ufelove:

Hmmmm... It depends on if u really really love him. Try to help him outta his anger problem nd if he doesn't comply, Then I think u know what's next

Another faulty thinking is try to help him change. No, let him go and get help out there. He needs to work on it, for him and his future. Not to please his gf. Can he change? Yes, if he is commited to that process of being better. It is not your job to make that happen for him though. He has to want to do better and work on it. Again, I say leave.

EricRichie:
Like they say, a hungry man is an angry man... I don't really blame him though...

You're asking whether to continue with the relationship? This is my advice ; for him, in spite of his hunger/anger to have controlled himself from giving you the slap of your life, I think you should respect him more cuz I don't see him as the hot tempered type, he only flared up cuz he was hungry and acted reflexly, and out of instinct. .. .

Don't miss an opportunity like this.. Guys like these are hard to find. .. Love him like no tomorrow. ..

#My2cents

Guys like these are hard to find.... he says. I don tire. For every guy that encouragez NL ladies to continue in unhealthy relationships, I pray that your sisters and cousins will never find themselves in an abusive one. I no go curse una.


OP, leave. Simple. He raised his hand at his gf for not cooking for him? Leave. I can understand being upset but being on the verge of violence for such an easily rectified matter? Leavd. You can leave whole today or in pieces in the future.

#myonedollar

If you are truly confused between finishing your house and getting married, oh boy you are not ready oo. Make u no create situation wey you go come hate the girl because you no sabi finish your house. Your house be your baby sef. Abeg, be honest with the girl say you no fit marry now

Abeg, make you try small make the grammar make sense. I no fit decipher.

LogoDWhiz:


Yeah. A lot of girls do.

They love a commanding guy.

A guy that can treat them as trash, shout at them, show less nice things and so on.

I was just waiting for a foolish comment like this. Abeg, sharrap your dirty mouth! This is why abuse is prevalent and goes unpunished in our naija. Should the man lead? Absolutely. Good leaders will tell you it is not all abt the gra gra.

HAHAHA! Your crass behavior and hate filled heart has been missed. Silly rabbit! E dey pain you well. pele oooo

searching4love:




U are prostituting in Italy and you call yourself a foreign lady. Smh. When i talk of foreign ladies i mean those sane ladies who were born there. Not commercial sex workers like u

I appreciate this post. It is one thing to think about the political agendas, it is another to think of the role of media and communication in it. These designs and consistency definitely are an improvement.

He is back!

I don miss your posts ooo. You still dey bash females?

Too bad foreign ladies can't stand attitudes like yours. We are just too independent and intelligent for that. Ntoh!

searching4love:
THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL AND MORE EXPOSED TO REALITIES OF LIFE


RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM IS RICH IN EMOTIONS AND MORE PURPOSEFUL

FOREIGN LADIES HAVE A DIFFERENT MENTALITY AND MOSTLY FALL IN LOVE WITH THEIR MEN IRRESPECTIVE OF HIS POCKET SIZE

THEY ARE NOT LAZY AND MOSTLY INDEPENDENT

THEY ARE NOT DISEASE CARRIERS AND THEIR HYGIENE IS MOSTLY CARED FOR DUE TO THEIR ADVANCED HEALTH SYSTEM

FOREIGN LADIES ARE READY TO GO ON A DATE AND FOOT THE BILLS IF THE NEED ARISES

THEIR DRESS CULTURE AND LIFESTYLE ARE MOSTLY COPIED BY NIGERIAN WOMEN SO INSTEAD OF DATING THE COPY CATS WE HAVE HERE, IT IS ADVISABLE TO GO FOR A FOREIGN LADY

THEY GUARANTEE PEACE OF MIND IN RELATIONSHIPS DUE TO THEIR LOVING NATURE

THEY ARE INTELLECTUALLY SOUND AND MORALLY UPRIGHT

THEY ARE NOT RELIGIOUS HYPOCRITES NOR FAKE SO A SEXUAL DISCUSSION WITH A FOREIGN LADY WILL NOT BE VIEWED FROM THE HYPOCRITICAL POINT OF VIEW


#TEAM FOREIGN LADIES

You are hardly fluent in English yourself.

rudebouy:
Der is dis very cute chic in my area dat am attracted to and she says she loves me too.

D wahala be say she is not fluent with english and she has a very bad accent. I think I can help her with the fluency ish, at least its mainly her tenses dat has got issues. But how do I help her with her accent problem?

She pronounces 'available' as 'aveleble', she calls bucket 'bockate', she calls bread 'blead'. And its disgusting and irritating. As in she sounds like a pure village girl upon say she don stay ph tay.

Am lucky my friends hav not met her yet. Shame for catch me die. Me sef shame don day catch me for my room, and am getting tired of all dis her "I want to tlavel" ish.

Am a bit discouraged cos as educated as Sanusi Lamido was, he still had his hausa abi fulani accent.

Pls guys, is it possible for her to change her accent at 25? Me don day tire oh!

Agreed

If you're only his gf and you are washing his clothes, it is your choice. It is also his choice whether he wants to wash yours or not. Now if you can live with his decision around this matter is the ultimate choice you must make. one size does not fit all on matters like this.

omowumee:
Please o is there anything wrong with a guy washing his girlfriend's clothes? After all we wash yours.

I asked my boo to help me with some clothes. He got so angry..-

Please did i do something wrong ni?

"We all" did not do most of these things but "we all" congratulate and celebrate those that did.

2dice:
As i take one eye check the babe..that is making my friend heart disorganize...
Chisosx!! Damn this babe is the definition of Beauty ...she was also a Good dancing kus the way she was grind the offering song ehn...
Then i ask my paddi (friend) ..how far with babe...he said he was waiting for the perfect time to go meet her...
Guys come see as i smile for my mind.. You all knw WAFFITARIAN don't carry last patapata na draw

In the words of Jude Abaga, na so craze dey start.

story for the gods! the gods are listening

icebebe:
Jus lik in movies,toyin can't jus stop adding her dialect,evryfin she wrote was jus as if a lil child wrote it instead.had to read lik 3times to undstnd. And wats wiv d ma ma tin?

She is always forming like she is so learned but she lacks serious class. Both of them need to keep their messy lives off our radar. bleh

naijaboiy:
All these irrelevant people

Right?! All lacking class and decorum.

But why are you using Issa Rae's picture uselessly?!

wonder24k:
I have very strong passion for matured ladies Frm 35 and above. Am 30 yrs, cool dark and hansome. Self employed and discreet.
I don't want ladies below 35yrs, married ladies should keep off except u are divorced, widow or separated.
Am not interested in marriage so if u want to marry or settle down, am nt ur candidate.
I want matured friends wit benefits any where in d country.contact: bbm 5318968D or mail me at wonder24k@gmail.com

I think say you dey miss ya demographic. U no wan marriage but you no wan married women respond. Dem be your perfect mate, no be so? Dem no fit nag you to dey settle down.


I just dey joke oooooo! Good luck on your search. You should update us on whether your search is successful.

wales774:
Hello beautiful gals, ladies, and mama's,
Am a workaholic due to the nature of my profession, but I have got some weeks off.
I need to make time for my self to develop a real, trustworthy and a reliable relationship with a girl with good behavior and a magician when it comes to kitchen matters, cos I love home made dishes and who is also ready for a healthy relationship.
We never can tell I could meet my wife through this piece of small proposal am typing
Please ladies if you r this category please don't hesitate to send me an BBM invite for a chat. 7f705551
Thanks
King Wales

Oba the oba! Good luck! Just don't ignore the babes when you finally get back to work.

ogboni76:
Hello
Miss, my name is Roland Dosunmu, a 38yr old guy, single dad to a wonderful Ghana/nigeria boy, from a failed relationship with the mum(her family issue) am a script editor and actor in the yoruba movie industry, I would wanna know more about you, I am not a rich dude, but am sure not lazy..am truly looking for a serious and commited relationship that's gonna lead to marriage...
I have tried sending you a mail here(pm) but couldn't get through...
08181734501

Alrighty now! See resume! @enjoyment1, I salute una! good luck.

Godinmercy:
Hi, am a descent christian man, an university graduate and business oriented; who is planning to settle down. I need a descent Christian lady between the age of 20 - 25, must be a graduate and a working class. Interested lady should call: 08036181265.

FYI

Descent- dropping or falling; also means origin or background. Decent- satisfactory or acceptable

I know the difference because I am a graduate.

I don tire for NL posts and criteria mehn!

Sometimes you vote because there is no reason to. You vote so that there will be a reason the next time you need to vote. They should vote to give themselves a shot at changing their future outcome. Of course, It is not guaranteed that a vote will change anything. So you may have nothing to lose by not voting but you also lose the chance to gain anything at all.

Dagr8tosyn:
To my best of knowledge exposure can make or mar ladies of this generation, issue of environment and family back ground is a strongly influence in the Life of Ladies, making them to end up being Single parent; therefore Single Parent for example could easily make all female children grow up without fatherly love, atmosphere and believing it's interesting, and best to live as a single lady.

More so, it is not common for you to see a single lady at over 30years of age in most good homes where both parent exist. Please how do we correct the insanity of so many overdue (for marriage)single ladies and single parent in this part of the world, I strongly advice young ladies deviate from their mother’s believe( situation and condition) and come out different from the ways they are trained...?

Please what is your take on this topic?

The better question is how do we correct the insanity of men of marriageable age that are choose to stay out there playing the field. They are just wan chop clean mouth. Why should a successful 30 something year old women settle for a lazy, or cheating, or lying or chauvinistic man that will only bring unnecessary stress to her life? People are quick to talk about how women have not married, what about all the men out there useless-ing themselves? Oh maybe the women should go and marry women? I know how well that will go over. Let's not even talk about the stigmatization of when those same women finally finds someone worth their time but he happens to the younger. Then people will cry foul again. Leave women alone. When they start seeing more men that are committed to having a faithful relationship where there is mutual respect and care for one another, they will start getting married before 30. We are no longer in the days when you can just dash a man a woman. Thank God, women can finally choose for themselves the life they will prefer to live.

And women, don't play games with this part of your lives either. If you wish to be married, be serious about cultivating relationships that will lead to marriage.

Why is the comparison always with a white person? Even comedians always do the "a white parent vs a nigerian parent bit". Why can't it be he difference between a nigerian girl and a dominican girl? The world does not exist in nigerian and white. Get a life. What a rubbish list, as well.

negrito:
1. A white girl knows how to make her happy while a Nigerian girl only gives a man stress and high blood pressure as a result of their incessant demands.

2. A white girl is independent and works for her own money while a Nigerian girl is a parasite that depends on a host (guy) for survival.

3. A white girl has proper hygiene but a Nigerian girl is very dirty. Some can't even wash their wrappers or pants.

4. White girls are better cooks than Nigerian girls.

5. White girls are more presentable and appealing than Nigerian girls.

6. You can give a white girl head cos it doesn't stink down there but you will die if you try to do it with a Nigerian girl.

7. White girls make your life worth living but a Nigerian girl will only make your life miserable. No wonder Mikel Obi went for a white girl instead.

8. White girls don't make incessant demands like their Nigerian counterparts.

Date and marry a white girl. Shun these ex and potential prostitutes called Nigerian girls.

nikkflexible:
For mature ladies preferably (guys too can add one or two things)

Would you say yes to a guy that extremely loves you and has been saying and showing it for 5years running but then what you have for him is extreme likeness and you aint sure you love him?
With his personality,looks and other qualities you are ok but then you have not come to see yourself loving him no matter how lengthy and quality your chat sessions are.
though you have nobody you are dating presently.

Are you attracted to him? Likeness can evolve if there is attraction. if you just like the person as if they are your sibling, then move on. you are both just playing the comfortable game where you feel something because it is convenient. Another thought is you will might have to lose him b4 you realize you could have been more than you imagine. hopefully there will be no regrets. Best thing to do is not to play games and make sure no one is being fooled.

PlaybooyGANG:
seriously e no pain me o

if e no pain you why we dey read am? you no innocent either jare. tit for tat.

Keketu:
since i uploaded my pic this afternoon eating launch , a lot of girl as start crush on me , i receive fifteen pm and i started to think im i the sexy nairalander? it dont surprise me, most of my faculty mate do call me fresh boi ..

Fine boy, sexy pimples. The hungry look is so in season right now! NLanders no go kill pesin.

Wittylens:
She told me she can't date a broke guy, so I fixed my brokenness. Now she's back. I told her I can't date a girl who isn't a Virgin, she should go and fix that. Was I wrong?

This is funny and it made me think of chemistry. A physical reaction can be reversed but a chemical reaction cannot. She asked you to change something that can be changed but you are asking her to change something that cannot be. The scale is not balanced but it doesn't make you wrong. If she's after your moneyI say take your money and go because if the money finishes, she will go. Don't waste each other's time.

tizz04:
I have been dating my girlfriend for close to a year and six months now...we have a very good and stable relationship...the problem is that my girlfriend is a transgender and she was a male at birth but (she went for a surgery in the states and changed her sexual status) now a female..she only opened up to me on monday cause I was about proposing and right now am very confused pls I need ur sincere advice right now pls...!!

Nigeria is ready to lynch supposed gay people yet a full blow transgendered person returns there? I smell lies.

Look through the recent threads. Saw a few jamb reprinting related topics. Good luck!

johnrev:
I applied for Akande Scholarship,later a confirmation email,stated that application payment is required.
But later i got another email,stating that application fee payment is cancelled.
All that is required is to send a scanned copy of idcard,and statement of result or waec original certificate,and an application number will be issued.

I thereby state that AkandeScholarship is authentic

The argument for why the scholarship is authentic was flawed in the first place. Someone asked me for something unreasonable, so I thought they were horrible. But they turned around and said I do not need to give it to them anymore so they must not be so awful. Does the fact that the request was withdrawn guarantee that the evil intention has changed? Nope! Haha. Illogical.