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Jeon:
What have you been doing since 2016?

I've been doing some low income jobs though not with my certificate

Attached is my statement of result. I also finish my NYSC in the year 2016.
I really need help to secure a job. I'll appreciate it

Reference to my post at https://www.nairaland.com/6467069/fiancee-pregnant-im-thinking-considering
We have concluded in leaving the pregnancy and I'm happy though I'm broke but I believe everything will work out fine.
We went for dating scan yesterday and I can see the baby jumping in her womb.
Below is the attached result of the scan

And please, if anyone get a job for a civil engineering graduate, I'm willing to do it and I don't mind about location because I really want to be a better man and also take care of my family. Thanks

2blockus:
So I'm a graduate of civil engineering, but work as a contract staff in a bank for over 5years with 100k salary.

I bought a functional car which fit into bolt but I'm scared of resigning from my job as I have family responsibilities.

This bank work doesn't give me opportunity to grow with them and time to do other side hustle and I know one day it's either they sack me or I leave.(but one must happen)

Please I need advice if I should still continue this work or start street hustle.

Note: I save the money for this car from salary and side hustle base on what I studied in school.

I also study Civil Engineering. Up till now I still dey find job. I don't even know if na to kill myself.

Romanoff:
It could also be ulcer.

Just go to the hospital first.

Pregnancy brings many symptoms. Don't be scared or negative.

Thanks for your response. I appreciate

@ Romanoff.
I don't even know what to call it
Initially I think it's liver region but I don't want to be too forward because I'm not a medical practitioner. Just have a little know about medicine.
She just complain too much about the upper stomach

Good morning all. My fiancée is 6weeks pregnant and we all happy about it.
But the issue is she complains too much about her upper belly that aches a lot.
I know you'll all say we should go and see a doctor. Yes you're right because we already book an appointment to see a doctor tomorrow.
I just want to have some knowledge what could be the cause and it we'll need to be worry.
The central upper stomach immediately after her chest.
What could be the cause.
Thanks

Thanks to everyone

Real Honey pot

Otunana:
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How can one get Google Voice?

Bro. I need the US number seriously.

Freezing is the best preservative

Peachy14:
My dear, the best thing is to acquire a skill. I also graduated 2015 but after many years of job hunting I settle down for little business. our country has failed us already.

What business are u into now if u can share it with me
And like how much will I need to start?
Thanks

RunzMAN:
Once there's life, there's plenty hope. the dead has no hope bro.

I'm a B.sc holder with no Job yet as you. I came to realise that this country no longer value graduates...

By God's grace, I'm sustaining myself with a Self employed business for the meantime.

Please, I will advance you to acquire a skill...from there you will grow.


If you choose to take your own life now, you have succeeded in destroying everything around you including those looking up to you...

Thanks for your encouragement

RunzMAN:
@the bolded, What do you actually mean?

The thought of suicide keep running through my mind.
Seeing my mates progress while my case is opposite makes me depress.
What can I do?
Where can I go from here?
Even with my good grade in school and with my hustle to come out in flying colours
Maybe death will be the best option.

I'm a graduate with higher national diploma in civil engineering (HND 2015)
I completed my NYSC in the year 2016 and I have been working under an engineer with a very low income which is nothing to write home about.
I've been hunting for job for the past 4 years but all efforts to get a job proves abortive.
My family are looking up to me to help them comes out of poverty but no one to help me.
Maybe I should just end everything or keep trying.
Anyone who has connection should help me shape my life to be a better man.
Helping me is helping a lot of people looking up to me.

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrrr
Isoright......
So them dey bomb us too...

Chinese supposed dey number 1
Because yuan nor dey finish...

Most niggarrrrs are commenting without understanding the content of this article

Big boss. Please I sent a DM bro.
I need your help on particular stuff. Not monetary bro so that don't I wanna ask for cash, but it's still a help I need from you and I'll be glad if you can reply and help me.
Helping me is helping a lot of people around me.
Thanks

Please add me
07033347676

aroundtheearth:
With your Civil Engineering degree, you should be earning way more than that or why are you earning 20k ($65.45) or 30k ($98.18) per month? Na wa! Try finding another job, abeg, and keep the pregnancy.

Thanks lot.
I've been looking for jobs all around but yet to find
It makes me depress all day that's why I felt I should abort d pregnancy.
Thanks

Thanks to everyone that contributed
Thanks @ Pierocash and dontbullshitme

I was earning a very low income because I was unable to get a good job.
I've no one to help me that's why I'm trying to survive with the little I earn whilst I search for a better job

Good afternoon nairalanders. Please overlook my grammatical errors as I'm not very good in English
I'm here to seek for advice because I'm in a very confused state.
I'm 30 yrs while my girlfriend is 23 yrs.
I'm a civil engineering graduate and I finished my service year 4 years ago.
I've been working under an engineer and also have a side little business (though I've not been making huge profit from it due to lack of enough capital)
My girlfriend as been loving me the way I am. When I met her, I let her know I'm earning 20k as a graduate but she said it doesn't matter that things will get better soon.
Recently about 8 months ago, it has been increase to 30k which it's not enough for me.
We av been dating for almost 3 years now and I was recognized well by her family members as someone intending to marry their daughter.
My girl stays most time with me and we sometimes I've intimacy.
Just few days ago, she complained abt her period been missing but I really don't take it serious because sometimes she have late period which she'll still menstruate after some days.
But just about 3 days ago when I noticed it's getting more late, we did PT and it came positive.

I'm thinking of getting rid of it because I'm not very read for the responsibilities even though I love kids and wish I have mine too.
I don't want her to suffer if we eventually leave the pregnancy because she is not earning much as well and she'll even loss her job if she's pregnant.
I know it's a crime to abort but what can I do?

Somebody should please help me, even if it's to get a better job that will be enough to take care of her and the baby. Or maybe I should just abort it and wait for more time till when things get better.