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Growing up, a woman poured hot water on her daughter's private part because of her promiscuous behaviour.

We also had a neighbour who would use stick used for turning fufu to pound her very stubborn daughter like a thief. Afterwards , she would put pepper in her eyes and private parts, then lock her up.

Despite all the pummeling the girl received, she grew worse, got pregnant and later died after an abortion went wrong.

I know stubborn children can drive parents insane, but instead of meting out harsh punishment on them, just hand them over to juvenile homes. Their brain will reset afterwards.

This dude is starting to talk too much. He is bragging subtly and making a big deal out of everything. If you like, have hundreds of doctors at your beck and call, if calamity wants to happen, you won't be able to stop it.

If you see marriage as a scam and you don't trust your partner, discussing your earnings with your spouse may not be the right thing to do.

But if you think marriage is a union of two hearts, and you are married to a good and understanding partner, then I don't think there is nothing wrong if you discuss your earnings with your spouse.

Iamcute:
Her mum is late
She and her siblings were taken away from her dad when her mum died at the age of seven.. she started dating this dude from when she was 15. Her dad just got to know about her whereabouts yesterday because of this incident according to a phone in by a member of the dad's family to Harrison

Is the guy the person in dreads standing by her bedside?

jmichael259:
You see female offspring? If them wan disgrace you, dem go carry the entire shame of the wall dump on any good name their family had remaining.

P.S Start training your female kids on skill, Street smart, self worth, justice and independence (no be feminism o) from age 9. They will not wait to grow up so don't wait either.

Male kids ruin the family by becoming murderers, rapists and deadly criminals. So, start by training your male kids to stay off crime so they won't end up ruining the peace in your home and making life unbearable for others including our female kids. 😏😏😏

Are we not tired of these reports? The terrorists did this, said that, but all we do is watch them unchallenged and the circus continues.

Imagine terrorists moving around in motorcycles as if it were some sort of carnival. Wouldn't that be the perfect time to decimate the scoundrels? What is really going on?

A real man doesn't chop left overs. A real man doesn't destroy the peace in his home by bringing another woman in. But above all, a real man proves himself by actions and not by some damn social media rants.

The last time I said our security personnels are incompetent and some mofos were having orgasm on my post. Imagine bandits having access to sophisticated rifles and handcuffs that are not on the open market. So the question is, where are the getting these from?

Border porosity is what is fuelling this madness. You can't fight insurgency if those terrorists have free access to weapons and other accessories. So, I suggest the army should stop going after them for now since they haven't been able to subdue them. They should be drafted to borders, and places that serve as easy entries for smuggling of weapons.

Cut off every damn supply, intercept suspicious packages, do uncover work, use locals as informants...Damn! Is it that our security personnels don't know what to do, or am I the one overthinking?

His grey hair is not natural. He dyed it.

yinkus6750:
This is the most important and critical stage of marriage. No children, no hustling , just home alone day in day out.
That's when you know her true colour.
God bless every good wife out there.

Is it only women that are supposed to be good in marriage? What can a woman do to a man that a man hasn't done to her in a million times?

This mindset that a wife should be good while the husband can misbehave because he is a man is so nauseating. That is why Nigeria is such a backward country because we like to normalise bad behaviours.

HacheNoire:
So people don’t die unattended to in other countries?

You wannabe’s always just finding the slightest excuse to rubbish your country.

When Carlton Weekly was shot in Chicago, he died due to heavy wounds and slow response which family confirmed that he could have made it. CPR or whatever did not even get administered but wannabe’s won’t point that out. Their country is always the target.

Very smart of you to single out a very rare occurrence and use it to compare to what has become our reality in this country. This is not about rubbishing the country, but about the fact that people like you are so used to the bad system of government, have accepted your fate, and have decided to normalise it. With such a mindset, how will the country move forward?

HacheNoire:
You don’t want to put responsibility of the man and that’s my problem with you.

So if your son impregnates 3 girls, those girls should be blamed for not taking cared of the situation?

You have no blame for the son who impregnated the lady?

I hope that’s what you mean? We have to discuss like professionals. What was the root cause of the pregnancy?

Who had the sperm?
What was the first point of protection? The cap?

Make sense with me!

If my son impregnates three girls, I would chastise him for being irresponsible, of course. But as long as the girls were not raped, then their parents should blame them for being stupid enough to open their legs for an irresponsible man.

I am not trying to hold brief for irresponsible men. But the truth is, nature is biased toward women, and one of the sole reasons why men are sexually irresponsible is because they can never get pregnant. A man can go on a sex spree without consequences. But can you say the same about a woman?

For that reason, if a woman doesn't maintain sexual discipline and allows a man to mess with her, then she should be ready to face the consequences. I didn't create this situation, nature did.

Is that not how it's supposed to be? As long as your spouse is privy to your crime, then he or she should be charged as an accessory.

However, OP, why are you hammering on physical abuse alone? Don't you think sexual abuse perpetrated by men is even worse than physical abuse?

HacheNoire:
But a married man can forget his wife and skin five with a prostitute. He should not say No to such temptation.

Let’s use root cause analysis in project management to analyze issue. If the man did not dip his peniss into the lady, there will be nothing to discuss about here.

The man called the shot!

My message is clear: Men don't get pregnant, only women do. So women should learn to respect their bodies and never give in to a man if they don't want to have unwanted pregnancies. How else do you want me to explain it to you?

If this report is true, then Oga Peller should start by telling us what he knows about marriage that prompted his decision to get married at this young age.

Jarvis should be careful though because that Peller kid looks mentally unstable. People like that will orchestrate a murder-suicide crime and stream it just to trend even in death.

HacheNoire:
…and a man who fails to use condom should not take responsibility for his actions?

You can’t make it make sense!

A woman owns her body, solely bears the shame of unwanted pregnancy, and can choose not to get pregnant if she doesn't want to.

So if she insists on no condom, no sex, where will the pregnancy come from? This is why Nigerian women should be taught discipline and how to say NO to a man.

Niccoloimhotep:
Weak men, everywhere
Na why I hate this baby mama of a thing, they end up raising weak men with no sense of self worth
Tufiakwa 🤮

That's because most of the boys inherited their father's bad behaviours which makes it difficult for their mothers to change.

It is easier for a man to kill a woman, than the other way around. The first case of murder recorded in the bible was carried out by a man. Bandits, terrorists, and over 90% of armed robbers and cultists are men. In fact, over 90% of murders across the world are carried out by men

So listen up ladies, don't think your man is a saint just because he looks like it. You may be sleeping with a murderer but don't know it yet. This is why it is important to sleep with one eye open and NEVER completely trust your partner even if you are legally married to him. If your man has killed before, he will not hesitate to kill again. Don't make yourself his victim.

What is this world turning into? Don't be surprised that one spiritualist told them to get rid of the babies so they can attract wealth. People are so desperate to make money nowadays, and will do anything to crawl out of poverty.

SamuraiXXX:
Paschal will be regretting the day he crossed path with this crude woman

Is Paschal himself a refined man? Do you think being rich automatically makes one refined?

HacheNoire:
You blamed the woman but failed to accuse the man that skin dived!

You don’t judge issues like that! How about the man that forgot to wear a condom?

A woman who doesn't insist on using protection and gets pregnant either by choice or stupidity should take responsibility for her actions.

Biko, what's wrong with this woman? If a man doesn't want to accept responsibility for his illegitimate child, why not move on? At this point, it's obvious she schemed her way into his life just to extort him.

Let me reiterate this again: if you know as a single woman that you are not financially capable of raising kids, then abstain from sex. Life is that simple!

Nonetheless, I will be pained if Cubana comes back in future to claim the kid. I just hope the woman will have the courage to say no to him by then.

ravensckar:
May I never be at my wife's side during childbirth.

If you see husband inside labour room during childbirth, e mean sey things don tie wrapper be that. I don't ever pray for such.

You fit pray make you dey beside your wife inside labour room (during childbirth), that one na your own palaver.

Before you type the next thing that comes to your head, I need you to take a step back and show some level of civility because my next response may not be as nice as this one.

I get hot temper and I no dey tey vex.

#Picks_tooth

That's because you are an irresponsible dad. Oya, come and beat me.

ravensckar:
What a rubbish excuse!

Imagine a soldier saying he'll abandon his duties (and comrades) at the front line to witness the birth of his first child.

I was only fortunate to witness the birth of my first child because I was at home on that day. Even at that, the hospital staff sent me out at the crucial moment when I couldn't stop pacing around the ward.

But you see the birth of my second child, that one was magical. I woke up in the morning, turned on my phone and called my wife to ask after her. And she casually announce to me that she had put to birth. I thought she was joking until the messages started flying in. Apparently, she put to bed in the middle of the night while I was snoring away my tiredness (from work).

Child birth is a wonderful moment no doubt, but a soldier must never abandon his duty post or his comrades at the front line.

#Picks_tooth

What a lame excuse not to be at your wife's side during childbirth. Now you see a responsible father to be wanting to do the right thing and you are criticising him.

Fatherhood doesn't start and end with sex. Learn how to show support to your wife during her most difficult period.

Without charms and ammunitions, those bandits can't do jack. So if Sunday Igboho is challenging them, it's because he has a higher power. Power pass power!

erad:
Like I said, try using your brain for its primary purpose. To think.

1st, the discussion is not about how kidnappers executed their operation, it's about how security forces are engaging them. I understand just how shallow your thinking is and the fact that you have no rebuttal for what I said, so you had to shift the focus of the discussion to something that was never mentioned.

2nd, only Inferiority complex and a complete lack of common sense will make a man believe one needs to travel out in 2026 to understand how security works in other countries. USA is one of those countries with efficient security, right? How do illegal immigrants still constantly cross their borders? How did 9/11 happen right under their nose? How do school shootings still happen?

3rd, anyone familiar with my account on this forum knows where I align politically, WITH NIGERIA! My past comments are there for confirmation. Only stupid people defend or attack something just because it supports, or differs from their political alignment regardless of the substance of that thing. It's beyond foolish to start crying over spilled milk when we should be looking for the way forward. It's easy to criticize everything when you're not actively involved in it. Guerilla tactics is not child's play, and no military strategist has been able to counter it till date(you're free to do your research).

The discussion was about engaging the bandits, but I decided to broaden my own discussion to other areas where the army have failed. So what are you yapping about?

Do you really want to compare Nigeria to the US? How many times have you heard that a group of criminals kidnapped dozens of people at once and matched them to the woods unchallenged? How does that relate to immigrants sneaking into the country or psychos invading public places to shoot randomly? What a smart comparison for someone who supposedly uses his brain!

Also, since you are highly informed and don't need to travel out to know what's happening in other countries, then you should be aware of how the U.S Navy raided the hideout of terrorists to rescue Philip Walton, a 27 year old American citizen who was abducted by Boko Haram in 2020. I guess they used magic to rescue him.

And speaking of guerilla tactics, it is very easy to use Guerilla tactics when you are having a direct confrontation and not when there are dozens of hostages in your midst. Do you think it's easy to move around and hide dozens of people without being detected? But the army have made it easy for the bandits because they are as incompetent as you are witless to defend their lack of tactical approach in confronting the bandits.

Let me also make it clear that I have every right to criticise the army for not doing enough because I imagine what the captives are going through, and my heart sinks with pain. Would you counter me if you or a close family member was one of the captives?

And yes, there is need to cry over spilled milk because the milk has been spilling and will continue to spill because our security agents are made up of people who reason like you. Instead of them to accept their blunders, they come up with lame excuses.

In Nigeria, It's always about what people think or say about you. If you want to do something, do it because you want to and not because people want you to.

The moment you don't give a rat's ass about what people think of you, you would have solved almost all your problems.

erad:
Beat them at their own game how?

Many of you have never held a gun before but believe you know all. If they decide to go all in, what do you think will happen to the hostages?

Make una dey use una brain for its primary purpose once in a while.

Since you are making use of your brain, maybe you should start by telling us how easy it was for a group of bandits to grab and march hundreds of hostages into the bush in broad daylight without any interception from security agents.

Some of you will open mouth waa...to spew rubbish just to promote the incompetent government and her security agents. To beat them at their game is to foil an attack, and not wait until lives are at stake before they begin to jump up and down like fake 'Jackie Chans' from Temu just to prove a point.

I'm sure you have never been outside the country before to know how it's done in other countries. So keep quiet when exposed people are talking.

Why am I surprised that the army wants us to believe that these people are sophisticated criminals? The only skill they have is killing people, and they are not even intelligent enough to outsmart the boys scout, talk more of the entire Nigerian army.

But if really that is the situation of things right now and the security agents cannot beat them at their own game, then they should swap positions.

Sweetheart, you won't be a musician forever. So the earlier you make yourself employable, the better for you.

Dpaulie:
Like you want to lead them to their early grace
Chasing bandits with AK 47 with sticks and that makes sense to u?

During the slave trade era, blacks defended themselves with sticks against white men who used sophisticated rifles not because it made sense, but because they were brave and ready to sacrifice their lives so that the future generation can be free.

The result of their bravery is the freedom you are enjoying today. Unfortunately, these generation of men are cowards who are too scared to confront their fellow men masquerading as bandits. You are one of those men.