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I am positive you are dating her but she is simply not dating you. Pele but the babe is just not that into you.

texybaby:
Ahhh....my father's younger bro mate...u r here again..searching for true love to live in this house...when u r supposed to be searching for your grave where ur mate are....plsss ooo go search for ur grave with ur bitterness n allow us see good tins on earth

I no fit laugh anymore...I don reach my limit.

searching4love:
So you believe all their holier than thou comments on social media you must be a first class mugu

Silly boy. I don't need to believe or disbelieve anything. After all, you are the one searching4love. I am just trying to help you. I live in the real world where a man and a woman come together out of mutual respect and understanding for one another. You live in your "woe is me. they only want my money" world. I can imagine that it is tough to breathe in there. I don tire for you sef. Ngwa bye bye!

searching4love:
No matter how much u try to sound like a different naija gal, you're all the same. No sane man will move in with a woman. He is your husband and u should live with him wherever he can afford at the moment

Your problem is not that women are after your money, which I hope you have A LOT OF because you will really need it to find the gold digger that will stomach your horrible attitude.(Note: your attitude can only attract women who would do anything for the money. Glad they will save the rest of us the wahala) Your problem is you lack respect for women. You go born women ooo. CHei! God, help my generation.

prettythicksme:
ok ur fowl yansh will b exposed now#u think u are smart not knowin u are so dumb**liar

See exposure!

searching4love:
Stop trying to twist my post The fact is that most ladies on here never accepted to even start with a man in such a house regardless of his potentials. They are all romantic thieves

STOP being such a fool! No woman wants a man that is always on a rant that women are thieves. If women are thieves, men are gbaju e! I see plenty women who said they would have him live in a better house that they (the women) will finance. Sounds like some independent financial stable women are all up in here. But you no wan hear word? I dey feel sorry for your missus already. God help her.

You have come again on your crusade to prove that women are gold diggers. Pele oo. I pray you meet a woman that will heal you of all your hurt feelings from the past. I can see your hurt in all your posts

So many underlying factors to your question.

He could be living there to save on cost as he plans for his future. He could be living there out of choice (some people just love the rustic living). He could be living there because he really has not much today but that doesn't mean his situation is permanent. I think you are too focused on trying to demonize women that you forget that it is important for the couple to understand and accept their financial situation before diving into marriage. Too many irresponsible people thinking they can thrive on love, meanwhile they always come up with a way to throw a lavish wedding. Love is not currency that can put food on the table and keep your kids clothed. You both can start from the mud flat but there must be a plan to gain more financial stability for the sake of your children.

Marry potential but stay far away from men with no ambitions. Only a few things are more stomach turning than a man comfortable in mediocrity.

ipleddge:
Omo pupa

Oshey! That's the one.

Aunty Dossy,

I worry for you oo. No be lie. You ask for advice but truth is, no matter what we say, you will do what you believe is right. So to help guide your thinking, I have some questions for you.

Why are you getting married? If you don't marry now what will change?
Keeping in mind that your children will be raised by said man, Can you live with a man that is controlling? Can you live with a man that beats you?


One of the best things I have ever heard is "what does it matter why someone does what they do? If you are going to allow it, what difference do their reasons make? "

I hope God will give you a fresh revelation of your worth so that you can make the best decision for your life and your future children.

sounds just like this yoruba movie i saw recently starring sanyeri.

RicKyRichards:
"We"?

"We" must refer to the man that wrote this post pretending to understand women.

Both look good.

andee4real:
I was not sure under which section to post this as i was not romantically linked to the three chicks that told me i am a snub.

I always wonder what they mean because they get the impression on the first time we meet.

Can anyone explain to me what it means?

Dictionary defines a snob as "a person who believes that their tastes in a particular area are superior to those of other people.". Did you do anything that made you come across as this definition indicates? If so, that is why they said that. If not, they might not know the meaning of the word.

jaykaylegend:
People, is it true that some female accounts on nairaland are run by guys?? (Cos I have read several accusations via the comments)
As anybody been caught red handed??
Abeg what do those guys hope to acheive??

It is the internet. Anyone can be whatever they want. What you read is not what you get. Get with it.

Dotwillis1:
...When your boyfriend/girlfriend uses a female/male pix for hiz/her D.P most times,

Do you tolerate such? How do feel about it?

Depends...Is he/she using celeb's pics or using pics of people in his/her life that could be potential love interest (and it's not for a bday/congratulatory shout out) ? I would question and worry about the latter.

Nice! Keep it up!

NL reeks of misogyny. I am absolutely fascinated. An uncontrolled social experiment is unfolding right in front of my eyes. Truly intrigued!

All these advice thread on how to handle women. Abeg, when we go hear about how to deal with men and their tendency to be overbearing? Basically any one can have a mood swing, people just deal with it differently. Mood swing is not a woman's things. Gah!

It's ok to hurt. It's ok to cry. It's ok to be frustrated. Just let it out. Here is one of my favorite quotes by a Korean writer. I hope it helps.

"To you who eat a lot of rice because you are lonely. To you who sleep a lot because you are bored. To you who cry a lot because you are sad. Anyway, life is something you need to digest. Chew on your feelings that are cornered like you would chew on rice.”

Digest it all and let it fuel your journey into the future. We never know how strong we are until we overcome that which we thought would kill us.

Oga, my responses for you. You're so lucky I am so bored that I am wasting time on here today.

Is a girl who thinks of your future and do all her best to support you in your quest to succeed. - Do you do the same for her? Or is she suppposed to stay barefoot and pregnant so you can go and be a MAN?!


A girl who keeps less female friends is unlikely to be influenced by bad friends. - Oh boy, you better also keep less male friends because they are equally corrupt. Wait, maybe she should keep male friends instead. I'm sure you will like that.


A girl who realizes that a relationship is give and take. - As long as you realize you participate in the obligatory give and take


A girl who sticks with one man irrespective of his financial strength. - As a man, you better stick with one woman irrespective of her cooking skills. We know how much men love food, right? Women love money. Men love food. (she says sarcastically)

A girl who believes in herself and strives to be independent. - So long as it doesn't interfere with you being a man, correct? HAHA!


A girl who is honest, loving and caring. - Give and take my friend, give and take


A girl who is not promiscuous nor double date. - Again, don't be dipping your hand into other pots too.


A girl who is ready to sacrifice for love. - As you should also be


A girl who is willing to love me forever and ever. - And you also should love her forever even when the post wedding weight piles one.


I hope we single men find our heart desires. - I hope single women find respectable men.

#TEAM SAY NO TO GOLD DIGGERS cool - Women, say no to men that don't value you

Sigh... yet another post on male supremacy. Here I was looking for something mentally stimulating. [color=#770077][/color]

Pele. Take some paracetamol for your pain. You go need clear head to sabi recognize the real love you dey wait for. I don say my own to help una.

searching4love:
Prove me wrong my friend Are they not gold diggers

8. She is none of the above and she is probably just not into you.

Interesting list sha.

You are what you attract. If all the women you are allowing are substandard, check thy self. Oh, perhaps you should lose the misogynistic views. Concluding that all women are gold diggers...tsk tsk tsk *wags finger at you*

HAHA! The day men stop being so obsessed with what they see, some of these "fake" things will die down. Also, how very "man like" to think a woman is adjusting her look for you. It is still a man's world after all. Quite hilarious!