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Nia69:
Just stick with your gender. Everytime women this women that.

This generation has already, almost all men prefer being alone now.

sniperr007:
You can't generalise... People are different.

Bro God created us in patterns. We may differ in few aspects but ultimately we all behave the same primarily. The average man almost always like the same things and behave the same way and so goes for women, you will most likely encounter women who will behave like I have described 9 out of every 10 times, now goodluck finding the 1percent whose different from the norm.

This is for any man out there who’s still living in a bubble in his head thinking the best of women and getting excited when a girl is checking him out, you’re about to get played!!!!

I don’t entertain female attention, I don’t validate it or get excited about it because it’s only a sign one of the feminine gender has picked me out to be played so my immediate instinct is to ignore.

Women are groomed from birth to be natural players, their game is to come innocently into your space and use you till there’s nothing there to be used anymore.

I don’t even see any woman anymore, in my world they don’t exist. I have made peace in knowing I will never know what it means for someone to truly love me because such love doesn’t exist with the opposite gender, their “love” is for all the things you can provide for them.

Anytime you get down from a car notice how everyone of the female gender give you immediate attention, anytime you withdraw a lot of money or look like you’re about to spend a lot of money, you get instant “love” from that gender because you immediately look like a good option for their usage.

I hate being in a world where there’s no love, just a bunch of mind playing people looking for who to use in their games.

I see women as men now, no single attraction to them whatsoever, the best they get is sexual attraction which I prefer to pay for at least I know I’m not being played and I get value for my money.

Since I was little I have hardly made friends because I realized early in life I was a target to society. From an early age they put a scar in my forehead because “they liked me so much” and till date that scar is still there. I grew up knowing I was a target because of my natural goodlooks.

I never made lots of friends because i became scared of people and their intentions. Anytime I was in the midst of my friends, I looked better than everyone facially and everyone always tried to make subtle fun of me just to bring down my “ego” and I was very quiet so I don’t know which “ego” they tried to bring down. Everyone in the group would always pick fun at me just because I looked better than them all and I would go home feeling so bad.

This continued into my early adulthood and the same happened in church and in school, I was always a target..everyone tried to be around me and when they do they start throwing shots at me to hurt my self esteem. After a while I stopped allowing anyone near me, I was very intentional about my circle and that’s when they labeled me “proud” and the hate grew worse.

Fast forward to now my thirties, I’m fairly rich and very comfortable and it’s the adults now who have picked up from where my childhood experiences stopped. I have a neighbor who comes to look for me 8 to 9 times everyday. I recently noticed anytime we are in public he notices how everyone tries to talk to me and be friendly with me and just completely ignores him. Now every time we are in public he tries to say hurtful things to me but I always rebuke him and put him in his place every time. Now I’m starting to get uncomfortable with the so called “friendship” and I’m thinking of blocking him off but this guy literally lives in the same compound as me. And the time I first blocked him off this man sent people to come beg me to forgive him.

I’m quite sure if I wasn’t so private people would have since poisoned or killed me just because they envy me. God is with me.

Please if you stand out of the crowd for your looks, success or intelligence , be very careful because almost everyone around you hate you but won’t show it except you’re smart enough to figure it out.

I don’t understand my thinking pattern anymore, I’m very financially comfortable, I have almost everything I have ever dreamed of but I’m just miserable with it. I feel so empty, I don’t enjoy anything, Ps5 I have it, all types of fancy things but I’m just bored having them.

I smoke a lot of cigarettes and occasionally weed while drinking a lot of alcohol, so much that I’m starting to mess with my happiness, it’s almost like I’m now relying on it for happiness because without it I’m miserable.

Is this shit destroying my brain?

I hate this world, I hate being a part of it and my happiest moment would be dying.
I watched my father die and all the coughs, all the heart pain, all the stomach pain, all the thinking and worrying disappeard, my daddy found peace.

I hate the world God created, there’s nothing beautiful about it. I used to think it’s so beautiful when you have money, but all money does is buy you luxury and after a week you get bored of it. Do you think private jet owners wake up and go stare at their private jets every morning? Maybe after a year if they are so materialistic but eventually they get used to owning it and want something else, and there’s nothing as luxurious on earth than a private airplane.

So what’s so special about your useless world? Is it serx? Something that last five minutes but destroys so many people? Is it food? Something that you eat only to poop out and then want it again while you spend hard earned money to get it? Is it love? That fake word that almost never exists as many people use the word to manipulate and deceive others to exploit them?

I don’t know what to like in this world? Every day you wake up fixing problems.. either it’s none ending Catarrh and throat irritation that I inherited from my grandfather, or it’s one thing you own that gets bad or it’s people who won’t stop gossiping or envying you not knowing how depressed you are in private.

Your world is trash, I hate it. I’m not wealthy but I’m rich, and I have seen a lot of things money can buy and I have them but trust me they didn’t bring me happiness. I’m not broke, I’m writing this with the latest iPhone , living in a fancy house and I have lots of money in my bank but I hate this planet.

Death isn’t a terrifying thing, it’s peace at last, a time to be with God where all this useless pain of this world disappears. I can’t wait for my time to reach, I hate this world. I couldn’t find happiness in my time here.

Gone are the days when men where stupid and women used us like toys, played with our feelings, broke our hearts and made us believe we are only real men when we let women treat us like trash.

The world has changed, social media has exposed the eve gender, men are woke now. There are kings like Andrew Tate who preach the Red pill movement online even tho the few simps who have power over social media tried to silence him because their manipulative females in their lives demanded for him to be black listed.

Gone are the days women pretended to love a man for himself when In truth they used him as a ladder to climb and kick him when they leave him and watch him ruin himself while giving high fives to their fellow demonic sisters A.K.A friends.

This generation of men are woke. I for one will most likely never be getting married, I will soon pick the most high value one of the female gender, impregnate her and they get my child from her while we both co-parent the child.
Christian Ronaldo has almost five children from his girlfriend but never married her, you think he’s stupid? Yes she may like him to some extent but he knows deep down a woman will always be a woman and when he makes the mistake of marrying her, she automatically owns everything he owns and that’s when the EVE in her will start to show full time.

As rich as bill gates, the wife left him. Money cannot make them love you, that gender is very different from us men, spend all the time in the world to understand them or else they will make you die an early death while they fvck your best friend in your own burial.

Ladies, men are woke now…it’s time to find a new hustle, we are no longer going to be your source of income disguised as “love partners” , we know your gender is incapable of loving anything that isn’t herself or her children, nobody dey fall for una scam again.

Tenrack:
Baba you don forget the thread? The one you wanted to give out 10k dollars

Person wey never chop since morning

The fact that I said “I block people “ is triggering the negative comments here.

First I don’t feel better than anyone, that would be delusional.

Secondly, if you know any true introvert show them this thread and tell us what they think.

Stop attacking a person for not being a friendly extroverted person like you, it’s not something I’m even proud about, I was born like this , it’s not my choice

Reinamaria:
It's not them, it's you.
You are the one reading meaning into something that is normal.
You're the weird one, so stop feeling too special.

There’s nothing Normal for a woman to send her kid to come look for me when she doesn’t see me in a day? And yes it’s happed over four times now

Stop feeling too jealous of a person you don’t know because you assume he’s feeling proud. Sometimes people say things not to feel better than others but because they sincerely have a problem with it. Rest

Why is it that once people notice you’re a private person, an introvert who doesn’t like attention or to be around people so much they become suddenly extremely attracted to you and want your time and attention 247? At first I thought it was just my family and that made sense but as I grew older everyone is doing this with me? I literally have to block people sometimes just so they leave me alone.

If I go a day without being seen people around me start pointing it out that I have gone MIA, like bro it’s just a day, what is this attraction people have for unavailable folks?

Is it a biological human nature thing or what?

The mods have refused to put this in front page, because just like they silenced Andrew Tate, the world don’t want the liberation of men. SMH

Badb0y4lyf:
I had know this quite early in life but I gave chance a try my babe loving and all that her bday was to come had no dime on me as at that moment babe borrow me some funds to work I will return with it interest and still give you your bday stuff she declined she later use her money to do make up and cloths with photoshoot, Girl I will sometimes even borrow money to help when I’m on zeros even bought her an iPhone 11 Pro Max 2 years ago. I just smile since then I come first. She do cry tire make I change her phone 13 pro max I just dey tell am point blank no funds I will when I can If she is lucky crumbs falls off she gets but me putting her matter for head lol na lie

Oga. She. Dey. Use. You. Better open your eyes

virginprincess:
Why should i be pained over this trash that a jobless&broke man wrote,na only lack of job go make person sit down compose this rubbish .

Lol funny thing is I’m actually a multi millionaire, a genius and a scholar. I was once a victim of your gender wicked nature, till I learned the hard way. So I’m liberating my fellow hardworking brothers from being used and manipulated from the likes of jobless and broke leeches like you. Now go back to your shared one room face me I slap you dilapidated hole you crawled out from muthafurker

The most beautiful gift God gave us is “change”. The fact that everything around us keeps changing is such a blessing because it’s the reason why we evolve and become better.

I learned this sad and heartbreaking truth about women in my 30s and it completely changed my perspective about life, relationships and even marriage.

Men, do you know women are not capable of seeing us as “human beings “ “a person” “an individual” ? It’s basically impossible for a female to see a man as a human being with emotions, needs and desires. Women are already programmed to see men as a “tool” to whatever their destination in life may be, or whatsoever their fantasies may be. They are programmed from birth to lean on men, to use men to their own advantage. They don’t care about whatever a man needs, it’s all about how to exploit every man that comes their way till they get to a point where they feel they have reached their desired destination in life. This is the reason why no matter what you sacrifice for a woman she will never be loyal to you because of it, if she’s loyal to you it’s not because of your sacrifices it’s because you’re still on track to getting her to her final destination in life so she won’t destroy whatever she has with you yet till you prove to her that you’re now incapable of taking her to her life’s destination.

MEN, WE ARE TOOLS TO WOMEN.

A woman will use your car, your house, your clothes to package herself for a better man that will be impressed by all you have done and giving to her, your sacrifice mean nothing to her, she’s on a journey and you have served your purpose.

You see these girls don’t care about your looks or height or your fat belly, all those things are just games women play to make you see her as a trophy, they pretend to care about these things to bruise your ego as a man, so that when she finally agrees to your advances you will see her as superior because she has made you feel like she’s managing you, and that’s when she starts to exploit you and use your resources to package herself for a better male option.

Don’t ever forget this truth about women, they are incapable of genuinely loving a man without expecting anything in return, you are just a tool in their game of chess.

Lastly, before you ever get married to any woman, tell her to sign a “prenup” with you, meaning if you both ever divorce she will get nothing from you, she only has access to whatever she came into the relationship with, all your properties remains with you, do that and come back to this thread to tell us if she’s still interested in marrying you.

This is the 21st century, guys be wise!

I have been noticing this trend, almost all videos and pictures of Nigerian women are always inside of an hotel room? What do people do in hotels? Obviously it’s to have serx, so technically does it mean this generation of Nigerian women are all runs girls? They don’t even have any Shame or even try to be coded about it anymore, what has this world turn to

Not every person is happy deep down irrespective of how they appear. We most times always look like what we are not because people don’t go about wearing their pain on their forehead. For me I think people over exaggerated the chances of me being so kind or polite and that’s why they get hurt.

Women are naturally very emotional and insecure and sensitive and for that reason they don’t give men the chance of making them feel bad. A guy can look like a God and have a Bentley and a girl can pretend not to see him because she can’t tell if he will snub her or not so the average woman will just ignore him but deep down she may like him.

But the opposite is my case with women, they have no fear of being rejected or ignored or whatever, they just go straight to giving me all of their attention all of the time for reasons only them know because I don’t want to make any assumptions. Why are they sure I won’t ignore them? You are seeing me for the first time and you’re looking directly at my eyeballs expecting me to smile at you? Do you know if I just lost my parent or I can’t afford my next rent and I’m miserable because of that? Why are these girls always so sure I will be kind because for them to keep giving me their attention they must feel some time of security around me but it may be false because i may be in pain.

I feel like I have a lot of female haters because they don’t get the type of response they thought they would get from giving me all of their attention, why are these girls making themselves vulnerable around me..I thought girls have pride but when they see me they forget to be “queen shabba” and just feel so free to stare or flirt or whatever, my dear how do you know im not in severe pain? Is it because im not crying as im walking

Why are people making themselves vulnerable to a person who’s already a very sad person because of the pains of life?

Michelle70:
With her shapeless body,
Below is the kinda thing me i want sha

This kind babe don sit untop my face before

Where can I find this kind babe wey I go dey look up to like this??

Autobot05:
I wish the girls in my compound can see this
They suddenly treating me like an enemy

Lol why are they hissing at you

Why are women obsessed with getting the attention of a “fine man” or a “rich man” and if they see you as one and you’re in their space and they stare at you for ten seconds and you don’t reciprocate The attention they start hissing like snakes? Shey is by force to want you back that you’re trying to make me go deaf with hissing like that would make me automatically like you back? If they say that gender is dumb and has fish brain they will pick offense.

One idiot that was nice to me anytime I visit her oga shop , I decided to start playing with her since she was nice enough, but it’s like the fish brain took it the wrong way and started giving me attitude out of nowhere, so I stopped giving the fool attention because I’m a king and no fool will disrespect me, now anytime I visit their shop this mumu will be hissing like a snake while staring at her father, idiot shey you think is every man that is a simp?

Useless gender, giving a man bad attitude all because he was nice to you, nonsense

OloshoSiofra:
They only discovered you no longer look matured like you used to.

You now look like a primary school boy

Very true

Do you think it’s wise to spend millions or naira to live in ikoyi or lekki with the high and mighty in the society. Having neighbors who drive g wagon and Range Rover sport like it’s nothing. Meeting girls who have their own money and drive Porsche cars and are not hungry and seeing a man as a source of income. If you mingle with your neighbors automatically you’re in the circle of millionaires and you get to see first hand how they make their millions and if you’re smart enough you could tap into their wealth as well. But you don’t save your money because a lot of it goes into your rent.

Or do you think it’s wise to save your millions and live in the trenches where people are frying akara, everyone knows about your business, everyone is jobless broke and frustrated. Your neighbors can bare eat three square meal and if they see you with a good phone or car they envy you and gossip you. You are rich but you are saving your money on rent, you can’t mingle because you’re better than everyone around you so automatically all your friends will be beggars that you will have to keep giving money.

I need intelligent people to give me their opinion?

SPAMBOX7:
That gender cannot love you genuinely ever, it’s always because of your money, beard or some bullshit.


Even if sounds dumb make sure you digest this one above

Facts, I may have not put it out the best way but bro glad you recognize I’m spitting facts

LogicBomb8:
Chai you be mumu

Lol bro na lie I talk? Those people wey get Toto too fake, only our sisters and mothers truly love us

Lol only a fool takes women seriously sha. All the girls and women that wouldn’t let me breathe for a second, now are acting cold because I look ten times better with my beards. That gender cannot love you genuinely ever, it’s always because of your money, beard or some bullshit. See this my neighbor that is always shining 32 teeth for me, because my beard is gone she’s replying me cold. And I noticed this from a lot of them since I shaved, shey the beard will grow back and they will flirt with me with their stinky pvssy Abi? Okay we shall see

Ikennaford:
Op is really pained,I can feel it right here in L A.....ogbeni op lemme tell you something,go out there toast babes,collect digits, you go get better one weh go appreciate you, she no go even Bill you,I think na hoesky you met oooh, and another one be say , you still need babe for your side no matter what, your guys go tire you,PS5 go tire you, but good babe with wet cuntus go deh ontop deh Ride you to hell,,,if you tired of naija babes,e get one of 42 year old Caucasian lady weh deh my neighborhood, she's looking for a good Nigerian guy,I go arrangeam give you,how old you deh sef,she need from 30 upwards, your small Dick no matter,I know seh you get small gbola,,,,, just love she wants,,,,,,

Lol bro ur head no correct

Divay22:
Lol
Sorry o

Sorry for yourself, you’re telling sorry to a multi millionaire yet you don’t have up to 50k? Fvck off

Women don’t appreciate men enough and for that I don’t think they deserve my attention anymore. I’m just cold towards them now, no more flirting or playing or whatever..all they get is a straight face. Why?

There’s a very unfair reality we men live in, we are expected to be superheroes. Nobody cares how we make it in life but you must have a car or a house or something before any woman will want to take you serious. The funny thing is that these women have no idea what we go through to get these things, the blood and sweat and tears that led to the car or house is none of their business but you must have it to “deserve” their attention.

Now you would think after getting all these things all these girls will make things easier on you but no, you still have to prove your worth to them, you still have to “sweep them off their feet” you still have to wait in line and be played before you even manage to get a good one who’s not really good anyway but it’s still better than the others. Women will still make you “suffer” to get their “love” (mind you their love is fake anyway, it’s just them giving you their attention for providing all their needs) that’s what a woman’s love is defined as. Now you have literally broken you back to become a millionaire and yet you still get played by girls? You still have to impress girls? After fighting for your life to get all these material possessions? You’re still being considered and weighed in the grand scheme of things? Na that gender can fvck off.

I brought one to my house , and upon everything I have that I took years to get the bitch was still not impressed, things that cost me millions, gadgets and everything. That gender deserves all the evil yahoo boys do to them, they have no empathy for the male struggle, they are incapable of ever loving any man, they are extremely selfish and pretentious. I’m good at this point, at least I don’t get to be “considered “ after all I put in to get to this financial level. A female without up to 20k in her account will now be “considering” me? God forbid, if I toast any babe again make I bend.

Barims:
I did not bother to read your post but I know you are already frustrated. Bro buy pankere,, whenever she misbehaved flog her...don't go to far though!!!

Na people like you make our government deceive us for years, instead of reading for only two minutes you dey talk op

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

This bitches been using them emotions to trap niggas for days

Exactly, they have so many tricks. “I missed you” “I was scared something happened to you” that’s when you’re not available anymore for exploitation.

Chnbanc:
U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

Funny part is she’s not even a bad person really or trying to ruin you, it’s just her natural feminine nature to be this way. You either keep giving her till you’re bankrupt or you just cut her off completely. There’s no middle ground with women, life is black and white to them , no in betweens