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sugah:
How old is this baby? And is it a pediatrician treating him? Is the weight loss confirmed by a scale? Weight loss in infants is an emergency and should not be treated with levity.

Thanks. Though I'm not with them coz I'm far away from home, but according to my wife, she said she notice he losses weight since he's not having a sound sleep at nite
The baby is 17days old.
I don't really ask of who's treating him

Krystalluv:
Hello mamas, pls help oo
I saw mucus plug on Tuesday morning (without blood though, just a big long and thick mucus which I guess is mucus plug) I've been waiting for contractions since but seems none... This morning, I started feeling serious pain on my back and right leg that I can't walk well, no serious contraction still just stomach tightening.
Pls what should I do? No serious contraction, just d waist and leg pain and vagina heaviness/discomfort. I don't want to go to d hospital and be sent back home. Is it labour already? Edd is tomorrow. Thanks.

Mucus plug can be seen few days to delivery. You're close to delivery so relax, you'll soon meet Ur LO

Hello mommas, please, what could be the cause of stomach upset in a new born. He's reducing in weight, stooling, crying always and not been able to sleep well.
I was just told this afternoon how my little boy is doing and I was so scared and couldn't concentrate at work.
They said they have been treating him but no changes.
Please, What can we do?

Hello mommas, please, what could be the cause of stomach upset in a new born. He's reducing in weight and not been able to sleep well.
I was just told this afternoon how my little boy is doing and I was so scared
They said they have been treating him but no changes. What can we do?

advanceDNA:
U dragged God into the issue...because you don’t know what’s happening to him..u are not God.
No one is free from misfortune as long as you are in the world... the only comfort God gave us is that he will be there to help.. not that calamity or evil cannot befall you...

Saying whateva is happening to him is becos of what he said about God is fallacy..

Just tell me you're an atheist and I'll free you jeje.
Even if you're passing through difficult time doesn't mean you'll speak ill of God who created you.

luuvlly:
Good morning, you can join the group "ask the pediatricians" on Facebook. The one with 702k members. Still pregnant with my first baby but I have learnt a lot from the group. Welldone good papa

Wow. Thanks so much mama. I'll check it out

Wanna see

kokaiye:
yes... Bcs their is enough water in d breastmilk dt is if wife is practicing exclusive breatfeeding..... Until e start taking solid, dont give baby water... But sm mamas no follow dis ooo... But i did, lol... My baby didnt even accept water frm me so i kuku didnt bother until i started givin him solid at 7months old.

Okay. Thanks
I'll tell my mom to follow dat step too coz my mom do give him water once in a while especially when my wife isn't producing enough breast milk. But now that she's producing enough, dey should keep giving him breast milk.
They called me yesterday to send money for baby food. I think they don't really need baby food, Abi what do you think.
They one we bought the other time is when my wife isn't producing milk at all for about 6days after delivery

Hello mommas in the house. Is it true babies shouldn't be given water? Just breast milk

Hello house. Please, is it true that babies shouldn't be giving water?

advanceDNA:
Don’t desperately drag God into everything..
If God were that vindictive, you think you and I will be here typing.... the OP just lacks sexual discipline. Whether you believe God or not... if you easy jump into to bed with women, this kinda trash can definitely happen to you..

How do I drag God into the matter?
Someone that call himself an enemy of God. Think about that.
Also, even if I love sex and women, I can never be dumb like OP. Maybe such tins can happen to u sha

Lifeless

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I understand how those parents feel


No father or mother wants to lose thier kids

Even common erosion that year...I remember how my mother will always warn me to always wait for the rain to subside first whenever it is raining before coming home because of erosion

Damnn niggar, you mean flood? Coz erosion is different bro.

Femaletribe:
Good afternoon mamas.... Please someone should recommend good hospitals in Ibadan i can use for delivery and quote their prices please.... p.s I’m new to town

Which area are u in Ibadan?

threegees:
I am at my mom's place now.
It's just crazy when the one who claims to love you takes you for a fool.
I didn't have a dime on me since Saturday.
I was hungry throughout yesterday till I borrowed money from a neighbour to go to mom's place so I can at least eat.
My kids were hungry. My baby cried ehn. I bought sachet cerelac for her to manage. She stooled like crazy. When I told him that it makes her stool, he said I should continue it, her body will get used to it. I has to ignore and get Nutribom from a shop at our busstop to pay later. This was after he warned me to mind what I say to him.
I don't have a single pin that I can say I bought for myself this year.
Little capital that I was able to gather to sell small stuff this Christmas in my school, I was forced to use it to pay part of my children's school fees after they had been away from school for over 2 weeks.
And he is not bothered.
How many will I write? I am tired of complaining.
I just want to have something doing on the side so I can take care of myself and my kids. So many opportunities for me but thanks to Father Grace. Debts here and there so I can eat.
I'm a teacher.
My head wants to explode.
I need help.

How some men makes women go through stuffs like this still dey baffles me.
I'm just speechless. Just Have it in mind that you'll overcome this and work on it.
I just tire for some men I swear

EnemyofGod22:
I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.

Here is my true life story
My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.

Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.

Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.

One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.

Fast forward to January

On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.

On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.

On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.

Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.

Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.

She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.

Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.

To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.

Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.

Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.

Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.


mod please push this to front page.

I can see why you're so dumb. U called urself an enemy of God and you think God won't make you suffer for that. That's why God is punishing u.
Be a friend to God and ask for him to restore back Ur brain to u. Our God is merciful. He'll forgive you and give u back your brain.

Eclipse is one thing that has been happening from ages

Toke21:
I haven’t started shopping yet but soon…gender is XY

Hello. We haven't hear from u all this while. Ur profile shows you are online 2 days ago and you're team November. We haven't hear Ur BA. I hope you're fine?

Lipsync:
Ameen to your prayers Cappo
I am doing very fine,thank you for asking….
Its just that i have clocked 41weeks+ and seems baby has built mansion with plenty ac inside my womb even after morning and evening walks coupled with lots of excercises. All i get is false contractions accompanied with a lot of body pain.
I wish us all, still waddling ,safe delivery

Hello. We have not hear from u since all this days. I hope you're fine. We are expecting Ur report on Ur delivery

Lattop:
After 1 round everything will be disgusting

You're truly a legend, u know exactly how it is

Expectantmom:
That's so misogynistic of you and lots of men out there. Women do family planning all the time which they have to live with the effects such as adding weight and the rest. I don't think African men sacrifice like their women does and still do.

I respect women a lot and I know what they pass through. I will never show hatred for one.
But telling a man to go for vasectomy after just a kid doesn't make sense cos there are some risk of not been able to impregnate again.
I can request for it after 3 kids coz that's my maximum point, but telling me to go and do vasectomy now after just a kid is evil. Lol

Omakraid:
That's the response she got from many shaa, very funny thread and to think she thinks the guy has ulterior motives for not agreeing to vasectomy in marriage is funny.

How's baby's eyes now, hope its better?

Doing vasectomy isn't a crime. I can do it after 3 kids but optioning for it just after a kid is not acceptable.
Baby is much better now. Doing well.
Thanks.

Omakraid:
Well, she said family planning or anything done on her might fail so it will be better done on the guy to be sure she won't be getting pregnant

She can as well remove her womb. Lobatan

Omakraid:
My people, my people, una good afternoon. How's our weekend going and hope we are all pushing fine? May God strengthen and see us through and also provide for all our needs in Jesus name..
To afternoon gist, I read a post on One child + vasectomy on FP and it didn't sit well with me as I saw my gender as selfish cos that's too much of a request from the person who wants just one child.. Experienced mummies, make una chook mouth, can you request such from your husbands because of "Buhari's economy" and whats your take on having one child cos I see it as a risk.

Why vasectomy, why not Family Planning

Abu23Rahman:
How soon can we go for an ultrasound..
She doesn't like anything blood test etc

U can wait for 3 weeks more

Abu23Rahman:
Pls help me confirm..just did it now for my wife..
We celebrated here this year March 7 after Allah bless us with a girl..

Today we did this test and this was the result..

Pls is this positive

Can we go for ultrasound Scan

Sir. Your result is positive.
You can wait for some couple of weeks b4 u go for ultrasound scan, but your result here is positive no doubt.
But if you are still in doubt, go to any lab and do blood PT, then that will clear Ur doubt.

Abu23Rahman:
Yes , sure... though she's breastfeeding a nine months baby ...

U must be a real goal scorer coz the results seems to be positive. Probably you'll be in team July. Congrats

Abu23Rahman:
Is she pregnant

Will u be excited if she is pregnant?

kokaiye:
yeah... I hrd of dis too dt it help stop pulse frm comin out of baby eyes but not 4 apollo cs i ve nva hrd dt a new born baby have apollo b4... Its best they take d baby to d hospital d doc will knw wat to do... Wen my son had ear infectn wen e was 3weeks old due to me breastfeeding him laying down side by side, fluid was comin out of one of his ears... I tool him to see d doctor, dey gave me baby ear drop to use for him for 5days, i used it 4 3days n d ear infectn clear up... Frm dt time, i nva breastfed him layin down ever again @wentroublescome i hope u ve taking ur baby to d hospital sha... No sidon dry watch... Moreover, u shld ve prevented dis frm happening by letting mother inlaw knw d risk of infectin d baby wen she hv apollo... Baby r prone to any infectn at early stage cs deir immune system isnt string enof... N tell wifey to d ebf to mk his immune system stronger.

Thanks so much ma'am. They have taken him to d clinic and he's getting better now. Thanks so much

Funky123:
Let wiffy take him to hospital please

home remedy I know is putting the breast milk, just a drop

Thanks a lot. She told me they av been putting drops of breast milk. But I'll ask for her update about his eyes today.
Thanks a lot ma'am

Nkemosarodion65:
Good evening our mummies in the house
Pls how can I stop my baby from sucking.

Sucking breast or what?

Hello mommas, I was told this morning that my baby has conjunctivitis (Apollo), please what can be done to treat his eye infection.
It was my mother-in-law that infect him cos she is also treating Apollo when she came to visit us for the naming ceremony