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jesmond3945:
rather they should be learning from you and not asking you to give them 411 when they might lack the competence to do it.

When you even tell them they will not do anything with the information but rather would start telling everyone how you get money. See I have lived majority of my life with people with no ambition I understand their mentality a lot and they scare me. Money can’t change their mindset, they will only waste it if you even give them a ton of it

blessedchild234:
You won't waste time with things that don't add to your value, when you realize people actually rate you base on the value you're worth, that's how I see it.

You’re very correct my brother, these people don’t get it

Slynation:
A very useless analysis...!! According to your logic, your poor friends are always saying shit which you are very much comfortable saying shit with them because they are poor, did you bring to there notice any business idea and they rejected it, or don't you think they always having your time is because they look up to you as someone who might share one or two updates for them which you have failed woefully in that aspects...

So what happens when things eventually becomes soft for any of them, you run back to him and quickly add him to the lists of your rich friends, or do you think they will remain poor forever... Rubbish One useless mentality about your kinda people is that when they starts winning in life, they feels every other person who are yet to win is joking with their lives...

As a guy who is rich, you don't even supposed to have a poor friend, because you have to grow with your friends and vice versa, unless you are the kinda person that normally gives your cycle fish instead of teaching them how to fish, low-key you are in competition with them and hopes they never surpass you in life... Please learn to differentiate between "Your Friends and Your guys"

Total BS. You’re off point bro.
What I’m saying is, being rich is a mindset, poor people rarely have such mindset. The rich value work more than playtime but the poor want to play 247. I know of one poor friend who got so much money but wasted it in days, that’s my point. I have a rich person mentality not just my account balance so I don’t ever want to live with poverty oriented people again, people who see money as a tool to enjoy rather than an object to be multiplied and to use to stay at the top. It’s all about mentality you people are thinking I’m talking about just physical cash, nah

Wiseandtrue:
Mumu talk

You just described introvert and extrovert

Even rich people crave company

Even poor people spend money in each others company

So don't be too quick to look down on others

You needed their company and that was why you were there in the first place!

Most of you "rich" guys are there to show off so no blame others

Poor people in my context are people who enjoy to play so much they have no time for anything serious, it’s not even about money. I know one of such people who got hundreds of thousands almost a million and in a week he was back begging for 1k, he blew it all on drinks and frivolous bs. It’s a state of mind, I can’t be around such because I spent over 30 years struggling before I got my first big break I know what poverty looks like and I won’t let any drag me there again.

I have noticed one thing common about poor people, they always have your time. They will always make time to drink, to gist and to stroll and it’s everyday they have this time , every single day.

On the other hand rich people never have your time, they are always busy and rarely will contact you for anything.

You see I did a survey in my personal life, I took inventory of all the rich people I know in real life and all the poor people I know as well. Every rich person I know contacted me less than 1 percent last year, but every poor person I know contacted me 99 percent last year. On every occasion I was with poor people I always spent and we always talked about shit that won’t give me a penny, and they always where ready to hang out the next day and the next after that.

I’m not a poor person so I don’t know what I’m doing with poor people. I entered this year cutting them all off by relocating, changing my number and all what I can do to get better.

Rich people will NEVER contact you because they don’t need you and they are so useful that they know if you spend one hour with them your life will improve one way or the other, so they always avoid people. But you see these poor folks you have in your life? They are ready to call you 24 hours of everyday because they have nothing to lose, if you’re poor like them I advise you to run and try and look for rich circles but if you’re rich and you’re still sourrounded by poor people? You will never sustain that wealth, it’s going to disappear in a matter of time.

It’s either you shine the light at a darkness or a darkness will cut of your light, and in this world the darkness is more stronger than light, they will outshine you till you go dark like them.

Candidlady:
third day of the year women still giving you men sleepless night

Na una way, I wan go carry another one now.

fman:
U gat a problem with ladies?
Learn to deal with it!!
Where una dey see all these girls wey dey give una headache?
Understanding plays a vital role in Every relationship..

Hookup o , hookup lol

These females are very strange people and as a man you need to understand them in other to not be their victim. I noticed something about women recently, you can have literally the whole world and it still won’t matter to them. If you doubt me go and ask why bill gates wife divorced him or why pastor Chris oyakhilome wife left him as well, your money or status can even expire in their eyes.

I have see multiple girls that will tell me to my face that they think I’m a beautiful man but will make it hell to visit me. They know I have everything a young man needs to start life but just because they are dramatic and complicated beings they make it their duty to stress me out to the extent I start getting angry.

A man’s logic is, if he thinks you’re attractive then he automatically wants to be with you, that’s the opposite for women, they can find you attractive and all but will make your life a living hell just because they are built like that.

The biggest mistake you guys make is talking to just one girl and when they start misbehaving even tho they have told you they think you’re perfect, you start going crazy wondering why a girl that praises you always is messing with you.

Bro have 20 of them if you can, never have just one, inside 20 at least 8 will get to do whatever you want and if the 8 start misbehaving go get another 10.

Yesterday two girls disappointed me at the last minute, made me stay out till 12 midnight waiting, then they stopped picking. Today I’m going to get another two, I don’t beg a bitch I just go get another and another, I am already blessed , I have passed the games stage with this females who are only loyal to their emotions.

Loneliness is the saddest way to go through life, simp if you want to. Girls are beautiful creatures to be around, have multiple number of them and enjoy every moment with them. This is coming from the most red pill man on earth, it’s a pathetic way to go through life.

I want to know something, you guys that don’t simp , is the loneliness that comes from being alone truly worth it? Women are gold diggers yes I agree but is it wise to just avoid all of them like that because you’re “woke”? Women will never be with a man that doesn’t spend money on them, like never. Even if it’s 2k you must spend something at some point so technically you can’t avoid spending on a woman, but the whole not simping culture is against giving women any penny, bro you will be lonely af.

So I want to know are you proud of yourself now that you have no girl by your side all because you’re now an “alpha male”??

Women have a hard time seeing a person for the first time and just accepting him like that without judgement. You visit a ladies shop and you don’t dress rich and she gives you automatic attitude but then you spend hundreds of thousands and she changes attitude immediately realizing she has made a wrong judgement but then it’s too late she’s automatically a gold digger in your head.

Ladies why are you people like this? Do you realize most people are not always what they seem? The richest men dress the less, you people keep making this mistake over and over , is this why they say women have fish brains?

There is no way a woman or man who is actually naturally beautiful will not have pride and delusion, it’s impossible. Being treated differently from others your entire life will mess with your sanity. Sometimes you are treated so good and everyone around you gets ignored and some other times people are unnecessarily rude to you because you make them jealous of you.

There is no way you can be normal if people think you’re beautiful, man or woman ..it’s impossible.

This world is a very wicked place, everyone wants you to fail so they can feel better about themselves. If you’re going through a difficult situation I can bet you everyone you have ever met or know from the past will be told by your mutual friends about your pain, and you will go viral for it.

But the second you’re living your best life it’s always two things that will happen, people will either beg you or pretend not to see you winning. I think we humans lowkey hate each other and can’t stand seeing each other post about flights and trips to Bahamas. Your friends will either beg you or start avoiding you all because you’re living an amazing life.

Why please?

Is it even wise to have any single friend in this world like this

I’m so keen on going overseas for two main reasons.
One, I’m really desperate to check that off my bucket list of things to do before I leave this world, because life’s such a short and precious gift and only a fool will take it for granted and not try to explore every beautiful thing that it has to offer.

The second reason is because I really want to see if white people will find me attractive.

My entire life has been me considered or treated as an attractive person. At first I thought it was my local environment that caused it that if I moved to the highbrow neighborhoods of Nigeria like Abuja or Lagos island people will not notice my existence but I was shocked that even girls I thought would slap me if I approached them where smiling at me, I was now beyond convinced I was attractive to people.

Now I’m curious, if I was in London or New York will those high class elite girls still smile at me?

Well , for those of you folks living overseas , do white people admire you people or are they truly racist and no matter how good you look as a black person they would see you only as a “monkey”

baretalk:
Who is peer pressuring you?

People you don't know?

Your mind is playing tricks on you. In Lekki people only care about making money, you are irrelevant to people in Lagos.

Y’all are right, these people no send person papa. I misjudged them

There is no way around it, it’s either you’re a ladies man by appearance or by status or by financial strength. You see these type of men? There’s is a very thin line between them and failure in life..why? Not because they are stupid but because women will most often bring them down.

I won’t go into much Details of how they destroy men because it will be a long epistle.
Is it the fact they use men as tools for their games?
Is it the emotional manipulation that never ends? Is it the way they mock you for not being a real man all because you love yourself and know your worth? Our fathers that toiled till they died for their wives only for their wives to move on once they died?
As a young man I was destroyed by women, I won’t go into details. I decided to spend my entire life as an adult avoiding them but it’s not working. They found other ways to destroy me, either by messing with my mind or using their manipulative games to draw my attention only to bring me down.

Wo-man in true means “woe to man” it’s an actual thing. A curse God put upon men, a gender that will spend their whole life ruining you.

Even the so called men who are not ladies men are not left out because by default you must talk to them and that’s how they come into the lives of these men and use them till they fall and die.

Women , why do you people hate men so much?

DaddyCK:
son..u sound like a nagggggin house wife.....moiney talks....u aint gats moiney..u stay on yor lane..pirrriod!!!((no oofencsse)))

Stfu you fool. What money talks? Who’s talking about money here, I’m talking about peer pressure if you can’t read to understand you shut your stinky mouth, wtf is your son? Be like ogun wan kill you

Few days living in lekki phase 1 and I am so confused about a lot of things already.

First everyone is unnecessarily disrespectful in a subtle way, like they automatically assume they are better than you.

Why is everyone acting like they are elites and too classy ? Just unnecessary competition everywhere.

Is this how you people live here? You just wake up and you start feeling like you need new clothes or new this or that just to fit into their lifestyle. And everything is ridiculously expensive.

I don’t think i can live in a place like this, is this how you lekki people live?

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Tokskob2008:
It doesn't really matter if you move or not haters will be haters anywhere any time, even among the elites in the city you might still encounter neighbours will will feel threatened by your status. Best you can do is be yourself and mind how you relate with everyone.

You don't have to move from you state just change your current location if you are fed up of the people around you.

I don’t think people living in lekki will envy me because I’m not really rich, just abit better than average. They will either see me as one of them or even below them. I want to see people that I can envy, in my case I’m the one everyone envies. It doesn’t motivate me, I feel miserable. Sometimes the hate they show affects my mood even.

So I have noticed a few things recently, I look like I’m better than every of my neighbors and I am starting to feel too comfortable and targeted.

On most occasions it feels like people are out to get me, you can tell by their attitude that they feel like I’m acting better than them all because of how I dress and live. It’s the being a king in a village where everyone is barely able to afford a three square meal.

It wasn’t always like this as I was once like them, barely able to feed myself but God smiled upon me and my living conditions have drastically improved. I can come out wearing an original moisannite diamond worth more than 200k and that’s just a bracelet and if im in the midst of people who are drinking Chelsea dry gin they look at me like either a bank to fulfill their desires or a proud person who’s showing off to them , meanwhile im just living my best life since im getting old anyways, it’s either I wear diamond now before it’s too late, over 30 years and counting. But my environment is not making my life any easier. Im in the trenches of delta if you want to know.

I’m battling with relocating but I’m wondering if I should make a move all based off living with the elites of Lagos lekki area as I can comfortably afford to live with them.

Please I need your advice, what do you think?

Remain a king in a village or become a normal person in a city filled with elites?

The more people praise you and do things that make you feel special the more you feel so insecure about yourself. People will unknowingly set a standard for you in your head and any little criticism will make you feel like the world has ended, because it will make you start doubting every compliment you ever got.

It’s a big disadvantage to be complimented and treated specially most times, because it will mess with your insecurities. Even if you’re a guy you will start feeling insecure about things you shouldn’t be worrying about.

Game isn’t toasting every woman you see and then feel like a bad arse nigga, nope bro you’re just a desperate thirsty man and most women will turn you down!

Most guys think they are sleek because they keep talking to every woman they meet, they have no idea how pathetic and sad they look to women.

Women are not very kind people, they are extremely selfish and ruthless and you can’t beg your way into their lives you have to dominate them with game. I will explain.

First if you’re broke as a man, don’t talk to any girl, it’s not worth it. She will embarrass you so much you may lose your self confidence, just double your hustle.

Once you make money, make sure you change your wardrobe and look like wealth. You don’t need to wear bings or whatever to look wealthy, your sense of style and perfume will announce to the world you’re rich. Look at wizkid, he wears very little clothes but every time he steps out he looks like millions of dollars, don’t do too much just wear what suits your body and find your own style.

Once you already look rich by not even trying, you’re already a woman magnet automatically. Everywhere you go, every woman you meet will automatically be submissive to you, you will look like their fantasy and women naturally will be very polite and submissive to you. At that point you have already carried women handicap 2-0. Meaning you’re already leading the average woman you meet any and everywhere because you ooze power by your countenance.

At this point just be a little funny, and I can bet my life you will hardly get turned down by any girl. Now just go for the once you like, flirt a little, make them laugh a lot. Do this for a little while while and once’s she’s drawn to you start ignoring her.

Try this and see if you won’t be the one blocking girls for disturbing you too much. They will literally go mad because of you, you look like their fantasies and now that they are so attracted to you you’re ignoring them? Bro girls will go crazy because of you and at that point do whatever you like with them, you already won the game.

Women are ruthless, men it’s time to be the player and not the one played.

The biggest mistake I ever made in life was sorrouding myself with mediocre people, it ruined my beautiful mind. I am the best thinker, I literally chase the impossible. At 15 I single handedly got a visa to Netherlands for my beautiful mind, the people around me ruined me. Nobody believed in my dreams, they mocked my vision , I missed that opportunity and then got another visa to Asia and again they destroyed my dream.

My dad destroyed my dream, had money for my flight ticket but refused to sponsor my scholarship. my sisters are the most average low minded people on earth, if you tell them you want to buy a car they will tell you that you will have an accident with it and say every evil thing in earth that can happen to you till you feel like that’s a bad decision.

For years my beautiful mind was broken, I gave up and relocated to the worst area on earth where the average person thinks that if you eat fried rice you’re rich and you deserve to be envied and hated on. For years my mind was destroyed, I made money but kept living with these average people with no dreams and ambitions, till I got severely depressed despite y millions. I realized that people have influenced my mind and I have stopped wanting the most beautiful things on earth.

I will never in my life talk to anyone with no ambition or dream ever in my life act and I will spend most of my money living with the elite now, life is such a gift, why waste it on mediocrity when you could be seeing the world and living your dream.

Avoid people who only see the worst in every situation, life is so beautiful, enjoy it if you can afford it.

See this ugly fat irritating pig that if I see in real life I would spit , is calling king mayanna aka “skibii” the musician who sang one of the biggest songs in Nigeria with davido a “gbef”? “Gbef means an undesirable and unattractive man that no woman wants, wait skibii? Someone that just bought a maybach Benz worth over 300 million naira? This pig is insulting him because one of her sister called “msdef” dated skibii and she thinks the girl is too “classy” for skibiii?

All these pigs don’t even have up to one million in their account, they get fvckeddd daily by random men for less than 20k and yet they all think they are better than hardworking men?

I love myself, I have spent my entire life putting women in their place, I’m never going to allow any gender who is delusional make me feel like I’m not worth their attention when in reality I’m better than them in every way?

These generation of men are going to be the undoing of all these useless females.

This is not directed at hardworking beautiful and respectful women, it’s all the leeches like the pig in this picture I’m talking about. Nonsense.

If you died today will you die happy? Have you done all the things you wanted to do? Have you entered an airplane yet? Have you driven your own car yet? Have you built your house yet? Have you gone overseas for vacation yet? Have you been to the Bahamas already? Have you bought a diamond jewelry just because why not? Have you had a party? Have you had serx in church? Have you lodged in Eko hotel or Sheraton just because why not? Have you made your first one million naira? Have you been in an helicopter ride? Have you ever fuckinggggg lived ??


Life is short, will you die smiling

I feel so ashamed of some guys who don’t know their value or their worth. You spend years struggling and in most cases many girls treated you like trash because you had nothing to offer, your self esteem was low and you hated yourself on most occasions. 90 percent of men have certainly gone through this phase, no girl wanted you because your clothes were cheap, you trekked so much, you couldn’t afford even body spray and you where looked down upon.

Not many guys eventually turn their lives around as some still struggle till date, but you see the few that eventually became multi millionaires, most of those few disappoint me by simping for the same girls that treated them like trash!

How do you forget all that women did to you when you had nothing? So you think now that you drive a gle Benz all these girls love you? Some quickly go and marry only to divorce after a year. What type of stupidity is this? If a girl didn’t love you when you had nothing why marry her now that you have money?

Why are men being thought to allow women treat them like trash? Why is this okay in this society? If you are a high value man never settle for a random broke girl , she has to be high value as well or else what’s the point? You worked hard so much only to beg a girl with 2k in her account to marry you? This society is so pathetic and most men have no kind of their own, everyone is just trying to impress society, and their family …what about self love? Don’t people love themselves enough to give themselves the best?

Men you can do better, once you get your money up don’t quickly become a simp for women, they are only using you now that you have money. Go on vacations, do whatever you like, don’t rush to marry ngozi with 2k in her account, society has brainwashed us to think that this is cool, people living their whole lives to impress a nonsense system.

I am the exception, I live for me , by my rules and I always put my happiness first, I won’t suffer only to make in in life and rush to spend it all on someone who treated me like trash when I had nothing.

I rebuke every spirit of simping in the lives of today’s generation of men.

Jman06:
How many married men around in their old ages really enjoy the companionship of their wives Most are leaving like cat and dogs while some are just indifferent.

They are mostly tolerating each other at that age and their so called kids give them stipends at best, only very few kids even remember to bless their fathers it’s mostly their mothers they remember. Men are designed to be enslaved by that marital union and I’m never falling for that trap!

Who says s are man cannot have a child out of wedlock and be very happy? Why do you have to legally sign away your freedom to a gender that has 90 percent to gain from it while you have less than even ten percent to gain?

List the advantages of marriage for men? I bet you it’s going to crack your brain to start pointing them out because they actually don’t exist. Our fathers toil and break their back’s literally for us their entire life while our mothers do same for us as well. But the man also breaks his back for the woman but no woman on earth will ever break her back for any man. They can offer you serx initially in the marriage but soon that fire quenches. They can’t loan you money without making you feel like a failure for it. What do you stand to gain as a man ? Food? The same food you provide money for and she still adds jara to the amount to make her hair or fix her nails? Men wtf are y’all getting married for at this point??

Marriage is a foooools paradise to my mental thesis at this point because it doesnt in any way assist me in getting better rather it takes all from me while society is proud of me? But am I genuinely happy deep down? Will that my 2 million not take me to Dubai and watch the World Cup? But now I can’t because I have to provide for “chioma” who is my wife so all my needs are put on hold and still yet all chioma does is take and take till I fall one day and give up the ghost? Isn’t that the case if almost all our fathers? Provide and provide till they die?

At this point it would take a miracle for me ever consider that “union” in my plans in this my life’s experience because I have only one life and I’m planning to enjoy everyday of it till my breath is gone. I don’t mind having a kid or more but that doesn’t mean I must commit to any soul.

Most men seek to be a ladies man because society have made you believe women are superior to you and once you have their approval then you’re an alpha male , that’s bullshit..you being a man in this difficult world alone already makes you an alpha male.

Women have nothing to offer any man, I have all the qualities most of them want in a man but I noticed all it does is attract women who just want to use you for their stupid games. I would go out and have random girls hating on me all because I don’t entertain their stinky attention, I am an alpha man , a woman’s attention means nothing to me and if I ignore you as a woman it’s because you have nothing to add in my life. My mom is my love, I will give her the world because she genuinely loves me not because of how I look or the money I have.

Women’s validation is nothing , don’t let them use you like a mugu because they give you their useless validation. Many men become slaves to women because women make them feel special so they become toys to women and always end up wasting their lives trying to keep impressing women.

So many women hate me because I think, walk, talk, behave like a king and they hate that I understand them so much and they hate the love I have for myself. I will never pick a woman before myself like many men do and then spend the rest of my life trying to impress them, I will rather treat myself like a king for all the rest of my life and if I eventually get a kid someday I will transfer all my love to my kid, presently my love is undivided for my mom and my siblings not some fake gold digger who is smiling at me because of shallow reasons and will immediately drop me once she sees a man who she rates better than me.

Yes I’m a man wanted by that other gender but I will not be used because I’m too insecure enough to be happy that they want me. I put myself first and will never put a woman before me.

Kings put yourself first, don’t make the mistake most of our dads made by working their whole life to impress our mothers till they died, it’s not worth it, I’m a king , a ladies man but the only lady I love and care about her attention is my mum. I’m not a mummy’s boy at all, but my point is that if I’m going to sincerely care for a “woman” then it can only be my mom or my daughter someday not some gold digging heartless female that’s smiling at me.

I spent a lot of time trying to understand women and I must say I’m grateful I did because I have reached a point where I can’t be deceived by them, I can’t be played, I don’t appreciate their attention, I don’t toast them , I just only use them for my sexual pleasures.

Now as a man I know most men can relate as well, we are full of love but we hide it. The average man out there is very tender and loving in nature, that’s why we always bond with male strangers very quickly because we have so much love inside of us and hardly ever see another man and instantly get jealous of him like women do.

This love men have inside is mainly channeled to taking care of women and most women have exploited it so much and used it to their advantage.

Now my question is, why are women incapable of loving any man? What did we ever do to them? They use us for their selfish needs and put us in a fantasy land in their head and when they get bored they initiate a breakup. It’s the only pattern with every woman, yes I’m generalizing, every woman on earth thinks this way, go into a man’s life, fantasize about an idea of what he should be, use him for all her needs and wants and when the fantasy of him dies in her head she gets tired of him and start looking for a new fantasy with another man, irrespective of how long they have been together. The few that stay with their husbands till old age just never had the balls to leave , especially women of our mothers generations. My mom told me how she was so tired of my dad but stayed till he died he because of us the kids and no they where not fighting everyday , I could tell she genuinely loved us the kids but her love for my dad was very questionable. It’s like most women just tolerate men but actually loving a man? It’s almost impossible for that gender.

My question is, are they born this way? Is it a follow come nature for them not to be capable of loving us men? Is it society that made them like this? Why can’t women love us no matter what we have or what we give to them ?