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Thanks @ Pierocash and dontbullshitme

I was earning a very low income because I was unable to get a good job.
I've no one to help me that's why I'm trying to survive with the little I earn whilst I search for a better job

Good afternoon nairalanders. Please overlook my grammatical errors as I'm not very good in English
I'm here to seek for advice because I'm in a very confused state.
I'm 30 yrs while my girlfriend is 23 yrs.
I'm a civil engineering graduate and I finished my service year 4 years ago.
I've been working under an engineer and also have a side little business (though I've not been making huge profit from it due to lack of enough capital)
My girlfriend as been loving me the way I am. When I met her, I let her know I'm earning 20k as a graduate but she said it doesn't matter that things will get better soon.
Recently about 8 months ago, it has been increase to 30k which it's not enough for me.
We av been dating for almost 3 years now and I was recognized well by her family members as someone intending to marry their daughter.
My girl stays most time with me and we sometimes I've intimacy.
Just few days ago, she complained abt her period been missing but I really don't take it serious because sometimes she have late period which she'll still menstruate after some days.
But just about 3 days ago when I noticed it's getting more late, we did PT and it came positive.

I'm thinking of getting rid of it because I'm not very read for the responsibilities even though I love kids and wish I have mine too.
I don't want her to suffer if we eventually leave the pregnancy because she is not earning much as well and she'll even loss her job if she's pregnant.
I know it's a crime to abort but what can I do?

Somebody should please help me, even if it's to get a better job that will be enough to take care of her and the baby. Or maybe I should just abort it and wait for more time till when things get better.