sageb:


" they said you came to look for me
I didn't drown
I am the water".
Hold on man
Your breakthrough is on the way
SAY NO TO SUICIDE

Since 5 years ago that I've finished my youth service
Who knows when breakthrough will come. I'm just tired of everything

olioxx:


Suicide is never an option. It is not worth it sir.
Drop account number some one somewhere might render assistance.
Please drop your WhatsApp number so that I can give you link to a job board group.

Thanks for trying to help me.
To be honest I don't need anyone to give me money. Just help me secure a good job, that's what I'm after.
I'm a HND graduate in civil engineering. Since I finish my youth service in November 2016, I've never gotten a good job.
I'm just frustrated and I felt this world is not for me coz I know what my course mates had achieved. Even those I've helped during my course of study has gone far in achieving their goals.
Zero seven zero, thirty three, thirty four, seventy seven, seventy seven
That's my WhatsApp number
Thanks

Today is the last day and I plan to consider suicide.
I don't have #500 at hand not to talk of feeding myself.
Wit my HND in civil engineering.
I think I'll just end it all

successhungry:


Sorry about this,sir. I understand this perfectly; it was a very frustrating experience for me as my son had a particular time he used to cry (1am); he would cry for about 1hr 30mins and sleep off. I was always traumatized being a first time mom with no expert around; my hubby was always frustrated too. We would just keep looking at him as he cried with misty eyes sometimes.
I read the face down on thigh method whilst rocking him; it worked temporarily like I said.
Its a phase that will pass without any intervention sef.
Wait o! I just recalled we used herbs o; the frustration was out of this world; Yoruba people call it 'agbo inuwo". Dont know the English; it worked better than gripe water
Please,be careful with herbs o; make i do disclaimer here. I used it intermittently for my son out of fear.

Thanks for Ur response.
It is not easy at all and I'm a type that always scared if anything isn't in d right place.
I was told he will overcome the phase on or before 3months but I'm already getting tired of it, though there is improvement. It's not that serious like when he was 2 weeks old.

successhungry:


This seems like the b*tch called colic- my greatest fear in a newborn. Gripe water rarely does a thing; tbh. Try and lay him face down on your thighs and rock him; it worked transiently for my son.
The whole episode passed after 6-8 excruciating weeks without doing anything.
Sorry

My 5 weeks old baby is experiencing such too since his arrival.
I don't even know what to do about it.

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


God when!!! Abi music is not my way ni

Keep trying and change the circle of Ur friends

ImpregnaTor:
We finally lost him a month ago

Oh. Sorry about the loss.
I was also going through some scary symptoms but I just pray I'll be fine

ImpregnaTor:
So sorry about that.... my brother is currently going through thesame kidney problem and we have done like 4 times dialysis, I'm currently in the hospital now.
What advice can u give to me?

How is your brother now?

Ok na

dunnybaby:
My princess arrived this morning via planned C.S due to bladder prolapse.
EDD-Dec 25
DOB- Dec 13.
I don hang boot o,if I hear pregnancy again,na race.

Wow. Finally, Ur fear had gone. I'm so happy for you

Krystalluv:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

To the glory of God, I welcomed my princess yesterday 12-12-21 thru emergency CS due to fetal distress.

My December people, ur cappo yaff born oo

I'm so happy for you.

Ride on boss

Krystalluv:

Everything has stopped.. No labour. No signs.. Just tired and sad �

Thanks sir. It's tiring already..


Everything I thought I felt has vanished. No more signs. I'm just tired!
Whatsup with you ma? I thought you said u were booked for cs for Friday which was yesterday? What's d update?

First of all, put Ur mind at rest.
Also, I'll like to ask for your EDD.
Though my wife saw her mucus plug 16hrs to delivery, but she is already 10days late. So, when I go through the internet, I learnt that mucus plug can be seen as early as 36 weeks.
Also, it's not a sign of labour, it's just a sign that labour may come soon.
So, if you haven't pass Ur EDD, or u pass Ur EDD with less than a week, u just have to be calm, Ur baby is on his way

sugah:

It's just her feelings then. She needs to use a scale to ascertain weightloss.
Babies should be treated by a pediatrician, let her take the baby to see one on Monday and help put her mind to rest.

Okay. Thanks for your response.

kokaiye:
i might say its colic but u said baby is stoolin as well... Tell ur wife to watch wat she eat... Wat she eat reflects on baby's health cs d baby take all she eat frm her breast milk.... For example, if she is taking soft drinks, she shld stop it n to reduce colic frm baby she shld reduce her milk intake instead she she shld switch to healthy foods for baby's sake.... Baby shldnt b losing weight but adding, losing weight is bad news.. She shld stay away frm sugar n fried foods as well ... Her body isnt her body until baby stop breastfeeding so she shldnt b eating anything she want n consider baby's health.

Thanks ma'am. I've called and told her all you said. God bless u

StarryV:
Let your wife try and eat utazi leaf and afterwards breastfeed the baby.

Ok. Thanks for your advice

kennybelle:


Sorry papa.

It might be colic. It's peculiar to male kids. There are medications for it, but please see a doctor.

I wish our baby well.

Thanks so much ma'am

sugah:

How old is this baby? And is it a pediatrician treating him? Is the weight loss confirmed by a scale? Weight loss in infants is an emergency and should not be treated with levity.

Thanks. Though I'm not with them coz I'm far away from home, but according to my wife, she said she notice he losses weight since he's not having a sound sleep at nite
The baby is 17days old.
I don't really ask of who's treating him

Krystalluv:
Hello mamas, pls help oo
I saw mucus plug on Tuesday morning (without blood though, just a big long and thick mucus which I guess is mucus plug) I've been waiting for contractions since but seems none... This morning, I started feeling serious pain on my back and right leg that I can't walk well, no serious contraction still just stomach tightening.
Pls what should I do? No serious contraction, just d waist and leg pain and vagina heaviness/discomfort. I don't want to go to d hospital and be sent back home. Is it labour already? Edd is tomorrow. Thanks.

Mucus plug can be seen few days to delivery. You're close to delivery so relax, you'll soon meet Ur LO

Hello mommas, please, what could be the cause of stomach upset in a new born. He's reducing in weight, stooling, crying always and not been able to sleep well.
I was just told this afternoon how my little boy is doing and I was so scared and couldn't concentrate at work.
They said they have been treating him but no changes.
Please, What can we do?

Hello mommas, please, what could be the cause of stomach upset in a new born. He's reducing in weight and not been able to sleep well.
I was just told this afternoon how my little boy is doing and I was so scared
They said they have been treating him but no changes. What can we do?

advanceDNA:


U dragged God into the issue...because you don’t know what’s happening to him..u are not God.
No one is free from misfortune as long as you are in the world... the only comfort God gave us is that he will be there to help.. not that calamity or evil cannot befall you...

Saying whateva is happening to him is becos of what he said about God is fallacy..

Just tell me you're an atheist and I'll free you jeje.
Even if you're passing through difficult time doesn't mean you'll speak ill of God who created you.

luuvlly:

Good morning, you can join the group "ask the pediatricians" on Facebook. The one with 702k members. Still pregnant with my first baby but I have learnt a lot from the group. Welldone good papa

Wow. Thanks so much mama. I'll check it out

Wanna see

kokaiye:
yes... Bcs their is enough water in d breastmilk dt is if wife is practicing exclusive breatfeeding..... Until e start taking solid, dont give baby water... But sm mamas no follow dis ooo... But i did, lol... My baby didnt even accept water frm me so i kuku didnt bother until i started givin him solid at 7months old.

Okay. Thanks
I'll tell my mom to follow dat step too coz my mom do give him water once in a while especially when my wife isn't producing enough breast milk. But now that she's producing enough, dey should keep giving him breast milk.
They called me yesterday to send money for baby food. I think they don't really need baby food, Abi what do you think.
They one we bought the other time is when my wife isn't producing milk at all for about 6days after delivery

Hello mommas in the house. Is it true babies shouldn't be given water? Just breast milk

Hello house. Please, is it true that babies shouldn't be giving water?

advanceDNA:


Don’t desperately drag God into everything..
If God were that vindictive, you think you and I will be here typing.... the OP just lacks sexual discipline. Whether you believe God or not... if you easy jump into to bed with women, this kinda trash can definitely happen to you..

How do I drag God into the matter?
Someone that call himself an enemy of God. Think about that.
Also, even if I love sex and women, I can never be dumb like OP. Maybe such tins can happen to u sha

Lifeless

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I understand how those parents feel


No father or mother wants to lose thier kids

Even common erosion that year...I remember how my mother will always warn me to always wait for the rain to subside first whenever it is raining before coming home because of erosion

Damnn niggar, you mean flood? Coz erosion is different bro.

Femaletribe:
Good afternoon mamas.... Please someone should recommend good hospitals in Ibadan i can use for delivery and quote their prices please.... p.s I’m new to town

Which area are u in Ibadan?

threegees:
I am at my mom's place now.
It's just crazy when the one who claims to love you takes you for a fool.
I didn't have a dime on me since Saturday.
I was hungry throughout yesterday till I borrowed money from a neighbour to go to mom's place so I can at least eat.
My kids were hungry. My baby cried ehn. I bought sachet cerelac for her to manage. She stooled like crazy. When I told him that it makes her stool, he said I should continue it, her body will get used to it. I has to ignore and get Nutribom from a shop at our busstop to pay later. This was after he warned me to mind what I say to him.
I don't have a single pin that I can say I bought for myself this year.
Little capital that I was able to gather to sell small stuff this Christmas in my school, I was forced to use it to pay part of my children's school fees after they had been away from school for over 2 weeks.
And he is not bothered.
How many will I write? I am tired of complaining.
I just want to have something doing on the side so I can take care of myself and my kids. So many opportunities for me but thanks to Father Grace. Debts here and there so I can eat.
I'm a teacher.
My head wants to explode.
I need help.

How some men makes women go through stuffs like this still dey baffles me.
I'm just speechless. Just Have it in mind that you'll overcome this and work on it.
I just tire for some men I swear