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No indigenous NGO is transparent in Nigeria. If you dig further, you will discover that all the funds expended on 'executed projects' were actually credited to the accounts of his family and friends.

Trump is fast becoming a dangerous kidnapper. I thought invading countries was becoming a thing of the past. It's the audacity for me! Regardless, I like him because he is a 'talk and do' president.

Newgirl206:
here—know that I have self-respect. I am with you because I love you. I am enduring this because I came from a broken home and I don’t want my children to come from one, too.

The emboldened is a trap that many women have fallen into. They tolerate rubbish from men because they are from a broken home, and don't want to end up like their mothers.

Unfortunately, you are in a worse situation than your mom by clinging unto a dead marriage. The society you are trying to please don't care, and won't even remember you if something bad happens to you. Your self esteem is damaged, and will need years of therapy to repair it.

HelenaWills:
Una dey marry sha.
Jesus.

Many women are in her shoes, but just pretending and can't speak out.

Soon, Nigerians will start migrating to Antarctica. Most of them living in these snowy, continental and humid countries are depressed asf, and are just enduring.

But they will log into social media and post pictures of snow just to pepper others. I can only holiday in some of these countries, but will never migrate to any of them.

Kobojunkie:
1. He was able to reasonably defend himself from his assaulter... that is what stopped him, and according to the law, that is also the best thing to do when one can.

2. Oh, I see! So, if the man had slapped you on the butt, for instance, that would also have been a "common excusable assault" and not sexual assault? WOW...

Slapping on the butt is sexual battery. So, you don't expect someone that gets slapped on the butt and another that gets slapped on the back to react the same way.

Anyways, back to the issue! So, though you admit that his uncle committed what you refer to as a misdemeanor against the OP, somehow you insist that OP had no reason to defend or return the favor? 🥱🥱

Come on! OP had no reason to defend himself since he wasn't in danger of any kind. According to the law, self defense is used to protect oneself or loved one from imminent attack or harm. So, what was OP trying to defend since the man didn't hit him twice or wield an object against him?

3. Your response to a misdemeanor committed by him against you is an overreaction, but his misdemeanor is not?

In law, even a judge can dismiss a misdemeanor charge. So, I still insist that the OP overreacted.🥱🥱

OP brought guns to a stick fight.

Lexzeey:
if dangote stoop so low to slap me for no apparent reason of course I'll retaliate, na me suppose teach am sense? If you're too stupid to wise up let's both be stupid together, it takes two to tango and two can very well play the game, of course I'd retaliate with every fiber in my being.

You know you won't retaliate, so stop capping.

Newgirl206:
Then again am trying to focus on my self and be happy again, is not going to be easy but I know God will see me through.
God bless you'll 🙏🙏

Go to your first post and continue from there by 'replying' to the post. Creating another thread wasn't necessary.

Kobojunkie:
1. If a cultist, he may not seek direct assault but report him to the police. Still, the law would be on his side even then.

So, what stopped him from reporting his uncle to the police instead of going physical? That would have been the best thing to do since he claims they have no relationship.

2. Wait a second... are you insinuating that if this uncle had maybe sexually assaulted you while drunk, you would do nothing about it? 🥱🥱

You just answered the question yourself. Slapping someone is a common assault and regarded as a misdemeanor. Sexual assault on the other hand is a felony that can attract a long jail term or even a death sentence. So, why should one react the same way to both actions?

3. You would apologize to someone who assaulted you because he was drunk and didn't know better, or because he is older than you and didn't know better? 🥱🥱

I would apologise to him because I over reacted, and not everything should be taken seriously; especially if the other party is much older. The uncle meant no harm at all, but the OP overreacted because he was holding a grudge.

I hope you get it?

According to some 'wiseacres' monikers above me, every story on Nairaland is fake. They are quick to debunk a story in order to create an impression that they are very smart and knowledgeable.

I don't know where the OP is going, but the story sounds so familiar....FB dating, marriage, domestic abuse, then separation within one month. If the story is fake, then I guess the people experiencing such abuse in real life must be robots.

kodix:
Hmmmm,datz very bad of you
If your uncle is dangote(a very big man) will you slap him!

@Lexzeey..can you honestly answer the question above? Let me ask another question: if it was a renowned cultist or bandit that slapped you, would you retaliate?

You clearly admitted that he was intoxicated, so your reaction was very wrong.

Put yourself in his shoes, and imagine been hit by someone young enough to be your son, regardless of the circumstances.

I think you were triggered by his criticisms due to guilty conscience. I should encourage you to go apologise, but of what use is that? He may never forgive you, and I am down with him on that.

Next time, you will learn how to control your temper and not flex muscles with someone physically weaker just because you bear a grudge against him.

Imagine committing such an abominable act in a country like America, and not facing the law until now.

The moronic wife who was afraid to speak out should be sentenced for being an accomplice.

Iyabo Ojo is the definition of keep trying by 'hook or crook', and one day you will make it. She transformed from an mgbeke actress to a formidable Nollywood celebrity. I admire her tenacity and her 'never give up' spirit.

This pastor Enenche has so many half siblings who are not doing well financially. I wonder why he doesn't assist them, but will rather contribute millions to purchase a private jet for someone that doesn't need it.

She was 23 when she got married, but has been unable to give birth after 15 years of marriage. This is strange given that women in their early twenties are very fertile.😏😏😏

Your wife only left the house and you are already crying. What will you do if she decides to leave you forever?

When I keep preaching to people not to give birth to a football or basketball team, they won't listen.

Imagine if you had just a kid, or at most two....you won't even bother if your partner leaves you because one or two kid can easily be taken care of.

ChybuzzDD:
Something is definitely wrong with you if you can't see the wickedness that woman exhibited there!

Something is definitely wrong with you if you can't differentiate between the two words 'strange' and 'bad'.

I keep saying that if you want to rid the society of crime, police should start by arresting babalawos. But can they dare to do that? Of course not because they also patronise them.

House rents are outrageous because someone is paying for it. If you boycott these landlords, their brain will reset.

Your husband is not an eye candy. The few women interested in him are only after his money. So, park well and allow them to have a taste since there is love in sharing.

Many paedophiles are on this thread. Imagine saying a primary five girl is no longer a virgin. If you know that much, it's because you are sampling such little girls and should be arrested asap.

Lol...All these mgbeke boys forming Chris Brown. Girls have nothing to offer bla...bla..bla.. As if they can offer anything better.😏😏😏

TechBaron:
They say “evolve or die.”
I try to keep l

I respect the effort these guys put in, and the financial rewards. No hate at all. But till today, I honestly can’t wrap my head around what viewers find so entertaining.

Bandwagon effect.

CC... Jobandvacancies... Come and claim this job asap, and quit your 30K monthly salary. I prophesy that this year shall be your year of breakthrough in chisus name. 🥺🥺🥺

A female child living with her biological father is bad enough, talk more of living with a man who isn't related to her by blood.

It is either he is already sexually molesting her or making passes at her. It is unfortunate that her evil mom supports the man. Just take a look at her facial expression in the picture.

brain54:
Since it isn't strange and unusual...

Then you shouldn't post it here since it's a normal habit and occurrence for madams to not give their maids flesh even if they kill 10 chickens.

It would be weird someone creating a thread about someone drinking water or going to work or bed for example. Those are normal occurrences.

And yes I think the story is fake but not for the reasons you are pointing out!

Oftentimes, when trying so hard to sound intelligent, we end up sounding silly. Something can be a usual occurrence, but that doesn't make it right.

Since kidnapping has become a usual occurrence, should people stop talking about it because it has become a norm? Yuck!!!

Exousiang01:
They killed 3 chicken on Christmas day and you don't see the wickedness in what she did.
Do you have any idea how long she must have been maltreating the girl? For the husband to go out of his way to walk to the kitchen just to check the maids food, it means he knows the wife is wicked...
Na wetin my children give dog chop on Christmas day you dey claim say e dey ok..

The girl is watching the entire house eating fat while she does most of the domestic work.
Tomorrow una go wonder why she piss for pot of stew....

Wicked people

Lol... Comprehension issues is at play here. Let me clarify: There is nothing strange about the story because most madams are guilty of it.

Does that mean I approve of it? No..... It's like saying kidnapping is not strange, but that doesn't mean we approve of it.

brain54:
Bros if nothing is strange about giving someone...


4 chicken feet and 2 chicken head then why are you posting this story here?


Why don't everyone eat, be merry and go to bed?

4 chicken feet after slaughtering 3 full chickens and you don't think it's strange?

I'm very much okay o. Are you?

I'm trying so hard to understand your point. Is it today that you are learning that most madams don't give their maids chicken flesh to eat even if they kill 10 chickens?

I called you out because your post implied that the story was false, and it wasn't possible to kill three chickens and give someone only the chicken feet and head.

So, I ask again: what is strange about giving someone chicken feet and head? Nothing strange about it since it is a usual occurrence among people. Is that a nice thing to do? No...

brain54:
I burst laugh when I saw 4 chicken feet and 2 head...

Another lamba don drop. Dem no dey tire to release story.


.....4 chicken feet and 2 head... buhaaaahhaa!

What is strange about giving someone 4 chicken feet and 2 heads? Are you okay?

If the chicken feet was so fleshy and nutritious, why didn't she share them among her kids?

Regardless, saying her husband overreacted would be an understatement. His actions portray him as an abuser.

So, how is he different from his wife that he was trying to scold for mistreating the maid?

I stumbled on this post and decided to share.

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On 25th December 2025 which was Christmas Day, something happened in my home that has been disturbing my mind, and I really want to know if I was wrong.

After cooking all day with our house help, we finally finished preparing the meals. We used three chickens for the Christmas food. When it was time to serve everyone, I dished my husband’s meal, mine, the kid's, and I also served my help. I gave her four chicken feet and two chicken heads.

Personally, I feel chicken feet is fleshy, and some people even prefer it. I didn’t see anything wrong with what I served her because she also ate out of everything we cooked... fried rice and salad.

But what happened next shocked me.

My husband suddenly got angry. He went straight to the kitchen, called her there in my presence, and started asking her why I gave her “only chicken feet.” Before I could even explain, he began shouting at me in front of her.

He said I was wicked… that Christmas is for everyone… and that I was treating her badly.
When I told him I didn’t want anyone going back into my pot after I had already served the food, things escalated. He got upset over my reluctance to yield to his demands. In the heat of the moment, he slapped me.

All this happened simply because I didn’t want the maid to return to the pot to take another chicken part. I honestly felt disrespected and humiliated especially because it happened in front of the help.

Now, I’m confused....

Was I really wrong for serving her chicken feet and head? Is chicken feet such a terrible part to give someone on Christmas? Honestly, that is what I usually serve her whenever we prepare chicken.

Judging from her background, I'm not sure she's had the luxury of eating chicken feet. So, why is my husband acting up considering that the maid is no more a kid. She is 13 years.

I called my girlfriend yesterday and she said my husband overreacted, and he may be having an affair with her. Do you think she may be right?

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