U didn't mention wearing of head warmer. Omo I was wearing head warmer 24/7 When I visited and did rub n shine plenty

Whaaaaat. shocked to my marrows.

Are u sure u don't have a baby out there u don't know abt

Gd Evening Sir,
Pls I had a dream where I sat in a car with my daughter while my husband was driving, he stopped and came down to buy something.
Suddenly two men jumped in and drove the car away while I was still seated inside and I was asking them who they were.
When they got to an unknown destination they said they want to use the car, I refused to get down and tried calling my husband but the phone refused to function. Then I decided I will collect the car back. Meanwhile they loading some goods into the car. I managed to reach my husband and told him what happened that he should come with police, but before he came I collected the car back and as I was going I met him with d policemen and narrated what happened to him and woke up.

Hmmm. I give up

Confronting d Mad Man physically is wrong cos he's done no jack to you.
Check Medically to ascertain d cause of miscarriage.
Fight spiritual battle spiritually. Prayer like never before.

AZeD1:
Nope.
Your friend is lazy and insecure. The reason he wants you to stop is because he doesn't do those things and has probably told his wife that "Men" don't do such. You doing it exposes him.

Thank God ds is coming from a Man.
Good Point Sir.
Some of My hubby's close friends(married)does it too when I'm not close(maybe busy in the bedroom or outside) clears d plates and even clean the table and I don't see anything wrong with it, I even tease them.
I'm not too comfortable when it's coming from those not too close to us though.

Emaprince:
smh..nairaland women sha...so he'll go on cheating spree?...ok if the woman is not cheating or planning to do so,why didn't she accept?..after all she is the one accusing the man..women and lies sha..

A friend of mine had a contact that will take him to another state for 3months..by the time he came back,his girlfriend confronted him with questions like "can you swear that you didn't sleep with another woman over there?"..the guy was surprised.he brought out a bible and read one of those dangerous chapters..he swore infront of her that so so bad thing should happen to him if he ever cheated...after swearing,he turned to the girl and asked her to swear in the same way that she never cheated on him ever since he was out...the baby started shaking and said ""no no..that's not what I mean"..lol..women and lies goes together!...the guy broke up with her that day..

Now women wants a faithful man..every time they keep ringing it in our ears..every thread..all you see is "be faithful to your wife if you want her to be faithful"..smh...now here is a man who promised to be faithful but under the condition that she'll be faithful too and you people are rejecting it..lol..so this means you people are not even sure of yourselves..smh..so why do you need a faithful husband when you won't be faithful?
This is why I said "women doesn't deserve to get what they can't give"

It's usually pple who are unfaithful that accuse d other first.

Let her go b4 she kills u, she's not worth it. I'm so shocked by her attitude.

rattlesnake:
Shame !!!!!!

She talks of him but he never spoken of her before
Cheap girl

What Ur grievance?

I won't say u should break up with her cos I don't know her but No DECENT girl(married or single) will say such to her Man no matter the level of anger. That's absurd.

I think he's trying to work on her mind. He knows she will be scared and won't agree to do it that's why he suggested it.
He'll go on cheating spree having psyched her up.

Dlionsheart:


But must a guy spent money on a chicks for being a friend?

Shey you chicks say whatever a guy can do, you can do better??
so why must the guy be the one to spend on you and your gang and not the another way round??

My dear I'm not in support of a girl bn greedy all in d name of bn in a relationship but @ the same time I hate d idea of a guy keeping many girls @ same time too.

That Guy's reply is crazy, especially d part of Bank Cashier

Dlionsheart:


The question is why would they want to be side-chic when they're aware that there's a "Michelle" in his life if not to Rob the guy

Why would a guy not stick to his 'Michelle' alone if he's not ready to spend money

Lagusta:


Not all guys are like that.......

And not all ladies too are robbers eating sharwama all over the place.......

We just need to find our missing piece, fix it in, and let all the goodness that comes with it flow through your veins!!!!












Now where is my side chick!!!

By Ur Side

Dlionsheart:


No oooo
not Nigerian girls
they prefer a ready-made guy
who will take them to Hiltons, Silva bird, etc
and buy them chawama with their gang of rubbers called friends.

And I'm sure he had michelle alone as GF with no side Chick, but Nigerian Men will have a 'Michelle' and still be going after Linda, Jane and Helen. And he'll expect Jane n Helen not to ask for 'chawama with their robber of friends when they know they are just side chicks

Jeni Jeni oh Jenifa

SHOCK7:

What d meaning of what u just said?

Meaning Some Married couple looking for children are yet to have. While those not looking for are having triplets.

prissyluv:

Thanks sis. Some of my cousins married outside which he is aware of. Some married to yoruba,cross river,kogi etc. I am not the kind that will forget home after marriage. I love this guy and he understands all this. His family has accepted me and the mum has been asking why i never visited again after a year. I am going to lose a good man if my parents dont consent it. My guy is not perfect but he has good qualities i cherish alot and i will miss and regret ever not settling with him if they reject him.
I will try and get their consent but if they refuse and made me lose my man,i am sure my forgiving them will not be near.

I have a distance Cousin who's suitor was rejected too For difference in tribe reason. She begged n begged and they agreed with the intention of frustrating the Man.
The list given to him was like 5x the normal list, he couldn't go ahead cos of cost, d girl became frustrated that she angrily left with her man. When she got pregnant, she still appealed to her parents they refused so they went to the registry. When her parents heard they just cut her off but 4year down the line with 2kids and expecting d 3rd one her parents were now begging them to come and do the proper thing
She refused oh, her Mum begged eh and she gave them condition dat things has to be done her own way oh. Na so her husband take pay small thing on her head. He didn't spend half of d normal list.

My Dear I'm just saying a true life case I know, I'm not saying u shd go against Ur parents wish oh cos not everyone is lucky, but sometimes our parents reasons can be selfish. I wish they know how some ladies do night vigil n all manner of things just 4 life partner.

prissyluv
Hi Dear, I remember Ur thread abt Ada n distant marriage. So ds battle is still on? Hmm na wa o. Just like some1 said do all u can to get dia consent. Cry, beg, cajole and get pple they respect to speak for U.
I'm an Ada and only Daughter yet I married outside my tribe, what matters to my family is Ur happiness.
The Lord is Ur Strength.
Ur Man will marry U by God's Grace

Ruth Benemasie Opia NTA News. Evergreen. Was a kid then but still remember the name and face, all thanks to my Dad u must watch and listen to news oh.

duduhemit36:

d funniest tin is dat pple like dat will consider u jealous..

Yes oh. She has even stopped gisting me abt her relationship cos she can't stand d truth I tell her. How can a man be telling u I wanto divorce my wife so I can marry U and u believe him. And she'll even be asking him how far with d divorce thing now.. so disgusting.
I give up on some girls

lilbazy:
The eyelashes dey fit some girls...some there face go be like who lost $4.7m for agege park.

Epic

Can't stop laffing

byvan:
She had it coming, single ladies should wait for single men and stop lingering around married men hoping to become the next best thing in their lives . She wouldn't look twice if this man was broke, let her bear the consequences of her indiscretions. If you are going to marry a divorcee, get in touch with the ex and ask questions. Walk out of the mess if you are really tired .

So true. B4 I got married, any married man complaining abt his wife to me, hmm I run with my heels touching my ogoo(back head) cos that's how it starts oh.

A close friend of mine might end up like ds( God4bid) if she's not careful cos she's always hanging around "I wanto divorce my wife" kind of men. Warned her severally she no wan hear.

protegesol:

Does anything like child support exist in Nigeria?

I doubt it exist here, not too sure though

It's clear why u were not employed. All d same stay away from 'squealers'

The man and his wife used ds lady to have Children believing they can't have children of their own. Unfortunately or Fortunately for them his wife conceived 4months after.
She should let her family know what she's going thru.
She should also Sue his sorry azzz, report to welfare or NGOS, there must be something she can do.

kreamidiva:



Nne, whose husband did she snatch?

My Dear, she and Oge Okoye are involved in husband snatching scandal(news everywhere)
Dunno who snatched the man between 'them girls' that's why I said 'involved in'

Innocent pretty face. When she never ever thought she'll be involved in husband snatching wahala.

Naija sha. Na wa oh. Being more catholic than the Pope.
OP is asking a 'what if' situation to get pple's opinion and I'm seeing it can't happen to me post.
Did OP say it will happen to U? Simply ans d question.
OP it's better the wife and kids stay, while d Man puts up with friends till things stabilises

It's only one person that can ans Ur question and address Ur fear, and that's Ur BF. Talk to him to know his plans for you. U don't have to plead, beg or even try to cajole so u don't sound like u are desperate.

Btw shouldn't u be developing urself too just like he's doing instead of just waiting for marriage to happen. In d process u might even meet a lot of interesting pple. U are still young @ 26