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OP, I have always maintained that as far as a lady who is of age wasn't raped, she has herself to blame. There is an ongoing case involving someone close to me... Two women, two kids, same story...He clearly told them he didn't want the pregnancy and gave them money to abort. They took the money, kept the pregnancy, and now they want child support.

Let's be honest, would you blame the man for dodging his responsibilities? Most girls are dumb and think using pregnancy to trap a man works for all men. It doesn't, and the earlier they realize this, the better for them.

Exousiang01:
If you had coached yourself probably, you won't be using that image

He is even using a female gender to post when he is clearly a male. That is a red flag.

TrustNone:
Ahnie you get plenty mangos and vegetables why then are those 3 bastards you raised still hungry, poorly fed and looking malnourished

Because they inherited their looks from their stupid and deadbeat father, you.

How are those yams tiny? They are big enough.

modernWays:
My son is 5 years old in primary 1, a very brilliant boy throughout his pre- nursery and nursery classes. The issue started when he was promoted to primary 1, it was then that his new teacher started complaining about his inability to be active in class or catch up with other kids. She claim that the boy didn't read or write whenever she instructed him to do so. Me and his mum personally took it upon ourselves at home, and the boy read and write everything we ask him to do very excellently. We took the matter to the proprietress of the school who later ďisçovered he can actually ŕead òŕ write.

Just last week, his teachers start complaining again that the boy urinating on his body, something his little brother of 2 years old cannot do. This is the same boy that have been urinating by himself before he clock 2 years. They complain he doesn't respond to instructions or be active in class. The proprietress called this morning that they need to return the boy to Nursery class as it seem that the work load is too much for him to manage.

I was so surprise to hear this because he didn't seem having this issue whenever his mum is teaching him at home. And to my utmost surprise, he has been return to the nursery class when his mum went their to pick him this evening.

Actually, I don't have problem with him returning to Nursery class but my major concern is if the boy is justifiably denied from being with his colleagues or not. I am so confused right now, I am even contemplating of withdrawing him from that school by the end of this session. Let me also add the fact that he always feel sad and unhappy whenever he is going to school. This same issue started during holiday lesson in his new class.

I want to ask experience teachers or parents here how they manage such an issue. I don't want my boy to be unjustifiable denied his progress. My question is that, should I allow the school to take their position on him or I should simply withdraw him from that school since I know very well he can actually do what they claim he could not do.

Mod please help me push this post to where I will gain alot of responses. Thank you.

On the contrary, you are more bothered that he was demoted than for the reason why he was demoted in the first place. This is because, most parents would prefer their kids to jump classes so they can show off and brag about it.

Your kid is just 5, and should be in pre-primary. It is possible that no one is torturing him like some people are suggesting. If they are, he is old enough to open up.

It is also possible that he feels intimidated by his mates. Allow him to continue in his new class and watch his progress keenly. Perhaps with time, he will catch up.

Asquare84:
Something is scaring your boy from that school. For me any day I want to take me child to school and that child complain to me on 3 times that she doesn't want to go to that school again. I will just change her school. Something is wrong somewhere, I will advise you change his school.

So, if a child keeps complaining, you will keep changing her school? Tomorrow, if she turns out to become a nuisance, you will be the one to complain.

Mindlog:
Is his present class teacher, same teacher that taught him during holiday lesson in his new class?.

While he was in the Nursery classes, was he exhibiting sadness whenever he was going to school?

No school administrator has the right to demote a child from a class without the engagement of the parents or guardians.

If they have the right to promote, they also have the right to demote if the child can't cope.

TrustNone:
ahnie marriage is the greatest achievement for naija women

That's why you have been depressed cos your 3 children are not in their father's house.

Have you abandoned your JobAndVacancies moniker or is it on recess? You know I love vawulence, so let's continue from where we stopped.

If she died from hunger, she would have been looking malnourished. With the number of mango trees and vegetables growing across Africa, hunger shouldn't be killing anyone.

Sick couple!

DeeScan:
a dog barking at someone doesn't mean they want to attack .. Have you never seen a dog barking at its owner ...



look when a dog charge towards, it is not a misconception when they say don't run. when they get close to you, they stop and literally smell you .. you should stylishly offer the back of your
hand,they do their normal rites and back off ..



na una dey always panic and the next thing you is to japa ..



you guys should watch this 12month content on fb to have a clear understanding of what i am talking about ..

So they can bite if off, right?

I hate dogs like kilode. Bia OP, why did a dog attack your 2 year old kid and you guys are still chilled about it because you are getting free water? At this point, I should report you to the police for endangering the life of your kid.

I didn't think she was a formidable match for Donald Trump, and her loss was expected. Congrats to Donald Trump! You said you would be back again and you did it.

Imredeemed:
Good afternoon, Nairaland. My wife bought baby food—a processed soya bean—from a store here in Abuja, where we live. For the past six days, our 4-month-old baby has been eating it. Today, my baby started throwing up, and when I checked the packaging, I noticed it expired in July 2024. I don’t want this issue to be ignored. What can I do?

As a woman, why did you marry another woman?

Usmanovic95:
DJ cuppy own go loud pass this one.

She is not the extravagant type.

Most kids these days are becoming aware of themselves and are no longer innocent. I go born like this?

Nigerians and copy copy. Always towing the white man's lifestyle. If not, why would any sane person allow such animals to roam the streets. There should be a law prohibiting people from domesticating these wild animals they call dogs.

JobAndVacancies:
ahnie it's so unfortunate your husband Alex couldn't provide a house and a shelter for you and those bastards you call children
I am proud landlord with several houses at Asaba, Warri, Benin, Auchi, Lagos, Port Harcourt, Calabar and Uyo.
I know this sounds impossible to you cos you have been accustomed to poverty and it's a generational curse.
Visit me let me lay my anointed dick on your pussy and release riches and blessings to you and cleanse you with my cum from all the filthiness and poverty ravaging your generations
Ode

Is it Ahnie you are in love with or Alex? Perhaps it's both of them.

TrustNone aka JobAndVacancies aka ICTSpecialist, so you left your gate man job to work as a private school teacher. You are fired! Ha...ha...ha...broke ass niggar constituting an online nuisance.

TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.

Begi...begi...JobAndVacancies, so begging for 5K is your hobby? Jobless and broke niggar trolling on Nairaland. Ode...

Juliearth:
How delusional can you be? Nigerians can only serve once. Which one is served before and you still want to serve at 30. Or was it not you that said you were not eligible for national service because you are over 30?





Nairalanders coman see oh!





Trust me, if we would run a battle of qualifications, you would lose even before I start. Don't get me started. I know all the women in your village are local champions and so, you think women can't amount to anything. Pull out your head from your ass and see what's happening in the world.

That moniker, TrustNone that you are engaging with is a jobless troll who switches between monikers to create a nuisance on Nairaland. He has other monikers like JobAndVacancies, ICTSpecialist.... which he uses to beg and scam. Don't take him seriously.

TrustNone:
ahnie marriage is the greatest achievement for naija women

That's why you have been depressed cos your 3 children are not in their fathers house.
Ahnie dey play

JobAndVacancies, another one of your monikers.... Don't you ever get tired? Considering that you are a broke dude, you should stay humble so your helper can locate you. Ode...

TrustNone:
for women yes it's their greatest achievement in life

Really? I didn't know that. I guess your married sisters are fulfilled.

TrustNone:
another worn out old and unattractive evening newspaper spotted.
Keep using this forum to seek for husband with unnecessary attention

Is husband a trophy? Na wao!

Victorrhymez:
the man who was shot was not playing football, the man has shot the gun the first time because some children were playing football and the gunshot attracted elderly youths who came to ask him why he was shooting at children and the gun was to be taken away from him and ge shot the young man in question.

Na wao! What was he thinking at that moment? Some people are just mentally imbalanced and should be avoided at all cost.

What is the big deal? It will even favor your potential wife; considering she won't have to go through the hassles of changing her name officially.

Honestly, most Nigerians worry over things that are insignificant. Focus more on building a solid marriage and forget about frivolities.

Some of you are so pathetic! All you do is log into Nairaland from dawn to dusk; keeping tabs on the members that do 'give away', then you open new accounts, follow them, and come up with sob stories to elicit pity.

You are a man, so do what your fellow men are doing to make money(as long as it is not something that is damaging to humanity). There are so many opportunities for men out there, you just need to find it, and stop being a cry baby.

Two local champions disturbing my peace.

MrAmbrose:
I feel her pain. That child was her twin.

More like her insurance which has been renewed by the way.

No offence, but it doesn't look appealing. I'd rather cook my meat and devour than waste it on such a meal.