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Femaletribe:
Good afternoon mamas.... Please someone should recommend good hospitals in Ibadan i can use for delivery and quote their prices please.... p.s I’m new to town

Which area are u in Ibadan?

threegees:
I am at my mom's place now.
It's just crazy when the one who claims to love you takes you for a fool.
I didn't have a dime on me since Saturday.
I was hungry throughout yesterday till I borrowed money from a neighbour to go to mom's place so I can at least eat.
My kids were hungry. My baby cried ehn. I bought sachet cerelac for her to manage. She stooled like crazy. When I told him that it makes her stool, he said I should continue it, her body will get used to it. I has to ignore and get Nutribom from a shop at our busstop to pay later. This was after he warned me to mind what I say to him.
I don't have a single pin that I can say I bought for myself this year.
Little capital that I was able to gather to sell small stuff this Christmas in my school, I was forced to use it to pay part of my children's school fees after they had been away from school for over 2 weeks.
And he is not bothered.
How many will I write? I am tired of complaining.
I just want to have something doing on the side so I can take care of myself and my kids. So many opportunities for me but thanks to Father Grace. Debts here and there so I can eat.
I'm a teacher.
My head wants to explode.
I need help.

How some men makes women go through stuffs like this still dey baffles me.
I'm just speechless. Just Have it in mind that you'll overcome this and work on it.
I just tire for some men I swear

EnemyofGod22:
I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.

Here is my true life story
My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.

Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.

Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.

One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.

Fast forward to January

On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.

On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.

On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.

Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.

Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.

She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.

Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.

To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.

Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.

Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.

Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.


mod please push this to front page.

I can see why you're so dumb. U called urself an enemy of God and you think God won't make you suffer for that. That's why God is punishing u.
Be a friend to God and ask for him to restore back Ur brain to u. Our God is merciful. He'll forgive you and give u back your brain.

Eclipse is one thing that has been happening from ages

Toke21:
I haven’t started shopping yet but soon…gender is XY

Hello. We haven't hear from u all this while. Ur profile shows you are online 2 days ago and you're team November. We haven't hear Ur BA. I hope you're fine?

Lipsync:
Ameen to your prayers Cappo
I am doing very fine,thank you for asking….
Its just that i have clocked 41weeks+ and seems baby has built mansion with plenty ac inside my womb even after morning and evening walks coupled with lots of excercises. All i get is false contractions accompanied with a lot of body pain.
I wish us all, still waddling ,safe delivery

Hello. We have not hear from u since all this days. I hope you're fine. We are expecting Ur report on Ur delivery

Lattop:
After 1 round everything will be disgusting

You're truly a legend, u know exactly how it is

Expectantmom:
That's so misogynistic of you and lots of men out there. Women do family planning all the time which they have to live with the effects such as adding weight and the rest. I don't think African men sacrifice like their women does and still do.

I respect women a lot and I know what they pass through. I will never show hatred for one.
But telling a man to go for vasectomy after just a kid doesn't make sense cos there are some risk of not been able to impregnate again.
I can request for it after 3 kids coz that's my maximum point, but telling me to go and do vasectomy now after just a kid is evil. Lol

Omakraid:
That's the response she got from many shaa, very funny thread and to think she thinks the guy has ulterior motives for not agreeing to vasectomy in marriage is funny.

How's baby's eyes now, hope its better?

Doing vasectomy isn't a crime. I can do it after 3 kids but optioning for it just after a kid is not acceptable.
Baby is much better now. Doing well.
Thanks.

Omakraid:
Well, she said family planning or anything done on her might fail so it will be better done on the guy to be sure she won't be getting pregnant

She can as well remove her womb. Lobatan

Omakraid:
My people, my people, una good afternoon. How's our weekend going and hope we are all pushing fine? May God strengthen and see us through and also provide for all our needs in Jesus name..
To afternoon gist, I read a post on One child + vasectomy on FP and it didn't sit well with me as I saw my gender as selfish cos that's too much of a request from the person who wants just one child.. Experienced mummies, make una chook mouth, can you request such from your husbands because of "Buhari's economy" and whats your take on having one child cos I see it as a risk.

Why vasectomy, why not Family Planning

Abu23Rahman:
How soon can we go for an ultrasound..
She doesn't like anything blood test etc

U can wait for 3 weeks more

Abu23Rahman:
Pls help me confirm..just did it now for my wife..
We celebrated here this year March 7 after Allah bless us with a girl..

Today we did this test and this was the result..

Pls is this positive

Can we go for ultrasound Scan

Sir. Your result is positive.
You can wait for some couple of weeks b4 u go for ultrasound scan, but your result here is positive no doubt.
But if you are still in doubt, go to any lab and do blood PT, then that will clear Ur doubt.

Abu23Rahman:
Yes , sure... though she's breastfeeding a nine months baby ...

U must be a real goal scorer coz the results seems to be positive. Probably you'll be in team July. Congrats

Abu23Rahman:
Is she pregnant

Will u be excited if she is pregnant?

kokaiye:
yeah... I hrd of dis too dt it help stop pulse frm comin out of baby eyes but not 4 apollo cs i ve nva hrd dt a new born baby have apollo b4... Its best they take d baby to d hospital d doc will knw wat to do... Wen my son had ear infectn wen e was 3weeks old due to me breastfeeding him laying down side by side, fluid was comin out of one of his ears... I tool him to see d doctor, dey gave me baby ear drop to use for him for 5days, i used it 4 3days n d ear infectn clear up... Frm dt time, i nva breastfed him layin down ever again @wentroublescome i hope u ve taking ur baby to d hospital sha... No sidon dry watch... Moreover, u shld ve prevented dis frm happening by letting mother inlaw knw d risk of infectin d baby wen she hv apollo... Baby r prone to any infectn at early stage cs deir immune system isnt string enof... N tell wifey to d ebf to mk his immune system stronger.

Thanks so much ma'am. They have taken him to d clinic and he's getting better now. Thanks so much

Funky123:
Let wiffy take him to hospital please

home remedy I know is putting the breast milk, just a drop

Thanks a lot. She told me they av been putting drops of breast milk. But I'll ask for her update about his eyes today.
Thanks a lot ma'am

Nkemosarodion65:
Good evening our mummies in the house
Pls how can I stop my baby from sucking.

Sucking breast or what?

Hello mommas, I was told this morning that my baby has conjunctivitis (Apollo), please what can be done to treat his eye infection.
It was my mother-in-law that infect him cos she is also treating Apollo when she came to visit us for the naming ceremony

semisola:
T E A M JANUARY MAMAS! ! !

HAPPY NEW MONTH

We have seen the handwork of God in our lives, his mercies endureth forever and we are glad.

If not for God, where would we be? It’s December already Mum’s! See how far God has brought us, we are counting down already. Thank you lord for your grace, protection and provisions.

We commit the reminder of this journey into Gods hands, he will see us through, no mother in this group will have any reason to mourn, God will provide all our needs. We are healthy, our unborn babies are healthy too.

Our adversaries will have no reason to rejoice, May laughter and joy never cease from our household.

Oh lord, bless the womb of our TTCing sisters, you are a God of Twelfth hour, bless them with a BFP in Jesus Name.


Pls Mamas, let us do well to respond to our roll call, how are we Mums? Let us share our situation reports, hope we are deligent wIt’s our routine drugs and antenatal? Let us do well to monitor our BPs regularly too. The Joy of the lord is our strength!!


S/N. - NAMES. —— EDD. — -Gender/Sex

1. - semisola ———- 29Th. —— - PINK

2. - Esthered ————3RD. — —BLUE

3. - Blisworld61 ——--12th. ——- - PINK

4. - RhemaDavis ———-30TH. —- - -Surprise

5. - Successhungry- ———28th. —- —- PINK

6. - Livelystone - -————27Th. —-- BLUE

7. Orloladey——————17th———- X

8. Miracle001——————15th———-Pink

#teamjanuary
#teamhealthmotherandchild
#teamhebrewwomen

I've a gift for any baby that will be born on my birthday. 20th January coz I've never meet someone that share same birthday with me

Hello mommas, I was told this morning that my baby has conjunctivitis (Apollo), please what can be done to treat his eye infection.
It was my mother-in-law that infect him cos she is also treating Apollo when she came to visit us for the naming ceremony

Omakraid:
Congratulations ooo, send our jollof rice fa . May he be all that you played for and more in Jesus name

Amen.
Thanks a lot.
Jollof rice will be sent to you soon

kokaiye:
congratulations... Bring our own cooler of friedrice, jollof n meat

Thanks
No wahala, I'll send it

Funky123:
I am craving party jollof o but I am not sure you Dey ibadan
Congratulations, may his arrival bring you Joy, elevation and plenty plenty money to care for him and his mum

I'm from Ibadan. Though the naming take place in ado Ekiti.
I'll even be on my way back to ibadan this morning.
Amen to your prayers
Thanks a lot

Today is my boy naming ceremony

[/b]TEAM NOVEMBER[b]

[/b]IT'S OUR MONTH[b]

S/N......Moniker....EDD...Gender.... DOB
1. Sweetyie......... 6th........B.A, B.S seen
2. Toke21...............11th........ XY
3. Wifeysist...........27th........XX...B.A-6th, B.S seen
4. mumibeji...........19th....... XY. B.A 28th
5. Exceldamsel........??....XX....B.A seen
6. Onyinyechika08....19th.....XX... B.A 26th
7. Blackfinegirl.........??......
8. greatlinda..............28th.......XX... B.A 28th
9. GreatGodwins.......20th......XY...B.A-3rd, B.S seen
10. Kinado..................27th.....XY...B.A-14th, B.S seen
11. Hanzee................13th........XY...B.A-1st, BS seen
12. Victoriouswoman....22nd......
13. Lipsync.....................5th........
14. Nnetriplet.................20th......XY...B.A-18th
15. Alooone................. ??........
16. babestell.............19th........XY... B.A-12th
17. cecegorgeous..... 17th......XY... B.A-22nd
18. blesstunner.......... 20th.....XY... B.A- 20th
19. Kimlad.................... 21st.....XY... B.A-21st
20. Wentroublecomes......13th..XY...B.A-23rd

[/b]Ported to October[b]
1. Exceldamsel.... 28th.... XX
2. Sweetyie



Congratulations to our teamies that has given birth.
To the remaining of us, may God grant us all safe delivery. There shall be no loss, we will go to the labour room and comeback with our babies. Mother alive, baby alive in good health.


#Teamsafedelivery
#Teamswiftdelivery
#Teammother&babyalive

CC mumibeji

Trulydivine:
You or your wife might feel the she isnt producing enough milk but it may just be enough for the baby.Your wife should continue putting the baby to breast.The more the baby sucks the more she produces more milk.Another good baby food is Nestle NAN OPTIPRO 1
It costs 2,500

Ok. Thanks a lot..
I'll stick to your advice and get the recommended food

Hello mummies.
My baby is just 5days old and her mom is not yet producing enough breast milk. We are also giving d baby some baby feed which is MY BOY
I want to ask if there is another very good and well recommended baby food u can recommend for me

Square

MumIbeji:
[/b]TEAM NOVEMBER[b]

[/b]IT'S OUR MONTH[b]

S/N......Moniker....EDD...Gender.... DOB
1. Sweetyie......... 6th........B.A, B.S seen
2. Toke21...............11th........ XY
3. Wifeysist...........27th........XX...B.A-6th, B.S seen
4. mumibeji...........19th....... XY
5. Exceldamsel........??....XX....B.A seen
6. Onyinyechika08....19th........
7. Blackfinegirl.........??......
8. greatlinda..............28th.......
9. GreatGodwins.......20th......XY...B.A-3rd, B.S seen
10. Kinado..................27th.....XY...B.A-14th, B.S seen
11. Hanzee................13th........XY...B.A-1st, BS seen
12. Victoriouswoman....22nd......
13. Lipsync.....................5th........
14. Nnetriplet.................20th......XY...B.A-18th
15. Alooone................. ??........
16. babestell.............19th........XY... B.A-12th
17. cecegorgeous..... 17th......XY... B.A-22nd
18. blesstunner.......... 20th.....XY... B.A- 20th
19. Kimlad.................... 21st.....XY... B.A-21st
20. Wentroublecomes......13th..XY...B.A-23rd

[/b]Ported to October[b]
1. Exceldamsel.... 28th.... XX
2. Sweetyie



Congratulations to our teamies that has given birth.
To the remaining of us, may God grant us all safe delivery. There shall be no loss, we will go to the labour room and comeback with our babies. Mother alive, baby alive in good health.


#Teamsafedelivery
#Teamswiftdelivery
#Teammother&babyalive

Look at the statistics. This month is for XY babies

blesstunner:
BA BA!

Sorry I haven't bin able to type my BA all this while as I am still recovering. I welcomed my baby boy at exactly 3:00 am on the 20th November. It wasn't an easy journey, I was told the baby was going to be approximately 4.5kg and am like how on earth would I be able to push that kind of child although in my mind I said las las na Cs.
So cos of fear I requested to be induced which was hell, the pain was out of this world but on day 2 my baby made a grand entrance weighing 3.7kg.
I had terrible tear cos I was in alot of pain and was just pushing whenever I had strength. Then I started bleeding terribly, it was so bad, I thought I was going to die. They did scan and discovered that some of the placenta was still inside of me, they then did d&c and removed it after taking 3pints of blood.
But in all I thank God that I have my child with me

I'm so happy for you. May God keep you and your baby.

November mommas been dropping XY anyhow. Lol

You can go through this links to have the idea of what I went through
When she first got pregnant and I'm confused trying to choose either to abort the baby or keep it
https://www.nairaland.com/6467069/fiancee-pregnant-im-thinking-considering

And when I finally decide to keep him
https://www.nairaland.com/6545843/after-thinking-aborting-pregnancy-fiancee

After the successful introduction ceremony
https://www.nairaland.com/6691214/thank-god-successful-introduction-ceremony

Now, God has bless me with a baby boy yesterday. I'm so happy despite going through a financial crisis. I thank God for my life.
But I needed help to be able to take care of him and his mother.
I'm a graduate in Civil Engineering (HND) and I'll be glad if someone here can help me secure a better job.
And if anyone here is willing to help me financially, u can DM me or quote me to provide my acc, I'll appreciate it as well.
But the most important is to help me secure a better job. May God bless you all.

lalasticlala , royalroy, u can go through my story and help me push this to the front page. Thanks