At this point I don’t bother explaining nothing to a female anymore because it’s a waste of time. Women don’t think with their brains but with the feelings. Let’s say for example you need space and you’re on a very serious project, you can beg the women in your life like family, friends and partner to give you some space because you don’t need distractions but you would just be deceiving yourself because they may say yes but will do the opposite five minutes later. They don’t understand your logic, all they experience is their feelings and if that feeling is of love or attention they will bother you irrespective of your need for space till you fail on your project and then they will act like you failed on your own and they didn’t do a single thing wrong, if you push the topic too much they will again emotionally react to it and maybe start crying or some emotional blackmailing attitude.

It’s just how they are built, the same with advising a woman, such a waste of time. They will shake their heads but do the exact opposite again because a woman is a slave to how she feels, your words cannot dominate the feelings she has towards that situation.

What I do now? I just stop talking Or advicing them and go right ahead to being unavailable without explanation of any kind, you see me when you see me because I’m a man, a thinker, a planner, I’m not in a romantic relationship with my feelings like a woman. Don’t advise a woman, you’re wasting your time.

Wealthbrain22:
At this point I don’t bother explaining nothing to a female anymore because it’s a waste of time. Women don’t think with their brains but with the feelings. Let’s say for example you need space and you’re on a very serious project, you can beg the women in your life like family, friends and partner to give you some space because you don’t need distractions but you would just be deceiving yourself because they may say yes but will do the opposite five minutes later. They don’t understand your logic, all they experience is their feelings and if that feeling is of love or attention they will bother you irrespective of your need for space till you fail on your project and then they will act like you failed on your own and they didn’t do a single thing wrong, if you push the topic too much they will again emotionally react to it and maybe start crying or some emotional blackmailing attitude.

It’s just how they are built, the same with advising a woman, such a waste of time. They will shake their heads but do the exact opposite again because a woman is a slave to how she feels, your words cannot dominate the feelings she has towards that situation.

What I do now? I just stop talking Or advicing them and go right ahead to being unavailable without explanation of any kind, you see me when you see me because I’m a man, a thinker, a planner, I’m not in a romantic relationship with my feelings like a woman. Don’t advise a woman, you’re wasting your time.

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

Wotoporiously speaking

This bitches been using them emotions to trap niggas for days

Wealthbrain22:
At this point I don’t bother explaining nothing to a female anymore because it’s a waste of time. Women don’t think with their brains but with the feelings. Let’s say for example you need space and you’re on a very serious project, you can beg the women in your life like family, friends and partner to give you some space because you don’t need distractions but you would just be deceiving yourself because they may say yes but will do the opposite five minutes later. They don’t understand your logic, all they experience is their feelings and if that feeling is of love or attention they will bother you irrespective of your need for space till you fail on your project and then they will act like you failed on your own and they didn’t do a single thing wrong, if you push the topic too much they will again emotionally react to it and maybe start crying or some emotional blackmailing attitude.

It’s just how they are built, the same with advising a woman, such a waste of time. They will shake their heads but do the exact opposite again because a woman is a slave to how she feels, your words cannot dominate the feelings she has towards that situation.

What I do now? I just stop talking Or advicing them and go right ahead to being unavailable without explanation of any kind, you see me when you see me because I’m a man, a thinker, a planner, I’m not in a romantic relationship with my feelings like a woman. Don’t advise a woman, you’re wasting your time.

Well said. My own almost ruined me with this emotional blackmail stuff

Chnbanc:

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

NasoLifeBe

Funny dude hahahahah

Chnbanc:

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

Funny part is she’s not even a bad person really or trying to ruin you, it’s just her natural feminine nature to be this way. You either keep giving her till you’re bankrupt or you just cut her off completely. There’s no middle ground with women, life is black and white to them , no in betweens

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

This bitches been using them emotions to trap niggas for days

Exactly, they have so many tricks. “I missed you” “I was scared something happened to you” that’s when you’re not available anymore for exploitation.

Women are just children in adult bodies. They are very histrionic in nature. Once you know women's nature, you just have to remain focus on your goal, project or whatever. Don't even look back for once to yield to their histronics most especially if such will jeopardize the achievement of the said goal, purpose, mission or project.

Wealthbrain22:


Exactly, they have so many tricks. “I missed you” “I was scared something happened to you” that’s when you’re not available anymore for exploitation.

Wotoporiously speaking

Something to make you fall again, it's a trap

Nothing but the truth....

Chnbanc:

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

Symptoms of a simping syndrome

Let me give you one red pill to swallow

All your past efforts and sacrifices to her becomes meaningless the very moment you stop making more sacrifice, and she jumps into another available dick that would simp for her and provides all she needs. button line, u are only a means to an end., don't feel special and foolishly stupid In giving in to her games when they blackmail you, blackmailing only works on simps

Which means you haven't heard about Ubunja. Cause we have gone pass this stage and subject years ago..

Search Ubunja Emotion and Logic... I think.

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Wealthbrain22:
At this point I don’t bother explaining nothing to a female anymore because it’s a waste of time. Women don’t think with their brains but with the feelings. Let’s say for example you need space and you’re on a very serious project, you can beg the women in your life like family, friends and partner to give you some space because you don’t need distractions but you would just be deceiving yourself because they may say yes but will do the opposite five minutes later. They don’t understand your logic, all they experience is their feelings and if that feeling is of love or attention they will bother you irrespective of your need for space till you fail on your project and then they will act like you failed on your own and they didn’t do a single thing wrong, if you push the topic too much they will again emotionally react to it and maybe start crying or some emotional blackmailing attitude.

It’s just how they are built, the same with advising a woman, such a waste of time. They will shake their heads but do the exact opposite again because a woman is a slave to how she feels, your words cannot dominate the feelings she has towards that situation.

What I do now? I just stop talking Or advicing them and go right ahead to being unavailable without explanation of any kind, you see me when you see me because I’m a man, a thinker, a planner, I’m not in a romantic relationship with my feelings like a woman. Don’t advise a woman, you’re wasting your time.

Men being the more reasonable sex lost their paths due to their taste and quest for problem solving. Civilisation is in chaos today because men gave listening ears to women feelings and emotions.

As a man your self interest comes first, your duty to your family, community/society comes next. Women are irresponsible beings that shouldn't be taken seriously by rational men. Reasoning with women amounts to futility.

True words... Worse is when u try to teach some of them OT`s that are meant to help them at some point in future but they just keep giving the same error codes and apologizing like they mean it, only to continue giving error codes after a while and when shît hits the fan they try to twist the narrative to make u feel guilty

God create sha.. can't leave with them and can't leave without them.

Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

marlow1962:
Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

Sorry for digressing, bro. Abeg you fit teach me the online survey job? TIA

the same with advising a woman, such a waste of time. They will shake their heads but do the exact opposite again because a woman is a slave to how she feels, your words cannot dominate the feelings she has towards that situation.


I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THE ABOVE STATEMENT! ADVERSING A WOMAN IS LIKE POURING WATER INTO BASKET. ITS JUST WASTE OF TIME.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Women are just children in adult bodies. They are very histrionic in nature. Once you know women's nature, you just have to remain focus on your goal, project or whatever. Don't even look back for once to yield to their histronics most especially if such will jeopardize the achievement of the said goal, purpose, mission or project.

You are absolutely right!

marlow1962:
Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

It’s guys like you that give these bittches mouth! Why still buying her food after what happened? And una type fit dey loose guard niggas..

MyVILLAGEpeople:


It’s guys like you that give these bittches mouth! Why still buying her food after what happened? And una type fit dey loose guard niggas..

Buying her food was way back then (it’s nothing to me, how much food can she eat. And moreover I buy what I buy for anybody, dy don’t tell me what to buy) I ditched her.
I still have her contact but we don’t take ( cus there’s nothing to talk about).

I can’t luzgard a nigga dat was der for me (that’s mostly d guys I flow wit)

marlow1962:
Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

Teach me nah, please

marlow1962:


Buying her food was way back then (it’s nothing to me, how much food can she eat. And moreover I buy what I buy for anybody, dy don’t tell me what to buy) I ditched her.
I still have her contact but we don’t take ( cus there’s nothing to talk about).

I can’t luzgard a nigga dat was der for me (that’s mostly d guys I flow wit)

Ok noted

Chnbanc:

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...

At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

This is different from the topic la
This your type is what they calk “simping “ around here

And Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

shantti:


Teach me nah, please

Hey, I replied someone else who asked same question.
Check it out.

Wealthbrain22:


Funny part is she’s not even a bad person really or trying to ruin you, it’s just her natural feminine nature to be this way. You either keep giving her till you’re bankrupt or you just cut her off completely. There’s no middle ground with women, life is black and white to them , no in betweens

na their way

marlow1962:
Someone above said they trap men wit emotions, haha funny but true sha. Na man wer want make them use emotions manipulate am dem go manipulate (you can’t say nada about that).
There’s this gal I meet beginning of this year(we were friends but we don’t talk on phone or chat), d day I cun say make I take number, I lose interest immediately I take the number cus wertin we wn even chat self and two na another disturbance for me. I no even send her for months, but the day I text her na that day extortion start fr my side ( I was help cus it means nothing to me, na wertin I fit gv u I go gv u, u no go force me gv u too). As the tin too much, I gat tell am make she come make I teach her the online survey job wer I dy do, at least make she dy see food chop ( you can’t believe what dis idiot told me) dy tell me say the work dy stressful, say she no dy like stress. Immediately I hear am, I rest my case cun ghost her join, cus I know say no mata wertin I talk she no go hear. Always telling me how I don’t chat her up or call her again, or come see her at her workplace (I sometimes buy food for her cus her workplace is close to the restaurant I buy food from) dy say I don change, say the miss d old me ( can u imagine)
Me I save myself, no be my money u go take build house.

please teach me online survey

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I did not bother to read your post but I know you are already frustrated. Bro buy pankere,, whenever she misbehaved flog her...don't go too far though!!!

Chnbanc:

U said it all right!!
Women and emotional feelings are 5&6.
Imagine ...
A lady keeps asking me for cash and I keep giving...
At a point I became fedup and angry, cos I couldn't concentrate on my lifestyle...
And told her point blank
That she is extorting me!!
She became sober and changed everything to make me feel bad for expressing my mind..
Las Las na me come dey apologize and the extortion continued.

The reason I left one girl she can’t do in a week with out asking money from me she is always having issues the day I found out she was doing saving ( ajo ) and I asked her for 10k the girl no fit give me she say she broke I said okay . For good one month i changed if she ask money I will tell her am broke can you believe after asking money more severally and I declined she started giving me attitude It didn’t even shake me I was busy posting on my whats app status she was later begging I told her directly that if she think I will be giving her money steady Or solving her crisis am out I forgive her but I did not give her anything 1 week later she asked for money again and I told her that if she don’t have anything reasonable to be telling me on what’s app that this is not a Go fund she got upset block me lol later she unblock and I blocked her straight up


Bro My love is not cheap am not ugly or disable
Woman that loves you won’t want you to go bankrupt with Billings


Do anybody realize this ladies now bill men steady them done start to they yahoo us Nigeria men lol not me

Barims:
I did not bother to read your post but I know you are already frustrated. Bro buy pankere,, whenever she misbehaved flog her...don't go to far though!!!

Na people like you make our government deceive us for years, instead of reading for only two minutes you dey talk op