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My hubby neva rejects food no matter what except he's truly not hungry. He doesn't eat out except he's outta town.

MizEmpress:
dude was already tipsy otherwise I see no sense in him walking out on his wife-to-be and her family. no matter the attitude they put up, there's always room for negotiation and besides he's the one who needs a wife so no need for the haughtiness.

Omoo d guy gats to act for brideprice to come down and it worked if not that he walked away

Pavore9:
Don't be angry as that tribe charged nothing in comparison to the Turkanas of Northern Kenya, where a young man who wants to marry requires about 100 cows, 200 goats & several camels just to marry this beautiful bride!

jesus

Dr Adadevoh, a True Heroine....Rip

Airforce1:
why money no make her fine??

I think sey money dey make people fine

How does ds relate to the topic? Hmm na wa.


Beautiful decoration. Me like.

ireneony:
God will punish that man that want to marry this slut.

Easy Dear.

The daughter go old for house

I appreciate Ur contributions.
The truth is, she asked him to hold on for now. She's bidding her time to think thru it all. When I asked her what she really wants, she said She's afraid her chances of getting a Suitor is low as a single mother hence she's considering his offer now but on the other hand she feels it's all too sudden she might make a mistake again. That's whr we are now.

To ans ur questions,
@ Tallesty1 we don't knw why d guy left her. She herself doesn't know too. When I tried to communicate to get something out of him he kept saying nothing, that he lost interest. I got my hubby to talk to him to see if he can open up as in Man to man for where. As in he just walked away without telling her or any1 anything.
@ chaircover I don't know why he's in a haste o. I'm still trying to figure dat out myself.
@ pickabeau1 she can't inform her parents when she hasn't made up her mind abt ds guy.
She has always known this new guy but not dating. He didn't know about d pregnancy when he proposed to her. When she told him about it he tot she was joking, he had to come down to see for himself and still stood his ground.
What I don't get is d rush. I just have ds strong feeling nothing ain't right.
He has even informed his people.
Omoo me I don't know again oo

pickabeau1:
What have the girls parents said


Wendy80

She's yet to tell them, she's afraid of another disappointment.

Good Day e-family,
I decided to bring this story here to clear my head and get unsentimental opinion. 
I have a very close cousin as in very close and could pass for sisters (we're mate), this is her story.

She met this fine young man sometime last year and they dated for a while. He proposed early this year and wedding plans started. After the introduction, she got pregnant and the guy was like it's ok but we just need to hasten the traditional rites and church wedding before belle show well.
As preparation was going on, he woke up one morning and said he isn't interested again. We all thought it was a huge joke but like play like play he walked away from everything and she was 3months gone already. While all these were happening she lost her job.
The issue now is another young wants to marry her not minding her state. Really pushing for things as per introduction and traditional rites to be done, he has even informed his people and she's not too sure about it cos of past experience. He had to call me this morning to complain that she's getting him angry cos she doesn't want to come up with the date for introduction. I talked to him to be patient With her, I even suggested that he waits for her to put to bed but he said no, that‎ if he marries her now the unborn child becomes his. At this juncture, I became confuse myself. My dear NL family please unbiased advise is needed here.
And Men is this possible for a guy who's never married and no issue to be doing this?
PLS No insults, No Blame Game, she's had enough.

Pardon my typos.

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‎Tallesty1 aisha2 chaircover ‎pickabeau1‎ EfemenaXY ‎ ‎
‎eagleeye2 and others I need U here pls.‎

jayne8585yahoo:
Please I will not lie to you. See what I do.
morning: coffee, sugar and cream.(Nescafe)

Afternoon:I take full lunch (usually swallows) but normally wheat.

Dinner: just tea. Not Milo n milk lol!
so in all, one full meal per day.

Amazingly, I lost 2kg in a week.
hope I am trying.

Ds cracked me up

agarawu23:
are u on drugs today?

NL no dull moment

EnlightenedSoul:
With close friends? I use them all, and more lol. No filter.

Most pple still do though

I agree OP.
I remember telling a close friend happy bthday birthday sexy. My hubby called my attention to it. Told me it's wrong that I shd rather compliment ladies with 'beautiful, nice, pretty or good.

I'm suspecting U @ craziebone

Well done

mrlaw93:
MTCHEEW.. Tot i will see a breast..

Hahahahaha

runzlord:
my question is do they marry

They do. Last year a very pretty got married to an Albino. Her Parents protested but finally gave dia blessing. The couple are both Med Doctors.

What of the other woman who knows she's destroying a home just becos she wants to bear Mrs. Some women sha, how do they sleep @ night.
Am not exonerating OP though.

She added a Lil flesh and looks good, Agbani shd follow suit.

She has never been known to expose her body and still beautiful.

Just reminded me of my former boss who likes food and sugary things and his tummy is more than a 9month old pregnant woman. When I talked to him about loosing weight he told me his tummy is a sign of big man. I gave up.

@ OP, communication is key here. Let him know u are uncomfortable. Send him health issues caused by heavy weight thru mails. Encourage him to work out by working out yourself too.
They are a lot of documentaries on fat pple who have become liability on people around them, get him to watch dem.
Lastly I'm sure u don't wanto start ur marriage babysitting a grown fat man or spending ur entire day in d kitchen or spending so much on food cos of Ur man's lifestyle, so PLS speak Up now.

kennosklint:
Nice one

Pls what is nice about ds?

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Hmmm

Talentless Beauty

She's pretty