just like we killed these fools of kidnappers. We await you all.....Nigeria Police Force Assures You All.

That's not even my curiosity. I am curious that how can 2 of the armed robbers escaped into the crowd with gun wound and none among the heavy crowd could hold them down or run after them crowdily as they were instead of allowing them to escape. I feel that in that large crowd, there are many informants also and might have been the ones that eased the escaped of those two armed robbers. You know this happened a lot in Ladipo and Aspamda. Those apprentice to wealthy billionaires at times arrange cynical move against their Ogas by giving out information to Kidnappers so that the kidnappers will later come over and settle them as they have agreed. So unfortunate that it's mostly our people from the Eastern region.......please not tribal seeking here.....just saying the truth....Wealthy Easterners should always try to be conservative but if not possible, try and beef up security around yourself.....am talking to Eastern Billionaire businessmen....Your boys apprentice ain't happy at all.....might be planning for you.....treat them well also, though that's not a guarantee not to plan for your death, kidnapping for ransom etc.....

bestman09:
This is a very good news. Our policemen tried by (infiltrating the gang as I heard) without one of them sabotaging the plan because of selfish interest.

And it amazes me how people can gather and watch when there's an exchange of gun fight between policemen and criminals.

No fear of stray bullets?

Wonderful development. Now, nobody will tell herzebollah militants of Syria and Lebanon to behave themselves against Israel. Their backer is becoming a reformant due to the new sheriff in town. Win to Israel and the West over this new Iran President.

Russia and China always rushing to anything anti West....such a cold hatred for the West....but still enjoying some benefits despite that....

She's is so beautiful and looking so younger than her age. Did anybody notice that she's getting to look like Late Whitney Houston....a resemblance is getting so much tight.....

Must you justify it that Lagos is Yoruba?

It's only a fool and a bastard without an heritage or foundation will say Lagos is a no mans land.

To those illiterates from other regions of Nigeria who doesn't know their left from their right.

Alhaji Lateef Jakande inaugural speech in the year 1979 when he was elected Lagos governor after the military leadership of Sir Mobolaji Johnson.


A Yoruba man called Lagos ‘no-man’s-land’
Nobody beat him then, and nobody can now; he’s dead.
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Tinubu Square in the 1970s
I’ll get right to it: that man was Jakande (of blessed memory) and he was ten times the man any governor in Lagos or Nigeria — past or present — would ever hope to be.

It was October 1, 1979, and Lateef Jakande was making his inaugural address to the people of Lagos. Here’s an excerpt:

In 1886, Lagos was again set up as a separate colony in response to a petition by the people of Lagos who resented being governed from the Gold Coast. It was administered by a Governor of the Colony of Lagos under Letters Patent dated 13th January 1886. This was the first time that the territory now known as Lagos State came under one administration. The administration continued under various constitutions until 1954 when Lagos was separated from the rest of the Colony and constituted a Federal Territory, that is to say, a No-Man’s Land.

God moves in a mysterious way, says William Cowper, His wonders to perform. His purposes will ripen fast, unfolding every hour.

The creation of Lagos State, like all great events, is not the achievement of one single person. The territory now known as Lagos State is the former Colony Province created by the British Administration for their own administrative convenience. Following the cession of his sovereignty to the British Crown by King Dosunmu in 1861, Eko was administered independently by a Governor of the Settlement of Lagos. Under the Commission of 19th February-1866, the Settlement of Lagos was governed by an Administrator and a Legislative Council responsible to the Governor of the West African Settlements residing in Sierra Leone. This continued until 1874. By Letters Patent dated 24th July 1874, the territory was administered by a Lieutenant Governor subject to the Governor of the Gold Coast Colony.

Hope you can see the reason Jakande said Lagos was no man's land now....it was said on the context that Lagos had ceased been a colony of the gold cost and now the Federal Capital territory of Nigeria. Therefore, everybody must put their leg on the ground to the success and progress of Lagos. I think Yorubas goodness and welcoming culture is being taken for granted. Jakande was opening doors to everyone to feel welcome since Lagos was still the FCT then. This is just like Abuja whereby anybody can be the governor Aka Minister. I have heard that some Eastern developers have started saying that Abuja also is a no mans land. Can you imagine that?

Developers should stop taken people for granted due to their hospitality to you while you were in wretched poverty.



quote author=EleventhWeirdo post=130821995]

This is same mentality that made them to amend you people's bongo sk0lls during the election. Lagos is YORUBA LAND. Simple!!![/quote]

That's not a point you made. There is already Igbo party all over Nigeria. There is APGA in Lagos and other states.

Forming Yoruba party in UK ain't a problem at all. It's good in such a way that people of that ethnic group will have means of voicing their desire, share their cultural values and instill their ethnic opinions on their candidates to be able to serve them right. It's also an avenue to be able to communicate and maintain relationship with your heritage and in case your heritage or foundation is suffering discrimination, exploitation and marginalization just like the Igbos in Nigeria. Then that party can act as a voice to spread and fight for emancipation just as ANC of SA did during Apartheid Era. We should be looking forward to an Igbo party too in UK.

LadyExcellency:
Imagine forming the Igbo political party in Lagos State. All hail will be let loose.

Oily soup and hot Amala with Ewedu and Gbegiri surrounded by intimidating Ponmo, Shaki, Abodi wey you and your fellow Ibos dey lined up for to buy from Mama Basirat at Ita faaji, Lagos Island. Ibos and Yorubas are lovers made in heaven. What God has joined together, nobody can put asunder. Those two tribes are the salts that makes Nigeria tick and tough. You only abuse yourselves cos of the unholy political harlots that always strife frantically to sow seeds of hatred between these two tribes.

Kingsmeal:
Unprovoked, you are hating on Igbos already.

Nawa oo. This Insecure oily soup tribe ehh

Welcum:
Arrested by the same people who made him swear the oath Lol!

You guys even made it look lightly. You didnt visualize the reason why that oat of secrecy was imposed on the officials. It's because of the Northern Leadership selfishness and uncouth desire to dominate this country.

Let me tell you something, if there wasn't anything like secrecy, those idiots Boko Harams killers wouldn't have penetrated our Army, Navy and Air Force. They would not have been able to penetrate the deep security architecture of Nigeria as we have them today because they would have been known to be an outcast, a rebel and nowhere they go to, the label would be upon them, their movement will be restricted but No, cos the idiots occupying Aso Rock then was their brother and facilitator.

They practically penetrated every facets of Nigeria. They are in senate, house of representative, even the Presidency, that house of devil call Aso Rock.

To shock you, they are littered all over Nigeria civil service system. They were engaged enmass during Buhari Presidency. Buhari was even paying them salary every month despite the fact that he put them in a kind of estate, guarded by the Nigeria Army. They were treated like the virgin bride and shouldn't be disturbed. Idiotic people that have killed, raped and caused sorrow to millions of family.

Buhari really destroyed this country just because of preference for his own people, the Hausa Fulanis. It's a pity.

Nigerian deserve the kind of thief thief Politicians that they voted for.

HilcomTech:
Tell me the name of your senator

This nonsense Thief guy called minister for Budget and Economic planning , Atiku Abubarkabr Bagudu......this country is a Joke and will continue to be a joke as long as thieves are the leaders guarding and guiding the wealth of this country. How on earth should a known thief be a minister of key ministry.

Please research on Atiku Abubarkabr Bagudu more on wikpedia and also read below...

This Abubarkabr Atiku Bagudu guy that supposed to be in jail since Abacha died. Really, Tinubu himself has an ulterior motive retaining known robbers and keeping them in top positions. How can the country progress under dirty smelling rotten corrupt people like these Bagudu etc.....

Please read the Wikipedia of this thief below, I get so hopelessly in pain when I see the recycling of thieves, same and known thieves like Bagudu, Akpabio, Tinubu and infact all the Senators and Honourables inclusive governors to the key areas of government or rather leadership in Nigeria.

Most Nigeria are thieves. Said it severally. All Nigerian aspiring for a political post have the intention to get there and steal to better their life and their family and not to help the masses. We have present thieves, Aspiring thieves and retired thieves in Nigeria. Also, we have general utilities thieves. All politicians falls under Present thieves. All lobbyists for a post as ministers, commissioners, councillors, governors, senators, President etc....are all aspiring thieves...Then we have retired thieves...Like Babangida, Abdulsalam, David Mark, Peter Odili, Chibuke Ameachi, Samuel along, Etc....Now, general utilities thieves are the civil servants, the workers in private sector companies, the households etc......

This country will take decades to be redeemed and it's only the Youths that can rescue Nigeria.

What are the Tinubu terms. I hope it's attainable.

You are baddest..lol......but I still keep wondering how women transformed within few years. It's so confusing how a woman develop so fast in all the spheres, angles, curvatures, geometric progression of her body. Anyway, it's the Lord's doing and it's marvellous in our sights.

Obakoolex:
Ahhh Nurse Beverly, wetin happen to the Olympus?

Make I no talk wetin dey my mind

Nigerians are generally wicked to each other especially. The most wicked are the leaders, wicked runs in Nigerians blood according to your cadre in the society. More reason you will see some drivers returning money forgotten in their vehicles or a police man pointing gun at you and telling you he would shoot you and nothing would happen.

You are probably correct. They are push and start law makers....always dead to progress of Kogi until they are pushed and jumpstart them. Then in a short while they go off point and start looting the state which is their primary assignment.

HilcomTech:
Kogi law makers are not push overs.

I don't why this horrible man is contesting it. I saw this man live declaring the same thing in the house, he was standing and addressing the house but never knew why he did that. Just as if somebody put a gun to your head and say oya declare what you are being paid as a horrible or honourable man. Please should check his name and search it online...he made an open confession on his own accord.

obinna58:
It’s very recent, she updated recently about this on her channel and clarified some errors with will even make you more mad about the level of corruption in your country

Is the government ready to give me 247 power, Water, good roads, good public school, good medical care, good transportation ?......??

If they can provide all that....then I will dash them all my earnings. You asked for 50% but I will give 100%

Omobalo67:
Are you ready to pay 50% of your income as tax?

That's approximately 1250 Italian Lira.........

That headline scare me I swear.

Nobody will know Nigeria by the time 8 Years is completed.

More like telling your kid that by the time I finished with you, people that don't know you will be sympathising with you cos you wouldn't be the same again.

Oh my God, here lies your beloveth son o and please deliver Nigeria from Emilokan, turn his mind to favour and prosper Nigeria citizen. Amen.....that's if prayer can work which I doubt anyway. You guys just alert and be ready to take your country from old political gangsters and godfathers.

If this guy catch you for corner. Just don't come to Nairaland seeking for help o......

Bimpe29:
Partners in crime

How I wish other states can have effective and active Civil Justice Court for the people. Come to think of it, Is it only Lagos that Normalcy rest when it comes to Civil Justice in Nigeria?

Thinks so despicable happening in other states but nobody is doing anything about it and when they even tried, they get distracted and drop the case eventually.

Persevere for the bigger affliction Pastor Awolowo, Awolabi, Awowwo, Awojantis etc......

Advise: Marriage ain't by force. You have gotten 5 kids already, Please don't wait for a man to kill you and deprived you the joy of seeing your children growth.

Some men are turning into beast this days cos of the reality of the country. Country is turning men into beasts. Men, be careful and don't go and kill somebody. You will go to life Jail if you are lucky and not giving death sentence.

Women can talk anyhow, just close your ears and avoid them. Women can be provocative, just stay far away from them. Women can keep malice, just take a walk out and come back late. Women can attack you, just pet her while you search for a way to break loose and run for peace.

We all can't be mad at the same time. Don't touch her and try to get immune to her abuses.

Do for men: All you need do is to redouble or multiply your hustling spirit and make it well and big.

Women love wealthy men, not the men but the wealth they love, they respect the wealth they see in you, so they will be obedient and worship you but truthfully, it's not you they are worshipping, respect, love but the wealth in you.

awoo47:
it is just a small affliction... She should persevere

You know that with all these hard stance on Nigeria economics geometry. The commercial banks are still turning out large profits, declaring profits in a dying economy. Production companies are dying every second, inflation is killing the masses rendering the little they have to be valueless, savings ain't yielding profit any longer and interest rate on loan has been jerked up to almost 30%. How do you even expect to payback if eventually you are granted the loan at such a ridiculous rate together with the bribing of Banks Managers etc .to effect your being granted the loan. I am so tired, very very tired. This country is killing people.

waice6571:
No serious and well informed business owner can guarantee 30% profit on investment with the current state of the economy in Nigeria.

By the time you calculate the cost of diesel, power, salaries, V/T, state government tax, ground rents and other overhead costs, you would consider laying of workers and shut down your production plant to retain your sanity.

I decided to ignore the cost of raw materials, important tax, logistics and other variables in my comments for a reason

The Nigerian banking industry system and the government tax system were meant to kill the manufacturing sector.

If the richest black man can voice out about this nonsense policies of the government, implying that he's not immune to the policies targeted at the masses. Come to think of it, if the masses inflow is reduced or rather render valueless, the masses wouldn't be able to buy goods from the markets, causing havoc to the producers because the producers would have to reduce supplies and production, reduce labours leading to unemployment and unemployment leading to frustration and depression and this leading to society menace in form of armed robbery, insurgencies, kidnapping, raping etc.......