jennykadry:

i guess he is just confused that is all

I wonder, this transcends Pidgen English

Spermdrops:

At least it took OBJ 8 years. This one spends most of his time in Germany. In less than 1 year his "sweet wind" babes have abandoned him.

Even if he would stay in Germany and something constructive but we get non of the above.

Cadet:

hehehhehehe! Go girl!

Thanks.

Roscodaddy:


So to dey eat anyhow na good living,them wan finish the boy money,ice cream nkwobi,isi ewu,small stout,power horse,biscuit,dundun samosa, shaki ,kpomo bokoto,gordon spark,sminoff ice,zobo ,chinese,chinasa, puff puff all them wan put inside mouth,why them belly no go long.

If the boy have the money and buys all of that then he apparently thinks it is worth his girlfriend eating to show good living. Like someone on Nairaland has "if you think she a gold digger you must be a (insert word here)

Kindda nosey aren't we. You probably shouldn't have gone into her room so you saw what you should have never seen.

dangermous:

Guy, the thing tire me sef. You go see some eh, their belle dey enter room five minutes before their body. Chineke

You knw me before

Nope

Roscodaddy:

Nigerians gals,they want to eat it all,without thinking about their bellies,mo gbo mo ya,after eating they even order for take away.

So women should never show good living?

Uche2nna:

I rest ma case

You should

dangermous:

Na wa for this site sha. I no fit talk one thing make i no get some insultive retort.

Guy, na your mama u hear. She dey carry rolls of Amala for waist. Ekute Yaba.

oops. Someone's pissed off.

cgift:

How can someone say that the world evolved? Ask him if the shoe he is wearing evolved as well?

And if so how long did it take.

Love handles and muffin tops are not eqaul to having a big belly since those are at the sides and can be corrected if some people pull up their pants.

yebariba:

because they like to greedily eat as much as they can when a guy takes them out. most of them have never seen food before so they want to eat everything in sight if you mistakingly take them to tantalizers.

If they have never seen food before how then do they know what to do with it adn how have they survived that long.

Jackal.:

@ Antidote,

You are not serious. . . . . .

I will personally supervise the whupping of your bare butt with a horse whip if u don't take that course to the cleaners.
Go and read and leave Naija women with their big bellies. . . . .
Busta wants me to sign a contract that will restrain me from bashing Naija women. . . I might turn to carribean chics next week.
Watch your baq.

@ D-reloaded,

The link was doctored. . . . .
Pastor having sex with little boys in Port Harcourt?
This is like saying Debosky was caught raping in Amsterdam. . . . . Or someone stealing snowballs in Canada.
It aint possible. . . .PH is a LovePeddler-state. . . . .Twas a set-up for the Pastor by a greedy member of the Church.

This is why I like this website some people say some of the most outlandish things.

LadyT:

The reason you need to bone a tree is that your 2inch pee pee can never gain entry not long enough!

Not to be an instigator but you got him.

dee02:


So is Lesbianism, infact rising at an alarming rate

Big pot bellied chicks have no choice other than to play with each others flabs or screw a table leg
Because dudes are fed up of struggling with MAKE-SHIFT/UNNATURAL PREGNANCIES which gets in the way of a sexy time
I would rather bone a tree than a big-TUMMY-YUMMY girl

For real are you serious. That had me cracking the heck up.

Jackal.:


Naija guys are fyner than Naija girls. . . . It's no ROCKET SCIENCE!!!

Since when, evidently if you believe that then it must be rocket science and thus far your building the rocket wrong. Some Nigerian men, pictures I have seen on here their faces look like foot

maxell:

Do you honestly believe that after all these revelations, all those contractors that got paid millions of dollars in mobilization
fees without performing anything on ground are just going to go scott free ?

Even if no one is jailed, I think some people are going to refund money to the Nigerian treasury.

Has Nigeria ever recieved a refund? Probably not therefore this will cause water cooler conversation but it will only stop there.

LadyT:

Those of you saying personality. How can you determine personality from seeing him for the first time.

True true, while personality is important no one ever walks across the room from seeing personality (the invisible). Its looks that attract and later personality might deattract or maintain the attraction.

Yes he is like those before him and probably those after him.

4 Him:

I think Wendy is confused.

Well it is your comments that confuse. You say one thing and then another. I still think you'll need to realize the difference of submission from an understanding. If there is an understanding if there is submission then forget it.

Uche2nna:

I wonder when Wendy would understand that

I'll understand your explanation of submissiveness only if the man is willing to submit the same. Which based on what you men are saying that is a nay ver gonna happen in the macho Nigerian men mentality

Uche2nna:

Now You are confusing me.

Who says being submissive to your man exempts him from doing any type of house chores ?

I think if yuo read the earlier posts you'll understand.

Pheromones

acidrop:

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u say
i don't believe u mehn, not a nigerian guy afterall

What age range because if it is above 25 then I guess if not. . . I know what am talking about.

Uche2nna:

Well ,most of your posts smacks of pride. It seems to You that if u submit You would lose your pride as a 21st century woman, You would lose your pride as a doctor or proffessor in your field of endeavor or as a boss in an enterprise. Thats why I used the word humility. Submissiveness would not make You lose all that. You can be submissive to your hubby and still retain all your dignity and relevance in the marriage , and then some.

Just like assertiveness does not necessarily equate to rudeness (your own words), submissiveness does not necessarily equate to slavery.

I have pride but am not proud in the sense of being pompous. I won't submit not because I will lose anything pride in other endevours but because it is rather unfair to want me to submit to be less than human because am a woman. Like I will never submit to be less because am black or a foreigner I will never submit because am a woman. I don't mind cooking because I can throw down. I don't mind cleaning because filth disgusts me however the husband should also help equally as in cook when am not in the mood to. He can't just sit his butt down because he is MAN the gift to womanhood.

acidrop:

HAHAHAHAHAHAH c your mouth like virgin. u know we are saying the same thing here. that exactly my idea of marriage as well except for the virgin part, because that is so fucking impossible

Believe me there are more virgin males than most people realize. You just have to seek them out. Not the ones who are virgins because they can't get non but because of choice. I am assertive so I know where and who to get honest information from.

People remember to post clips if you have them. I left one just click on it.

I am a laugh addict so I tend to laugh for where my next laugh fix will be.

Uche2nna:

I would give You that. I have been a witness

Thank you I guess?

acidrop:

lol wendy what is your ideal marriage? paint us a picture

My ideal marriage is one where we are both equal and no one is above the other. He can have his say and I mine. We can make our own decisions but we discuss them together first. He is a clean slate I am. He is a virgin. . .

Haha

Uche2nna:

It is your job as a woman to teach them there are two sides to a coin. If You are teaching them assertiveness, You should also let them know of humility.

Assertiveness to the point of rudeness and with no regard to instituted authority would be counter-active.

I bet as a mom, You would want your first issue to be in control of the other siblings if u are not in the house?

The opposite of assertive is not humility. The opposite is submissive and the opposite of pride is humble. Being assertive does not equate rudeness except to the people that think it does.
It is possible to be assertive and have manners. I respect my elders but will not be walked over because nobody wants an idiot.

I loved that cartoon. It is quiet amazing. I have lost touch like many other things because of school work.

Uche2nna:

You can see it as slavery but I bet You it is not. One cannot enslave oneself.

However, as long as You expect certain things to be initiated by man , like ask your hand in marriage (not the other way round), dowry payments and all that stuff, You have to also give him that room to lead during the course of the marriage. The idea of giving him a little bit of room and trusting that he would be there for You and take care of You and if it comes to that, even lay down his life to protect You and the kids is what is known as submissiveness. DONT GET IT TWISTED!!!!

As my mom puts it she was not bought. Both my parents I guess are forward thinkers because they don't believe in the dowry system. In the case of waiting for a marriage proposal. . . am shy until I want something and if I want something really bad I go for it believe, if I ever think a man is worth spending a life for then am asking. And am also one of those contemplating keeping or extending my last name especially since I want to get a doctorate degree.

Unless showing my kids that mother is not an idiot but believes everyone has rights or teaching the children they should be assertive is telling them not to listen to their husband then no.

Also we should submit but men are women wrapper. There are just too many inconsistencies in this whole belief system.

@ poster try people that did not graduate from the 3rd grade. I hear they transcend all intelligence levels humanly possible. You will be flying like unicorns with intelligent.

acidrop:

wendy if your hubby really loves u, he will never submit u to a demand u can never meet. i mean that is humane. . . . . . what is the hardwork, cooking and raisning your children is hardowrk? u are kind of doing it for yourself. @ d end of the day the love grows stronger and the kids love their mom

Well I guess my problem of not being objectified into submission by my husband lies in me not wanting my children to segregate and have favorites. I want them to love us both the same. I guess that is what makes me different from women lobotomized into submission