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Justbehave:
Simps like you will always keep wondering how the alphas bang different pussies without simping. Keep wondering Mr simp.

Keyboard warrior but a loser in real life stop already, people who talk too much have no life in reality, stop exposing yourself ode

All those girls you see inside Benz you think the guys driving the Benz are not simping to them? Y’all need to start telling yourself the truth

PerfectStranger:
Oga so olosho don finish for your area?

If you have money, na girls go dey simp for you.

Simping means giving all the time to impress, what does she have to give outside kpekus ? Las las na u go still dey simp to her..only thing is you go get kpekus from all her fellow females as well because with money you become a prize to these girls but u sha must dey simp one way or the Other to keep them all

Nowadays every guy says they don’t simp anymore because they have learned their lesson and “matured” but the truth is have you men really stopped simping in real life tho,? Or is it just for clout on social media.

The reason I’m asking is, women have superior power over us men, I mean sexual power..it’s facts. An 18 year old girl has sexual power over the president of America, because as a man you MUST get hornyyy at least once a week. Now tell me, what do you men do with that urge? Most of you swear you don’t masturbate, most of you swear you don’t give women a dime, now In todays generation of Nigerian women, no girl will stay with you and allow you fvck her for free…it’s a myth in 2022, never happens. If you don’t even have a nice car or a nice apartment you will not attract any woman, if you manage to deceive a village girl , she won’t come back after her eyes open.

Now tell me, you say you don’t masturbate, you say you don’t simp, so how do you people cope with all that konji? Are guys walking about exploding with sexual urges ? If that’s the case then it’s really sad, from my observations it’s like this generation has the highest amount of lonely men exploding with sexual tension because of the decay in societal standards set by these women. Because it seems to have a health sexual life in Nigeria you must simp or masturbate, that’s what I have discovered.

So if you say you’re not a simp, then you’re a chronic masturbator, if not how do you cope with your sexual tension,??

Women have one tactic that works all the time for them against men. They make you feel like you’re not man enough. They know men have ego and so they use that against you most times. If a lady stops you on the road to help her fix her car, you will most likely say yes, not because you can fix it, or because you don’t have important things to attend to instead but you will most likely try to prove to her that you are a “real” man.

Have you heard women say “real men wash their wives clothes” “real men cook for their wives “ etc , they say these things to emotionally manipulate you into feeling less of a man and once you fall for it you become her slave, she owns you because she knows how to emotionally blackmail you into doing anything she wants. That’s the mindset of a woman, the ultimate manipulative gods on earth.

Avoid manipulation my brother, you’re a real man no matter what decisions you make, don’t allow anyone make you feel less of a man for being your true self.

I only have one thing I fear more than death itself, that’s emotions!! You see the one you people call “love”

I have been locking my heart for 10 years now since the last time I loved someone with my whole heart. I literally almost died. I cried for weeks , dropped out of school, I was just 18, till date I haven’t fully recovered. I loved her with my whole heart but it was one sided.

I learned how powerful feelings can be, and I actually respect women for carrying those feelings everyday and dealing with it.

Last time I had such strong emotions was when I lost my dad, another one year of depression for me, but I’m better now.

Emotions scare me, I don’t think I can allow myself love someone again, not because they will hurt me but because that level of vulnerability is too scary for me to face. So yeah I’m just a guy who just love women only for their sexual qualities and if I know it may get past that I RUNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!

T4trinity:
My question is what is the benefits of masturbation and the benefits of regular sex

Is the cum from masturbation different from the cum in sex??

What is the biology in masturbation and that of regular sex??

You need to create a thread for this bro, beautiful question indeed

This is going to sound so arrogant and probably “crazy” but sadly it’s the truth.
People do not know that privilege has a way of messing with your head. There are different kinds of privileges. There is rich person privilege, where everyone kisses your arse and treat you like a superior. There is beauty privileges where everyone acts like you are a celebrity every time they see you, we humans love attractive people so when we see them we treat them like they are superior. It’s nature.

Sheggz is a rich yankee boy that is fresh as shit!!!
Do you know how that messes with your head? I used to be just a fine face guy, but broke. I was getting little subtle adoration but because I didn’t have money people just subliminally treated me special. But then I became rich and you have no idea what a day in my life is like. People will treat you like you’re a superior being, fine face + money living in Nigeria? Bruh it’s impossible not to have an attitude problem!!!

Most girls have natural bad attitude because of their beauty , everyday someone is simping to them and begging for their attention. Imagine you now have money on top of that beauty? My dear your ego will be off the roof. Can you dare walk up to a pretty girl driving a Range Rover sport? Try it now and in your life you will never toast any woman again, those ones their pride is on GOD level! But because you’re a man everyone expects you to be humble, be there dreaming…no such thing as a humble rich pretty boy…if na you , Bros you no go humble!!!!!

Men don’t like women one bit. We find them boring and unnecessary but you will never know that you feel that way about women till you masturbate.
Anytime you masturbate, go out and observe how you truly feel about women , you will see that in reality you don’t like or want them. They give you nothing, they are so arrogant, they pretend a lot, they are dramatic, they mostly can’t hold intelligent conversations, all that is in their head is relationships and collecting money from different men , so tell me why any man will ever want such a gender?? The short answer is KONJI!!!!

God knowing that without konji they will be almost no recreation of babies because by default men truly don’t like women , so he put something white in us that turns our brain and disturbs our biological nature to go and look for women to recreate babies with. That’s why men date, that’s why men marry, that’s why any man is talking to any women, KONJI is the reason!

Outside konji you will start seeing women as a burden, that’s why most married men look for new younger girls outside their marriage because they get bored of seeing their wives, they don’t see anything special in her anymore because the konji has cleared from their eyes over the years , now they are forced to tolerate her so they look for new young girls to pour the konji on.


This is kinda brutal , and insensitive but it’s the sad truth.

Go and do your research, the noFap threads are always talking about no masturbation because once’s you masturbate women become unattractive to you, they always say how once they stopped masturbating they became more extroverted and more friendly to women.

Masturbation reveals the real you, and sadly that real you as a man is not really a fan of women by default nature.

I have noticed a pattern with girls for years now. Anytime I treat them badly, like talk to them in a condescending way or in an inferior manner they always keep coming back. Either my sisters , friends or even girlfriend. The less sweet you act towards them the more it seems they adore and respect you but the second you act nice to them they immediately try to disrespect you. Not like they insult you for treating them nice but it’s like they automatically “see you finish “ all because you make them feel special.

Is it a female thing or is it like they are turned on by being treated like an inferior weak loser? Because trust me nobody does that better than me, I decided to be nicer to them and its either they pull back or they start trying to subtly disrespect you after. Really?

If you doubt me, find a female neighbor of yours and stylishly mock her daily and see how she will adore you, but start complimenting her regular and see how she will start disrespecting you with time. This hoes want to be treated like the hoes they are

MrBrownJay1:
bro, you are no Alpha if you need money to attract women and/or have women come to your life. you are just a CONFIDENT SIMP, who has learned nothing in life and who is willing to pay women to be with him.

Lol look at the type of “woman” I described, she’s rare and not these hungry 2k girls you people chase

I am too experienced , intelligent and blessed to allow one ogbeke to try and play me. I have been played before and I almost went suicidal , I felt like shit and it took me years to even believe in myself again. I have since grown from that experience and I have since evolved, mentally, emotionally and financially and no breast having kid can come and play her father.

By next year I may get married. I have it all planned already. She is going to be a 10/10, British accent, 6ft, caramel golden skin, well educated, genius and damm sexy. I will pull up with my g63, invite her to my penthouse and go straight to the point. I don’t love her or may never love her, but I will treat her like a queen. She will give me my kids and look after my resource to some capacity. It will only take two weeks of dating and I will propose. She will never dare say no, because I will show her my world of power and how I will elevate her life while she gives me peace respect and care for my kids and my resources.

No time for fake nonsense love, that shit doesn’t exist. I give you the fvcking world while you offer me peace. It’s going to be balanced, I’m too experienced in life now for some girl to come and use me to play her childish relationship games.

If it’s serx I want I will invite 7 girls and we will make a movie and all will go home smiling with money in their bags. I’m not doing no stupid relationship because I want serx and then one idiot will be running me games.

Bruh I’m the alpha, I worked my arse off to get here in life and no girl going to take advantage of me, over my dead body.

This thing God put inside us men called “sperm” aka konji is so devilish and frustrating. So many men are in a relationship they don’t want or like because of it. So many men are now broke because of it. It’s so powerful, once it comes you lose control of yourself. You can be home and making money and planning important stuff and all of a sudden you get Hot and all you can think about is women. You start initiating conversations with girls than on a normal day can’t even look at you In the eyes. You start feeling the urge to leave the house so bad so at least you can pick up some girl hopefully or worse still you just visit a motel to find a girl.

This power that this konji have over we men it’s really draining and annoying. I noticed I always want to leave the house for no reason once I’m Hot and my brain will be thinking that there are girls I could meet out there. Mind you I may be on important transactions but no , my brain will start convincing me that konji is more important.

Im really tired of this urge and don’t know why men have to suffer every week because of one white substance in our body that always want to be poured out every damm day without breaks.

Please how do you fellow men cope with this nonsense and draining sexual urges that never goes away,?

As for me I’m having mixed feelings, I’m past 30 already and I went to visit my friend few years ago and he was 31 at the time and we hadn’t seen for a long time prior to my visit. As soon as I saw him I saw white beards forming on his beards and I felt like I was getting old just having a friend that was already having white beards. I was 28 at the time, now I’m at that same 31 and I just saw two white beard on my face yesterday morning out of the blue. I don’t know how I feel about this, I’m struggling to feel young , I’m looking at myself and I’m thinking “is it official now, am I now old”?
It’s abit of a mix feeling, thanking God for how far I have come in life and at the same time scared that my life is literally starting to come to an end. Yes I know I may still have another 40-50 years left but it feels like I’m in the very beginning of my last days. Bro my face looks different with this white beard strand, aging is actually scary. Now I know why my parents hated when we called them old

Aaaaarghmed:
OP be careful,make dem no plan to suck you dry

I think they are planning it already, I will put an end to it now. She’s so extra friendly to me, bringing me food even.

Seeker3:
It's their nature. The sisterhood always striving to make you find their fellow to leech your treasury. Until then, you're not yet "a complete man" according to them Even your mother and sisters would soon start the pressure.

My mother has started already, nobody will force me to do what I’m not ready for. Small money wey I get dem wan force their sisterhood on me to milk me dry

Slynation:
Just have it at the back of your mind that the main objectives of almost every lady in the world irrespective of class,status, race, religion, nationality etc is too reap where they did not sow...!! It's quite simple

Na why I no Dey look them twice. Once you collect money these People become extra friendly to u, scammers wan blackmail me. Come force a gold digger for my body na

BigYash:
When next the gold diggers ask you such question,unleash vahulens on them. That's all I have to say.. If you don't mind ,join me as we celebrate you. The new millionaire in town...

Lol my gee

Jesterinjay:
They wanna know if someone already beat them to milking you.

Dem be thief, be like I go dey avoid her now

When a person is struggling to survive you don’t see anyone caring about your love life, they spend the entire time mocking you and making you feel like a loser but the second you start making money and living a good life everyone starts wondering where your girlfriend is?
This lady just told me she and her friends talk about me not bringing any girl to my house, is it by force? What type of emotional blackmail is this? For the first time I’m focused on my life and God is so good to me why are women all of a sudden bothered about me not having a girlfriend because they see I’m living a soft life?

I don’t want any girl because I don’t have time for distraction and responsibilities, why is that a problem to women ? Must a man force a relationship on himself all because he’s now seeing money?