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Lies. She is looking for online donations.

Samantha125:
Yep.

Ok. Welcome back.

2cribz:
Most naija ladies have saggy breaststroke,hairy stinky pussy and infections.if shez on kolos or has been used. She shud rot In hell while here on earth.bich

How many have you slept with?

He should slow it down with the number of kids. By the way, why is no one condemning this weird relationship? People are still attacking Davido's first baby mama for dating a younger man, but hailing this American for birthing 3 kids for Wizkid. Talk about hypocrisy at its peak!

Samantha125:
Her father was never cut out of her life, they lived together and there were also pictures of them together circulating all over social media... Something about this girl just doesn't add up and to make matters worse, she keeps contradicting herself.

Hi! Are you that South African Samantha girl that deactivated her old account?

Ayra, my love.

Nnamdipapa:
I am just curious and wanted to ask this question to guage reactions. Compared to your parents, would you say your marriage is better or worse and, what ever your answer is, do you care to share the reason behind your conclusion?

I will say my parents had a better marriage .

First, their marriage was an arranged one and no prior relationship before the marriage so there was nothing like love from the get go.

My dad's relatives decided to look for a wife for him and someone recommended my mom. Even dad was not around during his own wedding.

At the onset, there were lots if glitches and quarrels mainly because of my paternal grandmother controlling influence on my dad and, we were very small then so, it was stories that were told to me as as I never witnessed them quarrel before.

My mom loved and adored my dad and, at some point, they seemed like bro and sis.

Mom ran the home, made sure everyone was well fed thrice daily, still kept her restaurant business where we always went to eat.

Dad was always away at work and month end, he would take his gas money and some change, would give the rest to my mom to plan and run the home.

There were each other's best friend that mom could not live after my dad passed. Always sitting and chatting together, giving maximum attention to each other.

I would say we grew up in a home where my parents agree on everything and never quarrel. Even though they were not rich and educated. My dad once lost his job and mom was there with him through it all.

Now, compared to mine, I feel people get into marriages for ulterior motives especially the ladies. They want to use marriage as a financial retirement plan.

I cannot say I have all what my parents had in their relationship even though mine was not an arranged marriage.

I conclude that my parents have a better marriage than I currently have.

Shall we say arranged marriages are way better than love marriages?

Is your marriage better than your parents.

You marry ni? Impossicant!

The description of a 'good marriage' in the Nigerian context is when the home is peaceful. But the home can only be peaceful if the woman decides to play a fool by turning a blind eye to her husband's excesses.

Most Nigerian men are despicable, but still want their wives to tolerate them because they are simply just men!

A very close relative was caught having an affair with his two daughters (don'mind my choice of words because the children were enjoying the gifts he was showering on them) and when the bubble bursted, he beat the living daylights out of his wife.

If she choose to remain quiet, people will assume she has a good marriage. The real question should be: "What is the definition of a good marriage"?.

You married a slay queen and now you are complaining about her slay queen lifestyle.

To be honest, waking up as early as 5:am to prepare food for the family is slavery at its peak. Why do you people like making life hard for women in the name of marriage?

JobAndVacancies:
I've met Ahnie aka We4all, a cute down to earth but single mother of two.
Met Mariangeles aka Juwessgratitude, this one na foodie, a fati bum bum

I think I can remember meeting you. The short big headed guy that was ravaged by poverty. Yeah...I remember now. Ode...

JobAndVacancies:
2024 was a year of loss to many.
I staked my full Salary on Real Madrid to either win or draw Milan but they lost 1-3, I nearly committed suicide that month cos it wasn't easy.
People also borrowed money from me and I touched my savings and emergency and lent 30k, 20k and other amounts of money but till date they all refused to refund or pay back.
This year I have promised to be very hard on myself.
The emilokan drug baron's administration isn't helping matters either, money doesn't have value anymore due to the cost of living..
The only achievement I made last year was just feeding myself, nothing tangible or meaningful achievement last year despite all the hustles.
Recently , I went to the market with 50k to purchase some cheap clothes but the money could only acquire a palms, sandals, belt, two boxers and one trousers.
If you're supporting this administration it will never be well with you and your generations.

Broke, and still had the audacity to troll rich people. Receive sense in Jesus name.

Is Blue Ivy not suppose to be under 15? Why is she dressed like someone in her 20s? Beyonce looks aged in that picture, did she forget to wear make up?

The story no clear. Lions are not humans, none of them is kind. Perharps, they never bumped into the kid or he would have been history already.

If the gun wasn't licensed, he is in for a long thing.

Ijaya123:
The sad reality of chicken is that no mater how heavy it is or costly you bought it, you will only get 12 pieces from it.

If you have 13 pieces, you probably added the head to it.

Dey play. Some people can get up to 30 pieces from a chicken.

desmondadonis:
This chicken weighed 9kg when I went to buy it on 24th Dec. cost me 40k in Lagos. I was in awe of its size that I began to wonder what the rearers feed them. Haven’t seen such a thing before. The picture doesn’t do justice to the actual size of this chicken

40K for one chicken bayi. Was the end product up to 5kg?

Gay couples should not be allowed to adopt kids. They should stop involving kids in their madness.

we4a1l:
My namesake.

Happy new year.

NnamdiPapa, rest.

Management wants to recoup their expenses sharply. He looks like someone I know, but I am not sure.

Isn't it obvious why his wife divorced him?

BABANGBALI:
I wasn't born in Nigeria

Okay. So, tell us your experience while growing up in Cotonou.

Delightsome2023:
Yes

You must have failed your primary six common entrance because you ain't smart at all.

Delightsome2023:
ahnie you're speaking from experience, stop claiming a lady you know.
We all know it's you. We know your story on this forum

I should invite you to my hotel room so we can settle this matter once and for all. But be rest assured that you are coming as a cleaner, and not what you are thinking.

She bought those gifts not out of love, but because she can afford it and prolly wanted to show off.

APOPTOSIS:
My issue lies with the mom raising that boy alone. BOYs raised by single moms end up very dangerous and deadly.
Most are stalkers in the United States.
They rarely appreciate healthy competition.
They become territorialiastic like their mom.
They hardly accept a "NO".
They nag a lot and rarely move on.
They share their wife's secrets with their mom with no single limitation.
They are poor at managing crisis.
Most are raised to be Lazy & redundant.
Such Boys become effeminate and end up making bad fathers in future. At the slightest onset of any issue, they mismanage it and blow such out of proportion.
These are well known fact.
Imagine someone like TonTo Dike raising her son all by herself. That's destruction.
These are my greatest fears.

When a man that is supposed to raise his son is a dead beat, who else should raise him if not the mom?

Ha..ha..ha..the story sounds familiar. Firstly, that dude is suffering from a severe case of low self esteem and is hiding under the cover of being generous.

Secondly, he is the only one who knows what he is getting from your cousin. One thing I know for sure is that, nothing is free.

Thirdly,a lady I know had similar experience. The guy would spend thousands on her and she thought he was generous. Eventually, he had a court marriage with her without a witness from her family.

After living together for a couple of months, he ran away claiming he was tired of the marriage. Obviously, he was after something and has gotten it.

That dude is after something and will dump your cousin when he is satisfied.

Delightsome2023:
ahnie rest

It's you who needs to rest, ode.

Delightsome2023:
Left which Nigeria? This one dey follow claim overseas, person wey never take eye see aeroplane before except for TV.
See your yamayama head.
Sha na dumb brains like Juwessgratitude aka Mariangeles and ahnie aka We4all you fit deceive.
So many fake lives on this forum

If you don't mention my moniker, will you die?

PastorOlokonla:
I never knew you love vawulence. Lol

More than you can imagine.

JobAndVacancies:
ahnie merry Christmas to you.
My regards to your husband and your kids

Damn! You are obsessed with Ahnie.

Nnamdipapa:
You did not wish me a merry Christmas.

As a good christian who bears no grudge, I will say Merry Christmas and have a splendid and, a happy new year. Lol

Lol...

Caaz:
Merry xmas my love.

Same to you, dear.