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Celebrities / Re: Liz Dasilva Celebrates Her Son, Abefemi 5th Birthday In Matching Outfit (photos) by wallymore(m): 11:10pm On Jun 16, 2018
Where is the boy father...

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Celebrities / Re: Ras Kimono Is Dead! by wallymore(m): 3:56pm On Jun 10, 2018
Rip rask mono the man of the people....poor people are still leaving in fear....has u noreally day.
Politics / Re: Photos From Ike Ekweremadu's 56th Birthday Celebration by wallymore(m): 8:11am On May 13, 2018
Ikechukwu ekweremadu is a very young person but he has acquired so many wealth dubai, nigeria aan all over the wolrd at 56 years.... but he Neva think of the making this country a good place for the poor
Romance / Re: Why You Must Not Do Anal Sex With Your Decent Wife by wallymore(m): 6:57am On May 07, 2018
The bad things abt anAL sex is the once the person release sperm inside he does not go anywhere...it will affeCT the lady...
Romance / Re: Counter Thread: 10 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Suck At Relationships by wallymore(m): 6:51am On May 07, 2018
If nigeria girls does not like hubby's mother...if the wife too has a boi wen they grow up theit wife too will not like them. Cos vice vicer
Romance / Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by wallymore(m): 8:26am On Apr 27, 2018
Follow her as friends...but use ur brains. Don't let her knw much abt u. Until she accept ur wish. Don't spend on her much.

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Family / Re: 10 Richest Families In Nigeria 2018 By ManucheTv by wallymore(m): 7:04pm On Apr 06, 2018
So nobody has money from the eastern states...
Romance / Re: I MAY HAVE A SECRET LOVE AFFAIR WITH MY COLLEAGUE AT WORK!LADY CRIES OUT by wallymore(m): 6:28pm On Apr 01, 2018
Just show him that u luv him and care for him...he will make the move ready
Romance / Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by wallymore(m): 6:25pm On Apr 01, 2018
Ye's cos many ladies does not have maturity brain. That while ahe matters
Family / Re: My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me by wallymore(m): 8:29am On Mar 19, 2018
Pls guy pls try Bleep her very well make she produced another baby for u... once she get another amother baby she go get small senwe. Na her mum and sister dey scatter her head. And u need to talk to her very well don't pet her anymore. THE THINGS IS THAT U TOO LUV HER. that the problem u are facing guy.
Romance / Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by wallymore(m): 8:01am On Mar 09, 2018
May be u are giving him a kind of problem u knw what I mean... u don't obey his wish and all that. U dated ur guy for 7 years u seems not to understand ur dude. NA WA FOR U O O O.
Romance / Re: Can She Take In ? Is It Normal ? by wallymore(m): 9:05am On Feb 19, 2018
Guy if u really want to get her pregnant then it is very easy. Her condition is called EDA in Yorba language. It has happened to my wife b4. We went to this yoruba traditional ELEWE OMO. And explain everything to the woman they will give u the cure.
Religion / Re: Body Of Herbalist Refuses To Decay, 13 Years After Burial, Turns Museum by wallymore(m): 11:26pm On Feb 18, 2018
He is a saint....pl's check her background from off sent
Family / Re: I Married A Stranger! I Caught My Wife With Her Boss At Ikeja Hotel! by wallymore(m): 11:20pm On Feb 18, 2018
U cost everything that happened in the relationship because she has being doing all this for a very long time...because u love her u could not say anything to her now it as get worst....to control it now i's a hard tins. This is a lessons to everyone what u don't like about ur spouse don't take it when dating. She doesn't love u. And she is not a straight forward person. Call her settle tins among each other. There is no divorce in life.

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Women Share The Foolish Things They 've Ever Done For Love by wallymore(m): 10:21pm On Jan 14, 2018
U girls try o o o....cos u are only talking abt ur own part.guys part are the worst...if every guys explain their own cases

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Celebrities / Re: "2017 Was The Toughest Year In My Entire Life" - Toolz Says In New Photos by wallymore(m): 11:38pm On Dec 31, 2017
2017 was 1 of the best year for me. O oo...I'm soo happy, may God continue to be a gud year for me.
Phones / Re: 1 by wallymore(m): 8:29am On Nov 05, 2017
How much joor
Family / Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by wallymore(m): 7:47am On Oct 24, 2017
wallymore:
This is my similar cases of my wife too... the issues is that why women changes after marriage. I dated my wife for 1 year b4 wedding she being gud to me as a wife.after marriage she had a baby boy for me. She change to another thing...I use to knw before. I have called her sitting her down still refuses to change. When ever I accuse of what she does I don't like I see anger in her. She does want me to correct her in any cases of her mistake. Even to apologize to me when I complain abt her is a problem to her. WHY LADIES ARE LIKE THIS SELF
This is my similar cases of my wife too... the issues is that why women changes after marriage. I dated my wife for 1 year b4 wedding she being gud to me as a wife.after marriage she had a baby boy for me. She change to another thing...I use to knw before. I have called her sitting her down still refuses to change. When ever I accuse of what she does I don't like I see anger in her. She does want me to correct her in any cases of her mistake. Even to apologize to me when I complain abt her is a problem to her. WHY LADIES ARE LIKE THIS SELF

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Phones / Re: Tecno Unveiled New Phantom Smartphone Yesterday In Dubai by wallymore(m): 7:42am On Oct 23, 2017
Hmmmm nice 1 from tecno... una well done o o o
Business / Re: Scammers New Tactics (pic) by wallymore(m): 8:34am On Oct 06, 2017
Both of them are in Nigeria they are just playing u...cos they knw Nigerian like free things. Some 1 u just knw not quite long, want to send u iPhone and laptop just like that abt 2000pounds in London lolzz I pity u for real. They are scammer! Beware
Romance / Re: I Fu,ck Dis Girl For My Church Toilet Today by wallymore(m): 2:12pm On Oct 01, 2017
So na Bleep u go Bleep for church what a bad Sunday for u. Instead of u to pray for better life. All the bad people Don change finish u still don't wanna change...sry for ur life. Inside church u dey Bleep, if God vex for u. Na die bi that o o

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Slept With Our Last Born by wallymore(m): 11:26pm On Aug 31, 2017
Don't marry her o o o...because she is not a reliable person. She has break the trust of marriagehood... if u are careful she will marry ur househelp, gate man, driver and even ur friends... tel her the really true. Marriage a long time stuff o o oh... even if u forget her u can't forget it.
Romance / Re: Its Wrong For Ur Fiance To Tell U About Her Past.. by wallymore(m): 8:51am On Aug 29, 2017
The things is that they pretend a lot as if they have not done it before... ladies are criminally minded. I don't knw how they feel, if she and her husband are strolling and they saw their ex.
Romance / Its Wrong For Ur Fiance To Tell U About Her Past.. by wallymore(m): 11:32pm On Aug 28, 2017
Most cases when a guy has the girl friend he want to marry this question 'how many guy has u dated before u meet me' they always lied...so painful! To me I believe love does not have a hidden feeling.
Family / Re: Because I Am A Woman! by wallymore(m): 11:09am On Jan 05, 2017
African woman shld respect her husband in all cases...and never compare ur self with a man. Godd make us the King of the universe. Western world has turn many things upside down. because u are a woman ur reward is with God.

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Family / Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by wallymore(m): 11:39pm On Jun 19, 2016
Pls don't break up....wit her o o. Give her the last chance. Sit her down tel her the purpose of marriage. Tel her the purpose why u love her. Let her knw, divorce will bring bad to our children in future. Warn her not to do it again, if atall she is doing it with the guy. Give her time and study her well. Make sure u caught her red handed. Cos she can still denie anytime u ask her. Watch maybe she will change. Ask her if u hv offended her. Then wit all these question. U will knw where u are going. Maybe to leave her or continue ur relationship. Gudluck

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Family / Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by wallymore(m): 11:19pm On Jun 19, 2016
Ladies....why can't u appreciate whatever ur hubby has given u for God sake... u just marry her she doing like this, what of if u hv live for long...it will become a treat to u. Tel her to appreciate u better. She shld stop comparing u wit others.
Romance / Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by wallymore(m): 11:48pm On Jun 11, 2016
Well that is not ur frd wife... if atall it is. He will diffinetely wit the guy... her going we tell wen she settle down. God will always provide better girl for ur frd. Soo sad.
Religion / 16 Things You Can Do On The Night Of Power In Ramadan by wallymore(m): 6:41am On Jun 17, 2015
16 things you can do on the Night of Power in Ramadan

Abdul Malik Mujahid
Laylatul Qadr (the Night of Power) is described in the Quran as, "better than a thousand months" (97:3). Any action done on this night such as reciting the Quran, remembering Allah, etc. is better than acting for one thousand months which do not contain the night of Qadr.

Allah's Messenger used to exert himself in devotion during the last ten nights to a greater extent than at any other time." (Muslim). Allah's peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet.

Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, related that the Prophet said: Look for Laylatul Qadr on an odd-numbered night during the last ten nights of Ramadan (Bukhari).

The Prophet said: "Whoever prays during the night of Qadr with faith and hoping for its reward will have all of his previous sins forgiven." (Bukhari and Muslim recorded from Abu Huraira).

Here are some tips of things we can do on the Night of Power and the time before and after it.

1. Take a vacation for Allah
We take a break from our jobs for almost everything in life. Why not this time to focus on worshiping and thanking our Creator.

If this is not possible at least take a few days off if you can. This can make it easier to stay awake at night to do extra Ibadah, not having to worry about getting to work the next day.

It will also facilitate doing Itikaf.

2. Do Itikaf
It was a practice of the Prophet to spend the last ten days and nights of Ramadan in the masjid for Itikaf.

Those in Itikaf stay in the masjid all this time, performing various forms of zikr (the remembrance of Allah), like doing extra Salat, recitation and study of the Quran. They do not go outside the masjid except in case of emergencies, therefore, they sleep in the masjid. Their families or the masjid administration takes care of their food needs.

Itikaf of a shorter period of time, like one night, a day or a couple of days is encouraged as well.

3. Make this special Dua
Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, said: I asked the Messenger of Allah: 'O Messenger of Allah, if I know what night is the night of Qadr, what should I say during it?' He said: 'Say: O Allah, You are pardoning and You love to pardon, so pardon me.' "(Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and Tirmidhi).

The transliteration of this Dua is "Allahumma innaka `afuwwun tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee"

4. Recite the Quran
Perhaps you can choose Surahs or passages from the Quran which you have heard in Tarawih this past Ramadan to recite.

If you attend a class where the recitation of the Quran is taught, this is a great time to put your knowledge into practice.

5. Reflect on the meaning of the Quran
Choose the latest Surah or Surahs you've heard in Tarawih and read their translation and Tafseer. Then think deeply about their meaning and how it affects you on a personal level.

(If you want to study the Quran with more understanding, check out Way to the Quran and Access to Quranic Arabic.

6. Get your sins wiped out
Abu Huraira narrated that the Messenger said: Whoever stands (in prayer) in Laylatul Qadr while nourishing his faith with self-evaluation, expecting reward from Allah, will have all of his previous sins forgiven. [Bukhari and Muslim).

Don't just pray using the shorter Surahs that you know. Try to make your prayers longer, deeper and meaningful. If you are familiar with longer Surahs, read the translation and explanation and then pray reciting these Surahs, carefully reflecting on the meaning while you pray.

Even if you are only familiar with the shorter Surahs, read the translation and explanation beforehand, and then pray reflecting on the message of the Surahs.

This is a good way to develop the habit of concentration, even in regular prayers, where many of us tend to be fidgety and/or easily distracted.

7. Make a personal Dua list.
Ask yourself what you really want from Allah. Make a list of each and everything, no matter how small or how big it is, whether it deals with this world or not. Allah loves to hear from us. Once this list is ready, you can do three things:

Ask Allah to give you those things
Think about what actions you have taken to get those things
Develop a work plan to get those things in future.
8. Evaluate yourself.
Ask yourself those questions that need to be asked. Do an evaluation of where you are and where you are going. Let this evaluation lead you to feel happiness for the good you have done and remorse for the bad you have done. (see a short and a long evaluation guide) This latter feeling should make it easier to seek Allah's sincere forgiveness when making the Dua mentioned in tip number one above.

9. Make long, sincere and deep Duas
One of the best times to do this is during the last part of the night.

Abu Huraira, may Allah be pleased with him, related that the Prophet said: When the last one-third of the night remains, our Lord, the Glorious One descends towards the heaven of the earth and proclaims: Who is that who supplicates for Me, and I grant his supplication? Who is that who begs Me for anything and I grant it to him? And who is that who seeks My forgiveness, and I forgive him? (Bukhari, Muslim).

That means for instance, waking up one hour before Suhoor time to ask Allah for anything and everything you want that is Halal. This can be done using the Duas of the Sunnah, but also Dua in your own language, with sincerity and conviction.

For some tips on making Dua please see the article Some personal Duas you can make.

10. Memorize a different Dua every night
They don't have to be long. They can be just one line. And be sure to know what they mean generally at least, even if you don't know the exact translation in English.

You can put them on index cards (or and keep them with you during the day, glancing at them during work, while driving, waiting in line, etc.) Then practice them at night in prayer.

11. Have Iftar with the family
If you've spent Iftar time on weekdays in your cubicle at work alone with a couple of dates, now is the last few days you'll have this Ramadan to spend with your family. Use it wisely.

12. Take the family to Tarawih
Have your spouse and kids missed Tarawih most of Ramadan because you weren't there to drive them to the Masjid, which is too far away to walk to? If so, do all of yourselves a favor and bring everyone for Tarawih in these last ten nights.

13. Attend the Dua after the completion of Quran recitation
Almost all Masjids where the Imam aims to finish an entire reading of the Quran in Tarawih prayers in Ramadan will be completing their recitation in these last ten nights. They may try to end on one of the odd nights and read the Dua at the end of a reading of the Quran. Attend this particular night's Tarawih prayer with your family. See if you can attend different Masjids' Tarawih prayers the night they finish reading the Quran.

14. Finish reading a book on the Prophet
Read about the Prophet's life, which can increase your love for him and Islam by seeing how much he struggled for Allah's sake. It may inspire you to push yourself even harder during these last ten nights. This community is built on sacrifice.

15. Plan for the next year
Once you've done a self-evaluation, you can plan on where you want to go, at least in the next 12 months. Laylatul Qadr is a great night to be thinking about this (without taking away from your worship), since you'll Insha Allah, be in a more contemplative state. You may choose to dedicate one night of power for evaluation and one night for planning for the next year.

16. To do list for the Night of Power
Make a to do checklist for each Night of Power. This should define how you would like your night, the one better than a thousand months, to be used. Pick things from this list and define the sequence you would like to do things in. This will help you avoid wasting your time in unproductive chats which common in the festive atmosphere of Masjids at the Night of Power

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NYSC / Re: 2014 Batch 'B' Winding-up/passing-out Approved Programme Of Activities by wallymore(m): 9:26pm On Jun 15, 2015
Sai baba u too much jawe.... we dey ur back. May God help u more and more

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