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To be honest, no responsible man will give out his two kids just like that in the guise of not been able to take care of them. Would your wife had done the same if the tables were turned? I can only imagine the cruelty that await those poor kids.

And for your information, no one adopts fully grown kids in Nigeria. They will only turn them to slaves. Go to jobs section and search for security or driving jobs. That will give you a head-start.

Raphes1010:
o can show you any proof you want the agent paid for our transportation hoping the adoption will work out so she can get her money back but sadly it didn't just ask me for any proof you want

Get her money back? You're talking adoption and money at the same time. Are you selling your kids?

Raphes1010:
actually I have skills after I lost my food stuff business to fire that burnt the whole market I went and studied financial trading from 2019 to 2022 just that I don't have a start up capital but I've learnt everything about it it was that same 2022 that my wife died and I had to sell the only land I have in my village which was used to pay for her hospital treatment but sadly we still lost her and from that same money I did her burial before her family allowed the kids to go with me so technically I have nothing left because that's the only land for left even my late fathers kindred are not happy with me for selling it because when she had the accident they called a family meeting and advised me to abandon her but I can't just abandon her like that with he 2 kids she was from akwa actually while I'm from Enugu state we met when I was still doing my food stuff business as you can see my family member doesn't care about my existence talk more of the kids even my late wife's step mother and her father have never called ever since the day burial was done it's like we're just abandoned since that 2022 till now I've tried to give the kids a good life but the hardship is too much it pains me to see them crying for food they've even forgotten everything about school

Your late wife doesn't have any siblings?

Raphes1010:
sadly none 😞

Any skills?

Raphes1010:
I'm currently at Lagos because I searched adoption page on Facebook I then contacted someone that said I should bring the kids to Lagos because we're staying at Rivers State Port Harcourt so since Sunday last week we've been in Lagos when we got here they said 6yrs is of age now even transportation to go back is a problem that's why I made this post to see if I can get any help

You don't sound sincere. You are broke but could raise transport from Rivers to Lagos. Why didn't you use that money to feed your kids first? Then, you can go out there and hustle like a man. For someone who is neither sick nor handicapped, I don't know what your problem is.

Raphes1010:
we're in worst situation imagine staying from morning till night without food

What qualification do you have?

Why didn't you marry her earlier if you are worried about her biological cycle?

Okay...okay... okay... Let's go over this again. She joined you in the UK after a while that you left. You made out but there was no connection. She lied she was going to see a female friend but ended up with a guy. You got mad and broke up with her.

Now, you want lazy Nigerian youths on Nairaland to validate your decision. The question is, are you happy that you broke up or do you want her back?

Na wao! Do you want to jeopardize the lives of your kids?

Sex is not food, and you can choose to live without it if it suits you. Not a big deal.

Swallow for dinner? That is a no for me.

Are we now in the US? This is what happens when mentally unbalanced people are recruited as security agents.

If you want to be gay, do it in peace but leave kids out of your madness so you don't corrupt them with your ideologies. The little man looks gay already. Smh...

They are looking glammed up. It must have been a celebration of life, I suppose.

omooba969:
I have read some comments here suggesting the moniker 'We4all' is a particular person here, known for constituting nuisance.

I don't want to jump the gun though.

Ha...ha...ha... You might as well jump the bomb.

Zonefree:
I'm reserving my comment until I hear from We4all.

I am right here, honey.

Where is safe in Abuja?

APOPTOSIS:
This one na my spec

You get spec?

They should go back to their country and assist in developing it. Most of these countries are in either Central or North America, yet they will be running to the US as if the United States was built in a day. Imagine if majority of Americans had migrated to another country, what would have become of their country?

authority2006:
I don't know why you guys always assume that the signs are always there like the people with evil intentions are dumb or something to always leave the signs all over the place. And again, was the insult really necessary?

Have you heard of body language before? It wasn't created for a reason. I can read body language like a book and it's always there looking right at us but people tend to ignore it. Even people's voice alone can give them away. Like I said, the signs are always there, but some people are too dumb or pretend not to notice. If you don't want to be called dumb as a human, then don't act like it.

Since there is nothing in this life according to Destiny Etiko, tell her to return her BBL to the surgeon who padded it for her. At least we can start from there.

Zonefree:
How easy for you to believe a one-sided story.

Do you have both sides of the story to share?

EmptyGarden:
I’d be genuinely happy to.

Do you have good genes or character? Women don't want bend down select donors.

You were busy making plans with someone who had a different plan for himself. I'm certain the signs were there, but you were too dumb to figure it out.

There could be more to this story. You can't be impulsive, stupid and wicked at the same time.

Samantha125:
Why do you guys keep allowing family members to come and stay in your matrimonial homes? Don't his parents have a house for him to live in?

Personally, I'll never allow any of my family members to come and stay with me in my matrimonial house, I'd rather rent a place for them than allow them to come and invade me and my husband's personal space.

I've also never felt comfortable staying in any of my sisters' matrimonial homes despite us being close... Two of my sisters have been married for more than ten years and the longest I've spent in my first sister's house is only two days while I've never done a sleepover in my second sister's house... I'll only visit in the morning and leave in the afternoon... Last year when she was hosting a party, she tried everything in her power to get me to have a sleepover at her house to a point that she even took my car keys, but I tricked my nephew into retrieving them for me and I left while she was still occupied with other guests... I told some of my family members to let her know that I've left.

It was only after I got home that I called her to let her know that I arrived safely...😅😅😅

It is easier to say this as a young couple, but in future, it won't be such a big deal.

Do they even understand the meaning of the word 'recall?'.

Akpabio is a he-goat, but at this point it is just your words against his. If he had been harassing you for long, why were you celebrating him last year on his birthday as if he were a man of honor? Too many loopholes in your story, madam.

Mami, you are glowing. Motherhood looks good on you.

Africans always making marriage look like slavery.

Hemanwel:
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Hemanwel:
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